Matthew Steven Enfield
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amber olson
April 13, 2010
my prayers and thoughts are with your family at this time.
Mark and Lisa Bissonette
April 9, 2010
Dear Steve and Family,
Please know that we have just learned of your deep loss; to which, we send our heart felt condolences.
People say that time heals; however, since the loss of my son, Lisa's step-son, Ryan in June of 2008 at the age of 20, what we've learned is that time allows reflection, moments we will forever cherish not to release, and a constant movement forward by which we learn to live differently, holding near those who remain with us while we yearn for the one we lost.
Our wish for you is that each day grants you the freedom and humility to feel and experience the moment that you find yourself in without any apologies, excuses, or guilt while leaning on those who care so deeply for you.
Steve, I remember a lot of good times refereeing on the field with you; and my wife, Lisa not only remembers refereeing with Matthew but recalls his gentleness and patience when they referee'd a few younger matches together at NSC. She also happens to be a 1986 MCCS graduate; and, as an alumni, she assures me that there is no doubt the circle of prayer encompassing you, your family and Matthew within that loving network that she equates is like having a second family! Lisa says you most likely knows this but hopes you feel this at such a devastating time and that it may bring just a mere glimmer of comfort to know how compassionate the school/church is toward their own.
Please know that I am a stone's throw away Steve anytime you need to reach out to someone who can empathize with unexpectedly having laid to rest their own son and I'll be there, night or day...630.945.3588 or [email protected].
Again, our sympathies and know that we are keeping all of your family in our prayers for God's hand to be on each and everyone of your hearts as we empathize your loss.
Our Deepest Compassion and Sincerity,
Todd Gabrielson
April 9, 2010
Dear Steve and Donna,
When I heard about Matt's sudden passing I was immediately reminded of our 11 year old daughter's sudden passing just 3 years ago and thinking about the painful journey it is to travel the loss of a child. To survive this journey I want to encourage you to maintain your relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ by making sure you attend church each Sunday. (2) Keep a journal and write down all the thoughts ( good and bad) as a way to get those emotional pains out of your head where you can see it on paper. In time you will actually see God's Miricles taking place in your life. (3) Remember, that all three of you will grieve differently and that is OK. (4) Tell yourself that is OK to seek out Professional grief counseling and that you simply cannot do it alone. Remember, that God did not take Matt and that He had a life for him that was full and complete. Remember also that Matt is now in the presence of Jesus and that because of our faith in Jesus Christ we will see him again. In time the emotional pain will get better. Continue to be involved in weekly Church services because you will never know who God might send your way to encourage you. Let the Lord Jesus be your Master Comforter to aching hearts.Any time you want to talk just give me or my wife Linda a call. We can talk on the phone or at a local coffee. shop. Lastly, remember the many blessings that have come your way such as the day your son, Matt, was born.
Carl Olson
April 9, 2010
I am so sorry to hear about Matt. He was an awesome team mate and person all together. My thoughts are with your family. He will be missed.
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Randy and Julie Rumreich
April 8, 2010
Dear Donna, Michael and Steve, our heartfelt condolences to you in the loss of your son and brother. We only heard today, and are saddened, and sending a ((hug)) your way. No parent should lose a child so soon, and I just want to say that our prayers are with you all, that you find some comfort in knowing how much we care about you. May God Bless and Keep you, and walk with you through this very difficult time.
April 8, 2010
Dear Steve and Donna,
I was the secretary at Salem Baptist when you were newly weds just starting out together. I was so sorry to learn that your son had passed away. It sounds like Steven was a fine young man. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
In Christ's love,
Grace Norton
Pam Emison
April 8, 2010
Donna and Michael -
Our prayers are with you. Stay strong as this is what God wants. Keep your faith and remember that this is when God is carring you along the path of life. I am here when you need.
Luanne Rynders
April 8, 2010
Steve, Donna, & Michael,
Our hearts ache for you, our prayers are with you. Matt was such a wonderful young man!
Luanne Rynders
Lori Hamblin/Longoria
April 8, 2010
My thoughts are with you and your family. I am sorry for your loss and know God heals all pain.
Jana Biel
April 7, 2010
I am so sorry for your family's loss. I worked with Matt in Fargo. He was fun to tease with and work with, and he is deeply missed by our staff. Praying for peace and comfort for you in this difficult time.
Viva Anderson
April 7, 2010
I am so sorry to hear of your loss! I really enjoyed working with Matt on the soccer field!!!
April 7, 2010
Dear Steve and Donna,
Donna you and I worked together in the nursery at Salem Baptist, when Christopher was a baby. Christopher was such a darling baby. You may remember that I said he reminded me of my sisters' boy, when he was a baby.
I'm so sorry to see that you have lost two of your sons. Mathew must have been a fine young man.
Please express my sympathy to Jim and Dorthy also.
We are praying for you and your family.
Roger and Gwen Nawrocki
Ron, Holly, and Forrest
April 7, 2010
We can only add our prayers and thoughts to the others. We are thinking of you and wish you strength.
April 7, 2010
Donna & family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Please don't hesitate to reach out if there is anything we can do to further support you.
Jill Gratrix & family, Monticello, MN
Kim and John Sullivan
April 7, 2010
Donna, Michael and Steven,
We are so sorry for your loss. Donna, we've known you to be an incredibly devoted mom, and pray that those memories, friends and family will see you through this very tough time.
April 7, 2010
There are so many expressing care and concern for all of your family. Matt was a great ref, a hard worker and a joy to work with. On behalf of the North Metro Soccer Association, we are thankful for all of your family.
Barb Anderson
Oak Grove
Lorie & Ray Duffy
April 7, 2010
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Martina Lietzau
April 7, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Sharon Myers
April 7, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
April 6, 2010
Sending our love and prayers! The Kloeckner's
Irv Hines
April 6, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are extended to the entire Enfield family. Matt was a wonderful young man to get to know and a great example and teacher to many a young referee. Always a smile and a story or two. He will be missed by all of us.
Erin Hosking
April 6, 2010
I enjoyed working with Matt and watching him grow through his 3 years on Mock Trial. He was dedicated and a hard worker and really became a leader and a fine young man. I am greiving and praying for those closest to him. He will be greatly missed.
Jessica Weber
April 6, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you get through this difficult time.
Connor misses you. I couldn't wait until you became my cousin.
April 6, 2010
Connor misses you. I couldn't wait to be your cousin!
April 6, 2010
Cindy Ginn
April 6, 2010
Lori and family,
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I hurt for the loss you are feeling. I know how incredibly close Lori was to Mathew, and it deeply saddens me to imagine how painful this must be. I know that no words can bring comfort at this time. But, please know that your family and friends are here, ready to support in any way we can.
Julie Ann Swokowski
April 6, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May all the wonderful memories last forever in your heart. All my love. Julie Ann Swokowski
April 6, 2010
Donna, Michael, & Family,
May God Be With You
in your sorrow,
Brighten every new tomorrow,
Free your heart
of grief and care,
and leave just treasured
memories there.
It's difficult to express my sympathy,
for it's always too soon for our youth.
Sending our Love,
Joy, Shayne, and Nate
Joyce & Doug Gniot
April 6, 2010
Lori and family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. Find strength from each other.
Bridget & Mike Halloran
April 6, 2010
Steve,
Our prayers are with you.
Matthew & Tiffany Valerio
April 6, 2010
Our deepest condolences at such a difficult time to all of Matthew's family and friends.
vicky and paul bird
April 6, 2010
Mathew become part of are family the first we met him. He loved my niece with all his heart. We know he is in heaven with the angels. Also so let us bless his family and friends on earth.
Ross Rosendahl
April 6, 2010
Steve and family... The COFFEE group at your work are praying for you and your family in this time of loss. May God give you the peace that passes all understanding. We are all sad with you in this time of great loss.
Dennis LeMay
April 6, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of Matthew's family and friends.
Dennis and RaeLynn LeMay
Friends at Village Bank
April 6, 2010
We are deeply saddened to learn the news of Matt's passing. May you find strength in the Lord at this extremely difficult time.
RaeLynn and Dennis LeMay
April 6, 2010
Lori, Steve and Michael, My prayers go out to the entire Enfield family during this difficult time. Matt was a bright light in your lives, keep his light burning with the wonderful memories you have of him and with him. Our love and prayers go out to all of you.
Meredith Christian
April 6, 2010
Dear Enfield Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, my prayer is that you will find peace and comfort in His strength.
April 6, 2010
http://matt.meadowcreektech.com/
April 6, 2010
I found this when I was searching for information about him. Just wanted to make sure that you knew that he made this. I'll be praying for you all.
http://matt.meadowcreektech.com/
John Paisley
April 6, 2010
Matt was truly one of the finest young men I have ever met. It was just always a pleasure to be in his presence. Matt was hard working, intelligent, serious, kind - and had a unique sense of wit that just put you at ease.
Craig Stockel
April 6, 2010
May God's comfort and love sustain you and your family Steve during this time of grieving and loss.
Kenneth Snyder
April 6, 2010
My prayers and condolences to your entire family. May Matthew rest in the eternal glory of God.
Kathy Page
April 6, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with Donna, Michael and the family. Hold close the cherished memories of Matthew, and know that now he is walking with God.
Patrice Larson
April 6, 2010
Matt has aways had a soft spot in my heart as I watched him over the years on the pitch. The news was shocking. My thoughts and prayers are with all you.
Martina Morthberg
April 6, 2010
Mathew you are deeply missed. You were a hug part of our family and will be in my heart always.
Linda Heiple
April 6, 2010
Donna,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family for such a tragic loss. May your faith give you some peace, and in time may your memories of Matthew be a comfort.
Alan McIntosh
April 6, 2010
I am shocked and saddened by Matt's passing. We are praying for
Steve and the rest of the family in this most trying time.
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