Mary Catherine Brandt Kerr

Mary Catherine Brandt Kerr obituary, Stow, MA

Mary Catherine Brandt Kerr

Mary Brandt Kerr Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 1, 2024.
Mary Brandt Kerr passed away peacefully on October 31, 2024 after a years-long battle with Alzheimer's disease. She is survived by her husband John Kerr and her sons Cameron Kerr of Vienna, VA, and Tyler Kerr of Denver, CO.

Mary was born on January 5, 1954 in Centralia, WA, to parents Jim and Eleanor Brandt, both from Iowa. The youngest of four children, Mary was a bright, inquisitive child whose high-spirited nature made her less excitable siblings question whether they really shared the same steadfast Midwest parents. Mary had a rich, rewarding childhood, growing up in both northern and southern California and also attending high school in England when her father's aerospace work took the family there for a year. That visit cemented her love of all things British, and after college, she returned to Britain to work and travel. It was in London that she and John met, and from London that they left to work together as English teachers in Sudan.

Mary attended Grinnell College, IA, where she graduated with a Bachelor of Arts in anthropology. She found her calling in writing - particularly in book writing and editing in London, and later, back in the US. But she quickly found other outlets for her boundless energy, creating and running a grade-school parent resource center for underserved immigrant families, managing school library activities, coaching kids' soccer, serving on our town's finance committee, running for Selectman, and covering events for the local newspaper - all while raising two boys. Among the other activities she was most proud of: her non-stop, miles-wide support for her other "boys" - South Sudan refugees who arrived in the US more than 20 years ago.

Alzheimer's began to affect Mary perhaps eight or nine years ago, although its impact and progress were invisible to most until much later. A clear diagnosis in January 2023 removed anyone's doubts about what was happening to her. In September 2023, she found a new home at Bridges, a wonderful memory-care community in Sudbury, MA, where she enjoyed the warmth and endless kindness of the teams there and regularly joined in the wide range of activities - particularly those involving music and dance and of course, the visiting dogs and alpacas.

Mary's life will be celebrated in 2025; dates and places to follow. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the Alzheimer's Association www.alz.org and to Save-A-Dog www.saveadog.org, the shelter from which Mary's beloved Sophie came.

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January 9, 2025

Janet Chatfield Leutel posted to the memorial.

November 13, 2024

David Way posted to the memorial.

November 12, 2024

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Janet Chatfield Leutel

January 9, 2025

Wonderful Mary and I met in Cardiff By the Sea at Georges Seafood restaurant. She was fabulous friend who I loved for 51 years!
She was a marvelous wit and writer. I am forever saddened that this great mind was afflicted with Alzheimer´s.
My love goes out to John and their two sons. With love from Janet Leutel

David Way

November 13, 2024

I'm so sorry to hear about Mary's passing. I spent many happy days at her home in Stow playing with her son Cam. She was always a wonderful hostess. I remember being impressed even as a child by her selfless acts supporting other and the community!

Brenda Mason

November 12, 2024

My sympathy to Mary´s family. I shared time at many Parent Support Group meetings at the local schools with Mary. She was always ready and willing to help in many ways. What wonderful work she did in Stow and beyond.
Brenda Mason (now living in Maryland)

Ellen Brandt

November 10, 2024

I am so sad to learn of Mary's passing! (THANK you to Janice for tracking me down!). She was Bill's only "local" family member and we relished the connection. Your family was a role model for ours. You raised two kind, caring and thoughtful sons and we were a few years behind you, trying to do the same. Your home was the first outing after our son Milo was born! and I have many warm memories of our families getting together when my sons were young. I am sorry that we haven't done a better job at staying in touch. (probably Mary was the one who made sure we stayed connected)
It is devastating to learn about her Alzheimer's diagnosis! I so admired her knowledge, wit and wisdom.

Barbara Church

November 7, 2024

Mr. Kerr, sons and family, you don´t know me, but I know Mary. She is a part of our Wounded Warrior mom´s group, we just found out that Mary was dealing with Alzheimer´s. I´m so sad to hear about her passing. I had been reaching out to her with texting the last few years and received texts that I could not read. I understand now why and am so sorry for that. Please know that if there is anything we can do to help, we will do my best. Hoping you and sons are doing ok. Praying for comfort for you all. Prayers and hugs from Wisconsin.

Bridges at Sudbury

November 4, 2024

It was such a pleasure experiencing life with Mary during her time at our facility! She was such a warm-hearted, loveable, lady who brought excitement to us everyday! Thank you for entrusting your loved one to us in her final moments. She will be missed very dearly. Condolences go to the family during their difficult time of mourning.

Christian Johnson

November 3, 2024

I met Mary only once, with John at a lovely lunch we shared along the Monocacy River in downtown Frederick, Maryland. She seemed so gracious; I was very surprised to learn shortly after that they already suspected early-onset Alzheimer's. What a terrible loss and my deepest condolences.

John Kerr

November 1, 2024

Our date -- early 1980? -- in Covent Garden, London, when she thought she was just another invitee in the usual throng of participants in Henry John Kerr Productions -- the entertainment activities that I would regularly organize. Surprise for Mary! And a positive suprise also for her that the movie we then went to -- "Richard Pryor Live in Concert" -- sent this staid Ulsterman into fits of unseemly laughter... Loving husband of 41 years -- John Kerr

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