Michael Edward McAllister

Michael Edward McAllister

Michael McAllister Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 29, 2025.
Michael Edward McAllister, 76, passed away on May 20, 2025, in New York, New York. Born on September 9, 1948, in the same city he called home throughout his life, Michael left behind a legacy of compassion, intellect, and dedication to the well-being of others.

Michael's academic journey reflected his deep commitment to learning and service. He earned a Bachelor of Arts from Bard College in 1970, followed by a Master of Arts from New York University in 1974. In 1980, he completed a Master of Social Work at the State University of New York at Albany. Additionally certified as a high school teacher of American history, Michael's passion for education was evident not only in his own pursuits but also in the way he shared knowledge with those around him.

For over four decades, Michael devoted his professional life to public service across numerous New York City agencies. As a Behavioral Therapist and Director of both Mental Health and Substance Misuse/Abuse programs, he worked tirelessly to support individuals from diverse communities. His efforts helped countless people find paths toward sobriety and healthier lives. His work was not just a career-it was a calling that defined much of his adult life.

Michael's personal life was equally rich and fulfilling. He is survived by his beloved wife of 41 years, Livia; his son Colin and daughter-in-law Patricia; and their children-his cherished grandchildren-Jack, Max, and Meredith. He is also remembered by his step-son Devin and daughter-in-law Natalie and their daughter Arden. Michael's family circle extended to include his brother Paul McAllister and sister-in-law Dora; his sister Margaret of Florida; as well as several nieces and nephews who held him dear. Michael is also survived by his sister-in-law Madeline Gallagher and husband James Gallagher and their children Jim and Vanessa Gallagher.

A man of many passions, Michael found joy in both quiet reflection and spirited adventure. His love for reading was lifelong-he devoured everything from periodicals to biographies and had recently immersed himself in fiction. Friends often marveled at his encyclopedic knowledge on topics both common and obscure.

An avid cyclist, Michael enjoyed riding through the streets of New York City as well as exploring Europe on two wheels alongside Livia. His enthusiasm for motorcycles began in his twenties and remained strong throughout the years; he owned several models that brought him great joy. Travel abroad was another source of inspiration for him, especially when combined with cycling or time spent with loved ones.

Those who knew Michael will remember not only his intellect but also his sharp wit and infectious humor. He had an uncanny ability to tell stories-funny tales from youth or clever observations from everyday life-that left listeners laughing long after the moment had passed.

Michael's love for dogs added yet another layer to his warm personality; animals were drawn to him just as people were. Whether through conversation or quiet companionship, he made others feel seen and valued.

In honoring Michael Edward McAllister's memory, we celebrate a life lived with purpose, curiosity, humor, and heart. May his memory bring comfort to those who knew him and continue to inspire acts of kindness in the world he helped shape so meaningfully. A Memorial Service will be held on June 7, 2025, at 02:00 PM at Sparrow Funeral Home 161 Driggs Avenue.

In lieu of flowers the family request contributions be made in Michael McAllisters memory and for continued Cancer research to: Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Care Center, New York.

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Darryl Perry

June 2, 2025

Remembering Michael

Some people leave a lasting mark not just through what they do, but through how they are thoughtful, steady and quietly generous. Michael was that kind of person.

We shared the kind of conversations that only happen when there´s trust, when two people are willing to speak honestly and really listen. Through those conversations, what we built felt like more than friendship it was true camaraderie. There was a comfort in our connection that didn´t need to be explained, just understood.

Michael had a way of making sense of things. He carried knowledge that stretched across so many areas and he somehow always made it relevant to the moment. He could take something complex and make it feel clear, or offer a perspective that gently shifted the way you were seeing something. Sometimes it came through a thoughtful pause, or through a bit of humor that softened the weight of the day.

He was also really patient. He gave people room to speak, and space to figure out what they were really trying to say. And when he responded, it wasn´t to impress it was to support, to clarify, to help. Being around him made it easier to think, easier to feel grounded.

Michael was someone who constantly gave of himself often quietly, and always sincerely. He offered help without needing credit. He stepped in without being asked. He made the role of public servant mean something real - not through words, but through the way he showed up again and again with care, humility, and purpose.

We also shared a love for dogs and for bikes and Michael is the reason I bought a motorcycle. What started as a few conversations became a shift in how I moved through the world. He never pushed me toward it he just shared his joy for it in a way that made it feel like I needed to do that too lol. He was a mentor who didn´t know it.

And there´s something that still makes me smile: Michael preferred Michael, but no one ever called him that. Everyone called him Mike. He never corrected anyone he just let it go. I was probably the only one who knew, which somehow made it even funnier. It was one of those quiet things he held with grace which just built more admiration.

There´s so much I´ll remember his insight, his steadiness, the way he made space for people without needing anything back. But I´ll also remember the smaller things, the way he talked about his rides on his motorcycle, the calm he brought into a room which often reminded us who we´re there for. The way he listened really listened and helped others feel understood.

It was an honor to know him. To talk with him. To learn from him. And to carry forward even a small part of what he gave so generously to the world around him. I still find myself when stumped in conversation saying "what would Mike say?".

Michael was truly one of a kind. And he´ll always be with those of us who had the gift of knowing him - not just in memory, but in the ways we move, speak, and serve.

Elvis Calix-Lopez

May 29, 2025

Michael was my therapist for 7 years. He helped me through it all. He´s one of the most grounded and logical people I have ever met and I will miss him, and I will take with me all the life lessons and all the sound advice he´s given me that has changed my life, and I will pay it forward. I will be kind like him and I will be sound.

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