Marc V Arquilla

1951 - 2022

Marc V Arquilla obituary, 1951-2022, Westchester, IL

Marc V Arquilla

1951 - 2022

BORN

1951

DIED

2022

Marc Arquilla Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 14, 2022.

Marc V. Arquilla of Burr Ridge, Illinois, entered fully into the presence of the Lord on Friday, December 9th, 2022 at the age of 71.

Devoted and beloved husband of Christine Arquilla, whose beauty and love he spoke of often and with complete awe throughout their 43-year marriage. Unconditionally loving father of Jenna Cascio, Lisa Arquilla, and Lindsey Arquilla Bryja, and father-in-law of Robert Cascio and James Arquilla Bryja. Beamingly proud grandfather of Maria and Isabella Cascio, and Haven and Sunny Arquilla Bryja. Dear twin brother of Marcia (Thomas) Finlay and big brother of Robert (Linda Friese) Arquilla. Adoring son of the late Emma and Venanzio Arquilla.

Marc also leaves behind many extended family members, friends, and loved ones, including close friends of many decades Skip and Ann Harsy and Andrew and Nancy LaMontagna. Marc took great pride in his family and friends and counted each of his loved ones as pure blessings, valuing and cherishing them dearly and whole-heartedly.

Marc is reverently remembered by his loved ones as an accomplished carpenter, an enthusiastic cook and baker of bread and pizza, a dedicated softball and soccer coach, for his one of a kind sense of humor, an admirer of Chicago architecture, as a voice for the voiceless in the pro-life cause, as having a soft spot for dogs and nature, and as a fierce provider for and protector of his family.

Marc was exceptionally proud of his Italian heritage, and took great delight in passing along many Italian traditions to his daughters, sons in law, nieces, nephews, and grandchildren. His legacy will certainly live on as we continue to hold his memory through his favorite culture.

Marc was a man steadfast in his faith and he loved expressing that faith through the great appreciation he had for music. Marc enjoyed listening to and loudly singing along with every church choir he came across in each of the many beautiful churches he visited.

We take comfort in knowing he is now in heaven, singing along with a choir of angels.

In celebration of Marc’s life, family and friends will be received at St. John of the Cross Catholic Church, 5005 Wolf Rd., Western Springs, Illinois, 60558 on Monday, December 19th. Visitation will be held at 10am with Mass to follow at 11am. There will be a burial held afterward for those who wish to attend at Queen of Heaven Catholic Cemetery, 1400 S. Wolf Rd., Hillside, IL, 60162. Please meet the family at the cemetery office at 12:30pm. Arrangements entrusted to the Conboy-Westchester Funeral Home. For further funeral info 708-F-U-N-E-R-A-L

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December 1, 2023

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December 19, 2022

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December 18, 2022

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Skip Harsy

December 1, 2023

You don't get many true friends in this world and I count my blessings that Marc was one for me. Those of us who had Marc as a friend never doubted his support. He was always on your side and trying to figure out how to make life better for those he loved. It gave me hope for this world that we could respectfully disagree about politics but never about our support for each other. God bless him as well as Chris, Jenna, Lisa and Lindsey and the rest of his family.

Natina LaMontagna

December 19, 2022

I’m so so sorry for your loss. He was always such a joy to be around and full of positivity! So many great memories to cherish for a lifetime.

Drew LaMontagna

December 18, 2022

To the Arquilla Family - I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Marc. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. He was a great man that made a direct impact on my life! I still remember when I had heart surgery and he came and visited me in the hospital with a stuffed animal. I named that stuffed animal Marc and had it nearly my entire life! He will forever be remembered. Marc, and you all mean a lot to our family. We are here for you.

To Marc - thank you for being such a great friend to my father, and to our family. It was always such a great pleasure seeing and hearing from you throughout my life. Always picking up where we left off. You will be dearly missed but not forgotten. Thank you for everything.

-Little Drew

Mike LaMontagna

December 18, 2022

Chris, Jenna, Lisa , and Lindsay- thinking of you in this difficult time. I have fond memories of Marc and enjoyed his company and all he shared. May his love for you always be with you. Love and Peace - Mike LaMontagna

Deborah Loftus

December 17, 2022

Dear Chris my heart and prayers go out to you. My husband Bill died this time last year.

Alida Ruzenskas

December 16, 2022

Sending love, thoughts, and prayers to you and your family during this tough time.

Neighbors Alida and Saulius Ruzenskas

Larry Arquilla Sr

December 15, 2022

Hey Cuz, you’ll be sorely missed. Always enjoyed our conversations. Say hello to your Mom & Dad for me. God bless

Marie Arquilla

December 15, 2022

I’m so very sorry for your loss. My condolences to the family. He was a kind man with a wonderful personality. Sending prayers!

Anna Rante

December 13, 2022

To the Arquilla family;
May all the memories of Marc Bring your family comfort. & all the prayers from family & friends strengthen all of
You. Marc you were a great friend I will miss you love you.❤

The Rante Family

Anna Michelle & Jennifer

From the Staff of Conboy's Westchester Funeral Home

December 13, 2022

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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