Mrs Margaret Sainsbury

Mrs Margaret Sainsbury

Margaret Sainsbury Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Aug. 15 to Aug. 20, 2008.
The star of the first-ever British fly-on-the-wall documentary of a working class family from Whitley died suddenly at her home on Sunday evening.

Margaret Sainsbury, who as Margaret Wilkins was the formidable matriarch in the 1974 documentary The Family, collapsed at home in Finchampstead with her second husband Albert Sainsbury at her side.

Mrs Sainsbury, 73, of Woodmoor, is thought to have had a heart attack.

Her elder daughter Marian Hodder, 54, who lives in Central Reading, said: “This has come as a tremendous shock. Mum has been in fairly good health but had recently been to her GP feeling unwell. But to be rung up and told that she had collapsed and died was naturally a very big shock for everyone.”

Mrs Hodder said she would be announcing the details of her mother’s funeral arrangements later.

The documentary of Margaret and her then husband Terry Wilkins, who she divorced a year after the programme, was aired as a 12-part series produced by Paul Watson.

When asked if her mother ever regretted exposing the family to the very earliest form of reality TV, Mrs Hodder said: “Absolutely not.”

The documentary was an honest portrayal of ordinary family life in Reading which had a huge influence on both factual and fictional television which followed it.

The Wilkins family, who lived in Whitley Street, were attacked in the tabloid press at the time for their strong language and for publicly airing what were taboo subjects.

TV clean-up campaigner Mary Whitehouse called for the programme to be banned.

But filmmaker Mr Watson said he wanted to “make a film about the kind of people who never got on television”.

He is credited with giving the working class a voice for the first time on TV and the documentary is regarded as a groundbreaking contribution to broadcasting history.

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Steph Williams

April 29, 2014

Aww my nan and mum xxxx <3 undoubtedly miss you

Michael Enright

September 7, 2008

So sad to hear of Margaret's death. I was a huge fan of The Family and had a special soft spot for Margaret as she reminded me so much of my own mum. Thank you so much Margaret for sharing your life and your family with the nation. Your bravery changed television for ever. I'll never forget you. God bless, Margaret.

steve flavell

September 1, 2008

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Iesha Hines

August 25, 2008

May you rest in peace

jackie Wilds

August 23, 2008

Dearest Margaret. The loveliest woman I never met. We were 'pen Friends'for 24 years . My sympathy to the family. Margaret was full of insight, and I will miss her letters. More recently, I will miss long chats on the phone. How I wish that we could have met. We were always too busy. She was the one woman in the world who understood my family loyalties. RIP Margaret.

nathaniel belle

August 21, 2008

My words can never explain how much i love and miss my nan hope your resting peacefully
rip

Heather Belle(wilkins)

August 20, 2008

My Dearest Mum,
For me the most beautiful woman in the world. I have no idea how we are going to go on. My heart is so broken, i cannot imagine life with out you. So i will live with you in my fondest memories so i can cope with this big hole in my life. You were so many things to so many people and some how managed to spread your love around. Bless your soul forever and now dear God help me for i am weak my strength and my reason have gone. God bless you my beautiful mum xx So loved

MARION MARGARET HEATHER

August 20, 2008

ian rook

August 20, 2008

dear nan,
No one would have thought you would have left us with out saying good bye because you were truelly a family person wich we have gained from you, We all tried to respond like you always did but we never got close. you made us all laugh with you comments and jokes but now were all miss that. But as i said you and leyna look after each other up there and when its my time you better be at the gates waiting with a drink because i will need 1 walking up them staires lol.
love you nan always in our hearts love ian xx

karen rook

August 19, 2008

mum i dont think they have enough room for me to write everything i want to . you have always been there for me and my boys and i will always remember what a really special woman you were and what a great mum in law,you were the best i am really going to miss our long talks on the phone i will always remember you and hold you in my heart i love you mum rest in peace your daughter in law karen xxx

My super star's

Nevilla Wilkins

August 19, 2008

A wonderful women, you shined like a star, i know your watching over us. I thankyou for everything. Our little chats, your advice i will truelly cherish... I am so proud to be one of yours. My lovely Nanny, rest well, goodnight xxxxx (still visit me on thurs)

Aileen Belle

August 19, 2008

' Wait for tomorrow'


You were taken from us, a lifetime so soon but the sun still came up and with night came the moon.
We questioned how they could with not you to meet, then with hearts full of woe we looked to our feet. For what they had said to us, we should have in ourselves known, for a spirit so strong has been in each living thing sown. They said with each breath you intake and each one you exhale, in the mornings dew and with the nights darkened vale. In your families that grieve and with people that don't, in the hearts filled with acceptance and even thoughs that won't, most of all in your memories of family and friends, in the stories that will pass to and from each one of them. So yes its difficult to rise with all of the sorrow but tomorrow brings greater reason to and for the same reason the stars follow. So even though we don't accept your gone and for now happiness is borrowed, we'll just say goodnight Nanny and we'll wait for tomorrow.

Peggy Harry

August 18, 2008

Dearest Heather & Family, I am really sorry for your loss!! I want to leave you with a prayer I recite every minute something good & bad happens around me:
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference. My thoughts are with you at this sad time.

Together

August 17, 2008

Our Beautiful First Lady

August 16, 2008

Michelle Pelosi (Applewhaite)

August 16, 2008

Dear Heather, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

jeanne lukeman

August 16, 2008

I will miss you very much Margaret
our long chats and laughs
but will nerver forget you

your freind
Jeanne

Paul Wilkins

August 15, 2008

To Nan

If tears could build a stairway
And memories were a lane
We would walk right up to Heaven
And bring you back again

No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before we knew it
And only God knows why

Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know

But now we know you want us
To mourn for you no more
To remember all the happy times
Life still has much in store

Since you'll never be forgotten
We pledge to you today
A hallowed place
within our hearts
Is where you'll always stay

Love you always
Paul

Ben Wilkins

August 14, 2008

Rest in peace nan, your sunshine will always shine on us. Love you loads and will miss you always. Will miss our hour long conversations on the phone. xxxx

Diane Clifford

August 14, 2008

Thinking of you at this sad time Marion from Diane(Clifford) and Doris(Hodges)

scott wilkins

August 14, 2008

nan. i may have been down here in devon but the phone calls were always so special to me.i will miss you terribly.we will never forget you nan.xxx scott xxxx

Jo-anne Bernes

August 14, 2008

Rest in peace Nan. Thank you for being you. Missing you loads already. Lots of love, always and forever. Jo-anne xx

Sarah Bernes

August 14, 2008

Rest In Peace Nan. I felt that we had developed a bond over the last year and im so glad you knew Tim and Harrison.
Im going to miss you so much and i never told you before but I do love you and im proud to call you my nan. Sarah xxx

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