Mary Tichenor Metzinger
1964 - 2010
Mary Tichenor Metzinger
1964 - 2010
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Mary Metzinger Obituary
Mary was born in Houston Texas on July 15, 1964. Mary attended Saint Michael's school and Saint Agnes Academy. She was a member of Phi Mu sorority and graduated with a BBA from Southern Methodist University and later earned a MBA from The University of Saint Thomas. She was active in the Junior League of North Harris County. She worked as a financial analyst for several firms in Dallas and Houston including her family's company, Texas United, before assuming her most important role as full-time Mother. She moved to North Carolina in 2003 and became an active member of Saint Michael the Archangel Church and School in Cary, NC. She served as a faith formation instructor for second grade and enjoyed singing in the choir. She was always willing to help with activities at the school.
Mary enjoyed the outdoors whether it was a quick walk in a local park or a half-day hike in the Canadian Rockies with a two-year old in a child backpack. She also enjoyed sailing, biking, tennis, skiing, rafting, gardening and travel. There was always room for at least one dog in her home and the shelter was the best place to find one.
Mary is survived by her husband of 18 years, John Metzinger of Cary, NC; daughters, Amy and Rachel Metzinger; parents, Camille Webre Tichenor and James Hawley Tichenor of Houston; sisters, Elizabeth Greening and husband, Robert of Dallas and Iris Allen and husband, Nathan of Houston; nephews and nieces: William Greening, Camille Greening, Charles Allen and Graham Allen; mother-in-law, Carol J. Metzinger; father-in-law, William J. Metzinger; and many other extended family members.
The family would like to thank Dr. Singh and the entire staff of the Cancer Center of NC for the truly compassionate care she received during her illness. The family would also like to thank the many friends who were at Mary's side during her long fight.
Friends are invited to a visitation with the family at the Hunters Creek Chapel at Earthman Funeral Directors, 8303 Katy Freeway, Houston, TX 77024, on Wednesday, April 7, 2010 from 6:00 pm until 8:00 pm with a Rosary being recited at 7:00 pm. A Mass of Christian burial will be Celebrated 10:00 AM on Thursday, April 8, 2010 at St. Michael Catholic Church, 1801 Sage Road, Houston, TX 77056. Interment to follow at Glenwood Cemetery. A memorial service will take place in Cary on Monday April 12th at Saint Michael the Archangel Catholic Church. In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial contribution to the Saint Michael School Building Fund at 804 High House Road, Cary, NC 27513 in honor of Mary T. Metzinger.
We invite you to share your thoughts and fond memories with our family at www.earthmanhunterscreek.com .
Arrangements under the direction of Earthman Funeral Directors, Houston, TX.
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Alisa Williams
July 1, 2010
John, Amy, and Rachel,
I have so many fond memories of Mary from when we worked at First City, played HTA tennis, and the many, many PF Chang's birthday dinners. I so enjoyed spending time with her.
You were her life and she was so proud of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Alexandra Arriaga
April 19, 2010
Mary made a wonderful impression on me many years ago when we met at the wedding for Rebecca and Will McLaughlin. Her warmth, generous spirit, deep loyalty to friends and family were clear immediately. I am deeply sorry for your loss and hope you feel her presence always as a guardian angel throughout your life.
Sr. Jane Meyer
April 15, 2010
Dear John, Amy and Rachel,
I was shocked when I received the word of Mary's death. I did not realize she was sick. I was out of town and unable to attend the services. Mary was a senior my first year at St. Agnes. She was a beautiful young woman, full of life and love. Mary always had a smile for everyone and made everyone feel welcomed and special. It is never easy to lose one we love, but we know that she will continue to live in the many lives she touched and nourished -- they are legion! You have my deepest sympathy, love and prayers. Her memory will live in the hearts of all of us.
The St. Agnes Community will remember Mary at a special service for our alumnae on All Saints Day, November 1. Many of the teachers that taught Mary are still at St. Agnes and remember her fondly. The St. Agnes community has been praying for all of you. May God give you strength and courage during this difficult time.
God bless you.
Love,
Sister Jane
Liz Fenton
April 12, 2010
Mary was a beautiful person inside and out. She will be missed by everyone who was fortunate enough to know her. I admire her courageous battle with cancer. I just wish I had known so I could have helped her with anything that you or your family needed. She always gave so much of herself to everything that she did.
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Becky Smith
April 12, 2010
To all of Mary's Family,
I am so very sorry to hear about Mary's passing. I went to SMU with Mary, and was in the same class (and freshman dorm) with her. I remember her as having been a very sweet and caring person. Although we had not been close, it is still shocking and sad to hear about her untimely passing.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. I wish you peace and remembrance of all the wonderful moments you shared. Her spirit will live on in the lives you live.
Kind regards,
Becky Smith
Mary Ann Evetts
April 10, 2010
I want to let you know how truly sorry I am about Mary. She always had such a sweet and gentle spirit whenever I was around her in years past. As a parent, I cannot imagine my child passing on before I do. Yet, I know one day we will be reunited in our real home with our Creator and loved ones. May God bring you comfort and peace in this time of deep sorrow.
April 9, 2010
We are so very sorry for your loss. Mary was such a beautiful and talented person! We pray that God's loving presence will bring you all comfort and peace during this difficult time. Sending all our love and prayers...
Terri and Chester Plauche, Dallas, Texas
John and Cathy Pienta
April 9, 2010
John, we were so very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that we are praying for you and your family.
Kate, Ralph, Sarah & Anne Mazza
April 8, 2010
John, Amy and Rachel: You know what a special place we have for Mary. Words can not express the loss we feel. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to be a part of your lives. We are here for you. In our thoughts and prayers...
Diane Pontello Boyd
April 8, 2010
Camille and Jim,
I was so very sorry to learn of the death of your beautiful daughter, Mary. I offer my most heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
Mary and Chris Maher Family
April 8, 2010
Amy, Rachel, John, Tichenor and Metzinger Families, it has been a blessing and delight to know Mary and have shared some everyday conversations and activities with her.
Richard Hendee
April 8, 2010
I knew Mary from her days that she worked for me at First City National Bank
in Houston. She was so dedicated to her work and she took pride in whatever
she did and rightfullyso because she did erverything so very well. I remember the day she told me that was leaving First City, I was so happy for her and new her road ahead, but I was also so very sad to see such a great person leave.
I am so very sorry for the loss of such a great person. But also so very thankful that I had a chance to know Mary and be able to work with her.I know her family and friends will miss her so much. My condolences to you all.
Richard Hendee
Ellen Dalbo
April 8, 2010
John, Amy and Rachel,
Our hearts ache for your family and for our whole community. We know that Mary sits in a special place in Heaven with God, whom she had such incredible faith in. She was, and will always be, a role model of strength and faith for each one of us. We are here for you when you need us.
Ellen and Mike Dalbo and family
Patti Pellerin Parise
April 8, 2010
I went to St. Agnes w/ Mary and loved her as a great friend and classmate. She was always so full of life and funny and cute and a great friend and will be truely missed. She was a great tennis player and was an inspiration to others in the way she handled herself. She is in a better place now and we will always have great memories of her. Miss you Mary'. May your family heal and continue your great legacy.
Elias Cortina
April 7, 2010
John,
I am so sorry for your loss. May you and your girls continue strongly. Let me know if we can do anything for you up in the Woodlands 281-367-9847
warm wishes,
Elias Cortina
(from papoose days)
Kathy Sostaric
April 7, 2010
Hey Mary Mary!
We had a lot of fun times during the past 28 years. Even though there will not be another 28, the past 28 years will always be in my memories and my heart.
Good Bye, My Friend.
Christina Stilley
April 7, 2010
I had the privilage of working with Mary at Texas United. I remember her with that beautiful smile and always willing to help in any situation. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and may God comfort you during your time of grief.
Patricia Menegaz-Teweleit
April 7, 2010
I had the pleasure of spending my early years with Mary. I went to St, Michaels and St Agnes with her. She was always calm and reserved and always bested me on the tennis court at St. Agnes. All my comfort and love to the family, Patsy Menegaz- Teweleit
Olivia Taylor
April 7, 2010
If woman ever yet did well;
If woman ever did excell;
If woman husband e're adored;
If woman ever loved the Lord
If ever Faith and Hope and Love
In human flesh did live and move;
If all the Graces e're did meet--
In her, in Mary Tichenor Metzinger
they were complete.
Ruby Januhowski
April 7, 2010
I met Mary when I worked at Texas United and she was such a sweet person! We had a baby shower for her at the office and I was so thrilled to have brought the cake that a friend of mine made, it was decorated like a patch work baby blanket and Mary loved it!
I was so sad to hear of her passing, try to find comfort in knowing she is with our Heavenly Father and will be our Guardian Angel now.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Ruby Januhowski
Sharon Anderson
April 7, 2010
Mary was so dearly loved by her family and friends. My deepest sympathy goes out to her loved ones.
Tracy Santoro
April 7, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with your family, I hope you will be comforted by wonderful memories of happier times. Mary and I joined Junior League together. She was such a sweet, hard working and passionate member of our community and will be forever missed.
Alka and Derek Schroder
April 7, 2010
I was so impressed by Mary's strength and optimism over the last few years. We will miss her so much.
In deepest sympathy -
April 6, 2010
My condolences to Mary's family. I worked with Mary at First City Bank. She was a terrific lady and I know she will be missed.
Brian Walker
April 6, 2010
John,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If there is anything I can do for you please call me anytime 713-398-1580.
Susan Sanford
April 6, 2010
I am so very sad for your loss.
April 6, 2010
Mary's family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Mary at JLNHC several years ago. She was a treasure and will be missed by all who knew her.
Martha Cottingham
Ellen Prelle
April 6, 2010
MY condolences and sympathy are with your family as you shoulder the grief of Mary's death. May your burden be lightened as you remember her and embrace the memories of her life.
April 6, 2010
May all of you be comforted by the many warm thoughts and prayers for Mary... I had the pleasure of serving our community with her in Junior League.
Sincerely, Vicki Downing (Houston, TX)
April 6, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Mary was the first person I met when I started to work at Texas United.
I was early and she let me in. She was so warm and friendly and made
me feel at home. She made me feel like I had made the right decision.
Now 12 years later I know it was.....
God bless you all
Becky Brown
April 6, 2010
John, I may be living in Chicago now, but Carla Homer told me about Mary's passing. My prayers are with you and the girls, especially during this difficult time.
amy yardis
April 6, 2010
I'm sorry for your loss. If you need anything -anything at all . If I can deliver a meal to you or even clean your house this weekend. Please contact me ---Amy Yardis from St. Mike's choir 919-454-5952
Mary Clare (Kerbow) Spear
April 6, 2010
My deepest sympathy for the Tichenor and Metzinger families.
I will always remember her sweet smile, long blonde hair and bright blue eyes from SAA days. She was always such a sweetie.
Linda Bush
April 6, 2010
...to keep forever sacred the memory of those we have loved and lost... we will keep this Phi Mu sister and her family in our prayers.
Gary and Anne Marie Golden
April 6, 2010
We are very sorry for your loss and extend our deepest sympathy to all of Mary's family. She will be so missed.
We will keep you in our prayers.
Marjorie & Joe Pribyl
April 6, 2010
Mary touched the lives of so many of us. Just looking at the picture of her here shows just how beautiful she was. Her love for her family and her faith in God were such a part of who she was. A smile from her and all was right. Joe and I were truly honored to have known her. Our prayers are with her husband John and their two beautiful daughters.
April 6, 2010
I had the pleasure of working with Mary here at the office and I did get to go hiking with her when we went to Carlsbad one year. She was so fun and always soft spoken and caring. I missed her when she left the office to move out of town. The last time we spoke she was very optimistic. Im sorry we have lost such a very special person. Please know she will truly be missed by so many people.
With Deepest Sympathy
Beverly Raney
Libby Seagroves
April 6, 2010
John, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. It is a very difficult to see someone you love go through such a tough battle. Be strong and may God be with you and your family.
Libby Seagroves
Susan Poe
April 6, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
April 6, 2010
Deepest sympathy and condolences to the Metzinger family from
Barbara, Isabel, and Peter Manson of Dhahran, Saudi Arabia.
Lynn Robinson
April 6, 2010
My condolences and heartfelt sympathy to Mary's family. We were classmates at SAA and had recently reconnected on Facebook. She was a breath of fresh air.
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