Mary Frances Connor Vanderploeg

1932 - 2019

Mary Frances Connor Vanderploeg obituary, 1932-2019, Norfolk, VA

Mary Frances Connor Vanderploeg

1932 - 2019

BORN

1932

DIED

2019

Mary Vanderploeg Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 27, 2019.
Mary Frances Connor Vanderploeg, loving mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully on November 25, 2019, in Norfolk with family by her side.

Born on October 16, 1932, in Washington, D.C., Mary was the eldest of four children to Thomas Joseph and Anne Laura Zevely Connor.

She married John Weba Vanderploeg, Jr. in 1952 at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church in Norfolk and they were together 56 years before his death. They had 7 children, 13 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren, with the 11th expected in the spring.

Mary was raised in a devout Catholic family. As the daughter of an FBI agent, the family moved to numerous cities to accommodate her father's profession. She spent her early years in Wash D.C., Philadelphia, PA and Independence, KS, eventually moving to Norfolk. She attended Holy Trinity Catholic School and was part of the last graduating high school class in 1950. She was devoted to her classmates and played an instrumental role in keeping their group active with reunions and luncheons.

Mary worked outside the home at the Norfolk Naval Base, Norfolk Academy school and Norfolk International Airport. But her passion was children. Even with 7 of her own, she cared for more than 30 children over a 40-year span. They affectionately called her "Memaw."

In 1982, she acquired the name "Omi" after her first grandchild was born in Germany. From that point on, most people knew her by that name.

Mary later volunteered at Sentara Village Nursing Center in Chesapeake, where her mother was a resident. Mary never missed a day going to the facility to be with her mom and to help other residents. Because of her dedication, she was named Sentara's Top National Volunteer in 1994.

Mary was active with the Ladies' Auxiliary at the Norfolk's Elks Lodge. She also represented Virginia in the 1996 Granny Smith "World's Greatest Grandma" competition in Wenatchee, WA., where she was among 16 finalists.

Mary was preceded in death by her infant son, Tommy Joseph, in 1957, her parents, Thomas and Anne, her loving husband, John, and brother, Thomas Patrick Connor (Tommy) and his wife, Joke of Florida.

She is survived by her sister Catherine Velma Flatley (Cass) of Walnut Creek, CA and her brother Joseph Michael Connor (Mike) and his wife Hilda of Culpeper, VA and her seven children: Terry Anne Perkins of Chesapeake; Susan Kate Vanderploeg of Springfield, VA.; Laura Leigh Devey of Port St. Lucie, FL (Bill); Ellen Kay Minium of Norfolk (Harry); John Patrick Vanderploeg of Norfolk (Heather); Mary Eileen Burch of Virginia Beach; and James Edward Vanderploeg of Chesapeake, who were all with her in her last few days of life.

Her 13 grandchildren are Jason Brinker, Eric Brinker, Kevin Brinker, Ryan Arnold, Art DeLaura, Katie Perkins, Robert Yockey, Megan Arnold, Amy DeLaura, Daniel Yockey, Brittany Burch, Alexa Vanderploeg and Hanna Vanderploeg.

A Funeral Mass will be held Saturday, Nov. 30, at 11 a.m. at Holy Trinity Catholic Church, Norfolk. A celebration of life will be held on Friday from 7 to 9 p.m. at Hollomon-Brown Funeral Home, 8464 Tidewater Drive, Norfolk. A private graveside service will be held at a later date at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk.

The family wishes to express their sincere thanks to the staff at Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Virginia Beach for their compassionate care and kindness to our mother. Memorial donations may be made to the Alzheimer's Association. Condolences may be offered to the family at:

www.hollomon-brown.com

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Harry

June 1, 2023

Still miss you, Omi, even after all this time.

Susie Yohe Garrett

November 29, 2019

To the Vanderploeg family, I am so sorry for your loss. She was such a sweet person. You are all in my prayers.

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Heather Parker

November 27, 2019

My deepest condolences to your family. I always remember Mary with a smile on her face. She has been a wonderful grandma to Hanna. I will be forever grateful for the relationship they had. You guys are in our thoughts and prayers.

November 27, 2019

My condolences to the family . May you find comfort in your treasured memories and Gods promise to return our loved ones who passed away in death . 1st Thessalonians 4 : 13 & 14 .

Paula Perdue

November 27, 2019

What a beautiful lady Mary was. We knew her and John from Ocean View Beach Club and spent several years enjoying their company. Sending our sincerest condolences to the family. John and Paula Perdue

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