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Matthew P. DePasquale MM3 (SW)
1990 - 2014
Matthew P. DePasquale MM3 (SW)
1990 - 2014
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BORN
1990
DIED
2014
Matthew P. DePasquale MM3 (SW) Obituary
February 5, 2021
Dear Lisa & All, I was just thinking about Matthew, this week. He was a wonderful teenager,always ready to learn & work with me!! What more could any teacher want?? So sorry...years later. He is/was the best! Mrs. Danahy
February 27, 2014
Jeff & Lisa,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I am so very sorry that I am so late with this message.
Justin Hayden
February 23, 2014
Matt was a great guy the short time I got to know him. Very saddened to hear about his passing. My heart goes out to your family and will be praying that God will give your family strength and love during such a difficult time.
Norm & Carolyn Chlosta
February 21, 2014
Our condolences to the DePasquale and Collareno families on the sudden passing of Matthew. As former residents of Lackawanna -- have fond memories of growing up with many members of the families.
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kathy danahy
February 19, 2014
Dear Lisa & Jeff,
Truly it has been a fortune of mine to have taught Matthew back in 6th. & 7th. grade. His handsome face,great smile, always made me happy to get to LMS to teach him. My sincere condolences to you all. You'll be in my
constant thoughts& prayers. It's too much for your hearts to resolve alone.
Sincere sympathy..Kathy Danahy
Patricia Brooks
February 17, 2014
Sorry to hear about Matthew.. My condolences to the family.
Life is but a Stopping Place
Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
to sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
but never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know.
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.
And when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the lord
Author unknown
Dan and Karen Harding
February 17, 2014
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family .... Dan and Karen Harding
Joe & Bonnie Mastrocicco
February 15, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sarah (Miller) Truesdell
February 15, 2014
Michelle, Caitlin,and Family
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. You are in my thoughts & prayers during this difficult time. Remember Matt will always be with you.
February 14, 2014
Dear Tony, Lisa, and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our prayers.
Jerry (Pete)and Chris Hund
February 14, 2014
Dear Tony, Lisa, and Family,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your son and grandson Matthew. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Linda Cipriano
DANIEL BUKATY SR
February 14, 2014
MY VERY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE COLARENO AND DEPASQUALE FAMILIES. I AM VERY SAD AND KNOW THE HEARTBREAK YOU ARE ENDURING. I AM IN FLORIDA AND CAN NOT ATTEND THE SERVICES BUT MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILIES
Colleen Rogers
February 14, 2014
Jeff, Lisa, Michelle & Cait, My thoughts and prayers have been with you and the extended DePasquale family since hearing of Matthew's untimely death. Wishing you all strength and healing in the difficult days ahead.
Daniel Bukaty
February 14, 2014
Lisa & Jeff
I am very sorry to hear about your son, my thoughts and prayers are with you. If there is anything that i can say that will easy the hurt you are feeling is that no matter where you are or what you are doing he is always going to be with you.
Angel Torres
February 14, 2014
Sorry to hear of your sons passing my heart n prayers go out to you n your family at this difficult time.
Frank Krakowski
February 14, 2014
I`m so very sorry for your loss.
Jenna Scinta
February 14, 2014
My Heart is with you always Mr. & Mrs. Depasquale, Michelle, Caitlyn, Giana, Grandpa Collareno and family. My prayers from my family to yours and the wings of the angels hold and comfort you.
Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away to the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That, we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way
which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect.
Without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same that it ever was.
There is absolute unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you.
For an interval.
Somewhere. Very near.
Just around the corner.
All is well.
Elizabeth Viszt
February 14, 2014
Jeff, Lisa, Caitlyn and Michelle - My heart breaks for you in the loss of Matt. His jovial attitude and contagious smile are attributes I will always remember. May you find peace together in the face of such a great loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Anne & Ron Spadone
February 14, 2014
Dear Jeff, Lisa, Cait and Michelle,
Our hearts are breaking for you, for no one knows your pain unless they have walked in your shoes. We continue to pray that the Lord wraps His arms around your entire family to provide you the strength you need during this time of loss and eventual peace through the memories of Matt that you hold in your hearts.
February 14, 2014
Lisa and Jeff, We were saddened and shocked to learn of Matthew's death. You are in our prayers.
Max and Georgiann Mazgaj
Erika Evaldi
February 14, 2014
Dear Lisa & Jeff ,
So sorry for your loss....May Matthew rest in peace in the arms of his ANGELS.....GOD bless you and your families....
February 13, 2014
I`m so sorry for your loss.
Debbie & Rick Abraham
February 13, 2014
Lisa & Jeff,
So sorry to hear about your son, our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
mary levinger
February 13, 2014
We are so sorry for the passing of your
Matthew.We will always remember him as choo choo, always so happy with a smile on his face.You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Jackie Milani
February 13, 2014
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss...condolences to you and your family, Trooper Depasquale. May your son RIP
Maureen Sibenik
February 13, 2014
Dear Jeff and Lisa and the entire DePasquale family, I am so sorry for your great loss of your son Matthew. May he rest in peace and may you all find peace together as a family. My heart is aching along with you and I am just so very sorry!
Donna & Rob Banach
February 13, 2014
Dear Jeff & Lisa,
Rob & I were heartbroken to hear about Matthew's death. We cannot fathom what your family is going through. We will keep your family in our hearts and prayers. Please do not hesitate if you need anything, we are here.
Paul J. Bigelow
February 13, 2014
Dear Jeff, Lisa & Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Norm Poloncarz
February 13, 2014
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Janis Evanisko
February 13, 2014
Lisa, Jeff and family, Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Cheryl Everett
February 13, 2014
Dear Lisa and Family - My sincere condolences on the untimely loss of your son Matt.
cheri geary - rothenberg
February 13, 2014
Lisa,
Your BOCES friends are so sorry...
know that you are loved!
Rita Vizzi- Durand
February 13, 2014
Lisa & Jeff and girls my heart just breaks over the loss of Matt. I remember fondly the first time i meet him .He and caitlyn were just getting over the chicken pox and he was covered in them.Caitlyn called him choo choo and He was my choo choo and was kind and a ray of sunshine that is how I will remember him . You are all in my prayers
Sharon Bishop
February 13, 2014
My deepest sympathy to everyone in the DePasquale family. I was so very sorry to see this and my prayers are with all of you.
Deborah Duttweiler
February 13, 2014
Dear DePasquale Family,
Please accept our most sincere Condilences to your entire Family at this difficult time. Rest in Peace Matt
Sarah Crowe
February 13, 2014
Dear Jeff, Lisa, and family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my family's thoughts and prayers.
February 13, 2014
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Ruth and Amy Fields and Kathleen and Jimmy Walsh(Walshie)
Ralph & Diane Galanti
February 13, 2014
Dear Jeff, Lisa, the DePasquale & Collareno Families,
Our hearts are heavy with your loss of Matthew. He will be in our prayers and thoughts. The family has our deepest. sympathy
Tim & Beth Mott
February 13, 2014
Our deepest, most sincere sympathies to all of you, at your time of loss. Words cannot express how deeply saddened we are with the news of your loss. Losing a loved one, especially a child, is so very difficult. May it help to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May it also help to know that God has you all wrapped in His loving arms, and will provide you peace........in time. God bless you all.
February 13, 2014
Dear Lisa, sincere condolances to you and your family. Many prayers and thoughts are with you all. you all will grieve differently but grieve just the same. compassionate friends are out here when you need us. dottie heft
Cathy and Dwayne Lang
February 13, 2014
Dear Jeff, Lisa and Kids, Words can not describe the sorrow we feel for your loss of Matthew. Our condolences go out to each of you. Our prayers are with you also. Hopefully time will heal all the pain you feel at this time. As you go through the days, try and remember all the great times you had together as a family.
Ken Thomas
February 13, 2014
Jeff, Lisa and family, My deepest sympathy on the loss of Matt. May God give you strength .
Ken Thomas
Fr. Zarko Mula
February 13, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you. Also, sympathy to the family, relatives and friends.
Christa Boustead/Kintzel
February 12, 2014
Dear Lisa and Jeff I have a lot of great memories of Matt at the age of 9 my son Tony joined a team of boys that played hockey together. We had so much fun watching them play and making mistakes along the way. But I know for sure god has him in his arms. My heart is so heavy for you .
February 12, 2014
It is with our deepest sympathy that we pray for your family that you may have peace, strength and healing.
Jill Owen-Cloud & Family
Lin Rejent
February 12, 2014
We Thank You for your service...God Bless You and your family at this most difficult time. We find comfort in our Lord's promise of eternal life...
donna rainville
February 12, 2014
My heart is broken for you and your family...May you find peace in prayers and family...You will always be in my thoughts and prayers
Linda Klimowicz
February 12, 2014
I am sooo very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...
Christine Bodkin
February 12, 2014
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Damian Grabowski
February 12, 2014
So sorry to hear of the passing of your son. My sincere condolences to your family.
Sara Eddy
February 12, 2014
Please be assured of our continued prayers at this difficult time. -The Faculty, Staff and Students of Our Lady of Victory School
Fr.Zarko Mula
February 12, 2014
My sympathy and prayers to the family, relatives and friends.
Anne & Lou Vertino
February 12, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Norm & Diane Klajbor
February 12, 2014
Jeff, Lisa and family,
We were very saddened to hear of Matthew's passing. This is a tremendous loss and our prayers go out for your comfort and peace during this difficult time. May Matthew rest in peace.
Mike Fennell
February 12, 2014
Jeff Lisa our thoughts and prayers are with you Mike (Huck @Babes)Fennell
Camille Williams
February 12, 2014
May you find peace comfort at this time . I remember all the funny stories Lisa used to tell about Matt's childhood antics hopefully those kind of memories will help you all throughout this diffacult time. Sincerely Camille . Ollie & Alia Williams
Rebecca and Jeffrey Geercken
February 12, 2014
Praying for peace and happiness to return to my cousin Jeff, Lisa, Michelle, Cait and the entire DePasquale family. Our deepest sympathies have no way of being expressed but know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and that God always has a plan that we can't begin to understand. Know that Matthew is in absolute paradise and for that we rejoice.
Joe Keane
February 12, 2014
Jeff & Family,
I am sorry to hear of your family's loss.
Brad and Kate Lansberry
February 12, 2014
Tony and Family,
If words could heal I would write you a book and it would not begin to ease your pain. Please know that Brad and I have you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Mark Kreib
February 12, 2014
Fair winds and following seas Shipmate. May the Lord keep your family in this time of loss and may our nation remember your service and sacrifice.
Respectfully
CDR Mark Kreib
Va. Beach/Tonawanda
Cheryl Frame
February 12, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Matt & Lindsay Kasprzak
February 12, 2014
Michelle and Family,
You and your family are in our thoughts and hearts,may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Michele & DL (Sawicki) Cheatwood
February 11, 2014
Lisa & Jeff, We were so saddened by Matthew's passing and so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. My dad & Mom thought the world of Matt.
February 11, 2014
Lisa & Jeff,I am so sorry to hear of your loss. There are no words to help you but you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Suzanne Nowicki Reich & Family
Deer Park N.Y.
Nancyanne Boucher
February 11, 2014
My Thoughts and prays are with you and your family and friends Jeffrey and Lisa a friend of Terri Polanski
Lisa Mendez (Foose)
February 11, 2014
Lisa and Jeff, I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Kim,Bob, & Cayleigh Jackson (Rozwood)
February 11, 2014
So sorry for your loss. Your family, is in our thoughts and prayers.
February 11, 2014
Jeff and Lisa (and your children),
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family for the loss of your loved and cherished son Matthew. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
-Ray,Paula,Daniel,and Lauren Skalski
February 11, 2014
Michelle
My condolences to you and your family. You are all in my constant prayers.
Dianne Bellagamba
Joseph OConnell
February 11, 2014
So sorry to hear of his passing. My condolences to the family and all who loved him. Just remember he is always watching and that you will be together again some day.
Rosemarie Bonare (Migas)
February 11, 2014
Tony and Family, My heartfelt condolences to you and your grandson's family. As always, remember the happy times and may they sustain you as you grieve. God's blessings upon all of you. Sincerely, Rosemarie Bonare
Paula and Ron Covelli
February 11, 2014
Our sincerest sympathies and heartfelt condolences.
Lauren, Mark & Len
February 11, 2014
We know that no words can help ease the pain and loss that you are feeling right now. Your family continues to be in our every thought and prayer. Matt will live on in his legacy as a Son, Brother, Uncle, Grandson, Cousin, Nephew and Forever Friend.
Marisa Chini
February 11, 2014
You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time and I wish you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
John O'Connor
February 9, 2014
So sorry to learn about Matt. Losing a child has to be one of the most difficult of all human situations. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time.
Jerry & Liz O'Connor- our condolences to Jeff, Lisa ,Tony Michelle and Katy
Deanna Petrillo
February 9, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jodie Owrey
February 6, 2014
Matthew your family here on Bataan will take you with them in their hearts wherever we go...Condolences to the family, Matthew will be missed greatly!
Cara Doyle
February 6, 2014
Matt always made me laugh so hard with his sarcastic attitude and personality. I remember when we were little we would wrestle all of the time and he would have to recruit Ryan because he needed another boy to take on the challenge to defeat me. I always felt that I earned Matt's respect because of my toughness and that I was "one of the guys" and he was one of the cousins I would hang out with the most. Even though he was a "tough guy", he definitely had his tender moments...some that you could only see one on one. Although he enlisted in the navy and we didn't talk much, things always resumed how they were when he came home. He was the same goofy Matt. I can't believe he is gone and it isn't fair that it happened, but I do know that he was and is loved so much by so many people and that he will be greatly missed. Love you, Matt. Rest in peace.
Sharon Catuzza
February 6, 2014
There are no words. I am so sorry
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