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Michael Milto Obituary
Suddenly on Saturday October 4, 2008, age 33, of West Mifflin, beloved husband of Julianne Milto; father of Cole Milto; son and step-son of Cindy and Ray Sanzi of Port Vue; son of Edward K. Milto of West Mifflin; maternal grandson of Connie Barncord of West Mifflin and Ronald Barncord of Elrama; paternal grandson of Edward J. Milto and the late Mary Lou Milto of West Mifflin; also survived by numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. He enjoyed watching the Pens. He was important to all of us. Memorial Service Friday 7p.m. at the Skyview VFC West Mifflin #4, 660 Noble Drive, West Mifflin, Pa 15122. Arrangements by SOXMAN FUNERAL HOMES LTD. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Cole's trust fund c/o of Soxman Funeral Homes, LTD. 7450 Saltsburg Road, Pittsburgh, Pa 15235.
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October 5, 2009
I think this is what Michael would want to say to us...
To Mum & Ray; & my dearest family;
Some things I’d like to say…but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay. I’m writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here, there are no more tears of sadness: here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy just because I’m out of sight. Remember that I’m with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and He said, “I welcome you.” It’s good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they’ll be here later on. I need you here badly; you’re part of my plan. There’s so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.” God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in bed at night, the day’s chores put to flight. God and I are closest to you…in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years, because you are only human, they are bound to bring you to tears. But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain. I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned. But if I were to tell you, you wouldn’t understand .But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over, I’m closer to you now, than I ever was before. There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; but together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I’d like it for you too… that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who’s in sorrow and pain, then you can say to God at night…”My day was not in vain.” And now I am contented…that my life has been worthwhile, knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile. So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go. When you’re walking down the street, and you’ve got me on your mind; I’m walking in your footsteps only half a step behind. And when it’s time for you to go…from that body to be free, remember you’re not going…you’re coming here to me.
October 4, 2008 , Love Michael
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October 5, 2009
Julie, Cole, Cindy, and Ed;
Thirty three years ago a premature baby boy was born,
Thirty three years later our lives were distraught and torn;
As Michael grew to be a proud and strong young man,
A call for help was always answered with “any way I can “;
Along his path he made many fiends, and Michael was a fantastic dad;
We can’t forget what a loving husband Julie had;
Leaving behind an emptiness in his Mother’s heart,
We know they should be together not apart;
I wake up thinking this was all a bad dream,
Wondering if it was God that was so mean;
We all know that this isn’t so, and we all will meet
Him when it is our time to go;
Michael, my Grandson, you are sadly missed:
Gam
Anita and Eric Link
November 11, 2008
Julie and Cole,
I do not know where to start with such a one of a kind person, always smiling, always there to help in a drop of a dime, a great father, a great husband and a good friend. Me and Eric feel so blessed to have met such a great person who will remain in our thoughts forever. Our hearts go out to you Julie and Cole, Julie you are such a strong person, but I know one thing that you will have a piece of Mike with you everyday through that Loving,Funny, Smart, and Caring son of yours. Because there is no doubt in my mind that Cole is a spitting image of Mike in every way possible. And we will always have the wonderful memories of such a great guy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Julie and Cole, and just remember that if you need anything we are here for you. We love you guys :)
Mike & Julie Sept 2006
November 5, 2008
Mike & Cole Sept 2006
Julie Milto
November 5, 2008
I want to thank everyone for their support through the phone calls, the cards and letters, and just being there for me and Cole. I will never forget all that has been done in memory of my husband. Mike would be amazed at the support everyone has shown us. Again, thank you!
Madison Siple
October 15, 2008
To all who cared for Mike,
This tragedy was a terrible loss, and my utmost sympathies go to Cole. Nobody should grow up without a father, but at least he knew him, and has so many people to remind him how truely amazing he was. Julie, i cant imagine what your going through. But your staying strong. And i love you. Your a great sister and, im here for you and Cole.
Although Mike is in all our prayers, he might not need them, he is living eternally happy next to God in the kingdom of heaven, and thats the best thought in the world.
God bless.
Taryn Moneck Griffaton
October 15, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I was a classmate of Mike's at WM. He was a great guy. God Bless and you'll all be in my prayers.
Keith Kacsuta
October 15, 2008
Dear Milto family and friends:
My deepest sympathies for your loss. I was a classmate of Mike's (WM93), and I can say that without a doubt Mike was a truly amazing person, he had a laugh, personality and smile that could brighten any day. He will truly be missed.
My Deepest Condolences
Denise Hanchulak
October 14, 2008
Julie and Cole:
I am so sorry for your loss and the loss that all of us are feeling without Michael here. He was such a great friend to all of us and another son and brother to my entire family.
Mike will live on through our great memories. He was truly one of a kind and I miss him so much already. I will make sure Cole knows all the great stories of his dad. My heart goes out to you and Cole. I love you both.
Tom Murtha
October 14, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
The Murtha Family
Ted and Beth Wahl
October 13, 2008
Julie, Cole, and everyone who loves Mike:
Our hearts, thoughts, and prayers go out to all of you. Mike was a great person - very likeable and fun to be around. Ted and I are deeply hurt over your loss and for our loss of a great friend who seemed like family. Julie, if there is anything I or Ted can do, please let me know. I cannot imagine what you are feeling right now, but please know that God is there for you with His arms wide open. To Mike's parents, we pray for courage, faith, and strength for you at this trying time. Rely on God to bring you through this - He knows your pain and will comfort you. To Cole, God bless you, buddy. Take care of your mommy. We are praying for all of you and will continue to. Love and all of God's best, Ted and Beth Wahl
C. G.
October 13, 2008
Dear Milto Family...
My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to you all. I have been in a constant state of prayer for you since that tragic day. You do not know me. I live right across the street from the site of the accident and my heart breaks for you all at this most devasting time. I can only offer my deepest sympathies, my forever, heartfelt prayers and the warmth in your hearts from knowing that a complete stranger will be praying for you all for her eternity. God has a precious person with him now... know that Mike will be in your hearts for always, and you will see him again one glorious day in the presence of God. Take comfort in the grace and love of God, for His plan, although confusing, is full of Love for us all. May you find peace, love and comfort from reaching out to God and to those here who love you. From what I've read here, Mike was surely a true Blessing here on earth. You will again one day be with him... I pray that you find comfort in that part of God's plan. God's Blessings on you all. With endless sympathy and prayers...
Dave,Cheryl Fernandez
October 12, 2008
Ed,Julie,Cole, Mike will be missed by me at work and on the bike rides we went on. He enjoyed himself to the fullest on the bike run that sunny day. You could see it on his smiling face. He mentioned the love he felt for his family. Our deepest sympathy.
Thomas Bursick II
October 12, 2008
To Mike's family and friends, I am truly sorry for this loss. Mike, I will always remember us playing together when we were kids in the summers and every other weekend, with your dad, agitating your great aunt, grandmother, and great uncle. We learned much those years. I have many great stories to share with my daughter Julia (maybe) and my son Chris. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers forever.
Jackie Tregembo
October 11, 2008
Cindy,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I can not even imagine what you are feeling, but I hope that you find some peace in knowing just how many people care and are praying for you.
Peace and Love
Jackie Tregembo
Beth Lash-Novak
October 10, 2008
To Mike's family, I am truly sorry for your loss. Mike and I were good friends at one time...growing up in West Mifflin two doors down from "Aunt Flo". The news of Mike's tragic and untimely loss left me completly speachless. Please know my heartfelt sympathies are with you all during this time. I also graduated with Mike from West Mifflin, he was a great person and will truly be missed.
Paula Andrews
October 10, 2008
Julie and Cole,
You are both in my prayers. You are a strong person with a family who loves you.
God Bless,
Mark Clifford
October 10, 2008
I don't even know what to say or where to start. I've lost a brother. Mike will always be in my heart, on my mind, and will forever be part of the best stories and memories that i have to tell. My thoughts are with his family and I am here to help with anything that i can.
Milan & Sharon Blazevich
October 10, 2008
Cindy,
We can't begin to convey the sadness we feel for you and your family. Michael was so full of life, what a charmer!
Vince and Jennifer Pacella
October 10, 2008
Our hearts break to see a person who enjoyed life so much leave so soon. I hope you are all finding some peace in knowing you were all part of his joy in this world. Our hearts ache for your grief. We will continue to keep you in our prayers.
Liana Falchetti
October 10, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family. You have my deepest sympathy.
Veronica Beebe (Biroscak)
October 10, 2008
I also had the pleasure of being friends with Mike, beyond our High School Years, I am at a loss for words knowing that he is no longer with us. His outgoing personality and smiling face will always be with those who knew and loved him. He will be missed..
Terry Byers
October 10, 2008
Cindy,
My heart goes out to you. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Kurt and Carol Nussle
October 10, 2008
Dear Julie, Cole and family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Mike was great guy. My husband Kurt worked with him at Pittsburgh Asphalt and was there when the accident happen. His heart is still breaking. He always talked about how much of a great guy he was and was happy to call him a friend. I had the pleasure of meeting you both at the Christmas party last year and enjoyed meeting you both.
I know that there is no words that can be said to heal the pain in your heart, however the memories you have will live on forever.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Cole and your family. If there is anything that you need or we can do for you, we are a phone call away.
Amy Alfonsi
October 9, 2008
My prayers and sympathy go out to the Milto family. I graduated with mike in 1993 from WM. I remember him always being happy and so up beat. Again, I'm so sorry for the loss.
Barbara Pielin
October 9, 2008
Julie, Cole, Ed and Cindy:
A son, a father, a husband a brother, Milt had the heart and a strength like no other.
A beautiful person he was inside and out, Mike you'll be missed without a doubt.
I don't have room to explain all of the wonderful things about Michael Milto, but know that I cared about him very deeply and will miss him more than anyone will know. He was one of those people so special that you felt lucky he entered your life. He had such passion, such love for all of the people who were close to him. He was a wonderful father and I see so much of him in Cole. As my husband's best friend, I got to see first hand what a wonderful man Mike was and my heart is breaking for all of you. I want all you to know that I will always think of Mike as a man who made a difference. He had a genuine heart. God bless everyone and may you get through this hard time and know that I am here and will do EVERYTHING I can to help you along the way.
I LOVE YOU ALL
Love Barb
Kim Taylor
October 9, 2008
Julie, Eddie, Family and Closest Friends,
At a time like this there is nothing to say that would help us to understand or except what has happened. It is important for family and friends to help each other remember and laugh as time goes by. I know Mike would want that. He was a wonderful fun loving guy. I will truly miss his smiling face. Mike I want to thank you for always being there for Eddie. You will be in our hearts and minds forever.
Love Aunt Kim and Jessica
Julie, don't hesitate to contact me if I could do anything for you or Cole.
Ronnie Sanzi
October 9, 2008
Dear Cindy and Uncle Ray:
My family and I pray that God will grant you the strength and understanding you need to bear the burden that you both share. We can only offer our deepest sympathy and love.
Lynn Kuban
October 9, 2008
Julie , I am so sorry for your loss, Mike was a good man, from what you said about him at work , and I'm sure many people will miss him. I feel for you having a young child like Cole to explain this to. You and Cole are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lindsay Jenco
October 9, 2008
Dear Milto Family,
I am so sorry for your lose,I was a classmate of Mike's at WM.
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Lindsay Jenco
Dave & Taleesha Jackel (and family)
October 9, 2008
Wow. I don't know where to start. Mike... you were, no, ARE a great Man, and great friend. I am glad I had the chance to know you and grow up with you.
Milto family, Taleesha and I are so deeply sad for this tragedy. There are so many great memories I have from growing up... Staying up for what seemed like an entire weekend trying to beat Legend of Zelda when it first came out, Football in Clifford's back yard, Hockey at the playground, WM hockey... I could go on forever. I hate the fact that I didn't make a better effort to keep in touch when I left, but am very glad we were able to re-connect for a little hockey when I was home recruiting a couple years back. I wish the best for you all and know that if Cole grows up to be like his father, he will be just fine. You all have our deepest sympathies.
Monica Constantin
October 9, 2008
Cindy & Ray,
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Ryan Fitz Family
October 9, 2008
Mike you were a great father, loving husband, wonderful son and a true friend. Your great charm, attitude and sense of humor have been passed onto Cole and can already be seen in him. Julie, Cole, Cindy and Mr. Milt, you have my deepest sympathy. With love,
Dr. Matthew Matta
October 9, 2008
My deepest sympathies go out to the entire Milto family. Mike graduated from high school one year before me and he was such a great person. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Sharon (Roland) Martin
October 9, 2008
God bless you all. Mike always had a smile on his face in high school. He was kind to everyone. I am sure he will be missed!
amy (stefan) holoubek
October 9, 2008
i was a classmate of mike's and when we were younger i remember always being around him with the joyce's. he was a great guy. my thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. rejoice in the memories you share.
Michael & Cheri Sanzi and Family
October 9, 2008
Cindy & Ray:
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers and thoughts.
With deepest sympathy.
Debbie Bicsey
October 9, 2008
I am so very sorry for all of you. You have my deepest sympathies.
Jennifer Minjock
October 9, 2008
Julie,
I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy for you and your family.
Twila Boswell
October 9, 2008
I just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my prayers.
Ron Sanzi
October 9, 2008
With sympathy..
Erik Hilligsberg
October 9, 2008
Mike and I graduated high school together in 1993. I'd occasionally run into Mike every now and again, and every time I saw him he was always smiling and in good spirits. He was a very genuine person and he will truly be missed. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jim Bicsey
October 9, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Cindy Vetri (Bozogan)
October 9, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I was a classmate of Mike's at WM(class of 93'). My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Kathy Thomas
October 9, 2008
Julianne,
Though i only met you and Mike one time this summer when you came to my house for a cookout, he struck me as a genuinely good man. I am so sorry for your loss and hope that you and Cole find the strength to get through this most terribly sad time in your lives. Please know that all the guys at Pittsburgh Asphalt are hurt to the core. I know Mike will be greatly missed by them. May you find peace and comfort in the love of God. Again i am truly sorry for you loss.
In deepest sympathy
Kathy Thomas
Cheryl Swick
October 9, 2008
Julie
I am so sorry for your loss. I know what you are going thru and would like to be there for you. Please feel free to contact me anytime. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Debbie Boyle
October 9, 2008
Dear Cindy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family for your loss of Michael. Please take care.
Debbie (Kerns) Boyle
Jon Popp
October 8, 2008
Love you Milto my prayers go out to you and your family I will always remember the great times we had together, but there were no bad times. Miss you already bud and I will never forget you. You were the best friend a great husband and the perfect father.
Your friend forever,
October 8, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Milto family and friends. I did not know Michael but was there at the time of the tragic accident. My thoughts and prayers are with you during your loss. May God bless you and your family during this time and always.
Diane Stupar
October 8, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathy. I was a classmate of Mike's at West Mifflin. He was a great person and he will be missed by everyone. I am so sorry for your loss.
Bill Scott
October 8, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your son at this time and always
your friend Bill (prc)
Barb Marzina
October 8, 2008
Julie, Cole, I cannot express how much I feel for you at this time. Julie, I feel like I knew Michael because of the way you talked about him at work. I'm sorry does not even start to express my feelings. I wish there was more I could do to comfort you.
Karen Wiltrout
October 8, 2008
Sandy & Family,I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your nephew just know that I am always here for you I didnt know Michael but through you Sandy I've heard lots of stories & he sounds like a good man and he will remain in your hearts forever You have my deepest sympathy& will be in my thoughts & prayers Love Lives Forever!!!!
Ellen Antonetti
October 8, 2008
Julianne, Cole and family,
There are no words to express the loss I feel for you and Cole and the rest of the Milto Family. As Your Aunt I know you know I love you so very much and if there is anything I can ever do for you let me know. Mike was a wonderful father and husband and I am so grateful you had such a great man in your life. Just know I am a phone call away.
Love,
Aunt Ellen, Uncle Joe, Alecia and Michael
Melissa (Missy) Walton
October 8, 2008
Eddie, i am so sorry to hear about the tragic loss of such a wonderful person. I know that he meant everything to you. Not only was he your best friend but so much like a brother at heart. I have many memories of all the times that we all shared. I will truly miss him and his wonderful sense of humor. He was a wonderful person with a huge heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you and his family.
Mary Hinzman
October 8, 2008
Julie and Cole,
I didn't know Mike long but in the time that I have known him anyone could see what a great guy he was. He was a great father and husband. He always made me laugh when I was around him and made every get together fun. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jessica DeMarco
October 8, 2008
Julie & Family,
From what I knew of Mike, he seemed like a very nice guy who made a good husband, father & friend. I can still picture the day of Barb & Ed’s wedding when he was making the best man toast. Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Milto family.
Jessica & Joe DeMarco
Jim Schwartzmeier
October 8, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Betty Charalambous
October 8, 2008
Julie,Cole,Cindy and Eddie. Myprayers are with all of you. Mike was like my grandson-he and Eddie was so close-always there for each other. You have my deepest sympathy. Maw, Eddie's grandmother.
KAREN & TIM HAVICS
October 8, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Christie (Passafume) Hurd
October 8, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the Milto family. I was a classmate of Mike's(WM '93). My thoughts and prayers are with you during your loss.
October 8, 2008
Losing such a person who made an impact in so many lives is a tragedy. I grieve for all that love him!
Mary Gorman
October 8, 2008
Every now and then in life we are blessed with someone who walks into a room and his smile makes all your troubles and sorrows disappear. For me that someone was Mike. My husband and I loved him with all our hearts. From watching him be a son and grandson, a husband and most of all a dad you could see how very special he was. What a friend he was always there to help whatever it was you wanted done he was sure to show up. I must admit when i found out I questioned God to what possible reason he would have to take this young healthy man away from his mom and dad and mostly his wife and son. It must be big what God has in store for him and I know he will get it done with his big beautiful smile. Mike I will miss you with all my heart and pray for your family. My deepest regrets to the whole family. I know in every heart he ever touched he will live on forever and ever. And I know he will always be there to guide Cole. Rest in peace sweet dear loving Mike till we meet again
October 8, 2008
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
October 8, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
October 8, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
October 8, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
October 8, 2008
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
October 8, 2008
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
October 8, 2008
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
October 8, 2008
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
October 8, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Sandy Sherlock (Bakosh)
October 8, 2008
Cindy, Sandy, Sherry, Connie, Ron & family, I can't imagine what you're feeling, but I can tell you how much I care. I have many memories of Sandy and I with Mike as a child and also in later years. So sorry.
mark and bonny andrews and ulyan
October 8, 2008
Julie
Words can not describe the shock I felt when I heard of this sudden tragidety. Anything you need Just call we are your friends and are here for you.
Pam Ayers
October 8, 2008
Cindy,Ed,Julie,Cole
I can't even begin to tell you how sorry I am. Mike was the best friend my son could ever have. He was the brother that Eddie never had.I am so thankful Mike was in our lives and part of our family. Mike was a once in a lifetime person. He was an excellent father,great husband,wonderful son & grandson. He was a straight shooter with a great sense of humor and the biggest heart. He was always there if you needed any thing. Mike will remain in our hearts forever.
Jennifer (Hruby) Bolt
October 8, 2008
I didn't know Mike personally, but I was a WM 93' classmate of his.
My deepest sympathy to the Milto family.
Denise Woznicki
October 8, 2008
Cindy, Julie and family. I just want you all to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers and if you need anything please please call me. Mike was like a second son to me and i am going to miss talking to him when he would call work to talk to his mom. There is no greater loss of child and no greater pain for those he left behind. Mike will be greatly missed by those who loved him and he is now their angel to watch over them. He will never be forgotten and we will see him again someday. May your memories of him comfort you and help you through this terrible tragedy.
Jim & Keri McCann
October 8, 2008
Ed: Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
October 8, 2008
Cindy, Julianne, Cole, Family & Friends,
You all have my utmost sympathy and are in my constant thoughts and prayers. I wish there were words to say that would comfort you at this difficult time. Just know that God will give you strength and guide you through this.
Mark Frick
October 8, 2008
I don't have the words.
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