Maximus Robert Derba

2008 - 2017

Maximus Robert Derba obituary, 2008-2017, Cape Coral, FL

Maximus Robert Derba

2008 - 2017

BORN

2008

DIED

2017

Maximus Derba Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 9, 2017.
Maximus Robert Derba, age 9, passed away on March 6, 2017, succumbing to his 8 month battle with Neuroblastoma cancer. He was surrounded by his Mother, Father, close family and the staff who cared for him at Boston Children's Hospital.

Born on February 18, 2008, at Norwood Hospital, Massachusetts, he was the youngest son of Justin and Laura Derba.

Surviving in addition to his parents are one brother, Declan Derba, age 10, maternal grandparents, Peter and Deborah Tamulionis of Cape Coral, Florida (formerly of West Bridgewater, Massachusetts), paternal grandparents, Robert and Laura Derba of Norfolk, Massachusetts (formerly of Stoughton, Massachusetts), 7 loving Aunts and Uncles, Michael, Stephanie, Mark, Katie, Matthew Tamulionis and Heather Ryan, Keith and Meghan Derba, and 6 cousins, Alex, Leah, and Lydia Tamulionis and Mary-Kathryn, Kaydance, and Kamryn Derba.

Max was a fun and loving boy who enjoyed playing video games with his brother/partner in crime, Declan. His favorites were Zelda, Minecraft and anything Mario. He loved playing with plushies, swimming and finding buried treasure with his cousins. He was always looking out for them and making sure they were safe. Other fun activities were sword fights and Nerf gun wars with his dad and uncles, as well as beach days with his mom and family.

Max was the kind of kid who others just gravitated to naturally. He was welcoming to all and would never hesitate to go out of his way to make sure that no one ever felt left out. He was quick with a smile and his giant blue eyes were enough to immediately make anyone fall in love with him. He was a natural born leader who had an infectious laugh that filled the room. It was always a guarantee that where Max was, he was surrounded by others who relished in the joy of simply being in his company. Max left behind so many people who adored him, there are simply too many to list.

Over the past 8 months, the outpouring of love and support from family, friends both new and old, and perfect strangers resonated deeply with Maximus. He always found comfort in the frequent visits of Mary Kate, Kaydance, Kamryn and Lydia, and Declan. Long days and nights were also spent with Monica, Jaime, Erin and Kelly by his side.

A wake will be held on Sunday, March 12 from 4-8pm at Coral Ridge Funeral Home & Cemetery, 1630 SW Pine Island Road, Cape Coral, Florida 33991.

Funeral services will be Monday, March 13 at 3:30 at Saint Andrews Catholic Church, 2628 Del Prado Blvd, Cape Coral 33904. Burial & Reception to follow mass at the Cape Coral Yacht Club, 5819 Driftwood Pkwy, Cape Coral 33904.

In lieu of flowers, Justin and Laura would like to help support another family whose son, Jefferson, is battling cancer at Boston Children's Hospital. They supported Max and family with love and prayers through their own difficult journey. You can donate at: www.gofundme.com/mighty-max.

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November 2, 2017

Christian Phillips posted to the memorial.

March 29, 2017

Dee Dee Rowen posted to the memorial.

March 13, 2017

Eileen Finley posted to the memorial.

Christian Phillips

November 2, 2017

Much Love for Mighty Max

Dee Dee Rowen

March 29, 2017

Rest In Paradise Little Angel

Eileen Finley

March 13, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son, Max. He was a fighter. Prayers for you and your entire family during this very difficult time. I know Kelly Porter, she's my daughter, Lauren's friend.

E Ramirez

March 13, 2017

We wish to express our deepest of sympathies to all of Max's family and all those who loved him. Please know you have been in our prayers and will continue to be. We pray that God grants you the strength you need at this most difficult time. 8th Grade SACS Ramirez Family

Sharon Pierce

March 13, 2017

Laura, Bob and Family
May your heart find lasting peace among the memories you cherish of Max and hope within the promise of tomorrow. Our prayers are with you all.... The Pierce Family

Vanessa Hudson

March 12, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss, and will continue to pray for Declan and the entire family.

Jeanne Cullen

March 12, 2017

Our hearts go out to all those whose lives were touched by Max. With deepest sympathy....you're all in our thoughts and prayers...♡♡♡♡♡ The Cullen Family.

Anne Gellert

March 12, 2017

As a middle school teacher at St. Andrew I was not blessed to have Max as a student. However, as you know we are a family at SACS and we have all been praying for Max and the Derba family throughout this difficult time. I continue to keep all of you in my prayers and especially prayers for Max.

Marilyn Richardson

March 11, 2017

Lord our God,
you give and you take away.
You blessed us through the gift of - - - - - - ,
who is now taken from us
and whose loss we mourn.
Help us, through our tears and pain,
to glimpse your hand at work
to bring blessing out of grief.
To you be glory for ever.
Amen.

You earned your wings Max. Fly high and rest easy ``Marilyn Richardson Angier NC

Donna, Eagle Brook

March 11, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with the Derba family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Andre

March 11, 2017

I'm so sorry to hear of your son and deepest condolences are extended to you. Something that's helped me through the death of loved ones is to reflect on 1 Corinthians 15:26.

Glenn

March 11, 2017

My kids are alumni from St Andrews and we are also from the south Shore of Boston. We are devastated and praying for your family.

Chris Lincoln

March 10, 2017

Keith and Family, I'm very sorry to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Chris Lincoln (Taunton MA)

Shirley Page

March 10, 2017

My deepest sympathy for the loss of sweet Max.
My thoughts and prayers go out to all during this tragic time.

Jason Pearsall

March 10, 2017

We are deeply saddened by the news of Max's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jim Heuglin

March 10, 2017

I want to express my deepest sympathy to Laura & Justin and the entire Derba and Tamulionis families on the loss of Max. A kid with a smile that would melt your heart. Simply put these four words best describe him. WHAT A GREAT KID

Ryan Healey

March 9, 2017

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

March 9, 2017

Peter. My very deepest sympathy to you and your family. Margaret Anderson

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