Mary Lou Delaporta Peck

1951 - 2018

Mary Lou Delaporta Peck obituary, 1951-2018, New London, CT

Mary Lou Delaporta Peck

1951 - 2018

Mary Lou Peck Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 7, 2018.

Mary Lou Delaporta Peck passed away on Sunday, September 2, 2018 surrounded by her family and dear friend at home. She had been fighting cancer for over 5 years.


Mary Lou spent her first few years in her Lebanese grandparent’s house on Homes Street in New London, where she attended the Saltonstall School. Her family moved to Quaker Hill where she attended Waterford schools and then St. Bernard School for high school. She was especially proud of her classmates and education.


As Mary Lou pursued a degree in fine arts, watercolors were her specialty, she attended Emmanuel College in Boston and then transferred to UCONN to finish her degree.


Mary Lou has had many jobs throughout her career. She taught at NFA, kept books at The Steak Loft, owned a catering company, worked in the Mystic Seaport’s Art Department, and managed at Recycled Paper Products. Upon the arrival of her daughter in 1991, she became the owner and manager of the Adams House Bed & Breakfast and also worked with her childhood friend Charlotte at Thames River Greenery.


Mary Lou’s first marriage was to Andy Smith. In 1990 she met Gregory Peck and they married shortly after and raised their daughter Marissa in the Bed & Breakfast.


Mary Lou is survived by three sisters – Donna Perry, Debbie Delaporta, and Franny Sission – and their children and grandchildren.


We thank Center for Hospice Care Southeast CT for their compassion and devotion to our family in Mary Lou’s final weeks of life. We are also grateful for all of the doctors who worked on our team over the years, especially the healing touch of Mary Lou’s friend Marya Ursin and Dr. David Schwindt’s acupuncture for Mary Lou’s stroke recovery.


We are grateful for all of the love and wonderful food Mary Lou brought to our lives. Her cooking and wise words of advice will be missed but also will live through all with whom she shared her gifts.


Contributions can be made in memory of Mary Lou Peck to the following organizations:



Mystic Museum of Art’s educational outreach programs to regional schools. Mary Lou proudly served on the board of directors in the 1980’s. https://www.mysticmuseumofart.org/support/annual-appeal/
Capital Roots’ commercial kitchen project, which is being built to give space for small food-based businesses to thrive and grow in New York’s Capital Region. Lack of access to a commercial kitchen was what ultimately forced Mary Lou to close her catering business. Mary Lou’s daughter, Marissa, has been working for Capital Roots since she graduated from college in 2014. https://www.nycharities.org/give/donate.aspx?cc=3965

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September 12, 2018

Someone posted to the memorial.

September 12, 2018

Carol Hayes Rogovin posted to the memorial.

September 11, 2018

Amanda Blair posted to the memorial.

September 12, 2018

Dear Greg and Marissa,

Mary Lou and I worked together during our years at Recycled Paper Products. We shared many laughs. When we both moved onto other things, our paths always crossed. We would catch up on the latest happenings with our families. Marissa, your mother was always proud of you, and I know she is sending her love from above.

Connie Sullivan

Carol Hayes Rogovin

September 12, 2018

I spent many years growing up in the Delaporta home during my high school days. Although, Donna and I were classmates & friends, I remember May Lou fondly.
My love and condolences to you all during this difficult time. Wishing you peace and comfort in the coming days.

Amanda Blair

September 11, 2018

Marylou, you were a wonderful friend, we will always remember our adventures at Williams with Marissa and Haley. You were there for us when Jim passed and Greg and Marissa I hope you know that we are here for you. Peace be with you, remember that you are surrounded by people that love you.
Haley, James and Amanda Blair

September 10, 2018

Dear Greg and Marissa,

All the many wonderful memories of the loving good times you two have had with Mary Lou will keep her alive forever in your hearts. Greg, I send you my heart felt sympathy for the loss of Mary Lou, your dear wife and partner. Marissa, your Mother loved you dearly, and she was so proud of your accomplishments. I can only imagine how you will miss her. Remember. your Mother will be near by in spirit and will always live in your heart. I send you both my love,
Patti Hudson

Joey Dorman

September 10, 2018

My thoughts are with you, Greg.

Lisa Callan

September 10, 2018

Has there ever been such a staunch* friend as Mary Lou Peck? It has been my utter joy and privilege to have her grace my life for over 35 years. I have the deepest gratitude for the many ways she has richly enhanced my life. It has been delightful to intertwine our friends and families through the years.
Mary Lou is indelibly etched in my heart and mind. I feel so blessed to have walked with her through our journeys of life.
Sending a circle of love to all who are feeling the gift of her presence . . . and missing her voice and participation in our daily lives as we go forward.

* when the word 'staunch' came to mind when I began writing this, I decided to look it up - and the description is completely apt:

1. loyal and committed in attitude.
synonyms:stalwart, loyal, faithful, committed, devoted, dedicated, dependable, reliable, steady, constant, trusty, hard-working, steadfast, redoubtable, unwavering, tireless; resolved, resolute, determined
"a staunch supporter"
2. (of a wall) of strong or firm construction.

Lisa and Chuck Henderson

September 10, 2018

Dear Greg and Marissa, Sending our sincerest sympathies on Mary Lou's passing. Our hearts go out to you both. I will always remember her bright smile, and her open and welcoming nature. I know you will miss her.

Katie Girard Jones

September 10, 2018

Dear Greg,

I was so terribly sorry to hear about Mary Lou. She was a lovely lady who touched many lives. My love goes out to you and Marissa.

Melanie, Ian & Lauren Francis

September 9, 2018

We are holding Mary Lou's memory in our hearts and holding Greg and Marissa in love and support.

September 9, 2018

Mary Lou was a wonderful person to me and my family through the years. I cannot thank you enough for everything and we as a family are truly lucky to know her and her family. You will be missed.

Love,
Peter and Amelia Yaron

Cindy

September 9, 2018

My thoughts are with you.

Nancy Stuart

September 9, 2018

My sincere sympathy to the Delaporta and Peck families on the loss of Mary Lou. We attended St. Bernard's High School at the same time and I will always remember her great sense of humor and kindness.

Ralph Stanzione

September 8, 2018

Greg--
My sincere regrets to your family regarding the loss of Mary Lou. Stay close to your friends during this time of grief.

Ralph S.

PD GA

September 8, 2018

My sincerest condolences to the family. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain you during this most difficult time. (Isaiah 61:1, 2)

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