Ms. Mary Florence "Cookie" McCollum

Ms. Mary Florence "Cookie" McCollum obituary, Raleigh, NC

Ms. Mary Florence "Cookie" McCollum

Mary McCollum Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 28, 2020.
Mary F. McCollum, 71, of Raleigh, NC was born in Bennettsville, SC on May 3, 1948, to Ida Mae Campbell and Arthur McCollum Sr. She passed away on March 28, 2020, in Raleigh, NC. She was educated in the Richmond County School system. Mary retired from North Carolina State University in 2013 after many years of service in the housekeeping department where she was well loved by her co-workers and students alike. She was an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ in Raleigh, NC and was both loved and well respected in her community. Mary had a passion for cooking, learning new technology, online shopping and a lifelong passion for jigsaw puzzles, word puzzles and sudoku. Mary is preceded in death by her mother Ida Mae Campbell, her father Arthur McCollum Sr., her brothers June Campbell, and Arthur McCollum Jr., niece Marion Dockery, and her life partner Clarence Watkins Sr. She leaves to mourn daughters Annie Delores McCollum and Paula Cheryl McCollum of Raleigh, and son Iden (Beverly) Campbell McCollum of Portland, OR. Special nieces Audrey Green McCollum and her husband Kenny of Whiteside, PA, and Denise McLaurin Brower and her husband Johnny of Greensboro. She is also survived by 6-grandchildren, 6-great grandchildren, and several other nieces and nephews and a host of cousins. She is also survived by her stepchildren (Clarence Watkins Sr.) Cynthia Watkins of Garner, Sherrie Watkins of Raleigh, Terrie Watkins of Raleigh, Clarence Watkins Jr. and his wife Charlene of Franklin, Patricia W. Stewart and her husband Jeff of Wendell, and Stephen Watkins (d. 2002) and 26 grandchildren and 37 great-grandchildren Funeral services are private and will be held at the graveside. A memorial service will be planned at a time allowed due to the national health crisis at the Church of Jesus Christ in Raleigh. Memorial gifts in memory of Mary may be made to her church of membership at churchofjesuschrist.org.

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September 9, 2021

Joanne De Monte posted to the memorial.

April 18, 2020

Susan Helmer Bergo posted to the memorial.

April 8, 2020

Kitt Patrick posted to the memorial.

Joanne De Monte

September 9, 2021

Mary, I know God is holding you in the palm of His hand. Sending you much love. It's been 40 odd years and I still smile when I think of you.

Susan Helmer Bergo

April 18, 2020

Mary, I know there is a big celebration of friends and loved ones where you are, because they are all so happy to see you again. And I know we will all see you again with your perfect body. Dennis and I loved you so much. As others have said, you were always happy. You chose to be happy in spite of your trials, and you were a wonderful example to us all. It was one of your many gifts. Love you, Susan Helmer Bergo and Dennis Bergo, Raleigh 2nd Ward, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints

Kitt Patrick

April 8, 2020

Ms. Mary you will truly be missed. Thank you for making me laugh and cheering me up every time I saw you. I look forward to seeing you again. You are gone but not forgotten. I love you!!

Stephanie Fife

April 6, 2020

Mary, you will be sorely missed. My children and I will always remember your smile, warm hugs and kind heart! Sundays will not be the same without you here! We are happy you are now pain free and in the arms of your friends and loved ones that have passed on and with your Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ! Love, Stephanie Fife and Family

Gayle Gertsch

April 6, 2020

Several years ago I had the privilege of serving the youngest children of the church with Mary and she had such a loving way with them! They loved her dearly as did I. Mary always had a smile and a kind word; and she had the gift of making you feel like you were special. I will miss her dearly but am so happy that she is out of her pain at last! My thoughts and prayers go to all of her loved ones at this time. "What seems to us a sunset is a sunrise in another land." We rejoice for you, Mary!

Scott Moore

April 6, 2020

I am a friend of Mary's from church. I always loved coming into the chapel and seeing her there with a big smile on her face. She was always happy to see my and always brightened my day. She always gave me a hug and told me how much she loved me. She truly is a ray sunshine. I never saw her down or upset - she was always happy and hugging everyone. I went to see her in the hospital after she had lost her legs and she was still just a bright and happy as ever - even entertaining the nurses and making everyone smile. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I look forward to seeing her again and getting to hug her once more.

Sherrie Curry

April 5, 2020

Lord Jesus I am going to miss this beautiful woman loved her dearly she was also a joy to the Watkins children Rest In Peace Mary God wanted you to be happy.Abd not suffer anymore.

Iden Campbell McCollum

April 5, 2020

I will miss you until the day I see your beautiful face again. I love you up to the sky.

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