Malkah Tolpin Notman

Malkah Tolpin Notman obituary, Brookline, MA

Malkah Tolpin Notman

Malkah Notman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 30, 2025.
Malkah T. Notman, MD (1927-2025)

Malkah Tolpin Notman (1927 - 2025), former GAP president 1997 -1999, Professor at Harvard Medical School, fmr President of American College of Psychoanalysts, fmr President of Massachusetts Psychiatric Society, Psychiatrist for over 55 years, Died May 3 2025, at 97.

A tenured Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and a Training and Supervising Analyst at the Boston Psychoanalytic Society and Institute, Dr. Notman's influence extended across the fields of psychiatry and psychoanalysis for more than half a century. She served in numerous leadership roles, including President of the Massachusetts Psychiatric Society, President of the American College of Psychoanalysts, Councilor-at-Large of the American Psychoanalytic Association, and President of the Group for the Advancement of Psychiatry. She also chaired the Education Committee and served as President of the Boston Psychoanalytic Society and Institute. In recognition of her enduring contributions, the Massachusetts Psychiatric Society awarded her its Lifetime Achievement Award in 2006.

Born in New York City in 1927 to Eastern European immigrants, Dr. Notman entered the University of Chicago at just 16, studying psychoanalysis with Bruno Bettelheim and physics with Enrico Fermi. During World War II, she volunteered in Fermi's lab as part of the Manhattan Project. Though her father hoped she would become a research scientist, Dr. Notman pursued medicine, graduating from Boston University School of Medicine when few women were admitted to medical schools.

Dr. Notman trained in psychiatry at Boston State Hospital and Beth Israel Hospital, later completing fellowships at the National Institute of Mental Health and the Henry Murray Center at the Radcliffe Institute. Her early clinical work included serving as a consulting liaison for obstetrics and gynecology at Beth Israel and providing psychiatric care to students at Wellesley College.

She joined the faculty at Cambridge City Hospital (now Cambridge Health Alliance), where she would later become the first and only woman to serve as Chair (Interim) of the Department of Psychiatry from 1991 to 1995. During this time, she guided the department through significant transitions amidst the rise of managed care and demonstrated exceptional leadership and advocacy within both the hospital and Harvard Medical School.

A prolific writer and editor, Dr. Notman's scholarship centered on adult development, gender and identity, and the psychological dimensions of women's reproductive lives. She co-edited the foundational three-volume work The Woman Patient and the influential Physician Sexual Misconduct, both with longtime collaborator Dr. Carol Nadelson. Her research and clinical work often bridged feminist thought and psychiatric practice, leading to innovations in care for survivors of sexual trauma and the founding of the Rape Crisis Intervention Program at Beth Israel Hospital.

Beyond her professional roles, Dr. Notman was a passionate mentor, particularly to women in medicine. She modeled how to balance intellectual ambition with motherhood and advocated for women's voices in academic and clinical settings. As her colleague Dr. Cathy Schen wrote, "She was a brilliant scholar and a fierce advocate of women. She encouraged junior female faculty in their scholarship and helped them navigate department politics and advance their careers."

In her later years, Dr. Notman remained actively engaged in writing, teaching, and mentoring. She continued to practice psychiatry well into her 90s and was widely admired for her intellectual vigor and dedication. In 2025, the Cambridge Health Alliance established the Malkah Notman Award to honor faculty scholarship on women's mental health-a fitting tribute to her enduring impact.

Outside her professional life, Dr. Notman was an avid hiker, traveler, and lifelong learner. She climbed to Camp 1 at Everest at age 60 and Machu Picchu at 70. A lover of books, oil painting, and nature, she brought the same curiosity and discipline to her personal interests as she did to her work.

Her husband, Dr. Ralph R. Notman, died in 1993. She leaves three children: Naomi Notman Butterfield (of Concord, NH) husband: Norman, and grandchildren: Lee and Frances Butterfield; daughter, Laura Notman (of Arlington, MA) husband: Mark Diamond, and grandchild: Rafaela Diamond; son, Evan Notman (of Tacoma Park, MD) wife: Ana Christine Villegas, and grandchild, Emma Notman-Villegas.

A memorial celebration of her life will be held on June 27 at the Harvard Loeb House starting at 2pm with a reception starting about 3.

Dr. Malkah Notman's contributions to psychiatry, psychoanalysis, and the advancement of women in medicine leave a lasting legacy. She will be remembered as a brilliant clinician, scholar, teacher, and trailblazer.

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October 13, 2025

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Michael and Amy Shonstrom

October 13, 2025

Wonderful, welcoming woman, who will be missed.

Ellen Handler Spitz

July 28, 2025

Malkah Notman was my colleague from afar in the halls and anals of the psychoanalytic world. I saw her rarely. Yet, she made a profound impression on me, and l admired her immensely. She radiated a rare fierce honesty. She was real and 100% without guile. Her dedication and courage were inscribed on her wondrously earnest face. Although l knew her only slightly, she is forever engraved on my heart as deeply inspiring, a truly valiant woman. May her name be for blessing.
Ellen Handler Spitz
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Ilonna Rimm

July 6, 2025

Malkah Notman was a truly remarkable woman. At her Memorial Service, colleagues and family described that Malkah "lifted people up." I am grateful that I, too, was "lifted up" by my relationship with Malkah Notman. Thank you to her family for sharing her with all of us.

Bill Newby

July 1, 2025

Bill Newby

July 1, 2025

As I hear her eulogized, I am reminded of Malkah´s tremendous impact as a scholar and clinician, but to me, growing up, she was always Aunt Mal. My family would periodically visit Boston to see Aunt Mal, Uncle Ralph, and my cousins, and they would periodically come to Niagara Falls to visit my parents and my brothers. These times are among my most cherished memories...there was always a sense of fascination and wonder. I remember Aunt Mal´s deliberate nature and her understated sense of humor, the latter accompanied by a little smile and a twinkle in her eye. I am now blessed by my relationship with my cousins and their families. They are themselves accomplished people, and their lovely daughters are well on their way to continuing the family tradition by being accomplished, talented and engaging women.

Myra Grand

June 26, 2025

Malkah was a true trailblazer, who left the world a better place.

Evan Notman

June 25, 2025

For those attending the Memorial Service for Malkah Notman in person there will be limited reserved parking at the the Broadway parking lot on 7 Felton St, Cambridge, MA 02138. Please use use the title of Malkah Notman's Memorial service when entering.

For those joining remotely you can use this link to join https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86508906952

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Evan Notman

Tony Gleicher

June 12, 2025

I have fond memories of her...

Lynn Meyer

May 21, 2025

My late husband, Arnold Perlmutter, and Philip Korn were close to her as children and followed her like puppies. Their only "problem" they had was the exhortation to be as perfect as Malka.i am grateful to have met her, and have enormous respect for her distinguished career. Condolences to her family.
Lynn Meyer

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