Mary Ann Maxfield Monk

1929 - 2019

Mary Ann Maxfield Monk obituary, 1929-2019, Lake Charles, LA

Mary Ann Maxfield Monk

1929 - 2019

BORN

1929

DIED

2019

Mary Ann Monk Obituary

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Mary Ann Maxfield Monk, 90, of Lake Charles passed away on Thursday, December 12, 2019, in a local hospital.


Mary Ann was born on August 19, 1929, in Lake Charles to Oscar Farrington Maxfield and Lucile McGowen Maxfield. She was a life-long resident of Lake Charles. Mary Ann graduated from Lake Charles High School as valedictorian of the Class of 1946. In 1950 she graduated from Duke University with a degree in Sociology. She studied to become a religious educator and dreamed of mission work abroad. Upon returning to Lake Charles, Mary Ann worked as Director of Religious Education for University Methodist Church, and as the first employed Director of the Wesley Foundation at McNeese.


On August 18, 1951, Mary Ann married Boyce Clayton Monk at First Methodist Church in Lake Charles. As they welcomed children to the family, Mary Ann continued her church work as a tireless volunteer, especially supporting the United Methodist Women and the Caring Ministry of her church. She became, in effect, a missionary in her own town. Her leadership in church groups at the local, district, and state levels was an ongoing commitment throughout her life.


Mary Ann was also involved as a leader in many community organizations. She enjoyed helping with PTA and Camp Fire groups when her children were young. In later years, she and Boyce were devoted advocates and volunteers for Habitat for Humanity. Mary Ann’s active volunteer work has benefitted many people over the years, but she would be the first to say that the gift of service is its own reward.


Mary Ann had a number of close friends who said she was the tie that bound them together, communicating by phone and email to keep their friendships up to date. Her closest friends from Lake Charles High School are still known as the PEPs. This group of young ladies wrote the lyrics of the LCHS alma mater, with Mary Ann contributing the line, “And when we leave these classrooms for fields of service wide, our thanks to Lake Charles High School we sing with deepest pride.”


Mary Ann was an active member of DAR, tracing three family lines to ancestors who fought in the American Revolution. She was also an active member of the local Review Club and P.E.O. chapter, continuing her lifelong interest in academics and scholarship. Her social organizations included DMA, New Horizons, and the MM Embroidery Club, which her grandmother helped to establish in Lake Charles.


Above all, Mary Ann was the memory-keeper for her immediate family and her extended family on both sides. She was very diligent in keeping the connections between a vast number of relatives, sharing news and photos, rejoicing in each new child, encouraging each new endeavor, celebrating every milestone and accomplishment. She knew and shared the stories of her family, from years long past to the present date. Her agile mind and memory never failed her.


Mary Ann’s beloved husband, Boyce Monk, died in 1997. Her sister, Virginia “Ginny” Maxfield Beidler, died in 2006. Mary Ann’s daughter Ruth Monk Carter pre-deceased her in 2009.


Her surviving children, who will miss her daily, are Laura Monk of Lake Charles, Margaret Monk Harris and husband Wayne of Sulphur, William B. “Bill” Monk and wife Aimée of Lake Charles, and Marilyn Monk Powers and husband Larry of Sulphur Springs, Texas.


She is also survived by her dear brother and sister-in-law, Albert C. “Bert” Maxfield and wife Janice of Sulphur, nephew Don Maxfield and family of Sulphur, nephew Joseph Beidler and family of Rio Rancho, New Mexico, and son-in-law Allen Carter of Natchitoches.


Mary Ann was extremely proud and supportive of her grandchildren: Leslie Powers, Julie Powers, Andy Powers, Margaret Monk Higgins, Lucie Monk Carter, Jim Monk, Anne Monk, Jack Monk, Meredith Harris Wiese, and Austin Harris. Her family now includes four great-grandchildren, with another expected in 2020.


A Memorial Service will be held at 11:00 AM on Monday, December 16, at First United Methodist Church of Lake Charles. The Rev. Weldon Bares and Rev. Katie Black will officiate. Inurnment will be at Graceland Cemetery at a later date.


Visitation will be in Paxton Hall at First United Methodist Church on Sunday, December 15, from 3:00 – 6:00 PM, and on Monday, December 16, from 9:30 – 10:30 AM.


To the many relatives, friends, and acquaintances who have supported our family with prayers, calls, and cards through these last few weeks, we express our deepest gratitude. You have helped to sustain us in this difficult time.


To the entire dedicated team of administrative staff, doctors, and nurses at Memorial Hospital: Our family is grateful for the outstanding, compassionate and professional care you provided to our mother and for the personal support you provided to each of us. In the whirlwind of constant care provided over the last 18 days, please excuse our inability to recall everyone involved, but we would like to specifically convey our thanks to: Drs. Jeffrey Balazsy, Kim Poludnianyk, Ben Thompson, R. Craig Broussard, Clifford Courville, Amanda Ellington, John Winterton, King White, and Frank Marrero; Palliative Care Coordinator Nancy Coffey, and nurses Ilea Nauts, Jennifer Wainwright, Jenny Bradley, Shantelle Richard, Blair Belanger, Alex Liles, and Michael Sonnier.


 

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January 15, 2020

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December 22, 2019

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December 17, 2019

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John & Peggy Cary

January 15, 2020

Margaret,
Sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Becky Andrews

December 22, 2019

I was very saddened to learn of Mary Ann's passing. She was one the sweetest, most compassionate people I had the honor of knowing and was a guiding influence through my childhood & teen years at First Methodist. I'll always remember her gentle sense of humor, too. My deepest sympathy to Marilyn, Margaret, Bill, Laura and their families. There is a hard working angel newly on staff.

Rayna Shawa

December 17, 2019

Mrs Monk was the epitome of grace, charity, & faith. I often think of her with fond memories of Bluebird meetings held in her home.

Suzanne Jeffery Cook

December 17, 2019

Thank you for the photo video. I especially enjoyed seeing her with Mr. Boyce. I give thanks for all Mr. Boyce and Mrs. Mary Ann taught me at First United Methodist Church, Lake Charles, LA. Hers is truly a life to celebrate. Mrs. Monk, an incredible lady with a beautiful family.

Cindy Sohrwide Slaydon

December 16, 2019

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Dawn Marshall

December 16, 2019

Margaret I am so sorry for your family's loss. Your mother was an inspiration to all who knew her. She sponsored my oldest daughter Rachel while she was going through confirmation at FUMC. She will be sorely missed. I pray for blessings of peace and comfort for and your family during this trying time.

Bobby Craig

December 16, 2019

Mary Ann had a wonderful life, and has a wonderful family. She will truly be missed. We had a great time at her 90 year old celebration, and she was still sharp as a tack, and loving as always. When my mom was still alive but living out of state, Mary Ann was the one to keep in touch and check up on her. I will always appreciate that.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Joyce Colbert

December 15, 2019

I was a guest in her home with Lyn Fehl. A lovely woman.

Jeri Humphrey

December 15, 2019

My deepest and most sincere sympathy to Mrs Monks family. While I do not know all of you personally, I do know the loss of someone so dear to you. Hugs and prayers to all of you. Marilyn, I woke up Friday morning with overwhelming thoughts of you and your family and sent a short text. Now I understand where those overwhelming thoughts were coming from. My prayers for all of you as you continue this journey

Wanda Stanton

December 15, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of Mary Ann's death. During my 54 years in Lake Charles she was a true friend and Christian.

after the death of Miss Julia Paxton, Mary Ann was dubbed our ""resident saint" and she lived up to the title every day of her life! She will be sorely missed.

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Dominique Darbonne

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Faithful Blessings Bouquet - VASE INCLUDED

Gloria Vaudo

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Monique Nagem

December 14, 2019

Although I did not know Mary Ann very long, I soon realized what a special lady she was. Im sorry for the loss of such a treasure. My deepest sympathy to the family.

Jane Ann Montgomery-Finley

December 14, 2019

Asking for God's comfort for family & friends.

Karen Batchelor

December 14, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

SUSANA COURVILLE

December 14, 2019

My dear friends a great loss to the Lake Charles community but a greater gain to heaven has been gained. I had the pleasure years ago of meeting Mrs Monk when she sat at my table during the course of study Woman at the Well. She provided me with such spiritual and real knowledge of knowing what being at the Well meant. It's truly with sorrow I morn her passing yet I am joyful she will be resting in Jesus loving arms.

Alta and Steve Mayo

December 14, 2019

We offer condolences and prayers for all she touched and all who will miss her presence here with us.

Our last time to see her, she was downplaying her part in writing the LCHS Alma Mater. She seemed to have a gift at being humble, and elevating your presence.

She will now be with her husband, daughter, and all those who predeceased her. May we all RIP with that knowledge and put our efforts into helping to fulfill her legacy. She heard Jesus's words when He gave us the great commission. She worked as His hands and feet. The best we can do for Mrs. Monk now is to pick up her efforts and grow the Kingdom!

Eileen Eisner

December 14, 2019

Mary Ann was so precious and dear. Roger and I will miss her beyond words. She was kindness and goodness personified!! We loved her so much! Praying for all of you!

Carolyn Langley

December 14, 2019

RIP dear Mary Ann. You were a true disciple of our Christian faith, who shared love & service with grace & dignity. Knowing you through LC District UMW was an honor.

Meredith Hudson

December 14, 2019

God bless all of you - know that you are in my prayers during this trying time.

Mel Eiden

December 14, 2019

Mary Ann was a wonderful woman with a heart of gold.

Deborah Duhon

December 14, 2019

Margaret and family, Im so sorry for your loss. Youre in my prayers

Julie Monk Loftin Miller

December 13, 2019

I think I will always carry her voice and her smile with me. To be in Mary Anns presence was inspiring; Such a mighty heart in such a tiny package. I will cherish our memories of time with all of you at Boyce and Mary Anns House. There was always room for one more at the table and in their hearts.

Praying for peace for all of our LA/TX family. Sending love at this most difficult time. A beautiful example of a life well lived is to be celebrated!

Steven Spurlock

December 13, 2019

Dear Family of Mary Ann, what a privilege it was to serve as her pastor while I served as the senior pastor of First UMC, Lake Charles. I was also privileged to serve as Boyces pastor as well. Maybe God grant you all wisdom, strength and courage as you walk into a future full of precious memories of Mary Ann. What a wonderful and gracious servant of God!!

Eleanor Moffett

December 13, 2019

We spoke today to the Miloski family in New York. They were good friends of Mary Ann when they lived in Lake Charles some years ago. They were very distraught and wanted us to express their deepest condolences to the family in the loss of their dear friend.

Gretchen Gill Bulloch

December 13, 2019

What a beautiful angel God has added to his heaven. I remember Mrs Monk forever from First Methodist & her wonderful smile & loving hugs each Sunday morning. She was such a beautiful lady, full of love & grace. How wonderful to have had her for so long. Someone once told me two things that I am remembering at this time: It Its hard to forget someone who gave you so much to remember and The greatest gift we can give to those who have gone before us is to live fully in their place. Both of these sentiments are so very true of Mrs Monk. My sincerest condolences to her loving family.

Rae Lee Casey-Baggett

December 13, 2019

She was a lovely new friend and addition to my life in 2019. Her enthusiasm for life and smile would light up any heart in the room.

John Vaudo

December 13, 2019

On Behalf of Gloria SK Vaudo of Tarboro we send our deepest Condolences to our Lake Charles Cousins, This will be a heart-breaker for our side of the family, Marilyn, Bill, Margret, and Laura we will keep you in our thoughts.

Kathy Kay

December 13, 2019

My deepest condolences to you all!

Brenda Bachrack

December 13, 2019

My heart is breaking. I sha
Ll miss her smile.

H.W. McGowen

December 13, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful woman full of grace and peace. We will love you and miss you always.
H.W., Suzanne, Madeleine & Genevieve McGowen

Hilda Deville Wright

December 13, 2019

To the Monk family, I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for your family

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