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Mary Staples
April 20, 2021
Mary Staples of Old Greenwich, Connecticut and Jesup, Iowa passed away peacefully surrounded by her family from heart failure on April 20 after a long fight for 3 years. She leaves behind her husband David Webber, her daughters Tracy Neeson and Kimberly Purcell Wright, her stepson Alan Webber, brother Gerald Shatzer and seven grandchildren.
Mary was born to Orval and Lucille Shatzer and grew up in Jesup, Iowa. She joined IBM in Cedar Rapids in 1961 and in 1964, she became one of ten women in the US responsible for teaching the use of the first word processors to clients. In 1969, she was moved to IBM Data Processing in White Plains and settled in Greenwich.
She and David founded a company in 1973 that became the premier provider of computer services to the business side of magazines. The company grew to over 100 employees and counted over 600 magazines as clients in nine countries. The 3M Corporation acquired the company in 1983 and Mary became the first woman to reach the rank of General Manager in 3M history.
When she retired from 3M, she put her salesmanship skills to work focusing on local non-profit fundraising. In 1987, she became President of the Board of the Bruce Museum and within two years raised $7 million to build the Museum structure that exists today. Over the years she raised so many millions of dollars for scholarships to the Norwalk Community College that the college conferred on her an Honorary degree.
Mary donated a large stained-glass window to the Jesup Lutheran Church in memory of her parents. The children depicted in the window are of her beloved grandchildren.
Growing up on the family farm in Iowa, Mary always had a love of animals, helping any in need when she could, but her deep love over the years were her Cavalier King Charles Spaniels who were always with her.
Services will be private.
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Nancy McMartin Higgins
April 30, 2021
Mary was such a special person in my life. I will miss her so much as children we spent many hours and days together. Our friendship continued through years. She was a very smart lady and a very caring.
David, Tracy and John and Kim I send my love and sympathy.
Sue LeQuatte
April 28, 2021
I apparently can´t type my own name - Sue LeQuatte is correct way. Prayers for you.
Sue LwQuattw
April 28, 2021
My sincere sympathy to the family. I just recently learned of your family while doing research on my family. My maiden name was Lown and Eliza was my great aunt.
I would love to visit with one of you about the history we share, sometime in the future. My phone number is 319-939-7260, [email protected]
Debra Putnam
April 28, 2021
I am so sorry to hear of Mary's passing. I enjoyed watching Riley and Danny for her when she was in Jesup. My heart felt sympathy is with the family.
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Carol Macleod
April 27, 2021
David, my sincere condolences to all of you. Mary was indomitable with a zest for life and a commitment to making everything she touched that much better. My memories go back to 1974 and our time together both in Stamford and New York, The Drake, as I recall, when she took the magazine industry by storm. I know she will be missed, but long remembered by so many.
Carol Macleod
charlene nichols
April 26, 2021
so sorry to hear about Mary she always sad she would die 6 months after Harold Brace so sorry she did all my cousins are leaving us here on earth alone
Peter Tesei
April 25, 2021
Dear David & Family,
I am so very sorry to learn of Mary’s passing. She was vivacious and full of laughter and enthusiasm every time I was with her. She put her heart and soul into each endeavor she led. Greenwich is truly a better place because of Mary’s engagement. God Bless you Mary and thank you for your wise counsel and friendship during my 12 year tenure as Greenwich First Selectman.
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