Michael Kevin McHale

1951 - 2022

Michael Kevin McHale obituary, 1951-2022, Margate, FL

Michael Kevin McHale

1951 - 2022

BORN

1951

DIED

2022

Michael McHale Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 6, 2022.

 Michael Kevin McHale, 71, of Boca Raton, FL passed away on December 2nd, 2022 after a courageous battle with cancer.


Mike was born in Queens, NY and his strong accent gave that information away immediately. His mother died when he was 3 years old, and he grew up with his grandparents until his father met Betty, and their families merged. Mike never made a distinction between his sister, 6 step siblings, and half sister- they were all his family.


As a child, Mike loved baseball and was an altar boy who hated Catholic School. After graduating high school, he served in the Army and held several jobs until he found his passion as a transit cop in the NY Subway system.


He married Beth in 1976 and was over the moon when his three children, Kevin (Joanna), Sara (Howard), and Marissa (Victor) were born. They eventually moved from NY and began their life in South Florida. He was beloved at Loggers Run Middle School and Olympic Heights High School as a school police officer, and for many years after he left his job, former students would excitedly run up to him calling for Officer McHale. He found joy in any job he took on, from working as a security officer to shipping parcels to driving for Uber.


Mike met Robin Lopato Hest in 2003 and they became best friends, getting engaged in 2005 and finally marrying in August 2022. He supported her throughout life’s challenges, offering calm and perspective and asking, “Is anybody getting shot? No? Then there’s nothing to worry about.” Together, they enjoyed seeing his children and Robin’s children Ivy (Seth) and Ian grow up, have careers, find love, and start families of their own.


Mike was funny, kind, generous, wise, and down to earth. He could watch videos of cute toddlers forever, especially videos of his grandkidsBrayden, Levi, Reagan and Maurice. He called himself the Christmas Kid and looked forward to any holiday he could spend with family. He loved singing oldies, watching classical movies and documentaries, and going to the theater. He cried at sappy commercials and cared deeply about his friends and family. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.


In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to a charity of your choice. 


Share your memory of Mike or express condolences to his family through our online guestbook. 

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May 13, 2023

Eric Golub posted to the memorial.

December 19, 2022

James and Alice McHale planted trees.

December 19, 2022

May you rest in peace XOXO planted trees.

Eric Golub

May 13, 2023

I worked with Mike in a security job from 2008 - 2012. He was a great stand up guy, one of my former NYers. We both previously held law enforcement jobs for NYC and had a deep respect for each other.
To know him, was to like him. He will be missed by all who knew him.

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James and Alice McHale

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May you rest in peace XOXO

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Jean Murphy

December 9, 2022

Mike was my cousin, my mom's brother's son. We saw each other as young kids and then I moved across the country. I moved to Florida and in 1999 I wound up in the same city as Mike. We bumped into one another at the gym one day in 2003 eyeing the same stationary bike. That day was the beginning of a very strong bond that grew stronger over 20 years. I knew Mike had my back and I felt his unconditional love. He was like an older brother to me. He was there for support during some challenging times and his famous words were, "we are family, this is what we do." This is a great loss for all and my heart goes out to all of Mike's family and friends. May he rest in peace.

Michael Rosler

December 8, 2022

He was my brother and always a joy to be around. I was gone most of the time but whenever I came home It was as if it was the next day. Mike had a way of relaxing the area (room-yard-car, etc.) that made it easy to be around him.

Joe Wolff

December 8, 2022

Such a fantastic friend and leader... glad we had some time to spend together at the last few reunions... may he rest in peace!

William Michael Peragine

December 8, 2022

Mike, Thank you for blessing me with your friendship. Your kind soul and daily blessings to my children, wife, and myself have not gone unnoticed! May God Bless your soul and watch after your family!

Beth Mchale

December 8, 2022

May you Rest In Peace.

Tony Repetti

December 7, 2022

Thank you Mike for your friendship and guidance to us rookies in District 1. You helped keep us safe and taught us ‘The JOB’ May you rest in peace my brother.

Lafayette Pettiford

December 7, 2022

You were the most honest coolest LT that I've ever had. You will truly be missed! Rest on McHale. And my condolences to the family. Hugs to Robin!

Tommy Rudolph

December 6, 2022

He was my boss in transit back in the day, a great boss, better person

Carol Granoff

December 6, 2022

Mike will forever be remembered for his caring heart, his commitment to loved ones (family and friends), his honesty, strong work ethic and his heartwarming smile that conveyed the goodness he shared with others. May Mike's memory be a Blessing.

George and I are deeply saddened by Mike's passing. Mike will continue to be remembered as our dear friend. And we will always surround Robin and the family with the love and support they need.
Robin, may you find strength and peace in the days ahead..We love you all...
Carol & George Granoff

John Sannito

December 6, 2022

Worked with mike in dist 4 when he was a Lt he was a cops cop always to be counted on RIP

Steven Farkas

December 6, 2022

Robin,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of our colleague. Please accept our sincere condolences, he will never be forgotten by us. May God give you peace and strength to bear the situation.

Steven Farkas
Retired Sergeant, NYCTPD

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Andrea and Bill Plevka

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Louis Shanley

December 5, 2022

Mickey, you were always a great cop and friend. I remember the time we were on a re-union cruise and we had a ball. I also remember the time when you voluntered to drive myself ad a few others to my plane parked at ormand beach airport. I had to fly these guys back to ft. lauderdale. that was a great trip. there was also the time when my brother died and you and Robin respectfully attended his funeral service. You were always a great trooper and more than a friend. I could always count on you. You were always there. RIP my friend, and condolences to Robin and the family.

Thomas Schindler

December 5, 2022

I love you see, you again, Rest in Peace my Brother

Stephen Pitkiewicz

December 5, 2022

Rest In Peace Mike

Noel Negron

December 5, 2022

I remember Mike from the time when we were in the Academy together in company “C”. Mike was a great guy, loved by his fellow classmates and highly respected. He never changed, always a good guy then, and throughout life. You will be missed my friend, Rest In Peace.

Scott McGoldrick

December 5, 2022

Rest in Peace Mike, you were a Brother, Friend and Mentor. Thanks for the many laughs we had in District One and Task Force. Never forgotten. My prayers are sent to Robin and your family, God Bless.

Marc Fisher

December 5, 2022

Dear Robin,
I wish you and your family all the time, togetherness and strength you can find to tell stories, remember and honor Mike.

ANTHONY LOMANTO

December 4, 2022

The Executive Board and members of the NYC Retired Transit Police Officers Association extend our deepest condolences and sympathies to the McHale family on the passing of our brother Transit Police Officer, Michael McHale. He will be missed by the many fellow officers who lives he touched. May he Rest in Peace.

bonnie grossman

December 4, 2022

Mike, you are a beautiful soul. You were always there for anyone always. Your generosity and kindness will always be remembered. You will be truly missed but never forgotten. Rest in peace.
Xo Bonnie

Lou Bartolomeo

December 4, 2022

One of the best bosses I ever worked for with the Transit PD. A true warrior and one hell of a Transit cop! Rest in peace Mike.

Alan Frank

December 4, 2022

In loving memory of a wonderful person. May all our prayers and comforting thoughts surround you now ❤❤

Mark Adler

December 4, 2022

Thank you for helping me and so many others. You will be missed.

Kevin HICKEY

December 4, 2022

A good man. A good cop ....RIP

Bob Lagarenne

December 4, 2022

I worked with Mike in District 33. I’m glad to call him a coworker and friend. He was truly one of a kind and loved by everyone who knew him. To say he will be missed is an understatement. RIP my friend until we meet again

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