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Matthew Posey Obituary
Matthew was born October 17, 2000 at Langley AFB VA. As a military child, Matt lived in 5 different states by the age of 12. He graduated from Randolph High School in San Antonio, TX in 2019, where he was student body president, captain of the cheer squad, involved in numerous campus organizations, and excelled in advanced academic classes. At 23, Matt had an auspicious future, as he was working towards a degree in journalism, first at the University of Texas Austin, then transferring to the University of North Texas in Denton. He was a member of the school newspaper staff at both universities, where he published multiple articles and video stories. Matt exhibited a thirst for knowledge and a passion for nature, activism, music, and fashion. These were powerfully portrayed in his published works. His talents, creativity, and colorful spirit touched all who knew him.
Matthew is loved and missed by his parents Jeff and Christina, sister Maddie, brother-in-law Tristan, and nephew Jonah Mateo. He is also survived by his Nana, Georgia, and grandparents Patricia, Chris, David and Barbara. As well as numerous aunt, uncles, and cousins. He is preceded in death by his grandfather, Donald Bussell and grandmother, Kathleen O'Hara.
Please join us for a celebration of Matthew's life on Saturday, October 5th from 6pm to 8pm at the Japanese Tea Gardens in San Antonio TX. In honor of Matthew's bright spirit, please feel free to dress vibrantly.
In lieu of flowers, a donation can be made to the Trevor Project in Matthew's name here: https://give.thetrevorproject.org/give/63307/#!/donation/checkout.
If you prefer to send flowers, please send them to the Drury Plaza on 95NE Interstate Loop 410 San Antonio, TX 78216 by 4pm on October 5th.
The service will be streamed online through Zoom: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82447713056?pwd=Nbh2rVaT2IB1La3ERCoWUTXChlRBBN.1
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Madeline Salinas
January 17, 2025
I met Matt during my first semester at UT back in 2019. While we didn't see each other every day, the days that I did get to see him were always great. He was always smiling and witty, which I always admired. I could tell he was full of talent. Back then, I looked up to him and remember thinking that he would be more than successful in whatever he chose to do.
After spending my sophomore year online due to the pandemic, I remember being excited to return to my journalism classes my junior year and possibly run into Matt. He was the type of guy that you wanted to be friends with.
December of 2019 was the last time I saw Matt, as the pandemic hit, and we didn´t have any classes together my second semester. I didn´t know that would be the last time I would see him before he transferred to UNT and then later passed away. He was such a sweet person.
I was saddened to hear of Matt´s passing. My condolences to his family. Matt was the brightest light.
Sophie Perez
November 13, 2024
Missing you, Matty.
Andrea Olan
October 9, 2024
I met Matt at an intro to photojournalism class last semester... The first thing he said to me was "I really like your pants and your style." We spoke every single class, we shared our photos before turning them in and studied together. It was a pleasure to meet their kind soul and I will forever be grateful for all the kind words Matt said to me during our semester as classmates. The news was truly heartbreaking. I send all my prayers to his family.
Cici Reyes
October 5, 2024
matthew was such a beautiful soul, he always made everyone around them feel so special. He´s genuinely one of the most creative people i have had the pleasure of interacting with. Though I never had the chance to meet him in person, every interaction we had online was a great one. He will be so incredibly missed. Fly high
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Isaac Kimmel
October 5, 2024
There are no adequate words...sending our deepest condolences.
Love,
Isaac and Kate
Kaylah Glaspie
October 4, 2024
Matthew was truly such a light in my life and will forever be missed. My fondest memories of him was our close relationship in high school and how we always rooted and pushed each other to be our greatest. That is something I will always remember about Matthew, his greatness and light in every room he walked in and everyone he interacted with.
Nicholas Luneke
October 1, 2024
I had the honor of being one of Matt's cousins. Living across the country from him, I didn't get to see him all that often, but he was always a highlight in whatever family thing he went to. He grew up to be a great guy, he was super smart, funny, had an overwhelming charisma at all times and in general was just a beautiful soul. I, and many others, will miss him always and I doubt I'll ever be able to eat at Marian's without thinking of him
Archer MacGregor
September 30, 2024
anytime I had the pleasure of talking with Matthew, usually while he and faith were on FaceTime, they always had the brightest laugh & most infectious personality. they were quick with a joke and it was always a delight to interact with them.
Melissa Paynter
September 30, 2024
The biggest thing I´ve learned from Matt is to always smile and have fun no matter when or where. He was always such a bright light.
Roslyn Densmore
September 30, 2024
Matt was an online friend for over two years and always made my day when I got to talk to him. He had a truly amazing personality and could always make me smile. His beautiful soul will be missed so so much.
Ameia Rimpson
September 29, 2024
I only got to know Matt for a year and a half. He was someone I always wanted to be friends with and in my senior year I got the opportunity to do so through Sophie. Our time together was very short but his impact lasts on me forever. I will always remember how he didn't mind how quiet, awkward, and odd I was. He saw me for me and never made me feel out of place. His small acts of kindness towards me helped me get through high school and be kind to others around me. I will forever remember dancing with him during lunch hour and being crazy with each other. Thank you for coming into my life Matt, your kindness stays with me always. I love you.
Noelle Sharp
September 29, 2024
We were in cheer together. I just remember him being so funny and bubbly but when he meant business he meant it. He was one of the sweetest people to come into my life and I´m so appreciative to have met him. He will be missed so dearly.
Emily Escobedo
September 29, 2024
Matt was an absolute highlight of my time at Randolph. My best memories on the cheer team always involved him and his innate ability to make anyone smile and laugh. I can remember being an 8th grader trying out for the team and being so nervous. Matt was the one I always looked up to, even outside of cheer. It was a privilege to witness his impact and involvement around the school, and his spirit for all things journalism. I am extremely lucky to have known Matt. He was an inspiration and role model to everyone around him and he will be missed dearly.
Samantha Port
September 29, 2024
Matt was an internet friend of mine for over a year. His talent and passion for his interests was always incredibly inspiring to me. He was truly an amazing, caring friend and his presence in my life is sorely missed.
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