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Malcolm Isaiah Grain
March 21, 2023
My grandfather was a great man and he did a lot of great things like helped with the twin tower in New York, had his own business, and joined the Air Force. Know my grandfather name will never be forgotten because I have the name as him and one day when I grow up I will carry on his legacy.

Malcolm & Granddaughter Lindsay Grain Carter
December 2, 2022

Mrs. Carolyn F. Grain
November 26, 2022
Larry and Karen Provette
November 14, 2022
Our beloved cousin Malcolm was someone to be looked up to and often in his own way doled out pearls of wisdom. He had a connection with our ancestors, spirts good and bad. He spoke of them openly, but you never new if he was serious or not. We loved all the time spent with Malcolm. Wonderful memories of family gatherings, pumpkin picking, super bowl parties, Derby adventures, and personal time with him on his side deck while he enjoyed a cigar. Malcolm was full of mischief and charm. Even when he did something wrong you could not stay mad at him for long. He had 2 sides one that was all business and one of fun, which you saw when his dimples started to show. Malcolm will be remembered by all,  loved by many, and forgotten by none!
Much Love & Sympathy, Larry and Karen
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Fred Moore
November 13, 2022
We will always remember Malcolm as a gentleman, scholar and genuinely nice person. Our hearts go out to the family and may the good memories of Malcolm always be a Blessing. 
-Mr. and Mrs. Fred and Ilene Moore

Grain Family
November 12, 2022

Grain Family - Martha's Vineyard
November 11, 2022
Daniel Benkendorf
November 11, 2022
Dear Grain Family,
This is a beautiful tribute to a man who had clearly built and lived an incredible life. Thank you for sharing this and please accept my sincere condolences as you grieve his loss.
God Bless You,
Daniel Benkendorf (a colleague of Shawn's at FIT)
D´Asia Grain
November 10, 2022
The only grandfather I´ve ever known. I found comfort in knowing your soul was still here, and now I find it in knowing you´re at peace. Your legacy lives on in your family, and we will make you proud. Not a goodbye but a see you later. I love and miss you.
Chenise Marine Rice
November 10, 2022
What a wonderful legacy to leave your family. Thank you for sharing his story and thank you all for sharing Shawn with us here at FIT.
Deborah McCray Ramsey
November 10, 2022
Dear Shawn, Kirk, Todd and the Entire Grain Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.  It is always so difficult when we lose someone whom we love so deeply.  I pray that the Lord will grant you all comfort, peace and courage at this time of sorrow.  
Mr. Grain was something special and I will  remember him with utmost respect, love and fondness.  He was brilliant, accomplished, kind, personable, and had a joyful personality that filled the room!  I will always remember how he treated me and my family with such warmth and kindness when we first met him and his then wife, Mrs. Carolyn Grain, their children and other family members at the University of Virginia during dorm move in day.  Shawn and I were first year college roommates and they included me in their family dinner and treated me as an immediate family member.  This memory still makes me cry and powerfully remains with me as a profound example of what it means to treat others well and remain humble no matter the accomplishments and heights one may achieve in life.  God´s word promises that to be absent in body is to present with the Lord.  Mr. Grain your magnificent work is done here. May you now rest well and peacefully with our Lord!
All our love,
Soror Deborah McCray Ramsey, Michael Ramsey & Family
Great Grands & Grandchildren
November 10, 2022
Happy 89th Birthday Grandpa! Tell our cousin angel Lindsay hello too. You were born today on November 10th. Love your Great Grands Lux & Aya & your Grandkids, Kai, Kole, Kelsey, D'Asia, Myles & Malcolm! We're sending birthday kisses to you in heaven. We miss you a lot. XXXooo
Kelsey Grain
November 9, 2022
My grandfather has given me some of the best memories that I´ll cherish forever. Our long conversations we´d have when I was a child and him cracking jokes will always stay with me. He always had a story to tell me, and each story showed me he lived a fulfilling life. I´m proud to say that I´m his granddaughter, and I will love him forever. I´ll miss you so much grandad, rest easy.
Kole Grain
November 9, 2022
As far back as I can remember, the time spent with my grandfather was filled with happiness and warmth. He always demonstrated a great amount of love towards his grandchildren and it filled me with pride to have him see me grow from a boy to a man. My grandfather left behind a truly wonderful legacy. And as we mourn his passing, let us also honor that legacy by learning from it and carrying the torch he left behind. I´ll miss you Grandpa.

Kai Grain
November 9, 2022
My grandfather was always the brightest light in the room. I always wanted to be charismatic charming and suave like him. His accomplishments and the creative genius he displayed throughout his life guide me in my pursuit of excellence in every endeavor. I love and miss you Grandpa!!! Thank you for everything!!!Rest In Peace!!! 
-Kai
Renee Cooper
November 9, 2022
Dear Shawn,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is never easy but trust that he is in heavenly peace. Warmest regards, Renee Cooper
Sandy Overton Scott
November 9, 2022
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Vanessa and Jack Prophet
November 9, 2022
We will always remember the times spent at barbecues , family gatherings and of those " great" Super Bowl parties. He was a great talent , which we will all miss . My prayers go out to Priss , Shawn and the rest of the family.
                        Vanessa and Jack
C. Mitzi Butler
November 9, 2022
Our family the "Scott Tribe " will now have an Angel we 
We now have an Angel in 
 Glory we know  by name  "MALCOLM D. GRAIN" .
Malcolm made an indelible mark on the landscape of New York City ; as well as in "His" family and extended family.
  Submitted in profound sorrow .
Sonja Prophet
November 8, 2022
Cousin Prissy, Shawn and family:
We shall not mourn a life well lived. Instead, let´s celebrate with happy tears, shared memories and have comfort in knowing he´s to be seated among the Almighty. Cousin Malcolm was an unmatched intellect and a man of purpose. I appreciate the last conversation we shared and will cherish it among fond, childhood memories of running away from his kisses. Farewell, cousin Malcolm! 
Love, Sonja
Barbara H. Griffa
November 8, 2022
Dear Soror Shawn,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your father. May the Lord continue to give you comfort and strength during this time. Sending you love and blessings,
Soror Barbara Griffa
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