Matthew Steven Enfield

my prayers and thoughts are with your family at this time.

Dear Steve and Family,

Please know that we have just learned of your deep loss; to which, we send our heart felt condolences.

People say that time heals; however, since the loss of my son, Lisa's step-son, Ryan in June of 2008 at the age of 20, what we've learned is that time allows reflection, moments we will forever cherish not to release, and a constant movement forward by which we learn to live differently, holding near those who remain with us while we yearn for the one we lost.

Our wish for you is that each day grants you the freedom and humility to feel and experience the moment that you find yourself in without any apologies, excuses, or guilt while leaning on those who care so deeply for you.

Steve, I remember a lot of good times refereeing on the field with you; and my wife, Lisa not only remembers refereeing with Matthew but recalls his gentleness and patience when they referee'd a few younger matches together at NSC. She also happens to be a 1986 MCCS graduate; and, as an alumni, she assures me that there is no doubt the circle of prayer encompassing you, your family and Matthew within that loving network that she equates is like having a second family! Lisa says you most likely knows this but hopes you feel this at such a devastating time and that it may bring just a mere glimmer of comfort to know how compassionate the school/church is toward their own.

Please know that I am a stone's throw away Steve anytime you need to reach out to someone who can empathize with unexpectedly having laid to rest their own son and I'll be there, night or day...630.945.3588 or [email protected].

Again, our sympathies and know that we are keeping all of your family in our prayers for God's hand to be on each and everyone of your hearts as we empathize your loss.

Our Deepest Compassion and Sincerity,

Dear Steve and Donna,
When I heard about Matt's sudden passing I was immediately reminded of our 11 year old daughter's sudden passing just 3 years ago and thinking about the painful journey it is to travel the loss of a child. To survive this journey I want to encourage you to maintain your relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ by making sure you attend church each Sunday. (2) Keep a journal and write down all the thoughts ( good and bad) as a way to get those emotional pains out of your head where you can see it on paper. In time you will actually see God's Miricles taking place in your life. (3) Remember, that all three of you will grieve differently and that is OK. (4) Tell yourself that is OK to seek out Professional grief counseling and that you simply cannot do it alone. Remember, that God did not take Matt and that He had a life for him that was full and complete. Remember also that Matt is now in the presence of Jesus and that because of our faith in Jesus Christ we will see him again. In time the emotional pain will get better. Continue to be involved in weekly Church services because you will never know who God might send your way to encourage you. Let the Lord Jesus be your Master Comforter to aching hearts.Any time you want to talk just give me or my wife Linda a call. We can talk on the phone or at a local coffee. shop. Lastly, remember the many blessings that have come your way such as the day your son, Matt, was born.

I am so sorry to hear about Matt. He was an awesome team mate and person all together. My thoughts are with your family. He will be missed.

Dear Donna, Michael and Steve, our heartfelt condolences to you in the loss of your son and brother. We only heard today, and are saddened, and sending a ((hug)) your way. No parent should lose a child so soon, and I just want to say that our prayers are with you all, that you find some comfort in knowing how much we care about you. May God Bless and Keep you, and walk with you through this very difficult time.

Dear Steve and Donna,

I was the secretary at Salem Baptist when you were newly weds just starting out together. I was so sorry to learn that your son had passed away. It sounds like Steven was a fine young man. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

In Christ's love,
Grace Norton

Donna and Michael -

Our prayers are with you. Stay strong as this is what God wants. Keep your faith and remember that this is when God is carring you along the path of life. I am here when you need.

Steve, Donna, & Michael,

Our hearts ache for you, our prayers are with you. Matt was such a wonderful young man!

Luanne Rynders

My thoughts are with you and your family. I am sorry for your loss and know God heals all pain.

I am so sorry for your family's loss. I worked with Matt in Fargo. He was fun to tease with and work with, and he is deeply missed by our staff. Praying for peace and comfort for you in this difficult time.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss! I really enjoyed working with Matt on the soccer field!!!

Dear Steve and Donna,
Donna you and I worked together in the nursery at Salem Baptist, when Christopher was a baby. Christopher was such a darling baby. You may remember that I said he reminded me of my sisters' boy, when he was a baby.
I'm so sorry to see that you have lost two of your sons. Mathew must have been a fine young man.
Please express my sympathy to Jim and Dorthy also.
We are praying for you and your family.
Roger and Gwen Nawrocki

We can only add our prayers and thoughts to the others. We are thinking of you and wish you strength.

Donna & family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Please don't hesitate to reach out if there is anything we can do to further support you.
Jill Gratrix & family, Monticello, MN

Donna, Michael and Steven,

We are so sorry for your loss. Donna, we've known you to be an incredibly devoted mom, and pray that those memories, friends and family will see you through this very tough time.

There are so many expressing care and concern for all of your family. Matt was a great ref, a hard worker and a joy to work with. On behalf of the North Metro Soccer Association, we are thankful for all of your family.
Barb Anderson
Oak Grove

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Sending our love and prayers! The Kloeckner's

Our thoughts and prayers are extended to the entire Enfield family. Matt was a wonderful young man to get to know and a great example and teacher to many a young referee. Always a smile and a story or two. He will be missed by all of us.

I enjoyed working with Matt and watching him grow through his 3 years on Mock Trial. He was dedicated and a hard worker and really became a leader and a fine young man. I am greiving and praying for those closest to him. He will be greatly missed.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you get through this difficult time.

Lori and family,

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I hurt for the loss you are feeling. I know how incredibly close Lori was to Mathew, and it deeply saddens me to imagine how painful this must be. I know that no words can bring comfort at this time. But, please know that your family and friends are here, ready to support in any way we can.

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May all the wonderful memories last forever in your heart. All my love. Julie Ann Swokowski

Donna, Michael, & Family,

May God Be With You
in your sorrow,
Brighten every new tomorrow,
Free your heart
of grief and care,
and leave just treasured
memories there.

It's difficult to express my sympathy,
for it's always too soon for our youth.

Sending our Love,
Joy, Shayne, and Nate

Lori and family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. Find strength from each other.

Steve,

Our prayers are with you.

Our deepest condolences at such a difficult time to all of Matthew's family and friends.

Mathew become part of are family the first we met him. He loved my niece with all his heart. We know he is in heaven with the angels. Also so let us bless his family and friends on earth.

Steve and family... The COFFEE group at your work are praying for you and your family in this time of loss. May God give you the peace that passes all understanding. We are all sad with you in this time of great loss.

Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of Matthew's family and friends.

Dennis and RaeLynn LeMay

We are deeply saddened to learn the news of Matt's passing. May you find strength in the Lord at this extremely difficult time.

Lori, Steve and Michael, My prayers go out to the entire Enfield family during this difficult time. Matt was a bright light in your lives, keep his light burning with the wonderful memories you have of him and with him. Our love and prayers go out to all of you.

Dear Enfield Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, my prayer is that you will find peace and comfort in His strength.

http://matt.meadowcreektech.com/

I found this when I was searching for information about him. Just wanted to make sure that you knew that he made this. I'll be praying for you all.

http://matt.meadowcreektech.com/

Matt was truly one of the finest young men I have ever met. It was just always a pleasure to be in his presence. Matt was hard working, intelligent, serious, kind - and had a unique sense of wit that just put you at ease.

May God's comfort and love sustain you and your family Steve during this time of grieving and loss.

My prayers and condolences to your entire family. May Matthew rest in the eternal glory of God.

Our thoughts and prayers are with Donna, Michael and the family. Hold close the cherished memories of Matthew, and know that now he is walking with God.

Matt has aways had a soft spot in my heart as I watched him over the years on the pitch. The news was shocking. My thoughts and prayers are with all you.

Mathew you are deeply missed. You were a hug part of our family and will be in my heart always.

Donna,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family for such a tragic loss. May your faith give you some peace, and in time may your memories of Matthew be a comfort.

I am shocked and saddened by Matt's passing. We are praying for
Steve and the rest of the family in this most trying time.