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Mary Casey Obituary
A gifted musician, Terry's talents graced both the violin and piano. Her passion for teaching led her to inspire countless students at Derham Hall and Visitation. In her early years, Terry joined the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet, a testament to her deep faith. Later, she found love with Patrick Casey, a Christian Brother. Together, they transitioned to lay life, marrying in 1970 and building a loving family.
Terry's lifelong connection to Notre Dame began when her father took a position there, prompting the family's move to South Bend. She later earned her master's degree from the university and remained an ardent Fighting Irish football fan.
Terry was preceded in death by her husband, Patrick Casey; her parents, Wanda and Cecil Birder; her sister, Joan Michel; and her brothers, Dudley and James Birder. She is survived by her sons, Sean (Lina) Casey and Kevin Casey; her grandchildren Joseph, Nora, Max, and Summer Casey; and numerous other family members and friends.
Terry's legacy of music, faith, education, and family will continue to resonate in the hearts of all who knew her. She will be deeply missed.
A funeral Mass will be held at 11 a.m. on August 13, 2024, at Our Lady of the Presentation Chapel at 1880 Randolph Ave, St Paul, MN 55105, followed by a luncheon. Burial will take place at 1:30 p.m. at Resurrection Cemetery in Mendota Heights, Minnesota.
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Terry Bierbaum
April 7, 2025
Miss your mom and the visits. Was just over visiting a Friend where your mom lived and I was filled with happy thoughts visiting your mom and dad. Shawn they would be so proud in sharing the news of your new baby.
Congratulations. They are smiling up there in Heaven!
Janelle Kuettel Fischler
August 12, 2024
Janelle Kuettel Fischler (Class of 1976)
I have an abundance of fond memories from Glee Club and Religion classes. As an accompanist, we often worked as a team. Music was and still is a deep part of my life and Mrs. Casey was a huge influence. I am beyond grateful for her patience and sense of humor during my mischievous years!
Joanne McKenzie Pearman
August 11, 2024
Mrs. Casey was my teacher at Derham Hall in both Glee Club and Religion, and she was passionate about both subjects. I can see her now, rising up on her toes as she conducted, and in small group, twirling her wedding ring as she made a point, until her ring flew off her finger and across the room. She was kind and honest and straightforward. It is a privilege to have known her. My thoughts and prayers are with her family. Class of '76.
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Jackie Joyce Lutmer
August 8, 2024
Mrs. Casey was an amazing person. She encouraged me in ways that shaped my life and the big part that music has played in my life. I will always be grateful for her guidance and encouragement in my years at Derham Hall. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. Class of 1980.
John Birder
August 7, 2024
In 2013 my wife Linda and I joined Terry and Pat along with cousin Cressy on a trip to visit the family homestead in Park River ND. It was something I always wanted to do and cherish the time we got to spend together. It was fascinating to see streets named after your grandfather and great uncle and hear the stories about our family. A plus was we met the current owner of the house and she gave us a tour. We already miss you Terry. With love your god-son John Birder
Maryhelen Tapio
July 27, 2024
I will always remember Derham Hall Glee Club. It was so much fun. Great memories.
Kathy Fabian Dean
July 27, 2024
Mrs Casey was such a lovely teacher that always taught by example. We were so fortunate to have her at Derham Hall. God Bless her family and friends at this time.
Mary Osmon
July 26, 2024
Mrs. Casey was the type of teacher you want to have at any time but certainly in high school. Not only a great teacher but great human being. My condolences to her family. Class of 84 Derham Hall
Terry Cox Joseph
July 26, 2024
Mrs. Casey taught Glee Club for years and I enjoyed singing a soprano in her stage productions. She was a gem. Having moved out of Minnesota in 1987, I've lost touch with all of the teachers. She was one of my favorites. I'm glad she had a long, fruitful life.
Karen Kelly
July 26, 2024
Mrs. Casey was my Glee Club teacher, including my freshman chorus teacher. I enjoyed every class and performance. She brought so much life to the songs and she was so funny. I recently heard a song that we recorded on an album that is played at the beginning of the movie "The River Wild". It brought back fond memories. Hard to believe that she was 89 but when I think about attending our 45 year class reunion this year I realize how fast the time has gone by for all of us. My deepest sympathy to her family and know that she touched so many of us in a wonderful way during our awkward high school years. She will be remembered fondly. Karen Kelly class of '79, Derham Hall.
Clare Williams Cizek
July 26, 2024
Terri taught many of us at Derham Hall. She had so much energy and passion for her work. Later I met her at Carondelet when she lived there with my Mother. It was so nice to reconnect then. What a positive and wonderful teacher and woman. Condolences to Terri's family.
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