MARK J. O'CONNOR

MARK J. O'CONNOR obituary, Cambridge, MA

MARK J. O'CONNOR

MARK O'CONNOR Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 7 to May 8, 2020.
O'CONNOR, Mark J. Age 66, of Cambridge, died unexpectedly at home on Thursday, April 30, 2020. He was born in Boston, son of the late Jeanne M. O'Connor of Belmont and the late Dr. James H. O'Connor of Palm Springs, CA. Mark leaves behind his son Christopher J. O'Connor of Whitefish, Montana. Mark graduated from St. Sebastian's, Georgetown University and Suffolk Law School. For many years he practiced law as a Suffolk County public defender, along with maintaining his own private law practice. He was a real Hoya and proud member of the Chimes, a very popular Georgetown University a cappella singing group. He enjoyed many alumni gatherings of the Chimes over the years. Growing up, he spent his summers at the family home on Lewis Bay in Hyannis Park. Some of his happiest times were spent at the Cape swimming, boating, sailing his catamaran and celebrating the 4th of July with Christopher, setting off fireworks on the beach at his loyal friend Paul's home. Mark or "OC" to his friends, was a big Patriots fan and would often attend the latest Super Bowl game returning home with lots of memorabilia for his family and friends. Mark's greatest legacy was his son whom he loved dearly and was enormously proud of. Mark was a hockey player in his youth so he was delighted later to attend Christopher's many hockey games. Among other things, Mark took great pride in Christopher graduating with an MBA which in turn led to their many fruitful conversations about the financial markets. Oh the places they went, the adventures and the road trips across New England they took, all of which cemented the good memories that Christopher will treasure for a lifetime. Mark had a big heart and volunteered at the Pine Street Inn. His sense of humor, generosity and good spirit will be missed by his family and friends. In addition to Christopher, Mark is survived by a sister and brother-in-law Carole and Wayne Gates, together with his nephews Michael and Matthew Gates of Natick; his sister Kimberly O'Connor Markey and husband John Markey of Belmont, together with his niece Caroline Markey Welch of Marblehead and nephew Bobby Markey of Brighton, along with his brother Craig of Assonet. Due to the current restrictions placed on all of us because of Covid-19, a celebration of Mark's life will be scheduled at a later date. Remembrances may be made online at www.stantonfuneralhome.com

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June 9, 2020

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May 16, 2020

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Pam Smith

June 9, 2020

My condolences to Mark's family. Mark and I were classmates and friends in law school. I've not seen Mark in many years and was saddened to read about his passing in a recent Lawyers Weekly. It is a tribute to what a good man Mark was that I remember him well more than 35 years later. Mark had a kind smile and was always gracious. Rest in Peace Mark.

We Love You, Mark - The Gates Family

May 17, 2020

Matthew Gates

May 16, 2020

I know that there is a high likelihood that you will never see this, but I would like to simply say thank you. You were a great man to my whole family and me, and you took tremendous care of us. I cherish all the moments you and I spent together over the years, especially those when Mom and Dad were away, when we would often go to DQ, Station 5, and the Track. You were a one of a kind man, and I am forever grateful for the love and kindness you showed to me over the years. You will forever be missed. May you be safe and happy for the rest of time. Know that you will always live on in the memories and the lives of all those whom you touched along the way; you will live on in the lives of many. I will see your smile and hear your laugh when I make shells, watch Star Wars or the Patriots, and drive by DQ. You were a blessing to all of us. Thank you for letting me be a part of your life. I am forever grateful. Love you always.

Brian Campbell

May 14, 2020

RIP classmate and old friend Mark. It saddens me to have to write condolences for a soul who departed way too soon. May God hold your close and your memories fill the hearts of your family with joy!
Brian Campbell '71

The Chimes

Michael Gates

May 13, 2020

Carole O'Connor Gates

May 13, 2020

To my dear brother Mark,

My heart is broken. Losing you is so painful. We can't imagine our lives without you. Watching Patriots games, playing Risk, Wayne's burgers, your jokes, Callie's soft landing, and all the laughter. Christmas won't be the same without you.

We close our eyes and see you walking in the door, sporting your WG Collection with Heinekens in hand. Uncle Buck delighted us all...the trips to DQ, the autographed Trump photo, Saturdays at the track with your best friend, The Chimes, your top comments, Tombs hat, Matthew becoming a fellow Hoya, and your amazing quick wit.

You were a kind, generous soul. You were always the first person to lend a helping hand... the guy who would literally give someone the shirt off your back. You helped so many in need with your unwavering love and support. I was blessed to watch you in action, and hear their love and gratitude for you.

Thank you for letting me be a part of your life. Thank you for walking me down the aisle at my wedding, and thank you for always loving me and having my back. I will miss you so much.

May you be safe and at peace for the rest of time. I will love you forever.

Your sister,
Carole O'Connor Gates

Wayne Gates

May 13, 2020

Mark,
The holidays will never be the same without you. Every Christmas when you would join us, Matthew and I would make you watch It's a Wonderful Life, whether you wanted to or not. One of the key takeaways from the story is that A person's true wealth and worth is not measured in dollars, but in the currency of friendship and family, and the goodness that one contributes to the world.
So, here's to my brother-in-law, Mark. Like George Bailey, you are the richest man in town!
We will miss you, but take comfort in knowing that your spirit will live on.

Wayne Gates

May 13, 2020

Carole O'Connor Gates

May 13, 2020

Matthew Gates

May 13, 2020

We love you, Uncle Mark

Matthew Gates

May 13, 2020

St. Seb's 7th Grade 1965

Tom Whalen

May 9, 2020

I first met Mark in 1965 when we were 7th graders at St. Sebastian's CDS. We spent much time together in the first two years as our mothers were friends. We are two of the students who completed the six-year run from the Lower School to Graduation in 1971. He was a good student, loved to talk about and play sports, and he did a lot of both. I lost track of him after college. Then one day, 25+ years later, I discovered that he shared a law practice with some friends of mine in Adams Corner, Dorchester, 2 blocks from my house. Small world.

God Bless You, my friend.

George

May 8, 2020

So sorry to hear of Marks passing. A fellow Arrow and Hoya, we were friends since 7th grade. He was generous (taking us to many sporting events including the Red Sox with his Major League Baseball pass) and kind. Gone too soon.

George

May 8, 2020

So sorry to hear of Marks passing. A fellow Arrow and Hoya, we were friends since 7th grade. He was generous (taking us to many sporting events including the Red Sox with his Major League Baseball pass) and kind. Gone too soon.

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