Mickey Joe Onder

Mickey Joe Onder

Mickey Onder Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 8, 2009.
BLAIRSTOWN, N.J. _ Mickey Joe Onder, 29, died Tuesday, May 5, 2009, at Newton Memorial Hospital.
Mr. Onder, the son of Anthony and Cyndi Sziwack Onder was born May 25, 1979, in Newton.
He resided in Ogdensburg, N.J., and Franklin, N.J., for most of his life and in Vernon for four years before recently moving to Blairstown.
Mr. Onder was a laminating assistant for Lamtec Corp. of Flanders, N.J. He was a graduate of Wallkill Valley Regional High School where he was a member of the cross-country team.
Mr. Onder also served with the United States Marine Corps.
Mr. Onder was a loving and wonderful husband and father. He was a selfless person, always giving of himself to help others.
Prior to his death he requested his organs be donated so he could continue to help others.
Having been named after Mickey Mantle, Mr. Onder was an avid New York Yankees Fan. He was also a great fan of the San Francisco 49ers and the Pittsburgh Penguins.
Mr. Onder was predeceased by his parents, Anthony Onder and Cyndi Tompkins.
He is survived by his wife, Stephanie (Johanson) Onder; three children, Rachel, Rylee and Anthony; brothers and sisters, Tonda Fuller of Carlisle, Pa., Kyle Tompkins of Hanover, Pa., Terrina Latourette of Oneonta, Jim Lame of Ogdensburg and Chas Tompkins of Fayetteville, N.C. He will always be remembered by his nieces and nephews as "Great" Uncle Me-Mick.
Funeral services will be at 11 a.m. Saturday, May 9, 2009, at F. John Ramsey Funeral Home, One Main Street, Franklin. Interment will follow at St. Thomas Cemetery, Ogdensburg.
Friends may call at the funeral home from 6 to 9 p.m. Friday and one hour prior to the service from 10 to 11 a.m. Saturday.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to: Stephanie Onder for the benefit of the Trust of The Onder Children, P.O. Box 122, Ogdensburg, NJ 07439.

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October 12, 2009

stephanie onder posted to the memorial.

May 14, 2009

vicki longyhore posted to the memorial.

May 12, 2009

Spring posted to the memorial.

stephanie onder

October 12, 2009

mickey, I miss you so much. You have made me so happy and I will forever love you. rest easy knowing that all 3 of our children will be raised the way we planned and they will always know who you are. we all miss and love you with all our hearts. I know when it is my time I will see you at the gates. some day we will truely meet half way. I love you!!!!

vicki longyhore

May 14, 2009

sorry for your loss Stephanie if you need anything please call me, help with the little ones just to talk let me know I cant imagine what your going through our prayers are with you

Spring

May 12, 2009

I miss you mick. We all miss you.

May 11, 2009

Stephanie, Sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and the children.
Edward and Linda Freeman

Wendy Naedler-Beach

May 10, 2009

You are a great man and a great father! I Love you and will miss you! REST IN PEACE LIL BRO!

Dustin Flood

May 9, 2009

mickey you will always be in my heart. The brotherhood still lives on and you will always be a part of us. I love you man! Please rest easy the girls WILL be taken care of!

your brother from another mother,
Dustin

willard&jackie cole

May 9, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

May 8, 2009

"He flew up to Heaven on the wings of angels
By the clouds and stars and passed where no one sees
And he walks with Jesus and his loved ones are waiting
And I know he's smiling saying
Don't worry about me"

I hope this gives you some comfort. Your family will remain in my prayers

Kelsey

May 8, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Traci Faasse Adams

May 8, 2009

My deepest sympathies to you all. Mickey is a great guy.

sharlene merwin

May 8, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

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