Lukas Loftus

Lukas Loftus

Lukas Loftus Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jul. 6 to Jul. 7, 2009.
LOFTUS , Lukas "Luke" Michael Wayne Only son of Shawna and Pat, and extended parents Bob (Lacy and Wade) and Teresa. Luke's life was shorter than it should have been, although he lived every day to the fullest. There was never a dull moment with Luke and every day was full of surprises. He was gifted with wit's humour and every circumstance had a comical twist... at least after Luke turned it around! He loved to make people laugh through his antics. Luke always travelled to the beat of his own drum, as most of you know! Luke found other passions in lacrosse and music, and most recently with his "career" at Aspen Crossing. Throughout his short life, Luke matured to be able to react and/or recover from any situation and usually turn it around. He was always there for his family and friends, and we know you will always be there, Luke. Luke always loved anything to do with the outdoors, and it was there, while camping at Wyndam Park that Luke was tragically taken from us due to an asthma attack. We love you Luke, and stay with us all. We will always need you. We will never forget! A Viewing will be held on Wednesday, July 8 at WHEATLAND FUNERAL HOME (202 Lakeside Boulevard) between 7:00 and 8:00 p.m. Funeral Services will be held on Thursday, July 9, 2009 at Hope Community Covenant Church (245 Brent Boulevard, Strathmore) at 11:00 a.m. To send condolences, please visit www.wheatlandfuneralhome.ca . WHEATLAND FUNERAL HOME LTD. (Strathmore) in care of arrangements. Telephone: 403-934-5666.

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Kali Kozma

June 4, 2011

Hey Luke. It was my birthday yesterday and I was thinking about you the whole day. I don't know if it's the fact that you impacted my life so deeply you changed it, or the fact that you did this for everyone around you. Everyone. That gives me a sense of comfort when I'm alone. And whenever, even for a split second, I have second thoughts about who I am versus who I'm told I should be, I think of you. You were simply yourself. And you were never ashamed of it or scared to be it. Even if it meant wearing that vest and that jacket every day of the long, hot summer. I don't go to school anymore either, you know. On top of everything else my life entails lately, it's honestly, really difficult walking through an empty hallway during class and knowing you're not there to run and jump on my back so I can carry you 5 feet before we both fall into the floor and into laughter. I miss those days, and even though they've gone cold, the memories stay warm. I love you, friend. -Kali.

Tianda Praud

April 17, 2011

Lukas, my little brother, twin, protector. I miss you more than anything in this world. Today is a big grieving day and one of those ones you would always be here to comfort me during. You were always so amazing with words and gave me the courage to never give up. No matter what, you always found a way to put a smile on my face and make me feel better and forget about everything. You found a way to make me love you each and every day even though you would beat me up and mess up my hair when it looked crazy good! You never had doubts in me and always had so much faith in everyone, especially me. You gave me so much hope and taught me to never give up on what I wanted. Thank you so much for everything you ever did for me. I love you with all my heart baby brother. Not a day goes by that I don't think about your beautiful face. July 2, 2009 - Another beautiful angel earned his wings. I'll see you again one day baby! <3 Forever in our hearts!

shawn perrigo

February 4, 2011

almost 2 years that we have been without you lukas. all i can say is that we all miss you and know your well up there. For the little amount of time we knew each other, i can say you were like the little brother i wanted and had. everyday that goes by i'm thinking about you and how you could be taken from us so young but we know your in that better place and we will see you again one day. i remember everything we did together the camping, fishing, quading and just hanging out with you was the best. it was hard to keep myself together the other day when i saw your mom just cause it has been since the funeral that i saw her. love yah always lukas and shawna.

March 30, 2010

almost one whole year,
i miss luke so much.
Forever will he be in our hearts <3

November 1, 2009

i cant believe it has been four months now, i hope everyone is staying strong.
That's what luke would want.
I know we all probably miss him tons,
but we have to stay strong.
Escpecially you Shawna & Pat.
I hope you two are doing good.

October 11, 2009

It seems like just yesterday that I talked to you, Luke. You will always be in my heart and my thoughts. Pat take care of yourself and Teresa. As you both took care of Lukas. He was a fine boy and was growing up to be a fine man. Time heals, but doesn't forget.

anonymous

October 6, 2009

Luke, I still miss you. I cant believe its been just over 3 months, yet feels like a life time. i miss you so much man, eveyone does.
Shawna & Pat i hope your staying strong,
where all here for you.
We love you Luke.

Tara

August 10, 2009

Luke,
You Were An Amazing Kid.
You Were Like My Brother.
I Love You Luke.
I Know I Didn't Say It Much But I Did
You Were The Best Friend Anyone Could Ever Ask For.
I Miss You Everyday.
Everyone Does.
But I Know Your Looking Down On Us.
Shawna And Pat.
Stay Strong We Are All Here For You
Luke Always Spoke So Highly Of You.
He Loved You.
See You In The Next Life Kiddo,
I Miss You.

Anonymous

August 2, 2009

It's One Month Since Luke Moved On.
But he Will forever And Always Be In A Lot Of Peoples Hearts. His Memories he Left Everyone With, Will Always Be Remembered And Never Forgotten. everyone Who Knew Him Stay Strong. That's What Luke Would Want Us To Do.

Bob & Becky Chihak

July 28, 2009

Pat and family,

Our hearts and prayers are with you. Though I had never met Lukas, I could always see, from the twinkle in your eye when you spoke of him, how much you loved and adored him.

Nat

July 22, 2009

Luke was my best friend, i may have only known him for just over a year but he was special. He was mostly happy, and full of joy. He was their for everyone and anyone, and would not leave someone alone until he knew they where okay no matter what the situation was. He was special, and loved by so many people. Anyone who came in contact with him, would know his name, he touched almost everyones heart. He was a sweet guy, and loving and stood up for what he believed was right. To many he was family, like a brother most people could dream of. He had a special gift, he could make anyone smile at any given time. He is and always will be greatly missed. I'm never going to forget watching his elementry school tapes, and ballet recital. He was adorable, except he never really liked how i was on the phone with him when i saw them and kept bugging him about how cute he was and the panda bear shirt.. Everyone has a guardian angel now, he lived a good life, was just to young. Luke i miss you, we all do. " Only the good die young" i love you Luke. I hope your doing alright Shawna, i'm glad i finally got to meet you. Luke always talked highly about you, he really loved you and the rest of his family.

Wendy Fraser

July 14, 2009

Shawna

I just heard about your son Luke, I am so very sorry. It has been many years since I saw Luke - he was so sweet. May your memories of him give you some comfort.

Daryl and Angie Helfrich

July 13, 2009

Shawna and Pat,
We were very saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept our condolences and please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Debbie Mitzner

July 11, 2009

Shawna,Pat
Bob, Theresa
Family,Friends,Neighbors,
Lukas was "Raised" with Love.
A Child of God. Your Son.
Above and Beyond.
He new how much you loved him!
Knowing this gave him the ability and freedom to be who he wanted to be.
We must find time,to stop and thank Lukas "he truly made a difference in our lives".You are in my prayers.
Always, Love
Debbie Mitzner,Melissa, Jenilee, Devin,

sophia

July 10, 2009

Shawna,
Like a bird singing in the rain, let grateful memories survive in time of sorrow.
May your memories give you strength.
God Bless you and your families.
sophia

July 10, 2009

Pat, Shawna and family;

Please know that you have been in my thoughts and heart. Hang on to the good stuff, Luke was very special!

Sheila Ottewell

July 9, 2009

Dearest Pat & Shawna,
We are so deeply sorry to hear of your loss. May it comfort you both to know that Heaven now has a beautiful angel who will always be with you forever & ever.
Luke's service today was so absolutely beautiful and memorable - just like him.
God Bless you and your families...
Wayne & Shelly

Evelyn Smith

July 9, 2009

Pat, Shawna & Family

I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you both at this time of sorrow.

Tina & Barry Brazier

July 8, 2009

Shawna,

We were shocked to hear of Luke's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy at this difficult time. We know how much he meant to you and we hope that warm memories of his life will fill the huge void that you now feel.

July 8, 2009

Pat, Shawna & Family

Our thoughts are with you at this tragic time. Hold onto your wonderful memories of Luke. Deepest Sympathies

Gregg and Barb Downey

Christie Douglas (Cammaert)

July 8, 2009

Shawna & Pat,

So terribly sorry to hear of the loss of your son. May your cherished memories help you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Marlo Huget/Kalan

July 8, 2009

Shawna, Pat and Family,

Our hearts go out to you at this difficult time.

Heaven has had it's Brightest Little Angel returned back home.

May Peace find you and soothe your hearts.

We are grieving with you.

Peter, Marlo, Jessica, Taylor and Justin Kalan

Pat & Family Seale (Verbeke)

July 8, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Pat Vincent

July 8, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Meierhofer Family

July 8, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss, to loose Luke so young is just tragic. Shawna and Pat please know you in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.

Suzanne Kelly

July 7, 2009

My deepest sympathy on the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Brian,Judi & Colten Benko

July 7, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Nicola Lakusta

July 7, 2009

Pat and shawna my heart and my love go out to you both at this time, and everyday in the future. You must live life with as much love and passion that Lukas carried with him everyday. God bless and be strong!! Love you both!!

Steve and Michelle Seburn

July 7, 2009

Pat Shawna our families have been saddend with your loss our thoughts and prayers are with you God Bless

Suanne Richardson

July 7, 2009

Dear Shawna and family;

Our hearts weigh heavy, at the loss of such a beautiful, vibrant soul.

The fond memory of your little boy with his boundless energy, happiness in his voice, bright smile on his face, his zest for life, witnessing the beautiful bond between you both...all this after just one meeting, has always stayed with me.

Suanne & Shelby

July 7, 2009

Shawna,

We were so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this trying time.

Jack and Sharon Kearney (Shannon's Mom)

Habing's

July 7, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you.

It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, They'll be here later on.
I need you here badly, you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years.
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry: it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too;
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain;
Then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low;
Just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go....from that body to be free.
Remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me

Lorraine Leskiw

July 7, 2009

I am so sad to hear of the passing of Luke.I am the mom one of many of Lukes friends. My thoughts and prayers go out to all his family during this time.

Lorraine Leskiw

Jenn Alce

July 7, 2009

Shawna and Bob, Pat and Theresa,
Luke may be gone but will never be forgotten. He was such a bundle of energy, I will never forget him chasing the escaped chicken through the hall parking lot during Aggie Days a few years back. Our prayers go out to you all.

jari love

July 7, 2009

Shawna and Pat,

We were so sad to hear the passing of Luke. I can't imagine the pain you and your family are going through. My prayers are with you daily.

Ray and Jari

Guy and Marni Johansen

July 7, 2009

Pat and Shawna,
We are so sorry to hear about Luke's passing. Hoping time and all of the good memories will ease help your pain. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Pam (Brown) McKinnon

July 7, 2009

Shawna,

No bond is as great as that between a parent and a child. I cannot begin to imagine the sense of loss you are feeling. My deepest condolences are with you and your loved ones as you grieve.

Sueq Seamans

July 7, 2009

Shawna -

No words can express the sorrow that I am feeling for you! All I can do is offer you a shoulder to cry on and arms to hold you.

Patricia Parkin

July 7, 2009

Shawna and Pat,
I am very sorry to hear of the passing of Luke. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Paul F. & Nellie Stefan

July 7, 2009

Pat & Shawna, we were sad to hear of the loss of Lukas, our Prayers & thoughs are with you Both.

John, Sherry & Kate Van Kruyssen

July 6, 2009

Shawna and Pat,
Words alone cannot express enough our heartfelt sorrow at your loss. We were graced to have known Luke. With deepest sympathies - our thoughts and prayers are with you both and your families.

DALE & HEATHER COCKX

July 6, 2009

PAT AND SHAWNA,
PLEASE ACCEPT OUR MOST SINCERE SYMPATHY. HOLD ON TIGHT TO THE MEMORIES.

Jody & Mac Swift

July 6, 2009

Shawna and Bob, your love for Luke is so apparent in the way that you talked about him. I will fondly remember all of the stories. My favorite being him only wearing cowboy boots. Sending you big hugs

With Love

Kyla Lausen

July 6, 2009

Pat, Shawna, and family
My heart sank to hear of Lukes passing. I will always remember that bright lil boy who never failed to make me smile. My heartfelt thoughts are with you. He will always live on in our memories!

Leora & Frank VanKruyssen

July 6, 2009

Pat and Shawna

The pain of loosing a child is unfathomable .
It's not supposed to be this way!
Our hearts are with you now and always.
I am having a hard time writing this .The tears just come.
Love
Lefty and Frank

Bob and Yvonne Hartell

July 6, 2009

Pat, Shawna and families - We are so sorry to hear about your loss of Luke. What a shock for this whole community. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

HEATHER RENEAU

July 6, 2009

pat were very sad for your loss.you and teresa were very good to luke. but god need him home. love to you . CHARLIE AND HEATHER ( MUM AND DAD)

Len and Nellie Ziraldo

July 6, 2009

Pat and Shawna

Our deepest sympathies to you both on the loss of your son. It is so sad to see someone so young go so soon. Take solice in knowing he will live on in your hearts forever and is watching over you.

Lennie and Nellie Ziraldo

HEATHER RENEAU

July 6, 2009

pat were very sad for your loss.you and teresa were very good to luke. but god need him home. love to you . CHARLIE AND HEATHER ( MUM AND DAD)

Collene Walls

July 6, 2009

Shawna and Pat

My heart is breaking for you both, and my thoughts are with you during this tragic time.

July 6, 2009

There simply are no words

Don Adair

July 6, 2009

Luke was the reason we all love life....his energy was always at the max....We loved his way of words, He could make us laugh in our sleep ! ...We will miss him dearly. Our hearts go out to his family.....We will miss you at the lake!!!

Celeste Dyck

July 6, 2009

Shawna, Pat and Family

I am very sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Our prayers and Love are with you during this very difficult time.
All our love,
Celeste(Huget)and Sheldon

Shelly Adair

July 6, 2009

Don and I had such a great time with Luke last summer We will miss him alot. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

cody McConnell

July 6, 2009

pat and shawna so sorry about your loss may the wonderful Memories of luke help you through this tough time.

Cassie Bishop

July 6, 2009

Pat & Shawna,
I am so sorry to hear of Luke's passing. I can't possibly imagine the pain, sorrow, and emptiness you must be feeling with this tragic loss. My deepest sympathies and condolences . . . my thoughts are with you.

Candace Schultz-Rideout

July 6, 2009

It is with a heavy heart and my deepest condolences that I wish your family well. Such a tragedy. Although I never met Luke, I know Deanna spoke of him often and were good friends. I can't imagine your sorrow, my heart goes out to you!

Sara Van Kruyssen & Nick Hanson

July 6, 2009

Words cannot express your unexpected loss. Our thoughts are with you.

Randy and Sandi

July 6, 2009

Shawna, we were so saddened to hear about Lukas.. words cannot even express... you and Pat are in our prayers-Luke will be with you every second of each day watching over you...

Richard & Ellen Wagner

July 6, 2009

Pat & Shawna: Our thoughts are with both of you at this tragic time in your lives. Remember all the good times.

July 6, 2009

Luke
We only met you a few times and you touched our hearts. We loved your zest and energy for life.
Always in our thoughts
Ray & Wendy Lisun

Robyn Lausen

July 6, 2009

Pat and Shawna,
My heart aches for you, I am so sorry to hear of Lukes passing. With cherished memories ..
Robyn

Gail Wyman

July 6, 2009

Fondest of memories keep us going as the days pass. With the continued love and support of family and friends we get through the toughest of days. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.

Cindy Savoie

July 6, 2009

Please accept my deepest condolences. I did not know Lukas but was one of the three campers who tried to help. I can only imagine the grief that comes with the loss of such a young man but hopes the family understands that god must have needed him now.

Dale and Dale Turner

July 6, 2009

I am so sorry for your tragic loss and pray that your memories of Lukas will help buoy you at your darkest hours.
Sincerely

Dianne Georgeson

July 6, 2009

Shawna, Pat and Families
Don and I were so very sorry to hear about Luke. Our thoughts are with both of you during this sad time.
Dianne and Don Georgeson

Donna Bissett

July 6, 2009

Deepest condolenses, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Donna (Helfrich) Bissett

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