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Matthew Wade Kirk
1983 - 2002
Matthew Wade Kirk
1983 - 2002
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BORN
1983
DIED
2002
Matthew Kirk Obituary
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Sherry Ball
June 12, 2023
Hello my dear son.. I’m so sad that you are gone but you must be in the most glorious place .I still miss you
Sherry Ball
May 5, 2021
Happy Birthday my beautiful son.. I love and miss you so much..
Sherry Ball
November 7, 2019
Hello my Son, Another year now since youve been gone. Oh how I miss everything about you. 17 years today on a Thursday evening. Time keeps going by my son. Time that I often wonder who and where you would be today..married, children your job How different life would have been had that terrible accident had happened..but God had other plans for you. I believe your life is full more then I can imagine for sometimes all I feel is my loss. But to be absent in the body is to be present with the Lord. What a amazing adventure and glory you are in now. Now you have Granny, PawPaw, Mawmaw many others with you. I love and miss you all my son. May you be dancing praising and sing with the angels. The Glory of God in the Highest! I be there soon. Watch over us until we see each other again
Brett Lafferty
February 14, 2018
Thinking about you today and remembering all the good times we had as a family. You are always in my thoughts. We all miss you!
Love... Uncle Buck
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Dr. Kelly Kent-Hickman
May 15, 2013
Spot,
I still think of you nearly every day. My daughter was born shortly after your transition. In fact, your wake was the first place she ever went after being released from the hospital. Know that she knows who her Uncle Spot is. I speak of you to her often so that she has an amazing role model. I tell her of the most incredible, heartfelt person I ever met and how she should be like him. She's 10 now and I'm sorry she couldn't meet you here.
Because of you I still believe that some people are supposed to leave because they have learned it all. I hope my friends, family, patients, and acquaintances can say half of the good things that are the truth of you when I pass from here.
I love you more than you'll ever know.
Please know that you are the reason I am who and where I am. You will always be my brother.
PS. I became a doctor like I promised you.
PPS. I wish you could've met my husband Levi. You would love him so.
PPS. Mia is smart and so unique. You would love her.
Rene' McSwain
November 7, 2011
Dear Sherry, I was remembering something that you experienced last year when I heard a song. The phrase "there will come a day" had been popping in your mind. After you prayed one morning..you went to You Tube and found a song you had never heard. "There will come a day". Please remember that God was right beside you and talking to you personally that day. He is talking to you today through friends, family and other ways. He is holding you up this second..every minute..every day! Matthew is smiling at you and wants you to be happy until he WILL see you again!!! God Bless you my dear friend who was sent to me by God. I love you. Rene'
Ericka atkins
November 7, 2011
You and my Stepho take care of eachother up there.
Sherry Mazzella-Ball
November 7, 2011
Loving and missing you today and always..till I see you again
Sherry Mazzella-Ball
November 7, 2011
I will Remember..
I will remember..The day you were born,that first sound of your cry and the first time I held you so tight,your first feeding I gave you and your little fingers holding mine tight..
Oh that feeling of love for you that I felt inside I just can't describe.. It maded both me and your Father weep with joy that you were my Son a Gift from God and the Love for you inside my heart is always there even when I cry.
I will remember your Birthdays that we all celebrated and then you had to share with your sister five years later were still special times..Those special Christmas with family and the bows on you head..The costumes that we made you both wore..The camouflage you wore for about two years..the toothless grins and your Butterfly eyes..the food the you loved and the doritos you would hide..the first day of school and the sleepless nights..Your hopes and your dreams for your life that we shared and you promising to take care of me someday when I grew old was always so comforting and knowing you meant it warmed my heart..Your bedtime prays we use to pray together and all the thataccomplishment you made..The Esster you play boy Jesus and WWJD braclette you wore..that time that you shared Gods Word with the church I was amazed, seeing you baptisted in the waters of Allum Creek and the three geese that took flight when you was raised up in Christ and the time you lead your brother to Christ..
I remember the color of your eyes and the way they sparkled and the way you batted them when you cried..the scent of you and your clothes, watching you sleep and watching you grow..the games that we played the laughter we shared and hardships of life that we lived and always being together with each other was all matter ..I remember the
Love and compassion that you shared.. Your light and you laughter drew everyone in they saw the specialness within that was sincere..
I remember your first date and prom night and the first time you had your heartbreak and how proud of a Mother to see you graduate on that stage and our family dinner at ChiChi's that night..Christmas Eve's at PawPaw and Granny's the next day and seeing you put bows in your hair..Your senior trip in your Dad's Van and the trip back that you sent a cow in flight and the eyebrow you had pierced and the color hair that with that little white stop and the times that we turn it from Blonde to Blue and then back.. Oh that was a site..Oh so many memories that I hide in my heart, even that day when you had me take that personality test, type A like you and we laughed at how much we were alike..that was the day that you left to go to Jesus and I wepted
Oh my precious Son I will remember always till I see you again..I Love You and I know that you remember too..
I'm so proud to have had a Son so special as you..you have always and will always be my Gift from God..Thank You Lord
Your Momma Forever..
Natalie Lindsey
November 7, 2010
Just had you on my mind, as have many others. I saw many posts on facebook about you today. So many people miss your great smile and wonderful personality! You were my science partner in high school and I always remember you with a smile on your face! I truly believe that any one who met you, even for a moment will never forget you! God bless you and your family!
Sherry Mazzella-Ball
November 7, 2010
Matt,There will be a Day when I'll see you face to face with our Lord Jesus by our side what a wonderful Day that will be to see you again,where there will be no more pain and no more sorrow..I miss you so my precious son..I'm so thankful that I had you for 19 precious years but also oh so sad your gone..I Love you with all my heart.My comfort now is in the Lord and Blessed the assurance that you are in Heaven where there is no more pain or sorrow..I Love you Mattew Wade Kirk my beautiful boy..Happy 8th Birthday in heaven today!! I had a dream I saw you dancing and laughing..what a wonderful place you must be in..With Jesus.. Till that wonderful Day Son that I'll see your beautiful smiling face..I will always Love you and miss you...Your Momma!!
Kel Mel
October 14, 2009
Spot,
Still thinking of you and missing you after all of these years!
Love you still,
Kelmel
Melissa Kennedy
September 10, 2007
Hey there, angel,
I've never written on here before. Sorry about that, I love you. ;-) Anyways, I think about you all the time, I miss you, I love you.It feels like it was just yesterday that you left us, and yet it seems like it was a hundred years ago. I can feel you growing with all of us, I can feel your love. You may never have known the wonderful influence you had on me in my life, but you did. Ever since elementary school you had this great positive presence. That can never be replaced, nor would I want it to be. I can't wait to see you, again, one day.
Rachel Atkins
March 23, 2007
hi bubby its your little sissy! i know that its been a long tim since ive talked to you and im sorry, i miss you so much its unreal, i just wish you could have seen me grow up. its almost our birthdays and it saddens me that i dont get to share it with you, even though when we did i complained and made a huge deal about having my own birthday cake. although i dont see you i do know that your with me everyday and you watch over me to make sure im okay. and although i cant touch you or see your smile i have had dreams about you and its like your there just smiling and happy like you always were i miss that even though we fought and you hated when i sang but i know that you would be proud of me for everything that ive been doing and where ive gone. Im sorry for not coming to visit you and im sorry for not talking to you as much as i used to. but you know that i miss you and love you and i hope to have many more dreams of you until i get to see you again and hug you for all the stupid stuff that we fought about and for never getting the chance to have a good relationship with you. I love you big buddy and i miss you soooo much.
your baby sister <333
Sherry Mazzella
December 25, 2006
Merry Christmas Son.I miss you more then words can even say.You'll with me always.
I Love You till we see each other again my heart will ache to see you.
Love your momma
Teresa Lafferty
December 21, 2006
Matt,
I know that you would be a fine young man right now if you were still here. But I know you are busy in heaven. We miss your great smile. It will be wonderful to be all together again some day, but until then, I will keep your memory alive down here and in my heart always.
Aunt Teresa
Courtney Poston
December 7, 2006
Matt,
It's been a while, man. I found this site again because I was just thinking of you today. It is just too much for words how much you are missed. I'm glad that I blessed enough to spend the time with you that I had. You were truly amazing.
Love you, buddy.
Granny Judy Lafferty
November 6, 2006
Shooting Star
Matthew Wade
You are a Shooting Star
November night skies gave it away
Brilliant are your rays
Even to this day
Your Aunt prayed you would stay
Curious as you are
You've already jetted past Mars
Unknown galaxies is your aim
Matt, You Lovely Shooting Star
Comets you ride with such dusty feet
Black Holes eagerly you meet
Vibrant you are - even from afar
My Sweet Shooting Star
You landed on earth
Horrendous the bang
On that fair May Day
Spurring love galore
Short was the stay
Great was the time
Eyes of beauty
With lashes so long
A grin you did give
Lasting through all time
Memories embedded
In the heart it will stay
You where such a charmer
Matthew Wade
God's Greatest Shooting Star
Tenderly I held you
Gently I rocked you
I bathed you with powder
You laughed with delight
What I would give
To once more hold
Those dirty,sweaty, sweet hands
Matthew Wade
Granny's Glorious Shooting Star
Curious with life
Love you did give
Abundance to all
Until heaven did call
Telling us all
Shooting Stars were in need
God,chooses only the best
Sending angels for you
You tested so true
His follower thru and thru
Matthew Wade
Truly You are
God's Magnificence Shooting Star
Mike Thomas
October 30, 2006
Matt we all miss you alot. I wish I could have known you better. Even though I only met you a couple of times, I will always consider you a good friend. Rest in peace buddy.
Lorna Summers
May 28, 2006
Matt,
This is the first time I've seen this, so I had to write something in here. You are missed by me and my sister. We will never forget you. You were the greatest.
<3 Lorna
Timothy Dover
May 26, 2006
Matt -
I finally found this guest book again, so I had to write something. It's been a long time, but I'm still reminded of you just about every day. It hurts to know you're not around to experience the world as it is today. I remember earlier this month, when Tool's new album came out, I literally ran into the record store to get it...and I knew that if you were still around, you'd be doing the exact same thing at that very moment. It's so amazing that you're not here physically, yet you still exist within so many people spiritually. You've given so many people, including myself, a new outlook on life. I cherish every single breath I take, knowing that the next breath isn't guaranteed. I just hate that it takes such tragedies for people to realize how fragile human life is. I remember reading a quote the other day that made me think of you..
"It is foolish and wrong to mourn the dead; rather we should be thankful that such people lived."
Everyone should be thankful that you lived, and were able to give so much to the world in such a short time. No one else could do such a thing...but then again, no one was like you. You have no idea how much we miss you, man. All the memories and whatnot..and your mom's chili. haha. There was never a bad moment when you were around. I'm gonna post this link so more people can come and share their memories with you. No one is gonna forget what a difference you made.
Shannon Rogers
May 25, 2006
I didn't know Matt, but my boyfriend was a good friend of his and told me about what happened. I feel extremely sorry for the family and friends and I give them my sincerest apologies.
I can tell from all the comments people left that he was a great person and affected many people. I wish I could've met him..
Rest in peace, Matthew.
May the angels lead you in. <3
Amanda Stephens
May 6, 2006
Matt,
Happy Birthday beautiful. I miss you more than words. I do. I really do.
Sherry Mazzella
May 5, 2006
Happy Birthday Matt
My Love and Memories are of you this day...I'm so thankful that I had you for 19 years...You will be forever in my heart until we meet again.What a wonderful reunion that will be..
I love you..
Your Momma!
Sherry Mazzella
November 30, 2005
Matt,
I can't wait to see you again,Son
Then can I rest and be whole again.
My Heart aches for you each and everyday.
You were so special to me and your beauty was beyond belief.
I don't know why you had to die so young,because your life had just begun.
And like the song says I wonder 'Who you'd be today'
I see your friends and other young people around your age and try to envision you,what you would look like, what you would be doing right now with your life and how much different life would be if you had never gone.
The loss to us is great,you added so much to our life a huge part of me is lost.
I miss your presents here in this life..
And my hope is that we will never be parted again in our next life.
I can only trust God and believe that he has had a bigger plan in all of this for you,me and all of us
And someday soon when we are together there in Heaven his plan will be reveal and we will be in awl and rejoice together forever...
You,Me,Daniel,Rachel,Granny,our babies and all our family and loved ones..
Until then your presents here is greatly missed.
I Love You So much
I'll see you again
Someday soon
I can't wait!
Love
Your Momma
Teresa Lafferty
November 7, 2005
When tomorrow starts without me, and I'm not there to see.
If the sun should rise and find your eyes, all filled
with tears for me; I wish so much you wouldn't cry,
the way you did today, While thinking of the many
things we didn't get to say, I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you. And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too; But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand. That an angel came and called my
name and took me by the hand, and said my place was ready
In Heaven far above, and that I'd have to leave behind, All those
things I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away, A tear fell from my eye,
For all of life, I'd always thought, I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for, So much yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible, that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared, And all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday, Just even for a while,
I'd say good-bye and kiss you, and maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized, that that could never be,
For emptiness and memories, Would take the place of me.
And when I thought of Worldly things, I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did, My heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through Heaven's gates, I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me, From his great golden throne,
He said, "This is eternity, and all I've promised you.
Today your life on Earth is past, But here it starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last, and since each day's the same day,
There's no longing for the past. But you have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true, Though there were times you did some
things, you know you shouldn't do.
But you have been forgiven, And now at last you're free,
So won't you take my hand And share My life with Me?"
So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart, for every time you think of me,
I'm right here in your Heart
Jill Moore
May 6, 2005
I know it's the day after your birthday, but I miss you and just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday. I will be by soon to bring you something. Loving and missing you forever, ~Jill~
Sherry Mazzella
May 5, 2005
Happy Birthday
..Matthew Wade Kirk..
05/05/05
amp;
gt;My Thoughts and Love is with you...
You are forever in my heart...
Matt,I Love you! Happy Birthday my son..
Your Momma!
Sherry Mazzella
May 5, 2005
Happy Birthday
..Matthew Wade Kirk..
05/05/05
;My Thoughts and Love is with you...
You are forever in my heart...
Matt,I Love you! Happy Birthday my son..
Your Momma!
Teresa Radcliff
May 5, 2005
Happy Birthday. Wish you were here.
Aunt Teresa
Sherry Mazzella
March 8, 2005
Matt, I miss you so much..I wish you was here,even though I know you are in spirit...Watch over Granny!I Love You my precious Son..
All My Love,
Your Momma!
Teresa Radcliff
December 30, 2004
For just a moment
I’m sure I saw
a flicker of light ahead.
Perhaps it was your smile.
Though past now, remembered,
in my heart
like the small sound of
a butterfly passing by.
No night
is so dark
that can not be brightened
with memories of you.
Raindrops carry along
your blessings from heaven
to wash away my tears
and bring me hope anew.
I miss you with all my heart.
Aunt Teresa
Judy Lafferty
November 7, 2004
I Did Not Die
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on the snow.
I am the sunlight on the ripen grain
I am the gentle Autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morinings blush
I am the swift uplifting rush of quite birds in circled flight
I am soft stars that come out at night
Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
I am not there. I did not die.
~MATT~ ... Thinking of you as always. No Matt you did not die I see you in every beautiful thing in life.But......................
the heart still aches with missing you and not seeing you in the flesh. OH that beautiful smile and eyes that God gave you, now I say be quite and listen and you will hear Matt in the sweet whispering of the wing of the angel that Madison saw the night of your visitation. MATT... Is the angel with you now? Or has God got you off on some great adventure. You are everything beautiful and I will look for you in all those great places that you loved so much. The heart will always ache until we meet again... Love You forever ... ~GRANNY JUDY~
Melissa Martin (formerly Nichols)
June 4, 2004
I went to school with Matt at Hite Saunders, and then again at Huntington High. We were really close in elementary school, but we lost touch when he moved to Charleston before we started middle school, and we never talked in high school. I thought about going up to him the first day that I saw him at Huntington High, but I was afraid that he wouldn't remember me, where it had been so long since we had seen or talked to each other, so I didn't. I really wish that I had. The few years that I knew and was friends with Matt, he was so much fun to be around. He had the most unique personality, an awesome sense of humor, and not to mention beautiful eyes and a gorgeous smile, that would light up any room that he walked into. I don't think our 5th grade trip to Busch Gardens would have been as fun as it was if he hadn't been there. I was living in Columbus, OH when I saw the news of the tragedy in the Herald Dispatch online almost two years ago. I was in total and complete disbelief. Although we didn't talk for quite awhile before he passed on, I miss Matt a lot and I always will. He made a lot of people's lives a whole lot better. Rest In Peace Matt. You are and always will be greatly missed by many people. I hope Heaven is enjoying your sweet presence. And to your family, my thoughts and prayers are with them always.
Momma
April 9, 2004
My Dearest Son, How my heart aches for you as Easter approaches and your's Rachel's birthdays. Your absense is very much felt in this family as I'm sure you know.We Love You soooo much and I speak for all of us.Watch over us and have a beauty Easter and birthday in with our precious Savoir Jesus.I pray to jesus that we will feel your presents with us through this holy time and through yours and Rachel's birthdays and to be especially close to Daniel and Rachel.I Love you my Son!!and miss your HUGS I can't wait to be with you again.Mom,Daniel and Rachel
Teresa Radcliff
April 7, 2004
Today is Bertha's birthday. I hope you all are having fun up there.
"The Rose Beyond the Wall"
Near a shady wall a rose once grew,
Budded and blossomed in God's free light,
Watered and fed by morning dew,
Shedding it's sweetness day and night.
As it grew and blossomed fair and tall,
Slowly rising to loftier height,
It came to a crevice in the wall
Through which there shone a beam of light.
Onward it crept with added strength
With never a thought of fear or pride,
It followed the light through the crevice's length
And unfolded itself on the other side.
The light, the dew, the broadening view were found the same as they were before,
And it lost itself in beauties new,
Breathing its fragrance more and more.
Shall claim of death cause us to grieve and make our courage faint and fall?
No. Let us faith and hope receive-
The rose still grows beyond the wall.
Scattering fragrance far and wide
just as it did in days before,
Just as it did on the other side,
Just as it will forevermore.
I look forward to seeing you on the other side Matt. I love you,
Aunt Teresa
Norma Denning
April 1, 2004
I remember Matt from Hite Saunders. He and Sam were in school together. They had a good time. Matt was always grinning and talking. I am so sorry.
Norma Denning
Jill Moore
March 25, 2004
Matt,
I was driving home and passed woodmere. It was in the afternoon, so the sunlight was beaming down on your gravesite. It was one of the most beautiful, comforting, yet lonely sights I have ever seen. I still think about you daily. I know I don't come to your grave as often as I used to, but now that the weather is getting better I will definitely be there more often. I miss you so much. I hope you like the rose Jade and I brought to you last week. Jade talks about you all the time... she says "Matt, pretty flower" every time we pass any cemetery. I think she is trying to say Matt has pretty flowers. She especially loves the big heart that was there around v-day. I just wanted you to be able to see her & how she has grown. I wish you could have met her. She would have loved you just as dearly as we all do. You are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I feel your presence sometimes and I look to the sky and smile. I love it and I love you... see you soon.
Wolf
March 24, 2004
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you. I remember the last time I saw you. You were wearing a black jacket and you smelled so good. You gave me a big hug. Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought that just a month and a half later I would be hearing the tragic news of your accident. Nothing has made my heart hurt more than your loss. I'll never be able to understand why God took such a wonderful person. I wish I would have talked to you more often. I wish I could have had one more moment with you. I wish we were still kids playing in the pool. Even though I didn't have that extra bit of time I was fortunate enough to have shared many great times with you. I'll always have the memories of Granny's house and the great fun we all had as kids. I wish you were going to be around for my kids to get to know. They would have loved you so much, especially Noah. Madison speaks of you often. She always tells me that your with Jesus and the Angels and that I don't have to be sad. I'm sure you are keeping things interesting up in Heaven. I can't wait till we can see each other again, until then you will always be in my heart. I Love You.
Momma
December 25, 2003
My Dearest Son,How I miss you!Christmas is sure not the same without,Life is not the same. I'm so lost without you.May you have a Merry Christmas there.I Love You my sweet Boy.You are greatly missed.My love is forever with you and your beautiful presents is forever missed.I miss everything about you.I can't wait to be with you again soon.Love your,Mommy!
Teresa Radcliff
December 8, 2003
I went Christmas shopping this weekend. I was sitting in the parking lot of the mall and listing everybody I needed to get something for. I wish you were still here. I miss you.
Aunt Teresa
Andy Harris
December 6, 2003
Matt,
It's so hard to believe it's already been a year since you've been gone. Everyday your in my thoughts and prayers, and not one moment goes by that I don't wish you were still here with us even though I know you are in spirit. I just wish that I could find a way to tell you what kind of impact you had on my life. You were definately a one of a kind, I've never met anyone that even comes close to being what kind of friend you were.We all miss you more than words could explain, it's just not the same without you. You touched so many people with your personality, humor, and just your God given ability to get along with anyone that you met. You were an instant best-friend to me, I miss you u man. You will always be in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Andy
Amanda Cartmill (Nick's Mom)
December 3, 2003
Sherry,Roger, Rachel, Daniel Judy & Teresa,
I've been meaning to get out here for some time now. As I was sitting at work tonight, Matt just came into my mind - as he often does. I know you are aware how much he meant to Nick. I am so grateful that my son had a friend like Matt. He truly touched Nick's life & will never be forgotten.
Sherry, I am also so grateful to you & how much you helped us out last year. Looking back, I think it was meant for Nick & Matt to spend those last few months by each other's side. I hope he is still looking after Nick!
I also wanted to let you know that the gathering at Matt's gravesite this year was so special. It must make you so proud that there are so many people that still care & love him so much.
You are very special family & thanks again for making Nick feel like part of it.
NICOLE SIRBAUGH-MAZZELLA
December 2, 2003
THANKSGIVING HAS PASSED AND I HAVE CONTINUALLY THOUGHT OF YOU. HOPE ALL IS WELL IN HEAVEN. ALL IS OK ON EARTH I AM SURE YOU KNOW. WE ALL MISS YOU AS YOU KNOW. MY DAD SENDS HIS REGARDS TO THE FAMILY STILL. HAPPY GOBLE GOBLE DAY WE LOVE YOU. NICKI ANDREA ANDREW JOSH AND RICARDO
Momma
November 27, 2003
My Dearest Son,Happy Thanksgiving! I LOVE and miss you so so much.Especially today, we'll all at Uncle Brett's new house in Fla. You would love it, all kinds of little lizards and creatures that you was so fastinated with.Your Uncle Ronnie and Stepanie just got here.Abram came last night.I still can't believe that you are not here with us.I hope that you are watching over us.Our thoughts,Love and heart's are with you. Looking so forward to seeing you again soon!You are with me always and forever in my heart and thoughts.I Love you my beautiful Son. Love, Your Mommy!
Lynne Bickers
November 20, 2003
Matt....I never knew you but from knowing your uncle Brett and how he talked about you, you must have been quite a wonderful young man. I know your family can't wait to see you again someday. Your uncle Brett was my boss and best friend at Verizon. You have a loving family and I know that you're smiling down on them each day. I know that I will meet you one day. God Bless you and the family you left behind.
Granny Judy
November 19, 2003
No words can express how much it meant to Sherry, me and our family that so many of you remembered Matt on November 7, 2003 and so many of you joined with us in releasing of the dove in Matt's memory. Matt was just a great guy, always had a hug for his Granny and everyone else. I miss his beautiful smile and gorgeous eyes even his sweaty little hands that used to hold mine. His looks were flawless. He had such a love for nature, critters, insects, computers, music, going to concerts, hanging out in the boiler room with friends, going to Charleston to be with his buddies there and his Dad. Loved to spent time with his girlfriend. He even like some of his classes at Marshall and studied hard. Matt was curious about life and its adventures into adulthood. He was making great strides through the trials and tribulations of adolesence into manhood when God called him to be with him. He would have made a fine man, he already had the finest of qualities. He loved his friends and family so much and such tender feelings, wearing his heart on his sleeve most of the time. Matt was very sensitive and had so much compassion, that is just a couple of the reasons why he touched so many lives in his short nineteen years. That is not to say that Matt didn't know how to have a good time because he did and we are glad that enjoyed all of his special gang of friends. There were and are numerous friends, with all types of personalities, backgrounds and the list goes on and on. Matt cared for each and everyone of you, just like you were family and you are family to us. Thank you for being Matt's friend, girlfriend or whatever your association with him was. He will never be forgotten, always in our hearts and forever loved. Just like the releasing of the dove Matt is off on a miraculous journey, but if you will silence your mind and open your heart and soul, then listen you will hear him call your name in the whispering of the wind. I have listen, I have heard and he is with God. I love you Matt-- Granny Judy
RELEASE ME
Now that I am gone release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do,
You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears.
Be happy that we had nineteen years.
I gave you my love, friendship and affection,
You can only guess how much you gave me in happiness.
But now I travel on alone.
So grieve awhile if you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust.
It's only for awhile that we must part.
I won't be far away, for life goes on.
So if you need me, call and I will come.
Though you can't see or touch me, I'll be near.
And listen with your heart, you'll hear
All of my love around you soft and clear.
And then when you come this way alone.
I'LL GREET YOU WITH A SMILE, AND A "WELCOME HOME'
Tim Dover
November 18, 2003
I was reading this guest book, and listening to that song that Terry quoted, and words can't explain the chills it gave me. I thought of all the memories, the fun times we had, your mom's chili (yum), and all the other crazy stuff. It took me back to the exact moment I heard the terrible news...it took me back to 11 days ago, when we were all standing around your headstone in the dead of night. That was the most powerful spell of silence I've ever experienced. None of us could say anything; nothing needed to be said. We were all talking to you in our minds, telling you how much we miss and love you. I can't even explain the feeling I got, but we all know it. Every one of us who loved you knows exactly what I'm talking about. It's beyond all explanation, but then again, so was your existence...You touched so many lives, and caused so many smiles, it's uncanny. I wish much love to all of your family and friends. I'm always gonna miss you, man.
Soul fly, fly high, fly free.
Courtney Poston
November 15, 2003
Matt, I miss you so much. It's been a year and your still just as much a part of my life as ever. I can't wait until I can see you again. I miss you always and will never forget that smile or those long, beautiful eyelashes. I love you so much. You were truly an angel on earth. - Courtney
Eric Williams
November 11, 2003
Hey man been a long time started reading this guest book and just was overcome with emotions. man i miss you and i cant wait to see you again
eric
Elizabeth Holstein
November 8, 2003
It has been one year already and you are still missed just as much. I cant wait to see you again. My prayers go out to your family, Amanda, and your friends. Love you
Caleb Atkisson
November 8, 2003
Words cannot express how much we miss you. All through junior high and through high school, you were a good friend and a great person. We will all miss you spot! I hope to see you again some day....
Parker Carnohan
November 7, 2003
One year ago today, I lost one of the best people who I have ever met. We all lost someone that special. Matt was one of the best, always friendly could get along with almost anyone no matter how different they may be from him. Matt was the most accepting person I have ever met. He was a great friend and I know I will like many others charish his memory for many years to come. My sympathy goes out to all of us who miss him. Parker
Terry Howerton
November 7, 2003
I remember a year ago tonight like it was yesterday, driving through Hurricane when Melissa called Jenny and told her the worst news she'd ever hear. She managed to hold back emotions till we stopped and she told me the worst news I would ever hear, the truest person I've ever known was no longer with us. On the way back home I played this song so loud and felt it so much, you know it as well as I do Spot.
"Got back off the forefront, I never said or got to say bye to my boy, but it's often I try. I think about how I'd be screaming and the times would be bumping, our minds would be flowing. Taking care of things like 'hey holmes what you needing?' as life's coming out whack it'll open your eyes. As I procede to get loose I feel you next to me fiending getting spacy with the common love of music, think of this as the sun as the mind as a tool. We can bounce back from this one with attitude, will and some spirit. With attitude will and your spirit we'll shove it aside. Soul fly, fly high, fly free." I love you man.
Erin Jarrett
November 6, 2003
Miss and love you always, Spot. I'll never forget that beautiful smile. 'Til we meet again...Love, Sperin
Teresa Radcliff
October 31, 2003
A Child of Mine
“I’ll lend you for a little time, A child of Mine,” The Lord said.
“It may be six or seven years,
or twenty-two or three;
but will you, ‘til I call him back,
take care of him for me?
“he’ll bring his charms to gladden
you, and should his stay be brief,
you’ll have his lovely memories
as solace for your grief.”
“I cannot promise he will stay,
since all from earth returns,
but there are lessons taught,
that I want this child to learn.”
“I’ve looked this wide world over,
in search of teachers true,
and from the throngs that crowd
life’s lanes, I have chosen you.”
Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labor vain.
Nor hate me when I come to call
to take him back again?”
I fancied that I heard them say-
“Dear Lord thy will be done,
for all the joy thy child shall bring, the risk of grief will run”
“We’ll shelter him with tenderness,
we’ll love him with all we may,
and for the happiness we’ve known,
forever grateful stay.”
“But should the angels call for him
much sooner than we planned,
we’ll brave the bitter grief that comes, and try to understand.”
Love is Forever!
I love you forever. I am so happy you got to be my nephew. I am so lucky for that. Aunt Teresa
Laura Forster
October 7, 2003
Matt-
I was walking through campus at school today when I was struck by such a strong memory of you. It's amazing how little thoughts like that can come so randomly. I miss you so much, but it's times like this when the reality of the situation hits full force and all I want to do is see you again. I think of you often and miss you always. Although I'm not physically writing this to you, this guest book gives me a feeling of peace knowing that some way, some how you read every word I type. Know that you're missed...know that you're loved...& know that I can't wait to see you again. *143 ALWAYS!* -Laura Lu :)
Momma
September 14, 2003
My sweet beautiful Boy, I Love You and miss you so much.I can't wait to see you again.All my Love and tears are for you.Missing you sooooo!!!! Your, Momma!
Teresa Radcliff
July 23, 2003
I sure miss you. I think heaven is a little sweeter since you got there. I love you.
Aunt Teresa
Teresa Radcliff
July 23, 2003
I sure miss you. I think heaven is a little sweeter since you got there. I can't wait to see you again. I love you.
Aunt Teresa
May 11, 2003
I LOVE AND MISS YOU!
Sherry Mazzella
May 5, 2003
My Dearest Son! Happy Birthday! What a wonderful day it was 20 years ago when I gave birth to you,you were precious.I'm so proud to have had you in my life,you are one of the most treasured,loved and unique being's that has ever enter into my life and heart.And Being without you is the hardest thing that I have ever had to endure.A overwhelming void ,loss and pain that is more than I can even bear.You are missed by so many.Your Happiness and Hugs and rubs,and the way you smelled, the sound of you walking to your bedroom.The way you loved to eat,your music coming from your room,the sound of your car coming up Forest (my Mustang Boys)your computer games booming in your room, your's and Rachel's fights over the phone,bring u home taco bell, our talks,taking u shopping,your clothes,dreaming your dreams with u,making your future plans togther and having our Talks in which you'd always say "I know Mom."I Love you Mommy",Oh the sound of your voice,the smell of your room,all your friends so many coming and going, your S.C. friend coming down, the party's you had and how well u handle and respected our home and our life, you and Jacob, how he loves his Uncle Matt,all of your special events, hearing Amanda giggling and squealing as u tikled and played together,you and your brother,what a special bond u to shared.I hold all theses memories and more now I hold so close to my heart.I LOVE You Matt and miss you and I can't wait to see you again someday and it won't be that long for Life is like a vapor.And I know that you are going to be there waiting on me and you will be even more beautiful than you was here and I will know you and you will know me and we will never part again.I Love you, my precious Son.I know your first Birthday in Heaven has had to be a special one and someday soon you can tell me all about.I can't wait until then. My Love is forever with you! Your MOMMA!
natalie
May 5, 2003
Happy birthday, Matt!!! I'm going to celebrate you tonight! I miss you more than you could ever know.. I was watching The Princess Bride last night and Wesley says something to Buttercup that made me think of you..lol...i stopped myself from crying, and started laughing instead, because I know you woulda laughed at me for being so dorky... I miss you! Happy 20th! See you soon. Love, Nat
Heidi Lewis
May 5, 2003
Happy Birthday Matt. I miss you.
Mom
April 20, 2003
Matt, Happy Easter!My beautiful Son, you are so missed. Jesus kiss my Boy for me. All my Love is with you until I see you again.
Sherry Kirk-Mazzella
April 6, 2003
Matt,Oh how I miss You!Life has been very hard without you.I miss your presences in my life daily.I Love you so much my beautiful son.I can't wait to see you again.The void is almost to hard to bear at times but I know I must move on for the rest of the family.You are missed so much by us all.Even Rachel (LOL)!Till I see you again never to be separated. My thoughts,Love and prayers are with you and to you.My Love,Your Momma!
Granny Judy
April 4, 2003
Dear Matt,
If only you could read this and know how much love your family has for you, the heartache and suffering just goes on without having your presence with us on a daily bases. I loved our times together especially with all the good summer fun in Grannys pool. You, Abram, Rachel, Tiffany and Brandy. I look in the back yard with no pool or little kids anymore but I still see you playing in the pool with your little legos, dinosaurs and anxiously waiting for Abram to come up from Florida. Oh what adventures you two had together searching through all the rocks and stones, going through books to see what type of stones they were and some were just gravel. Then you grew into such a beautiful adult it took my breath away. I had great fun with you and your chinese cookie can. If only God would have not had other plans for you and it could have been me and not you. I miss you so and your Mother has suffered not only mental anguish but actual physical pain from having this separation. I go to your room to feel your presence and cry because I no longer smell your scent in your clothes -- just anything to keep you with me alittle longer. I try to force myself to dream of you as I did When you first passed on then I recall how the night of your passing I could hear the boat giving off its whistling lonely sound and it seem to go on and on. I went to your Mother and had her listen and told her I was sure that it was a sign that my Dad was welcoming you with open arms. We cried at our great loss,at times it just too much to bear and I try to be strong for everyone by looking and listening for Gods sweet and gentle ways of telling us that you are okay and that someday we will be with you and I look forward to that with great joy. Love you always ---- your Granny Judy
Sherry Mazzella
February 8, 2003
My precious Son,Matthew,meaning a gift from God and that you was and are.My Love is forever with you! And I Thank God everyday that he gave you to me for even a short time here on this earth, but we will be together soon oneday never to be separated again!I so look forward to being with you again to see your beautiful face, that great smile that everyone still talks aboutand to have many of your incredible HUGS that you will always be remeber here for,I bet they are even better in Your Heavenly Home.I know that you are with Jesus and all our other Loved ones there probally be spoiled rotten by MaMaw,MawMaw Voilet,MawMaw Mason and so many others.I bet they're feeding you good, how you Loved to eat.And oh how you loved to wonder and have adventures even as a very little boy,I bet you are exploring all the great and incredible wonders of Heaven and I and Daniel expect you to show us all around.Daniel just had his 27th Birthday and he really misses you as all your family and friends do even Rachel LOL! She doesn't have anyone to fight with over the phone.She dream the other night that you was still here with us in your room when she came home and she was so happy to see you,she hugged you and told you how much she Loves you.It's been really hard not having you here.You were such a wonderful boy, man and person and I am so proud to be YOUR MOMMA and forever will be.Son you are one of the most precious things in my life.I'll never forget the day you was born and how easy you came into to this world,you was such a joy to mine and your fathers life, you always will be.I wish so much that I would have somehow known thatyou was only going to with us here only a short 19 years, I would go back and change so many things,You were the neatest kid I've known and I'm not just saying that because I'm your Mother,you were and I know still are one of a kind,special and terific so different with your own special style.You have some of the greatest friends and Amanda will always be as special to us as I know she was to you,Andy and Amanda have been wonderful to us and I'm adopting both of themm into our family for good. When I hug Andy it reminds me of you, I'm glad that he was your friend and that we have him.Matt,you are so trully missed by so many people, but I know that you are with Jesus and that he is taking care of you and us.Watch over us Matt and may I also feel your presents and LOVE here on earth until we are reunited together again,never to be separated again.I hope you are designing us a big Mansion up there and I know it will be special.I'm looking so forward to seeing you again my son and knowing that I can move on alittle easier.you are with me everday and my thoughts and prayers are with you as are so many others as you probally already know.Happy Valentines Day!! LOVE Your MOMMA!!!
NICOLE SIRBAUGH
January 6, 2003
DEAR SHERRY AND FAMILY,
I HAVE ALREADY SIGNED THE GUEST BOOK FOR MATT, BUT I CONTINUE TO THINK ABOUT HIM OFTEN. LITTLE THINGS LIKE HIS TURTLES HE USE TO HAVE IN HIS ROOM. JUST SO MANY DIFFERENT THINGS LIKE PICTURES OF HIM AND RACHEAL AT PIPESTEM PLAYING WITH MY KIDS. THOSE TIMES WERE SO MUCH FUN FOR ME ESPECIALLY BECAUSE I WAS HAVING BAD TIMES THEN. HE WAS ALWAYS SO MUCH FUN....I REALLY HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU SHERRY IF YOU READ THIS.. MY KIDS LOVED THEIR MI MI SO MUCH AND WE WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU AND RACHEAL. OUR ADDRESS IS 1101 2ND AVENUE NORTH UNIT 904, SURFSIDE BEACH, SC 29575
I WOULD LOVE TO SHARE HOW THE KIDS HAVE GONE AND TALK TO YOU'LL. GOD BLESS YOU AND WE LOVE YOU.
NICKI, RICHARD, ANDREA, ANDREW, JOSHUA..... TAKE CARE
Jill Moore
January 5, 2003
I have placed an entry before this one but I just wanted to say a few more things... as time has gone by, I've gone through many stages in trying to cope with what has happened to Matt. I stopped trying to find someone or something to blame and came to the realization that he is so much better off where he is right now. Where he is protected and safe. Matt has made me appreciate life and the little things more often. He has made me cherish the time with my family and friends more frequently. Most of all, I wanted to place another entry to thank his grandmother for keeping his guest book online so we can all have access to it whenever we feel the need. I love and miss you dearly Matt.
Teresa Radcliff
December 9, 2002
I love you and will see you later.
Aunt Teresa
Amanda Stephens
December 8, 2002
To everyone that everlastingly loves Matt:
It’s very difficult to comprehend this tragedy. My love for him is unfathomable. He was my best friend, boyfriend, and first love. The magnitude of emotional pain that circulates through my heart every second I contemplate this ominous occurrence is incomprehensible; however, I know I am not alone in battling this unbearable feeling. Everyone that was captivated by his presence empathizes this colossal feeling of sorrow.
His family is so amiable and lovely, thus, it was very easy to tell where Matt derived all of his divine qualities. My heart goes out to them from my depths of sincerity. Matt was an inwardly and outwardly beautiful person. He enriched my life in numerous ways and I am so thankful for the time we had together. I know this traumatic event will remain with us eternally, as will the irreplaceable memories of Matt. I have always loved him and always will. I refuse to believe that goodbyes are forever.
Erin Chapman
December 6, 2002
I didn't grow up with Matt. I didn't go to school with him. I didn't hang out with him and watch real-TV. He was my Legion friend. I can remember going to the American Legion in Charleston on Friday and Saturday nights to watch bands play and he was always there, smiling, dancing, and singing. I can't recall a time when he wasn't smiling. He could always cheer me up, no matter how low I was. The day after his accident my friend from Nashville called to tell me about it. She knew that it was something that couldn't be told online, she had to say it in person. I wanted to go to the funeral so badly and talk to his family and let them know that they were in my prayers and that I know Spot is in heaven and someday we'll get to see him again...smiling..but as luck will have it, I didn't get to go to the funeral. My parents didn't know Spot, so of course school came first in their eyes. Even though I didn't get to attend the service, I thought about him at that time. I had my moment of silence, my Matt time. We were never really close, but I still feel as if something really great has been taken out of my life. I send my deepest regards to Matt's family and other friends. He is greatly missed and loved.
Heidi Lewis
November 20, 2002
Matt,
I dont even know where to begin or what to say. I only knew you for about two years, but it only took me five minutes to become friends with you. I remember when everyone worked at Arbys but I couldnt because of Parker, so I would just come and hang out in Arbys for hours. The trip to senior week was a blast, and so was the whole week. Our room was such a mess cause we wouldnt let the maids clean it! haha. On the way back we hit a cow...I will never forget that because it was a once in a lifetime thing...I dont think I will ever hit another cow. I love you so much Matt, and I miss you like crazy. I still cant believe Im never going to see your beautiful smile on this earth. You helped me through everything with Parker (or at least tried...I wouldnt listen to anyone). I know youre in heaven, and I cant wait to see you again. You touched so many people, and you left an impact on this world in the short time you were here. God takes back his favorites quickly. Love you Matt!
To the family, Im so sorry for this loss. Matt was a great friend, so I know he was an even greater son, brother, or any other kind of relative. I also want to say thank you for bringing such a wonderful person into this world, and helping to shape him into the person he was.
Stan Jenkins
November 19, 2002
To Matt's Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss and I will be praying for you daily. May God bless you and keep you in the palm of His hands.
Amanda Adams
November 18, 2002
Matt was a student in my psychology class at Marshall. I heard about the accident the day that it occured. However, I did not know that it was Matt. Today, after class another student told me of the tradgedy. Matt was a great student. He was witty and intelligent. Matt made the class more interesting and fun. He will be missed. I am very sorry for your loss.
Amanda Adams
Alexis Cummings
November 15, 2002
Family and Friends, I cannot express my deepest sympathy to you. Although I never met Matt, his family spoke of him often. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Josh Wagner
November 15, 2002
Matt, I know I didn't know you for very long, but I'am thankful for the time that I did get to know you. All the times you and Nick would come over to the apartment between classes and we would watch "Real TV" and laugh at people on there. I will always remember they way you would laugh and tell jokes and just put a smile on my face. I will always keep you in my heart and prayers.
Laura Forster
November 15, 2002
I've never really been good with words, nor have I ever been able to relay my emotions very well, so the thought of *signing a guestbook* for the loss of my friend leaves me a little lost. Then again, the loss of my friend alone leaves me feeling lost as well as a bit overwhelmed. I can't even begin to express the impact Matt "Spot" Kirk had on my life. As I heard the tragic news over the phone, I was in shock. However, Spot's life as I knew it flashed before my eyes. This was a life full of good friends and good times. That's the life that he's shared with me since I met him when we were 12 years old. I regret that we lost touch as we both moved away before graduation from SCHS, but being apart seemed to make the times we saw eachother just that much more special. His impact on my life, as well as the rest of his friends, cannot be summed up in a simple guest book entry, however, I can say that his impact was a wonderful one for all of us that were lucky enough to become a part of his life. We were the lucky ones...we are the ones left to morn for a loss, but we are also the ones left to celebrate a life that bettered our own. His simple presence brightened each and every one of our days, and as he lives on in our hearts, he will continue to do just that. Remaining in our hearts but in a better place, Mathew Kirk will never be forgotten nor could he ever be replaced. Give thanks for the times we shared...remember them and cherish them forever...*143* WE LOVE YOU SPOT!
Jenny Meeks
November 15, 2002
Matt, where should I begin. You were a lot to me. You were a best friend, a brother, a boyfriend, a confident, a star that brightened my life. You could always put a smile on my face and still do today. We had our great times, we had our good times, we even had our bad times, but I always loved you through all of it. We always seemed to be in competitions. First time I got to know you we were trying to get a barrel for Bethany or Melissa. We fought over who got to go and get it. You wrestled me to the ground and tickled me till I thought I was gonna cry...still, that didn't work so you grabbed my pager and threw it. Till this day I can't find that pager. It's beside Kanawha Turnpike somewhere. You were a friendly face in world full of strangers while I was at Marshall. You would get me food, take to to the mall, or just come and hang out. We would talk for hours about nothing in general yet everything at the same time. You will be the only man who's name will grace my back and I know you're smiling and laughing about that. You will always be remembered. I love you.
To the family: Even though I only met you a handful of times, I hope that you know how sincere I am. Your son, brother, newphew, cousin or whoever was an extremely important person in my life. He has changed my life for the better. He will be in my mind and my heart for the rest of my life. I look forward to seeing his smiling face again.
Pamela B.
November 15, 2002
Although I never met Matt, I'd like to offer my deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to you, his family.
I read about your loss in the newspaper, and it really had an impact on me. I also have a 19 year old son in college, and can only imagine the pain your are suffering.
I will keep you in my prayers. God bless you.
Elizabeth Holstein
November 15, 2002
Spot*-There is nothing in my mind that lets me realize that you are gone. My heart and my soul will always remember you just as you were still here. Something about your smile made me feel a little bit better about myself. I loved being around you and I'm sure that everyone else did too because of your personality. You had such an inner light about you and were capable of so many things. You have impacted my world and made me think of myself as a better person. I remember all the pictures that you drew me and I still have them all! They are something that I will keep forever just like you're memory. I am thankful to have ever known you because my life is forever changed because of that. At least now I know that I have the best angel looking over me right now and I feel safter because of that. Life is not complete without you but I know that one day I will see you again. You were a beautiful person and definatly one in a million. There are so many things that I have learned from you. Especially to be myself and that my friends will love me no matter what; which is exactly what you did. You were so accepting of other people and I knew that no matter how bad I looked one day or no matter how much I complained you always loved me anyway. I know that you are "smiling" down on each and every one of us right now with that beautiful smile waiting for the day when you can see us all again. I will continue to pray everyday for you're family. The world has lost a great, great person. But heaven has gained a perfect angel. I will always love you and always remember you. You will forever be *My Spot*
J.C. Sigman
November 15, 2002
Spot,
The time we spent together at South Charleston Junior High is a time I will never forget my friend. You, Tim Dover, Adam Searls, Nick Cartmill, and I were inseparable. We were our own "Clik". We were so wild and crazy together too man. You and I didn't need anyone else to have a good time either. We could make any situation a great time.
I remember in Mr. Kennedy's chorus class, you and I drew a mixture of Eric Cartman and a beaver. We called him Beavman, we even gave him a voice and drew cartoons about him. We would exchange our drawings at the end of the day and just laugh our butt's off. I remember in Philly, when you, Tim and I were in a room together. We would take Ryan Wright's laser pointer and hit people that were driving across the Philly/New Jersey Bridge. Then Mr. McCoy busted in and almost killed us all. Saying people from the streets were complaning. We almost got expelled on a trip about 500 miles from home. Remember Intercourse, PA, between Blue Balls and Paradise? That was an Amish Community too! That made it even funnier. You and I spent that entire trip together, the entire way up and back home.
I remember all the times you stayed the night and we stayed up late watching movies from Blockbuster. You remember, our favorites, any movie by Kevin Smith, "Jay and Silent Bob" movies. "Clerks, Chasing Amy, Mall Rats, Dogma!" Didn't matter, we would stay up all night just to watch them. Then the time you, Tim, and Adam, stayed the night and we made those crazy home movies. But the greatest memory of mine was when you and I declared ourselves brothers to each other the night we realized we had moles underneath our right foot.
Brother those memories of us together are priceless, and I could never forget them. The only bad thing is, it's not the memories that hurt so bad now, it's just the fact that your not here to share them with me. You were truely my brother and I will never forget what you have done for me. I love you.
Scot Lundy
November 14, 2002
I didn't know Matt as well as some of the other people here, but his impact on me was still very strong. I remember when I first met Spot; at Sam and April Spade's house during a Rib-Fest. The first thing Spot did was run and jump into Sam's arms in a huge bear hug. We had a lot of fun that day, and every time Spot was there. I remember how he invited us back to his house to hang out after X-Fest. We watched Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back on his computer and relaxed. It was a perfect end to a great day. Wherever we were and whatever we were doing, we always left with a smile and a giggle and I will remember that best of all.
Matt was a very special person and I know he will always occupy a good place in my heart and in everyone else’s that he came in contact with. Spot was a brother to many people, a trusted friend, and confidant. He will definitely be missed, but I know that we all have happy memories of Spot. And I am very grateful for that fact.
With much love,
Pope
Erin Jarrett
November 14, 2002
Where do I even begin? Matt was one of a kind, and I'm sure everyone would agree with that. I met Spot in 7th grade, we had Spanish together, and ever since I've considered him a friend. After he moved to Huntington I never really saw him as much, but everytime I would I would get so excited! When he would come to visit at South Charleston High everyone would be so excited to see him they would flock to him and gather around him. He was such a loveable guy! Recently when I moved to Huntington I became closer to Spot, and he and Nick (who we referred to as the married couple because they would always argue over little things, as best friends do) would come to our apartment between classes sometimes and usually on the weekends. I'm thankful we became closer when we did. I have so many memories of him, and not a single one of them are bad. From coloring in his little spot with highlighters in 9th grade, him coming to Charleston with Charles and going to the Legion with us, the times we spent during Senior Week, to the time in 7th grade when he gave me a WWJD bracelet, which I still have (which i brought up to him a few weekends ago and he reassured everyone that that was just a phase lol), these are just a few of the many memories I have. The three things I remember most about him though are his smile, his hugs, and how accepting and loving he was toward everyone. Spot never seemed to have problems with anyone, he was so easy to get along with. It's impossible to forget someone as awesome as Spot. He will truly be missed by everyone. I love and miss you Spoteo, and always will.
~Sperin
Matthew Dunlap
November 14, 2002
Hello, I wish to say something that I'm sure all of you will hopefully enjoy and at least smile when you are done reading this because you know thats all Matt would have wished upon us all. I would like to read what the message I wrote and the thought I all ways keep in mind of Matt...It was the seventh or eighth grade we both had coverage, and like "little rebels" we both went to the top of the gym (where you could sit down and watch everyone below) We had both just got our yearbooks and we signed each others and I had mine out looking through it and we decided to "Circle the people we liked" and after that "everyone who knows us, knows our humor" and we decided to go through joking and scribling in the year book. I will never forget before class was over he said to me, "One of use one day might move away and I just hope we never lose touch." Sadly he moved away and we both some what lost touch, but we spoke on the internet here and there. But I wish all of you to know That i guarantee you he's up there right now, looking down upon us still joking and making fun as all of us would always do, and STILL, circling the ones he loves...hopefully one day we will beside him doing the same thing.
I Love you man and will miss
you with them all.
-Pablo-
Elizabeth Knight
November 14, 2002
Spot- i don't know where to begin to express how much i love you..but it's from the bottom to the top of my heart. your are such a awesome person- and have a heart of gold. i remember the numerous amounts of times that you've taken care of my ass and i will forever be thankful to you. it's going to be very difficult without you but i know you'll give all of us the strength to get by--you've always been good at that. you always brought a smile to my face everytime i saw you..no matter what kind of day i was having..i knew you'd have something to say or do to make everything seem not to be as bad as i thought it was..you kept my head held high and i know you will continue to push me along through my life. i am so blessed that i have a friend like you on my side..and i will forever hold all our memories close to my heart (esp. the night at rachaels..lol) i love you matthew- i always will- you'll forever be "our lil spot"
Bethany Adkins
November 14, 2002
I don't remember the first time I met Spot, all I do know is that my life has been filled with laughs ever since. When my grandfather passed away, we were all playing Frisbee at Kroger's in Dunbar. He tried his hardest to keep a smile on my face, even tried to catch the frisbee in his mouth. I remember him and Jenny stoping by one night and hanging out in my basement that night. He spilt everything on my coffee table, at least twice. My carpet had a crusty spot for 2 years. We stayed at Marshall once, and I kept guilting him because I was sleeping on the floor, I worked him for a good 3 hours...he'd offer to move, but I wouldn't let him. We tried to dye his hair blue...but only his spot came out blue...god...I didn't know him very long...and I didn't see him as much as I wish I could. But, I hold the last day I saw him in my heart forever. He took a picture of us that day...I wish more now than ever I had a copy, but I'll always have it in my heart.
Spot- you were great to everyone you knew. You never had a dull momment, and I bet even know, you're living it up. I hear ya babe. We'll party again someday. Until then, I keep you close always.
To his family- There aren't words to help the pain heal. Just the sweet memmories to get you through. My deepest and best wishes to you. He is a beautiful root in the tree of life.
Greatly missed- Spot, we all love you.
Tim Dover
November 13, 2002
Matt was literally one of the first friends i made in Jr. high, along with J.C., Cartmill, Searls, and many others...and since that first day, we were all inseparable. I'll never forget the fun we had in Jr. High...all the class time we wasted laughing, talking, and drawing ridiculous pictures. I remember chorus class...where we didn't sing a single note the whole year and gave the teacher some serious anger problems >:) Then there's Mrs. Matheny's class, where the 9th gate to Hell resides in the back corner, behind the bookshelf hahaha We used to go to the library every day after school and mess with the librarians and that homeless guy that insisted he was an undercover cop. On the 9th grade trip, we were all in a room together (big mistake on behalf of the teachers) and we almost got sent home for being so obnoxious...and when we left, we wadded up a chocolate brownie and left it on the toilet seat. There's just too many fun memories to mention. It just goes to show that wherever Matt went, he made a huge difference. We always had fun, no matter what the circumstances. He truly brightened my life and the lives of countless others in his short time here on earth. I just wish i could have expressed to him what a difference he made for me and so many others. I really can't help but smile every time i think of the guy, because i've got nothing but hilarious memories in my heart. There will always be a void in my soul knowing that someone that great had to go. Matt will live on forever in our hearts and memories of him...I loved him like a brother and I will never forget all the smiles he brought to our faces. I'll never forget his smile and his riotous laughter, and his little white spot. Every time i see someone with a spot, i'm gonna tell them about Matt and see if I can make a difference in their lives through him. I love you, bro. "BIG TRUCK!!!"
Melissa Kennedy
November 13, 2002
Matt, where on earth should I begin. You have been there for me through everything. Through boyfriends, through your girlfriends, bad times, wonderful times. You are one of the purest souls that will ever know. I think you are one of the only people I've ever met that I have not once gotten truely angry with. No matter what happened in my life, I knew if I could just get a hold of you everything would be fine. All you had to do was look at a person a certain way and all of the days worries and troubles were gone. I'll never forget you chasing me around my basement with no pants on in your boxers, moshing with my basement wall, yes there IS still a hole in it, playing with darts, or just cuddling on the couch. I can still remember you burning Sandy Adkins at the stake in the sixth grade during my Joan of Arc presentation. When Jill, Farley, and me were in SLC Punk and you just happened to roll in alone and you sat with me on one arm and Jill on the other. Dancing on the dinner cruise in the ninth grade. It's the little things, angel, that I'll always remember. All the smiles you've given me, advice and knowledge you've shared. You have always been a bright shining star in my life, and eventhough towards the end we may not have see or talked that much, I know that you know you were always in my heart and in my thoughts. Everyone you have met, even if just for a few minutes, you have touched. I will be forever changed because of you. Because of your love, and passion for life, I am able to find the strength to carry on and try to teach the lessons I have learned from you.
To Sherri, Roger, Rachel and the rest of the family:
Spot, well Matt, loved you more than anything. He spoke fondly of all of you. I know this does not make anything easier, but if you ever need anything, do not hesistate to get ahold of me, however you can. Sherri has my numbers. I do not want to loose touch with any of you. I love you all, and wish you nothing but the best from the bottom of my heart.
With all the love in the world,
Melissa Kennedy
thomas and maureen (bill and karens son) williams
November 13, 2002
Sherry and family-
Words just sometimes don't fill voids. But from friends in times of sorrow they seem to. We don't know what to say that hasn't already been spoken. We will forever keep Matt in our minds.
Natalie Thomas
November 13, 2002
I am truly blessed to have had Matt in my life. Matt is the ideal person- so loving, caring, charming, smart, funny, and handsome. I keep telling myself that because so much crazy stuff is happening in this world, God truly needed Matt as an angel. Can you think of a better candidate for that postition? I certainly can't. Matt can make anyone feel better. That smile alone could heal a thousand hearts. Those beautiful eyes could touch a thousand souls. Although it's hard not to question God's motives, I do know that Matt was taken from us with good intentions. It may not be tomorrow or next week or next year, but I do know that someday we will each be able to see him again. I can't wait for the day I earn my way into heaven so I can be with him again. I can't wait to be able to see that gorgeous face, to listen to him sing to me, and to be able to just give him the biggest hug and the biggest kiss ever. Until then, I have all the memories of me and my first love to look back upon. I love you baby.
Sherry, Judy, Roger, Fil, Rachel,
You all are very dear to me and I want you to know that you have all been in my prayers everyday.
With love always and forever, Natalie Thomas
Nick Cartmill
November 13, 2002
Matt, you were my best friend. We could spend hours together and not get bored once. I never met someone like you and I was honored to be your best friend. I still am honored. I don't know what else to say besides what I have already. I will see you in our world one day. We could always be happy there.
Love Your Brother Nick
Sarah Wilson
November 12, 2002
Spott, you realy were a beautiful person. Its so sad that you are gone, but I believe that you are in heaven. It realy is true that God takes the most beautiful flowers for his garden. Charles and I will miss you alot.
Karen & Bill Williams
November 12, 2002
Sherry,
I am so,so sorry for the loss of your son. My prayers are with you,Rachel and Daniel. Although I only knew him for such a short time, he was a wonderful boy. I will keep you in my prayers. As a mother, myself, I can think of nothing worse than what you have experienced. Once again, Sherry - I am truly sorry. You are in our thoughts. Love, Karen and Bill
Britany Miller
November 12, 2002
Matt-->I loved you dearly and will miss you more than you know...
Thank you so much for every insane smile, laugh, guargantuan hug, calling me "bug eyes", and just being you...you had one of the most incredible personalities of anyone I've ever met and I know you made a tremendous impact on everyone lucky enough to cross your path.
To Matt's family, thank you for bringing such a truly awesome person into this world...I'm so sorry for your loss...I wish I could do more...I'm praying for you..
Roberta Kinney
November 12, 2002
Judy and Sherry:
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. He was such a beautiful young man. You and your family are in our prayers.
Ericka & Stephanie Atkins
November 12, 2002
In respectful condolences to sister Rachel Marie Atkins, with love from your cousins Ericka and Stephanie Atkins. (Rick Atkins)
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