DR. MAX "UNCLE MAX" SCHNEIDER

1922 - 2014

DR.  MAX "UNCLE MAX" SCHNEIDER obituary, 1922-2014, Orange, CA

DR. MAX "UNCLE MAX" SCHNEIDER

1922 - 2014

BORN

1922

DIED

2014

MAX SCHNEIDER Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 4 to Oct. 8, 2014.
Schneider, Dr. Max "Uncle Max" died peacefully at his home in Orange on September 28th at age 92 with his family by his side.

Dr. Schneider, an internist who retired at age 90, leaves an impressive legacy in the world of addiction medicine.

Growing up in Buffalo, New York, Max Schneider used to joke that he started practicing medicine at age 10 as he assisted a fireman who needed a Band-Aid after fighting a house fire next door.

From that moment on, he was a fixture at the firehouse, and in later years, after he became a doctor, he volunteered as a fire department's surgeon.

Graduating from the University of Buffalo School of Medicine, where he did his internship and residency until 1952, Schneider went on to Harvard Medical School for a fellowship, completing his training in 1953.

Also in 1953 he accompanied a Boy Scout troop as one of the physicians for the Boy Scout Jamboree by train from Buffalo to Santa Ana, California. Present location of that Boy Scout Jamboree is Fashion Island. Giving him his first taste of California.

He practiced internal medicine and gastroenterology in Buffalo for 10 years before moving to Orange County in 1964.

His career turning point came when he was asked to cover a fellow doctor's practice that provided treatment to many patients who were alcoholics, and he went on to become a pioneer in the field of addiction medicine. Today, recovery programs throughout California and the country include elements that are based on his work.

In the late 70's and early 80's he was involved with the Family Recovery Services at St. Joseph Hospital (Orange, California). Max also had a career as an "Expert Witness" on Drug and Alcohol. He testified in over 400 cases.

From 1997 to 2012 he served as Chapman Medical Center's director of education in the Chemical Dependency Unit.

Dr. Steven Duckor, medical director of Chemical Dependency Unit at Chapman Medical Center told OC Register columnist Barbara Venezia in 2012, "We have him to thank for paving the road for all of us in addiction medicine. He basically developed the field. In the early 60's people didn't really want to deal with or take care of people with alcoholism. We owe this all to Max's development."

During his career he produced 10 films and five booklets on addiction; authored over 60 papers; and lectured in 49 states, three Canadian provinces, and six countries.

Max was a past president of the American Society of Addiction medicine and the California Society of Addiction Medicine. He was chair of the board of directors of the National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, first for Orange County and later for the national organization. He served on the Drug and Alcohol Advisory Committee of the U.S. Food and Drug Administrative during the controversy whether nicotine was a safe drug or not.

As an instructor, Dr. Schneider serves as a faculty member at Harvard, the University of Buffalo School of Medicine, and the University of California Irvine College of Medicine.

In 1995, he was named "Doctor of the Year" by the Orange County Medical Association and was presented the "Golden Apple Award" for outstanding teaching by the 1995 University of California at Irvine Medical College graduating class.

In his very full and long life, Max blazed more than just the trail of addiction recovery.

"It was very difficult being a gay man back the 1930's and 40's," he told Venezia when she featured his July 29th, 2012 90th birthday party in her OC Register column. "My parents were accepting but I didn't tell them until I was in my 40's."

Known for his philanthropy, for his 90th birthday party, Schneider asked guests to make donations to the Gay and Lesbian Center of Orange County as a birthday gift to him. The party raised about $38,000.

Speaking about the "Center", Max said, "It is a "Center" which makes it easier for people to live an honest life - a place where people can go talk about their religious, family and societal conflicts and deal with it appropriately."

Max acknowledged the "Center's" youth programs as well as those for the aged. "I understand they now have a program for seniors," he said at the time," I won't be attending. I hate old people."

Those who loved him for his wicked sense of humor, and his signature Mickey Mouse ties will remember Max.

Ron Smelt mourns the passing of his partner of 44 years. Max's wish was he would live to see the day the federal government recognize Gay marriage. He did, so Max and Ron got married.

"Those who wish to honor Max should make a donation in his name to their favorite charity," says Smelt. "We are following his wishes in having no memorial or funeral service." His 90th birthday and retirement Party was also his memorial where he was able to see and visit with 530 people.

Dr. Schneider lived and amazingly full life and many will miss him. He leaves a legacy that will live on throughout his philanthropy and the trails he blazed in addiction medicine and as a human rights advocate.

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July 21, 2018

ROBERTA GONZALEZ posted to the memorial.

January 3, 2015

Susie Katreeb posted to the memorial.

October 16, 2014

Lito and Harry Denenburg/Haralambou posted to the memorial.

ROBERTA GONZALEZ

July 21, 2018

Max was my brother's scoutmaster at Boyscout camp and became my father's doctor. When he entered our house to help in the crisis of my dad's early life heart attacks, my panic would ease down to fear and then hope. When the cardiologist arrived Max's regard for his words and the symbol of his respect as he held the elder doctor's coat to assist him has remained in my memory over the 58 years since his death. I had chosen medicine for my calling before 10 years of age and was told repeatedly that my opportunities on that path would be very limited because I was a woman, and a Jewish one. With a cardiac invalid father it appeared that I could not matriculate because of lack of support. But Max made it possible and I did become a doctor, practiced Internal medicine and endocrinology for 25 years and then trained again to add psychiatry and psychoanalysis to my career. My college roomate and I visited Max and Ron early in my career, but I rue that I did not stay in touch and learned tonight of the great hearted Max Schneider's death. So I rejoice in his long life despite his struggle with a personal health problem and simultaneously mourn the world's and my loss of a prodigious role model. Rest in peace Max.
Roberta Beckman Gonzalez, M.D.

Susie Katreeb

January 3, 2015

Such an honor to have been in my life, I honor his life.

Lito and Harry Denenburg/Haralambou

October 16, 2014

Max, we are going to miss you. You were such an inspiration to so many.

Mr. Crusader

October 11, 2014

Dr. Max was very smart, courageous, and funny person who touched my heart and the hearts of many others. He often made me laugh. My condolences to his husband, Ron.

John-David Keller

October 10, 2014

When I first met Max at the St Joseph's recovery unit, his first words to me were,"we have been waiting for you.". May his higher power have the same thought.

Crystal Ornelas

October 9, 2014

I salute you Dr. Thank you for leading us in the right direction! May you always be remembered as the icon you are in the field!

Lorrie Linn Odell

October 9, 2014

Max, you were a blessing to countless people trying to get back on the path. You will be greatly missed. Can't help but smile, though, just thinking about you. Thank you for being uniquely You. Much Love.

Sue Berger

October 8, 2014

What a great man and what a great legacy.
Truly a treasure.

The Alexander Family

October 7, 2014

We were enriched by Max's zest for life, outrageous humor and unstoppable intellect. Ron, thank you for your devotion and tender care. Our thoughts and love are with you.

Tom, JoAnn and Leigh Alexander

October 6, 2014

What a wonderful, wonderful man, leader in the addiction field, and friend. Loved his caring, his humor, his intellect. Max, you will be so missed. Ron, my aloha and condolences to you. Aloha, Joyce

Errean Kratochvil

October 6, 2014

truly loved you..will miss you

Barbara Bernard

October 6, 2014

I am saddened to learn of Max's demise. He was on the staff of Beverly Manor when I was a patient there in '75. He was most helpful when I was trying to get my life straightened out. Now it has been over 39 years and I am so grateful. My condolences to Max's family and friends.

Walter Carnwright

October 6, 2014

Max had a warm smile and a funny joke on every occasion we met, even during surprise visits in our mutual dentists office! His example of unconditional love and charitable giving inspires the next generation to do our part. A personal hero is gone but will never be forgotten.

Gary Helton

October 6, 2014

What a man! What a legacy! You were one of a kind, Dr. Max--a real gem!

Frank Williams

October 5, 2014

To a very caring and generous man, Max , you have been a very friend to me and a very good listener. You will always be remembered.

David Carranza-Lege

October 5, 2014

What a legacy, indeed! Celebrate his life sharing stories of his incredible life.

Steve Earley

October 5, 2014

Max always had a good word and some humor to share with those he saw. He was a generous man in spirit and action. He loved the community here in OC and was a wonderful early supporter of Men Alive. RIP my friend

October 5, 2014

Max was in every way a great teacher, hero, and friend. He and Ron were role models for many, many others.

Carlos A. Lamboy & George Marcelle
Los Angeles

Rich DePippo

October 5, 2014

I will always remember Max. He inspired me and many others who knew him to make a difference, work for human rights for the gay community, and to savor friends and life along the way. I think what I will remember most is his unfailing sense of humor. He will be missed.

Denise Penn

October 4, 2014

Words that are adequate to describe the contribution Dr. Max made to making the world a better place and spreading a little laughter and joy in the process

Althea Ingram & Theresa Greenway

October 4, 2014

Max is a true legend in OC. His welcoming smile and big hugs will be missed.

Ed Miskevich Scott Westerfield

October 4, 2014

Max brought us joy and laughter, and was a generous and kind man. We will remember him always.

Ed Miskevich and Scott Westerfield

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