Michael Peter Milan

Michael Peter Milan

Michael Milan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 10 to Dec. 11, 2008.
MILAN MICHAEL PETER
53, the co-owner of J. Poli, Inc., an innovative and successful business on Pittsburgh's South Side, a man with a brilliant mind whose passion for living and generosity of spirit loomed even larger than his own 6' 7" frame, died unexpectedly on December 5, 2008. The memory of his absolute love for his large family must sustain them now. A loving and wonderful husband and father, Michael is survived by his wife Juli (Cerlan) and daughters Madison, Alina, and Kendall. Michael was a devoted son to Michael Milan Sr. and Helen Milan, a caring "big" brother to Michelle, Helene, Mara, Peter and Lisa and to their spouses, and was deeply involved in the lives of his nieces and nephews, Ollie, Tony, Mark, Christopher, Shane, Max, Sydney, Peter and Eleni. Michael's absence will be painfully felt by his immediate family as well as by his surviving aunts, uncles and cousins. An American poet once observed that "a bolt of lightning strikes but an inch of the earth but it lights up the whole horizon." Michael was a bolt of lightning in the lives of those fortunate enough to know him. His light will be missed. A celebration of Michael's vibrant life will occur on Saturday, December 13th from 1:30 to 4:00 p.m. at the South Baldwin Hall, 5311 McAnnulty Road 15236 (www.sbsocialhall.com). In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a donation to the Brashear Association, 2005 Sarah Street, Pittsburgh 15203, or to an education fund for Michael's daughters, c/o James Eiben, First National Bank, 1114 East Carson Street, Pittsburgh 15203. Arrangements by THOMAS J. GMITER F.H. Inc. 412-431-1029
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December 4, 2022

Chuck DiPasquale posted to the memorial.

December 4, 2020

Chuck DiPasquale posted to the memorial.

December 6, 2019

Someone posted to the memorial.

Chuck DiPasquale

December 4, 2022

Mike, you would be so proud of your three intelligent, responsible and beautiful daughters... and their loving mother. And also proud of your brother, sisters and your beloved family, who continue to soldier the Milans into the future. As we live on with only your spirit, I continue to feel your energy and positivity, often and with fondest remembrance.

-Primo-
Chuck DiPasquale

Chuck DiPasquale

December 4, 2020

MICHAEL,
In this unusual year of longing and emotional deprivation, many are reflecting again on our relationships with close friends & family. This may foster a deeper appreciation of how the mere “physical presence” of special people, brings warmth to our everyday lives. As we live on with only your spirit, I continue to feel your positive energy, and the boundless affection you shared with so many of us.
Simply unforgettable.
-Primo-

December 6, 2019

Michael.... Missing you this week, today and forevermore. I miss your smiles, your hugs, your laugh and the joy you brought to all who knew you well.
Chuck DiPasquale

Chuck DiPasquale

December 5, 2017

Traveling through familiar places in our city and looking into the faces of those you loved, stirs my memories of you. My sense of loss seems undiminished, even as time flies... as too soon did you, my beloved friend.

Chuck DiPasquale

December 4, 2017

Love you so much. Miss you so much

December 22, 2015

Thinking about my brother today and missing him so much.....Cant wait for that kiss that I used to try to push away. XOX

Chuck DiPasquale

December 7, 2015

Remembering you today, Mike... and often with heartfelt sympathies for your surviving family & beautiful daughters.

December 4, 2015

Vjecnaja pamjat (Memory Eternal)

Harry Maddock

February 27, 2014

YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY THOUGHTS ALMOST EVERY DAY.

ALL TEMP AIR CONDITIONING

November 20, 2011

We were all so blessed to have had you in our lives for so long, Love you Mike.

November 18, 2011

i miss you today as much as yesterday. i love you

August 19, 2011

Mike, Still missing you & thinking of you every day. I Love You. Cant wait to see you again

March 3, 2011

dad, i miss you more tham ever. i long to hear you again and ride with you. love, madi

December 6, 2010

Mike, the temperatures are dropping in Florida and this is about the time we start listening for the sound of motorcycles and loud laughter on the street. Still can't believe you're not coming. That void you left is never going to be filled.

You're the only man who's ever kissed my husband! Most people are intimidated by him - not you - bear hugs and kisses for everyone! (And he loved you for that!)

Your girls, all four, are doing well but they miss you terribly. Hope you can "feel the love" (as you'd say) up in heaven!

December 5, 2010

Michael, cannot believe it has been 2 years. You are missed so much that it hurts our hearts every minute of every day. We pray that you have found peace & that we will see you soon. God Bless the entire Milan Family!

December 23, 2009

Michael,

You remain in my heart, often remembered, dearly loved, sorely missed.

Your Friend Always,
Primo

December 22, 2009

Happy Birthday Big Brother...
I miss your laugh, your big hugs, your warmth, your very wise advice. I miss how you cared so much, and the security of knowing that you were always there to get us through whatever life happened to throw at us. I take comfort in knowing that you are at Peace, and feel only Love, Joy, and Happiness... and I take comfort in knowing that we all have a very special Guardian Angel. I Love You Mike!

December 15, 2009

Michael my brother.
It's been a year now.
Everyone said that it will get easier.
Everyone said that time will heal.
Everyone said that the pain will lessen.
I guess "everyone" didn't have you as their brother.
My heart is broken my brother.
I love you my brother

June 5, 2009

Six months today - thinking about & missing you Mikey...

Michael with daughter Alina

January 19, 2009

Mrs. Craig Golen

January 14, 2009

I'd like to offer my sincere condolence to your entire family. God bless you.

Maura Minteer

January 6, 2009

Our hearts are broken over the loss of Michael Milan. It has been a month now and it still is impossible to believe he is gone. Someone with a spirit so strong was far more fragile than we ever knew. Michael and Juli had shared so much that when I think back on the years I have known them it is like seeing a movie. Mostly, I see laughter and joy, and an appreciation for the small moments that make up a life. I saw how he adored his wife, Juli, I remember his close friendship with her brother, Billy Cerlan, and his love of her mother, Lori Cerlan--who he would tease and charm into laughter. I remember moments of time that included his close knit family and the love he had for his mother, father, brother, sisters, brothers- and sister-in-law,uncles, aunts, nephews, nieces, friends, their friends--the list goes on and on.

"It doesn't get any better than this!" he would say, with his arms spread wide, referring to the pool, the house, the car, the experience, the weather, the meal, the company--whatever or whoever he was appreciating at that particular moment, and I swear, he was always right about that.

I was lucky enough to be with the family at the hospital when Madison was born and I saw this gentle giant melt as the first of his children wrapped him around her tiny finger. Later, with Alina, then with Kendall, he and Juli created a family we all admired. By nurturing each daughter's individuality, these beautiful girls are uniquely special and I will tell them every chance I get how he loved them. I'll tell them about the look on their Daddy's face when he watched them play, how hard they made him laugh, how proud he was of each of them.

My deepest sympathy to all who knew and loved Michael Milan. While there are more questions than answers when someone is gone too soon, the one thing I am sure of is that he loved his family beyond measure.

Patsy and David Ivy

January 2, 2009

Dear Milan Family,
David and I were very moved during the memorial service that celebrated Michael's life...and what a life!!! Those who shared their stories painted a picture of a man with a gentle spirit and desire to move fast... He was obviously blessed with a family that appreciated this role and zest for life. The photos showed a happy husband, father, son, brother and friend who treasured his times with you.
We will remember you in our prayers and we know that the strength of a large caring family will sustain you.

Kevin Donelli

December 29, 2008

Juli and family, my deepest condolence for you and your children and loved ones. I only met Mike once at our 30th reunion this summer and he obviously was a special person. I will pray for you and your family.

Anthony DiCesaro

December 22, 2008

We baptized our son on Sunday, and as I sat in the first pew, looking up at the cross I thought of my friend Michael, of how my son wouldn't have the pleasure of knowing this gentleman, of what a shame that is, and I wondered just how I would explain Mike Milan.

Mike was a rare individual that showed us what we could be, what we should be, if we had the strength of conviction and vision that allowed us to follow our hearts and dreams without fear.

Perhaps when my son gets older and conversation turns to formula one racing or Ducati motorcycles, of which we shared a passion, I will smile, remember my friend and pass his memory and deeds along.

Godspeed, Commodore. I pray you find your peace, and thank you.

Our sincerest sympathies to the Milan family.

Rob Dougherty

December 22, 2008

To all the Milan's,

My deepest sympathy and prayers for you and I hope you find comfort with the Lord.
I met Mike and Pete earlier this year through a banking proposal and fond Mike to be bigger than life and one of the best people I have encountered. He was one of teh most honest and straight forward people I have met -- and had more energy than all four of my kids put together. A truly unique individual

Prayers
Rob Dougherty

Lucy

December 22, 2008

Michael's Father first introduced me to Michael almost 30 years ago. Immediately I got "The Hug" and "The Kiss", and many more throughout the years that followed. The family, as well as all their many relatives, seemed to revolve around Michael. He was "all things to all people." That's an enormous responsibility, but one that he always handled successfully and happily. I am overcome with sorrow as I try to emerge from the shock of learning he has gone on.

I have joyous memories of being with the Milan family, and my family, at numerous happy events -- a highlight, of course, being the wedding of Michael and lovely Juli. But, whatever the occasion -- Yes, Michael truly did "light up the room."

I send my love and sympathy to the Milan family and to all those who loved him

December 21, 2008

Heidi Norman

December 19, 2008

Dear Juli,
My heart goes out to you and the girls. I know how deeply you loved Michael and am so sad to hear of his passing. My deepest sympathy to you and the entire Milan family. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
With warmth and love,

Tim and Judy Blair

December 19, 2008

To the Milan family our deepest sympathy on the passing of Michael. What a great guy and so many wonderful memories. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Marcell Ervig

December 18, 2008

I meet Mike about two years ago at European motorcycles,when he bought some of his Ducati's,I was an employee there and had the joy of getting to know him and he was one of the nicest customers I had ever met.I had the joy with my coworkers to see the look on his face the day he bought his first Desmo.I am so very sorry for your lost,my heart and my prayers go out to you and the family.Mike was a very nice and wonderful person,I will miss him.

Janet Graffam

December 18, 2008

Dear Julie, Please know that you, your daughters and families are in my thoughts and prayers, my God bless you all and keep you growing stronger everyday.

December 16, 2008

Dear Peter, Lisa and Milan Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Joel and Gina Barone

Tim & Tracey Joyce

December 15, 2008

To the Milan Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Charlie DiPietro

December 15, 2008

To the entire Milan Family, you have my deepest sympathy.
Mike, you raised the bar for many of us when it came to living life. I still tell the funny stories, about the crazy things you did when we worked together. Mike, I will miss you.

Sue Morello

December 15, 2008

I am a friend of Michael's sister, Michelle. I never had the opportunity to meet Michael and did not know him - until Saturday that is. I attended Michael's Memorial Service to support Michelle and found myself caught up in all that was Michael and envious that I was not one of the lucky ones who had the opportunity to have had him in their life. In his short life, Michael spread more love, happiness, and joy to those fortunate to have known him than most people do in twice the time. I am grateful to have had the chance to get to know Michael through his wonderful tribute. He will live on in my memory not only as someone I wish I could have gotten to know, but of someone very much loved, respected, and cherished.

My thoughts and prayers go out to Michael's family.

Melanie Stanish

December 14, 2008

To Mr. Milan, Mrs. Milan, Michelle, Helene, Mara, Peter & Lisa,

I am so, so sorry to hear about Mike. My heart goes out to all of you. There are no words for what you are going through. I just wanted to say that I can't get you out of my mind and for the past several days, I've just been thinking of the wonderful memories I have of all of you at the Serbian tournaments and affairs when we hung out together.

I will keep you in my heart and in my prayers.

You have my deepest sympathy and love,

David Neuschwander

December 14, 2008

Dear Milan Family,
I had the pleasure to be with Mike only a handful of times. He was quite an extraordinary person. He had the unusual ability of being able to talk to someone and have that person believe that they were the most important person in the world and that nothing else was happening in the world during those precious moments spent together. He had the mix of a sophisticated adventurer (cars and motorcycles) and the gentleness of the giant that he was to so many people.
Mike was one of a kind. In some ways he was a throwback to the past with regards to his qualities of virtue, being genuine, and caring about others. He also was a person who was ahead of his time with his ability to predict what was going to happen in the future and he was always "ahead of the curve". Mike was also very generous. After I had fixed his broken forearm bone he gave me one of the most unusual gifts- a set of 4 snowtires for my car. Mike is someone who will be sorely be missed by his family, friends and so many other people unknown to his family who he has touched with only a kind word, pat on the back or smile.

Doug Devine and family

December 14, 2008

In knowing the family for many years I,like many have come to realize there are ways of doing things and then there is the Milan way, always first class, generous and genuinely caring.

I think I speak for many in saying I
(we) would do anything to ease you pain. Our families heart goes out to the Milan family.

We love and pray for you.

Doris Moats-Jones

December 13, 2008

Dearest Milan Family,

After attending the moving tribute to Michael today...I felt I would like to share a humorous moment, which will always be in my memory bank of Michael...One day I was obsessing over whether to purchase a new Mercedes. Mike said: "You should buy the car, and enjoy the ride, for you will always work up to the payment anyway!!" So, I did...and never regretted it.

Your wonderful family is strong, gracious, talented and much admired by many. Michael's memory and spirit will live on through his beautiful children, and the legacy he instilled in the hearts and minds of his friends and family. He will not be forgotten...for to be loved, as he was, is a thing to behold.

The horizon was truly brighter from Michael's lightning bolt.

Doris Moats-Jones

Karen Giesy

December 13, 2008

Lisa and The Entire Milan Family~

Your grief is being shared with friends from long ago. My deepest sympathy to all.

Karen Giesy

Brett Mars

December 13, 2008

Mike,
I never realized how much of a part of my life you were, I took our great friendship for granted.
Godspeed Mike....

Chuck DiPasquale & Mike (pre-Ducati)

December 12, 2008

Jack Sommer

December 12, 2008

I always looked forward to the next time I would run into Michael on the South Side...just to greet him, shake hands, and talk about nothing in particular for a few minutes.

I'll miss you Mike,

Rodney Necciai

December 12, 2008

On behalf of the students, teachers, and staff of Pittsburgh Phillips K-5 I would like to extend sincerest sympathies to Juli, Madison, Alina, Kendall, and the family of Mr. Mike Milan. Mike had a profound impact on many lives in our school community. He was not just an active parent, but a parent who ingrained himself in the culture of our school. His presence and infectious enthusiasm positively affected many of our daily routines. He didn’t just drop Madison and Alina off at school each day; he found a way to address those he came in contact with each morning in a way that made them feel better about the pressures that accompanied the day ahead. His physical presence was undeniable, but the ease and envious confidence with which he found a way to interact with those who had the good fortune to encounter him was his true gift. Teachers have expressed how they will miss him waving through the windows to them as he made his way down Sarah Street after daily hugs and kisses with his beloved daughters. When we needed tools and other supplies to complete our recent playground build, Mike stepped up and donated the resources. When the build day arrived and we realized that we needed another truck and other tools that we didn’t plan for, Mike said “no problem, baby” and returned a short time later with the necessary items. When we decided it was important to teach students how to shake hands, say thank you, and make eye contact with the presenter at our awards ceremonies, it was a natural to call Mike to the forefront to help model the correct way. He was always there and participated in a way that made it obvious he was the right person for the job. The lives of our students, and many students yet to attend Phillips, are better because of Mike Milan. We are eternally grateful for the caring attitude and generosity that Mike brought to our lives. He will be sorely missed.

December 12, 2008

I have been blessed to have Michael teach me so much about life and about myself. I now wish for the moments I shared with my big brother to remain vivid in my mind, for his memory to live on inside me, and for him to somehow know how much he meant to me. I love you Mike.

Mike with sister Michelle

December 12, 2008

All of us at European Motorcycles of Pgh

December 12, 2008

To the Milan Family,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Mike was a wonderful man and will be deeply missed by us all! You are all in our thoughts and prayers!

Susan Connealy

December 12, 2008

Dear Michael,
I met you, Julie and your three precious girls through my brother and his wife and son - Chuck, Gretchen and Mario Dipasquale.
Although I only saw you on a few occasions, the thing I remember the most was your smile - wide and bright, in a contagious sort of way. Another memory I have of you is the way that you interacted with your daughter- as if to pass on your strength and courage. May you now rest in peace. May God comfort all those who mourn the loss of Michel Peter Milan.

December 12, 2008

Michael Milan, my brother. Where do I begin to tell you how much I'll miss you. You were the oldest, the strongest, the wisest, and the sweetest. My heart is broken to know that I will never again feel your hugs, hear your laughter, see your smile or kiss your cheek. My heart is broken my brother. I love you my brother.

Brother Pete, Father Michael Sr., Mike

December 11, 2008

Mike Kleer

December 11, 2008

I am sorry to hear of Mike's passing. As a vendor to J. Poli, I have always been impressed with the way Mike & Pete ran their business - always first class. Although I've been acquainted with Mike for several years, I finally got to talk with him at great length at the 30 year Baldwin reunion. Accompanying my fiance to the picnic, I had reservations about not knowing anyone. I was excited to see Mike sitting there and spent some time talking to him. A very nice man. He always treated me with kindness & respect. Both Karen (Koeppl) & I offer our condolences to Pete, Juli & the entire Milan family.

Aaron and Lisa Barry

December 11, 2008

Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
I will always remember the great times riding Beaver Run with Mike especially those days when it was just a few close friends. It was an honor to share this time with him.

God Speed Mike, you will be missed.

Halie Bozic

December 11, 2008

Juli,Maddi,Alian,Kendall,
I very sorry for your loss .Please tell the girls im there for them if they need me!
Halie Bozic

Kelly Pryer

December 11, 2008

Juli,
Although the kids and I have only recently become acquainted with your family through outside activities at Phillips, please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Your girls will now have their own personal guardian angel.
Kelly, Taleah, Tanise, and Tobias Pryer

Valerie Harper Pensis

December 11, 2008

My deepest sympathy to your entire family at this sad time. May your close family, good memories and God sustain you through this difficult time.

Maki Nishimura-Russ

December 11, 2008

Dear Juli, Maddie, Alina and Kendall,

While I struggle to find a perfect word to say to all of you, please remember that if there is anything we can do to help, let us know. Both Zoe and Kira are thinking of girls and will be there if they need. We will miss seeing Mike in the morning as he walked happily with girls in toe... I will see you on Saturday. Deepest sympathy.

Mike & Mario - 2000

December 11, 2008

The Denks

December 11, 2008

We didn't know Mike outside of saying hello to him in the morning while dropping our children off to school. But his smile and his loving way toward his girls will be remembered by all the parents at Phillips School.

Janet, Jim. Taylor, Spencer & Jimmy Jordan

December 11, 2008

If you are lucky, you get to know someone like Mike Milan once in a lifetime. I met Mike very early one morning after he had driven from Pittsburgh to Ft Lauderdale and found himself locked out of his Florida house. He had obviously just spent the night sleeping in his driveway. I introduced myself to the sleepy giant unfolding himself out of his car and offered him a shower and a guest room. From that day on, I never passed his house without him bellowing from the garage, "Hello Dahling!"

A few years later, Hurricane Wilma destroyed my home and Mike & Pete moved my family into their house. "Stay as long as it takes to rebuild your home." It took a year. The Milan generosity is legendary. My gratitude and compliments to Mike Sr. and Helen for the children they raised. Mike was very proud of his extended family and spoke often of his uncles and nephews and sisters. He loved the Sunday night dinners at his mother's home. He was a family man in every sense.

My daughter, who babysat Mike & Juli's girls in Florida, was preparing to drive back to college this fall. Mike walked over to say goodbye and brought a quart of oil to pour into her engine. The next week, I was driving my car down the street. He ran out in front of me waving his long arms, "Pull over!" He directed me into his driveway where he pumped air into my tires. I called him a Guardian Angel. Mike didn't just love, he made you feel loved - in the way he took care of people, in his curiosity and in his enthusiasm.

The last time I saw Mike he was where I could always find him - in the pool with his three girls and Juli. The girls were squealing, climbing on him, jumping off of him and Juli was laughing. I have seen him in this situation dozens of times and this is how I will remember him. His size, his warm heart, his brain, his unabashed affection for men and women, his boisterous laugh - these things will stay in our minds forever. We will love and protect Juli, Maddie, Alina and Kendall just as he did us.

John Brockwell

December 11, 2008

I first met Mike at a bike shop several years ago and was very inspired by his insight and general demeanor. Since then I had run into him several times on an occasional basis at Distefano's bike shop, European Motorcycles and Beaverun racetrack and despite being only a "casual acquaintance" (compared to the vast number of his other friends) he always remembered my name and spent time talking bikes with me. My sincere condolences to all his family.

Keith & Susan Reed

December 11, 2008

To all of Mike’s friends and family:
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Your loss is shared and felt by many.

To Mike:
Godspeed my friend.

SAM AND EVERYONE @ ALL METALS

December 11, 2008

MIKE WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED FONDLY , AND IN A SPECIAL PLACE IN OUR HEARTS. JUST A GREAT FRIEND AND CO-WORKER

Mike with daughters and niece 2007

December 11, 2008

Jack, Sharon, Jonathan, Brittany, and Lindsay Harlak

December 10, 2008

Mike Sr, Pete, Carolyn and the Milan family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We're heartbroken and saddened. Mike was always like a brother to me. May God bless you, I loved you man.

Lee, Loreen, Lyndon & Layne Dreven

December 10, 2008

I wish I knew the words to say. I keep trying to make sense of something, that makes no sense. We wish you all the love and strength you need to get you through this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Don Opacic

December 10, 2008

Did not know Mike Jr. personally, but grew up on the Southside and knew Mike Sr., Helen and both their families in my youth. My deepest condolences to the family on a tragic and untimely passing.

Rick Gzesh

December 10, 2008

My path only crossed with Mike maybe 6 times, yet on those occasions Mike would make me feel as if we were lifetime friends. He had that magic tough to put anyone at ease.

I will remember him as he always was; smiling, generous and a first class gentleman.

God speed Mike, we will all miss you!

Gary Nikolich

December 10, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the Milan family for their loss. Mike was and will always be one of the best human beings one could ever hope to have known.I will always remember the great times riding together with him, Pete and the nephews. He was an excellent role model for them as well as my son Garret. Rest in peace Mike.

Fazio Family

December 10, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Garret Nikolich

December 10, 2008

Rest in peace Michael, you were truly an inspiration to my family and I for many years. I wish everyone well.

God Bless
-Garret N.

Ed Dominick Jr

December 10, 2008

He always greeted you with a giant hug and called you sweetheart. He will be sorely missed. Godspeed big guy.

Chuck DiPasquale

December 10, 2008

The Speed of Michael Milan

There is the speed of sound, the speed of light, and there was the Speed of Michael Milan. I learned of this during times I spent with him between 1996 and 2008. The Speed of Michael is only attainable through passion, dedication, fortitude, confidence and an absolute belief that anything logical is possible.

Michael rarely committed to anything without first having a vision of total mastery. Simply to say “Michael was competitive” understates the depths of these attributes in him. To say Michael was “well read” hardly captures the regard he held for knowledge, understanding and education. And like his great affection, Michael was always eager to share with those around him any new found information on most any subject.

Mike’s heart was as big as it was fast. He seemed always willing to impart his own positive energy to those who needed a lift. I often benefitted from and witnessed his guidance of younger family members and friends, which inspired strength, wisdom and perseverance wherever these were lacking. Even if only for fleeting moments of his life’s fast journey, I hope that Michael knew his great generosity of spirit, enthusiasm and affection, were by far the most valuable assets he had.

When travelling at the Speed of Michael, it seems the real danger was a blind spot in which he may have lost sight of so many that loved and cared for him. Before that moment, and now, we wish so much he could have seen us all in his rear view mirror… still standing right behind him.

In Fondest Remembrance

Lynn Heckman

December 10, 2008

I am heartbroken to hear of Michael's passing. He was amazing.

Diane Sebastian-Wood

December 10, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about Mike. I reconnected with him at our reunion (I graduated with Juli), but remember him from my brother Bob, and when I worked summers at the Dunkin Donuts store. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Mary Capozzoli

December 10, 2008

Dear Juli,
My heart truly goes out to you and your beautiful daughters...Mike was a neighbor that always greeted you with a warm smile and asked, how are you doing? The neighborhood will miss a gentleman who respected and cared for his fellowman and neighbors....God Bless you, and your Daughters........Sincerely, Mary G. Capozzoli

Shelly Faraone

December 10, 2008

“I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.”

My deepest sympathy to you. I know there is nothing anyone could possibly say to ease the pain. If you need anything please do not hesitate to call.

You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeff Englert

December 10, 2008

Mike:
May you rest in peace in Heaven. You will me missed.
Forever your friend,
Jeff

Cathy Hoffman

December 10, 2008

Dear Mara and family,
There are no words, however heartfelt, that can ease your sorrow, but may it strengthen you to realize that those who care for you are near in heart. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. You are in my heart, thoughts and prayers. With sympathy and caring thoughts.

Cathy Hoffman

Valerie (Haberman) and Eric Crawford

December 10, 2008

Pete, Carolyn, Max, Sydney, and Family- We are very sorry to hear of your loss - you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God hold you and your family in the palm of his hand during this difficult time.

MR.&MRS.JOHN BOZIC & FAMILY

December 10, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Steve & Carole Sisul

December 10, 2008

Dear Milan Family:

We are deeply saddened to hear of the unexpected death of Michael. We know that he was a very special person to all who knew and loved him, especially by us and our son Michael Sisul. We will keep the entire Milan family in our prayers and never forget how generous Mike, Pete, Mara and their father Michael have been and continue to be to our family. May the peace of God always be with you.

Mary Odato

December 10, 2008

To the Milan Family: Our deepest sympathy to you in the loss of you beloved Michael. Just know that through your sorrow , you will have memories of joy that Michael brought to each of you. It is those memories that will keep Michael in your hearts. Our prayers are with you. Rip and Mary Odato and Family

Julie Beck

December 10, 2008

Pete, Carolyn, max and Sydney- I was very sorry to hear of your loss - you are in my thoughts and prayers.

RICH DELUCA

December 10, 2008

DEAR JULIE AND PETE AND CHILDREN,OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU NOW AND ALWAYS. MIKE WAS ADMIRED BY HIS BROTHER MILLWRIGHTS AND HIS PRESENCE WILL BE SORELY MISSED. MAY GOD BLESS YOU.
MILLWRIGHTS / PILE DRIVERS L.U.2235, RICHARD DELUCA AND ROBERT GRASWICK- BUSINESS MANAGERS

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Bill

December 10, 2008

To Michael's Loving Family,
There are no words that can truely ease the pain of a sudden loss like this...but if caring thoughts can help, they are with you all right now. Michael's caring ways will stay with all those that he has touched through out his life and I will always remember his unique way of greating his friends. With a big kiss I will never forget you Mike!

Josette Fitzgibbons McCullough

December 10, 2008

Juli, Maddie, Alina and Kendall,
Please know that our deepest sympathy is with you. Although we know you four better than we knew Mike, it was always clear that he was a great dad who loved his family unconditionally. The joy and love in his face as he dropped Maddie and Alina off at school each morning was always incredibly touching. I often chuckled at the observation that those tiny little girls had that giant man completely wrapped around their fingers! Our prayers are with you.
Josette, Dale and Elizabeth McCullough

Lynn (Martin) Giovannitti

December 10, 2008

Dear Mara, Peter & Milan Family~
My heartfelt sympathy to all of you and your family. When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. Treasure your memories of Michael and he will always be alive in your hearts.

William Jaspert

December 10, 2008

We are so sorry to hear about the death of Michael. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, please let me know if there is anything I can do.

Amy Murphy

December 10, 2008

To Julie and your beautiful daughters...we are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are only a phone call away if there is anything you need.

Amy, Bill and Victoria Murphy

Jennifer Rossman

December 10, 2008

I've had great pleasure knowing the Milan family over the last 3 years. When I think of Mike, I see that "bolt" of lightening. Tall, proud family-business man with a smile on his face anytime I'd see him. I know his death is a shock to everyone. For some reason (as painful as it is) he was called to become an Angel in Heaven. Although his physical presence here on earth is no longer, his spirit lives on through his wife and 3 beautiful daughters. I can't stop thinking of you all. Please know that even though I know longer live in the SouthSide, I'm only a phone call or short drive away anytime you need us! God Bless...see you Saturday!

TOM GRAZIANI

December 10, 2008

DEAR JULIE AND PETE AND CHILDREN,
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY I EXPRESS FROM A SAD HEART. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU NOW AND ALWAYS. MIKE WAS ADMIRED BY ALL OF HIS BROTHER MILLWRIGHTS. MAY GOD BLESS YOU.

Dr. Natalie Pavlovich

December 10, 2008

To Michael's Beloved Family-

Everyone that Michael knew - he touched the person's soul in a special everlasting way that will always remain not only in my heart but also throughout my life. Michael exemplified a flowing warm feeling that radiated to anyone in his presence - another special gift he possessed! My prayer is that God grant Michael's family peace and comfort especially during this difficult time.

May Michael's Soul rest in Peace and may his Memory be Eternal -- Vecnaja Pamjat ....

Michael will always be in my daily prayers ....

With love and blessings to all,

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