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Misti Tacholsky Obituary
TACHOLSKY _ Misti Leanne November 8, 1977 - July 10, 2006 It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of the most wonderful daughter, sister, granddaughter, aunt, niece, cousin and friend. Misti touched the hearts of all that knew her. She will be so deeply missed by her mom and dad, Gary and Judi, sister Brandi, brother-in-law Jay, her precious nieces Trinity and Brielle and nephew Nolan. Misti also leaves behind many aunts (some were like second moms to her), uncles, cousins and so very many friends. Misti's animal kingdom, Vinni, Jetta, B.J., Olive and Myrtle will truly miss their "mom". Though she had a lifetime of illness, she lived her life to the fullest. Whatever challenges came her way, she managed to fight back and win the battle. Unfortunately this battle was too big for her to win. Misti had a joy for giving. She loved to be involved in fundraisers for charity. We would like to thank the Chilliwack paramedics, the nurses at Chilliwack Emergency ward, doctors and special caring nurses at Royal Columbian Hospital ICU and the nurses in Columbia Tower 3N for making her final night with family a very peaceful night. A "Celebration of her Life" will be held at Victory Memorial Park Funeral Centre, 14831 28th Avenue, Surrey, BC (phone 604-536-6522 for directions) on Saturday, July 15, 2006 at 10:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Kidney Foundation.
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Nolan Carlow
February 10, 2018
I love You Anti Misti even though was little when you where around. We took great care of Vinni for you He was the best dog ever. Life would be so much different if you where around,
Nita Burns
November 10, 2012
Misti,
The vision of you is in my memory & heart every day, but today I give you a huge bouquet of flowers & balloons to celebrate your special day and all the blessings and love your brought to our lives. We miss so much. Happy Birthday sweet little one.
Nita
November 8, 2012
Remembering you today on your special day. Happy Birthday Mist. We love you and miss you so much. Love always Dad and Mom.
Dad & Mom
July 10, 2012
So many lovely memories, so many things left unsaid. Miss you Mist. We will always have you close to us in our hearts.
Love you.
Love, Dad & Mom.
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Nita Burns
July 9, 2012
Misti,
I think of you today as always with so much love in my heart and so many wonderful thoughts of you and how special the yesterdays were. The tomorrows will never be the same but will never ever be without your huge spirit and those beautiful memories of you. I love you for always and miss you with an aching heart.
Love,
Nita
Anita Burns
June 26, 2012
We celebrated you Misti as always at the Relay For Life. In honour of you we ate those beautiful strawberries dipped in chocolate (Amy's had to be white chocolate of course!) and decorated your Luminary with strawberries galore - people came by and oohed and ahhhed because you stood out amongst the rest ... as you always did, and still do! We played your and Amy's song and knew you were right there with us. After many tears, Amy said she could hear you saying "ok let's get on with it!", and so we did. You would have been so proud - we were so honoured to have Shawna with us on our team and supported and celebrated her amazing strength through her journey to remission. We feel you and see you as clearly as when you were physically with us, and we miss you more than there are words to express. Above everything else, you lead us through life as our inspiration and the flame you light our way with will never diminish, nor will the never-ending love we have for you.
Love forever,
Nita
November 9, 2011
Happy Birthday Misti. Wish we could give you your Birthday hug and kiss. We know that you are smiling at us. Missing you and loving you always.
Love,
Dad & Mom.
Amy Burns
November 8, 2011
My Angel Misti,
Happy Birthday my dear friend
Love you for always,
Amy (Joy) <3
Nita Burns
November 7, 2011
Misti,
I miss you as much today as ever - I think of you every day and remember your voice, infectious laugh and your wonderful and giving soul. Your spirit is with Amy and I always and we speak of you and our good times with warmth and a smile, and we cry together because we wish you were here. On your birthday I remember and celebrate you with so much love and miss you more than words could ever say. Happy Birthday sweet little one!
Love Nita
Amy Burns
July 19, 2011
"If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I would walk right up to heaven and bring you home again" Thinking about you more than ever my Angel. <3 xoxo
Nita Burns
July 11, 2011
There isn't a day I don't think of you Misti. Yesterday at the Ranch, for you, I sat on the swing you loved so much and went high in to the air - remembering like it was yesterday, the last time you and Amy sat on the swing together laughing uncontrollably and being silly. I heard you and saw your beautiful smile and I knew you were there. You are the sunshine in my memory and to say you are missed so much is not enough - I love you and always will hold on to the time we shared. I know you are watching over your family and all of us - you are the sweetest Angel.
Nita
Dad & Mom
July 10, 2011
We love and miss you so much Misti. You are always with us in our hearts. Love you.......
Dad & Mom
June 30, 2011
Remembering you today is more difficult than other days. You will always be with us, in our hearts and special and happy memories. Love and miss you Misti.
Dad & Mom
June 30, 2011
It's hard to believe that it's been 5 years since that terrible day. We will never forget you. You are always with us. Love you forever.
Nita Burns
November 8, 2010
Happy Birthday sweet Angel. There is not a day that goes by that you are not right there in my mind and heart. I smile remembering your laughter, love and the joy with which you loved life and all you shared it with, and I shed tears because I miss you so much. As much as we all cope, it is truly such a void without you. I know you are smiling because we have remembered your special day and you know that you are as loved and cherished as you ever were. I will love you forever.
Nita
Anita Burns
July 14, 2010
July 2010
We love you and miss you so much Misti. The special and amazing person you were is always alive in our hearts and in our minds and will never diminish,for you are truly forever.
Love,
Nita
Dad & Mom
July 10, 2010
Missing you so much Misti. The special years will not return when we were all together, but with the love that's in our hearts, you will be with us forever.
Love Always,
Dad & Mom.
Amy Burns
November 8, 2009
Happy Birthday my Angel Friend Misti,
I hope they are celebrating big in heaven for you.
Not a day goes by where I don't think of you. I miss you to bits. A part of me still feels lost without you in my life. Every once in a while I will take a look at my scrapbook that I made of you and I and that makes me smile. The amount of memories we had built between us over the years was incredible and I thankyou for that.
Happy Birthday Angel and R.I.P.
Love Always,
Joy (Amy)
November 8, 2009
Happy Birthday Misti,
Today is your special day and I remember your beautiful smile and face, and how much you loved your birthday. I want you to know that the memory of you never leaves my heart for a second. Remembering your strong spirit, your charity for others, your determination and positive outlook reminds me every day that this is how life is to be lived well - I keep trying but I daresay I will never get it as right as you did! These qualities that came naturally to you is what made you a special gift to all of us. The tears come easily, often, and still, but so do the wonderful memories of laughter and fun we had together. I will light a candle for you to celebrate your birth and the day we were blessed with you and the eternal life and spirit you are, and always will be within us.
Happy 32nd Birthday Misti.
Love for always,
Nita
November 8, 2009
Happy 32nd Birthday - We will celebrate your Birthday as we know you would want us to. We will have dinner, and of course, Taramisu. We will try and laugh about things you've said and did. It's easy to remember your smile and thoughtful ways. It's hard to forget that day you went away. Mom will shed tears, as you know I always do. Please remember, we will always love you. Not a day goes by without you being in our thoughts and sometimes the tears start to flow. As we look at your pictures, we know what you are saying "smart'n up" get on with life. We know it will never be the same.
But today we will celebrate, just for you, as best as we can.
To you Misti, on your 32nd Birthday.
With Love, Dad & Mom.
Nita Burns
July 10, 2009
Gary, Judi and Brandi - Every day I see Misti in my mind and remember all of our wonderful and special times. There will never ever be another like her. She left an incredible mark in our lives and with each day we love her even more. It is often so hard to know what to do with our sorrow and this empty space that only she could fill. As time passes we only hold her even more dear, for her amazing spirit and legacy inspires us to always be involved to make a difference, no matter how small, for not only our fellow man, but the furry creatures of the world who need to be loved and saved ... as only she would have done. We miss her so much and know that she is alive in all of us and we are better and richer for it.
I am thinking of you all today and your healing and peace is in my prayers.
Love Nita
Janis & Tim Woodland
July 10, 2008
Missing you always. Thinking of your smiling face. xoxo Love Jan & Tim
January 2, 2008
Dear Sweet Misti,
We missed you so much this holiday season, for Christmas was truly yours and Amy's magical time of year - you both got so excited and couldn't do enough to make it special and exciting. She celebrated her 30th birthday and missed you so much. Do you remember her birthday parties when it was an all-weekend affair - we made graham wafer houses, played the dress-up game, ate and ate, and then you went Christmas carolling around the neighbourhood to raise money for Children's Hospital or Kidney Foundation ... then the sleepovers where you got absolutely no sleep at all. Those treasured times will never be forgotten. We put a bright and sparkling beautiful strawberry ornament on our tree for you and it twinkled and shone as you always did and still do in our lives. We felt you all around us. I know that someday it will get easier, but for now, we struggle from day to day with our sorrow and can only hope that you hear our prayers and feel our love.
We love you forever.
Nita
November 9, 2007
Judi, Gary and Brandi:
Yesterday was such an emotional day for us, as I know it was for you, on the day of Misti's 30th birthday. So much of me wanted to call you, but knowing what a difficult day it was, words could wait. I just wanted you to know that we celebrated her special day in our hearts and memories - we remembered her smile and her wonderful laughter and her immense joy of celebrations ... and I know she was with us all, so happy that it was her special day and we were with her. Absolutely each and every day she inhabits Amy's and my life with her spirit, and because she is always there, we know that she is close by. It is still so very painful, but she is helping us through it day by day. What a wonderful and special angel we are all blessed with. Our love and support surrounds you all today and always.
Love Nita
Amy Burns
November 8, 2007
Happy 30th Birthday my sweet angel friend Misti,
I am thinking about you more than ever today... I miss you so much. I took some time today to look at the scrapbook that I made of you and I growing up and it made me smile, laugh and cry. That book has helped me to get through tough times, it has helped me to smile when I see your face shining in every picture. Each day I am so thankful that I had you come into my life so early on, because it allowed me to experience many wonderful wonderful moments with such an amazing special person I call my best friend. You are so very close to my heart Misti and I thank you for that. I know you are shining from above more than ever today celebrating your big day.
I love you so much Misti and I miss you always.
Love, Joy (Amy)
xoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Lisa
November 8, 2007
Thinking of you.
They say time heals all. I'm not sure who THEY are exactly but I don't think I believe them.
As tears roll down my face today still filled with great sorrow, sadness and guilt. I think of you everyday, whishing you were here. I know you are up there looking down on all, helping everyone as you always did on this crazy place called earth. I love you and miss you so…
Happy Birthday Misti
Love you
Anita Burns
November 8, 2007
Happy Birthday sweet Angel.
I remember you on your special day today, with the vision of your beautiful smile and your joyful excitement that always surrounded a celebration. Today you awaken my heart, as you do every day, to remember how very precious and special the memory of you will always be. I miss you so Misti and through the sadness that is often unbearable, and still so many tears, I know that you are always close by. Amy and my gift to you today, is to remember your love of all animals and their well-being - we will take food to the Delta Humane Society this week, and throughout the year, to help those stray animals who are hungry, and do our part in continuing for you, the unconditional caring and giving that made you so very special. We will always try to continue to carry on where you left off and make a difference in your memory. Happy Birthday sweet girl. I love you forever.
Nita
Anita Burns
September 11, 2007
Misti:
I am thinking of you and missing you today as I do every day. Amy and I speak of you without exception, every time we are together, for there is always something that reminds us of you ... a strawberry, a stray animal, a collectible, a special occasion, a funny story, or so many heartfelt moments remembered that were shared in time with you. And although there are always tears for us and difficulty getting through it, we know that you are right there with us. The memory of you brings sunshine to our days and keeps us warm. We love you so.
Nita & Amy
Janis and Tim Woodland
July 10, 2007
Its hard to believe its been a year today. We miss you so much. Today we celebrate your life.......
Amy Burns
July 10, 2007
Oh my dear Mitsi,
This seems to be the hardest time of my life right now, missing you tremendously... One year has passed by ever so quickly and it seems like just yesterday that we were having our long phone conversations, catching up on what's been happening in our crazy lives. Oh how I have missed hearing your sweet voice on the phone and visiting you. I try so hard to think of all the great times we had together, but honestly, it makes my heart just sink with incredible sadness still. Just the thought of you not here anymore, makes me cry and feel empty, knowing how many wonderful moments we spent together over our lifetime. I miss every moment of it with you.
I have many pictures around my place of you and I, which makes me feel a little more at ease knowing I can wake up and see your smile everyday. And everywhere I go, there's is ALWAYS someone or something or some place that reminds me of you. Whether it be something as simple as strawberries in the grocery store, or a commercial on tv for a charity that you always supported, or even just hearing a certain song on the radio that reminds me of you. The memories are just endless and I am so thankful for that. I feel your presence everywhere I go.
I miss you sooooooo much Mitsi, words can't even explain it. But I know you are up there helping us along the way as best you can.
I think about you daily, that will never change.
Love you forever my angel friend.
Hugs and Kisses,
Amy (Joy) "Tap-Tap"
Anonymous
July 9, 2007
Say not in grief that she is no more
but say in thankfullness that she was
A death is not the extinguishing of a light,
but the putting out of a lamp
because the dawn has come....
Anita Burns
July 9, 2007
Judi, Gary, Brandi & families:
Through this very trying and emotional year, there has not been a single day that Misti's spirit has not been present for all of us. Her exuberant joy for living and making a difference has changed us all forever and truly her spirit and example lives on as large as life itself. I am convinced that while she was here, her life was a magnificent painting in progress - a picture like none we have ever seen, nor will ever see, for it is so unique and beautiful ... and so exquisite.
Imagine in your mind the beautiful majestic and rich green forest full of towering trees and a soft and singing creek gently winding its ways down the mountain. The forest is full of all of God's creations - beautiful deer grazing, bear cubs wandering playfully through with their protective mother and birds softly calling to each other in a symphonic melody ... and of course squirrels scurrying and scaling the trees with such acrobatic skill.
As if frozen, all these creatures stop and quietly and inquisitively gaze at a large group of joyful friends and family surrounding a warm, deep red and orange glowing, crackling bonfire. There is so much laughter and chatter and singing, the sweet smell of melting puffy and golden marshmallows, sizzling and charred hotdogs on a stick and "s'mores" dripping with chocolate. Just outside the wonderful old and historical log cabin, sit many contented and purring kitty cats and sleeping dogs of all shapes and sizes and colours, feeling safe and warm and knowing this is as good as it gets. They are loved. In the very centre is this hub of partying and laughter is a beautiful little girl ... she stands out amongst the rest for it is clear to see that she is surrounded by the most beautiful aura of colours in this beautiful painting. Her sweet and petite face is flushed and aglow with the warmth of the fire, her hair reflecting as golden as the sun ... she is smiling inside and out with happiness because it is not hard to see that this is simply as good as it gets for her ... this is what is real and good and perfect. As she looks up, she knows that the amazing dark and twinkling universe and magnificent blanket of shining and brilliant stars above, is the perfect and most beautiful framework for this life that is absolutely as good as it can be.
This is the magnificent picture that I see of the life that Misti was blessed to have lived, from the very first brush stroke, one by one, until it was done to perfection. I hope that you can envision these moments and this picture, and amid your sadness it brings you a smile and a warm heart. Today, as every day, I celebrate the joy of her life and the privilege to have been blessed with not only her love and friendship, but yours as a family. I loved her so and miss her beyond words.
Nita
Anita Burns
June 27, 2007
Misti:
To remember you as we do every day, is to re-live all of the special times shared together. The laughter, the countless celebrations, your small ideas on a whim that ultimately ended up helping someone or a furry friend in need in such a big and unselfish way. Your laughter and smile that lit up a room and made the moment alive and worthwhile. Your wonderful positive outlook that always looked ahead to the unknown with optimism and promise, and most of all, excitement and adventure... and never once letting anything stand in your way of where you wanted to be. The tears and moments when just a hug was all that was needed, and you were never ever short of those.
I am thinking of you again today, as I did yesterday, and the day before that ... with tears in my eyes and sadness in my heart because I miss you so. I know that you are here beside me, for that is when I am the most overwhelmed, because you are so close. I hear your laughter and your encouragement and your insistance that we must be strong and carry on. I hope that you knew how much you changed our lives forever. Every day I am thankful for the blessing of you. Please don't ever stop doing your "fly-by" sweet Angel. I love you.
Nita
Anita Burns
May 4, 2007
I am thinking of you today Misti as I do every day and missing you so much. As your Mum and Dad prepare to move, it is of course bittersweet, but I know you are smiling and approving, for you always wanted the best for them. I know you are with them every step of the way, guiding them to move on and make a new life, be closer to Brandi, Jay and the kids, and to live life a little easier. I will miss the comfort and familiarity of having them there, and of course the precious, countless memories and wonderful times shared in that house. Amy's students are competing and dancing and I know especially at this time she holds you so near, for you rarely missed a performance and you were always so supportive. She knows that you are there with her - through her still very great sorrow, she finds comfort in your loving spirit. We hear your feet tapping too! I love you sweet angel.
Nita
Janis Woodland
March 26, 2007
Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears,but laugh and talk of me as if i were beside you.....i loved you so- 'twas heaven here with you.
Tim and I have been thinking about you so much. We decorated our house with pictures of you and us. Spinny Vinny is crazy as ever. He loves our new dog Sam. They have a great time together when we all go out to the park. We know you are there with us when we are out on our dog walks. We miss going to the dyke all the time with you. But Vinny always magages to put a smile on our face. We miss you Misti......
Anita Burns
February 21, 2007
Misti:
I am thinking of you today, as I do every single day - I see your face and it warms my heart, but at the same time, brings my tears. I see your beautiful smile, hear your positive and excited voice and remember your wonderful sense of humour - for we always laughed so much! The days are not the same without you in them but I hold in my heart and in my memory, all of these things that keep you near. I remember all of the good times shared, the laughter, the joys ... and the small day-to-day things that were so special, yet connected one heart to another.
Amy's life is empty without you and I know that she has trouble speaking your name, for the pain is still so great. She finished a beautiful album about you - it is magnificent and you would be so proud. It is her way to hold you close and to feel as though you are there. It is all about your beautiful and special life with her, and friends and family along the way. It is about the blessed love of a special friendship that came along as a gift to both of you, and created a bond and love that was so special and few will ever know in their lives. There were so many times that words were not necessary ... it was just one heart talking to another in a language that was silent, but so powerful and so understood by the other. You changed our lives forever - how sweet is was to have loved you, how sweet it is to remember and honour you every time we speak your name...I wanted you to know that I am thinking of you ... just because it is Wednesday ... and what a void there is without you - I miss you. I love you for always sweet angel.
Nita
Lisa Ahlers
December 22, 2006
Misti
That time of year is here.
Christmas… Christmas… Christmas…
It was our favorite time of year.
Trees, Garland, Gifts and more…
We always had so much fun!
It is harder more now then ever to smile.
Even at this time of year.
I will never forget the good times we had.
I will always smile up at you,
Knowing that you do smile down on us too.
I have shed many tears and I will shed many more.” Missing you”
Just wishing you were here, to see that big smile and the
Misti hugs we all looked forward to.
But knowing that you are at piece makes it a bit easer to carry on.
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year Mist…
We love you!
Mike, Lisa, Bear, Snoop, Garf and Meeko
Anita Burns
December 18, 2006
Sweet Angel,
Here we are at your favourite time of year - you loved this time of celebration and giving so much! This is when you blossomed and shone! You shopped and shopped and never left anyone out. You always over did it and wanted to make sure everyone had a gift. Every year you made sure I had a new and unique bear - the "snowflake bear" you gave me 3 years ago is never put away. He is so cute that he sits in my hall every day of the year, and you knew that could not bear to put him away. Now, I see you each time I look at him and remember how delighted you were that I absolutely loved him. He is very special. And then of course there were the inevitable "box of Black Magic Chocolates" for Bob - you always said he would never guess what was in the box ... and I was never allowed to have any ...they were just for Bob. Guess what? He didn't share! I think you both talked about it beforehand!
Our hearts are so heavy and we weep every day for you - Amy's life is so empty without you and the void is so great and painful. I hope it will get easier someday. What we hold in our hearts is your love and spirit always, and especially at this time of year, we remember your charity and love for others and how it shone so brightly. It reminds us again, to carry that forward each and every day, as you would have.
We will say a special prayer to you and I know you will be listening - we love you so much sweet girl - Merry Christmas sweet Angel. God Bless You.
brian allen
November 17, 2006
happy birthday misti i miss you and always will
CARTER TURNER
November 10, 2006
Happy birthday Misti, may the sushi,chocolate and strawberry's flow all day, all our love Carter Tina and young Branigan.
Lisa Ahlers
November 9, 2006
Misti,
Happy Birthday MIsti…
We take a pause today.
To toast to you on your special day.
Love Mike, Lisa
Bear, Snoopy
Garfield & Meeko
Leanne Kenakin
November 8, 2006
Happy Birthday Sweet Misti!
It's your day! I see the love people have for you and the emptiness that is left behind. I see Amy and her family being so strong as each day passes, even though their hearts hang heavy. I know the strength loved ones have found in each other as we remember such a loyal, dear, and warm soul. On this special day of yours, we remember not what has happened the last few months, but what great reason we have to celebrate...... YOU. You are unbelievably and sorely missed and will be forever. Love,
Leanne Kenakin
Amy Burns
November 8, 2006
Happy Birthday my angel Misti,
Wow... Leading up to this day has been extremely difficult for me, knowing that I wouldn't be able to call you or see you to wish you happiness on your special day. I think of you constantly and still feel like I can just pick up the phone and you will be there to talk to me. It's still too hard to accept the fact you aren't there. But I know you're shining smiling face is up there trying to help us all through this. I miss you TREMENDOUSLY.
I love you for always,
"Joy" (Amy Burns)
Anita Burns
November 8, 2006
Misti:
On this blessed day, your birthday, I am filled with so much emotion, for I know how much celebrating and sharing birthdays and the joy of life was important to you. This day is as important to us as it ever was, for it is a day to celebrate the joy of you and our blessings because of you. These past months have been so difficult, for our hearts are empty and long for your physical presence in our lives. You are, and always will be our angel, our blessing, and above anything else, our inspiration. No time will ever diminish the joy, the energy, the caring, compassion and humanity that you demonstrated and your memory has left with us, and that of course, you expected all of us to carry on by your example, every day of our lives.
The glowing candles that we light for your today, will never dim, for they reflect the vision of your beautiful and ever-smiling face, your shining and effervescent spirit, and the halo of love that will always surround you from all of us who loved you more than words can ever express. Our love is eternal and our hearts sing to you today with tears of joy and boundless love. Happy Birthday sweet angel.
Love Nita & Bob(Burns)
Brandi Carlow
November 8, 2006
Happy Birthday Mis.
Just knowing that you are at peace, and that your love of celebration will carry on in all of us that knew you, will surely carry us through these hard times and help us to find a way to smile on your special day.
love you.
Anita Burns
September 14, 2006
Misti:
There is not a day that goes by that I do not miss your presence in our lives and the very important part you were of our family. Every day when I look at the special bears that are scattered throughout my house that you hand-picked with top hats and voices and just the right colours, and you so lovingly gave me as gifts, or the miniature outhouse you made for me for the Ranch to commemorate our fond memories of days gone by ... (who else could I possibly share the importance of a heritage outhouse with and have them appreciate it, but you!), the phone calls we shared about our beloved cats because it was so good to talk to another "cat-crazed" person who understood how much you absolutely really loved them like they were your children (and let them get away with so much more than you would ever tolerate from anyone else!). I remember how much you always, always cared about the little things that made others smile and happy ... we miss you so much.
The memory of you makes us warm and we want to smile but the pain is still so great Misti ... we are trying , but it is so hard. As every day has been trying, these past few days especially when I feel you so near, I know that you are telling me that you are there. Amy needs you so much for their is a part of her soul that is now empty and her pain is so great that I do not know how to help her through it. She loved you so much. I know that you are smiling and at peace because she has taken on the responsibility of caring for the life of your sponsored foster-child that you have so lovingly supported for the past 10 years. Amy could not imagine it any other way, for she knew how important it was to you to help him grow into a comfortable, educated and healthy adult, with opportunities and promise for a better life. Where he is in his life is a tribute to your unselfish giving and caring. Amy will make sure that your years of dedication to him continue in your memory, until he is self-sustaining and the job is done.
Because of you Misti, every day is filled with your vision, of a beautiful memory of special times shared and treasured ... because of you we were blessed with a love affair with a "daughter" and a "beloved friend", and the special person that you were changed our lives forever. We are so lucky and blessed because of you.
As you affectionately called me and I will proudly always remain ...
"The crazy-lady and her abnormal family"
Erin Medina ( Boynton)
August 12, 2006
Misti,
When Amy Burns told me about your death,i was speechless.I have known you since Delview,and you were always the nicest person.I got to see you last summer at the reunion,and i was happy to meet you again.My heart goes out to your family/friends who knew you best.I know your sweet face and genuine smile are shining down on everybody, because you were always smiling and had such a zest for life.You truly are an insiration to this world.That is why this legacy is for you,because you have deeply touched everybody's lives.
Take Care of this sweet woman/girl we know, until we meet again.
Love ya Misti,
Erin & Hector, Popeye, Pedro Medina
Mitch Selly
August 10, 2006
Misti always brought a smile to my face.I'll miss her greatly
Lee O'Donnell
August 4, 2006
A life is a priviledge
To be Realized without hesitation
A wild spirit, always tested
Never being tamed
Possessing an inner warmth
A tender glowing ember
The fire will never dim
For it burns in all you have touched
Dennis Loeppky
August 4, 2006
It is with a heavy heart that we received the sad news about Misti. We did not know her for very long, but such was her spirit, that I often felt that I knew her for a lifetime. Our prayers go out to you Brandi and your family and to your Mom and Dad.
Dennis, Valerie, Maria and Angela Loeppky (ex Shuswap neighbours)
August 4, 2006
It has been weeks since we attended the service for Misty, not a day goes by that something triggers her memory. The words Misty Blue play in ones mind, the animal shelter song comes on tv,a black lab runs by, your hear someone mention a turtle and you auto think of Murtle.There are so many reminders of the short life that Misty lived yet made such a great impact. Judi , Garry, Brandi, Jay and your 3 beautiful children. Words cannot express my
feelings for you, Each day one foot in front of the other, slowly,time heals. The physical being may not be present, however the spirit and personality of a unique individual lives on in all of our hearts.
God Bless and God heal,
Love you all lots.
Barbie
Erinn Dawe
August 3, 2006
I'm sorry for hear of the loss that the Tacholsky family has endured. It's nevery easy to lose someone, but Misti was very special to everyone around her. Our thought are with your family. From Jason's(Jay) cousin, on the Island.
Cathie Hartsell
August 3, 2006
Misti! You were such a little warrior and always game for fun. A spirit that went far beyond your small stature and such an encouragement for the other - then teens - at Children's Hospital.
My thoughts and prayers go out the family.
Remember whenever you feel a breeze that soft touch is her reaching out to you.
Sincerely
Cathie (Anjie's Mom)
Denise Szabo
July 30, 2006
20yrs ago, You, as a little girl, entered into our lives.
You became part of our family, and we had the pleasure to watch you grow up to become the beautiful young lady that you are today.
You grew up to be everyone's best friend.
Your Love, your smiles, your thoughtfullness, your cheerfullness, your kindness, your generosity, our laughs, our visits!
Misti, you are always a pleasure to be around.
You were more than just a friend! You are family!
Finding out today, July 30th, that you flew above us, is extremely difficult for Mom, Justen and I. As we did not get to properly say "See you one day!"
Knowing you are no longer in any pain, helps to dry our tears.
I now have 5 very close Angels above, watching over my family and I.
Misti, we will forever have you in our hearts and memories. One day, we'll get to hug you again.
Mom and I send our deepest sympathies to your family Misti.
Thank you for being a part of ours.
We will forever love you Sweety.
Love Denise, Mom and Justen.
Ryan Burns
July 30, 2006
So many years have passed since I first met Misti as a little girl who fast became the most important person in my sister's life, and remains so to this day. The laughter, the tears, the pain and the joy all will stay with me for the rest of my days as I was blessed to spend so much time enjoying Misti's company as essentially a part of my family. Gary, Judy and Brandi...to you all I say this: You have all been so very lucky to have Misti as a daughter and sister, and we are all so very lucky to have enjoyed the smart, witty and caring woman you raised and nurtured. My heart is so heavy with this loss, for you all, for my sister, and all those who have loved and been touched by Misti. I believe my sister put it best with these words: "I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always, as long as I'm living my friend you will be." Rest peacefully Misti, and watch over us all as the angel you have always been and are meant to be.
Amy Burns
July 29, 2006
My dear friend and forever angel, Misti,
It has been really hard for me to know where to start, knowing the amount of history you and I have. The overflowing memories I carry with me since the very first day we met as little girls, are incredible. I feel so blessed to have had you come into my life at such a young age.
One day, I would knock on your door to invite you to come over for a swim in my pool (we'd spend hours in there together) and the next day it would be you knocking on my door asking to come on your trampoline. Some days we would set up our lemonade stand on the sidewalk, other days we would rollerskate for hours on the cul-d-sac. We had built quite the group of friends on 112A Street. You, me, Jane, Anne, Jen, Juhelle and Jinny would all get together often and it's amazing how many activities we'd find to do in one day. We all got along so well. You name it, we did it! We spent hours and hours on end together and took turns having sleepovers at each others houses. I remember a bunch of us had joined the environmental club and guess who's idea that was? Of course it was yours. Why? Because being the good hearted person you were, you always wanted to help the environment in every way you could to make it a better place to live in. "Reduce, Reuse, Recycle" right Mist? I truly can't imagine it any other way. Even though it seems far too soon for you to leave us, you and I had fullfilled SO much in the time we had together and I am so thankful for that.
Misti, you were more than just a friend. You were truly my very BEST friend and that's what makes it so hard to accept the fact you are now gone. You were my sister that I never had. We talked and talked and talked about absolutely everything. I gave you advice and you gave it back to me in return. I shared my opinions and you shared yours in return. We had our ups and we had our downs like all friends do. We laughed a lot, we cried a few times, we comforted eachother and got back on track. No matter what we went through, the bond that we had built over the years kept getting stronger and stronger. Our closeness was so special to me.
No one will EVER take Misti's place in my heart. Even though I feel such a void without her now, I know she is up there trying to send incredible strength to all that touched her life, because that's how she was. She gave and gave and gave. It was never ending. She naturally just put everyone else ahead of her. And she expected nothing in return.
Misti, you have taught me so many things over the years and I thank you for that. You have definitely made me a better person because of it. You have taught me to have confidence in myself. You have taught me to be a fighter. You have taught me how to find the positive things in life and throw away the negative things. You have definitely taught me to live life to the fullest. Your presence gave me so much strength. When I needed you, you were there in an instant. You supported me so much. You pretty much never missed a year of dance recitals or competitions. It meant so much to me to have you there in the audience for me and I felt such an incredible energy when I was around you. So bubbly and full of life.
If I could, I could just go on and on and on about Misti, that's how much she has impacted my life. When you have someone as special as Misti come into your life, it's so hard to just sum it all up in a few paragraphs, because the memories just go so much further than this.
I miss her SO much already, but I know she is up there with her sweet angelic smile helping all of us get through this. Thankyou "Mist" for touching my life.
I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living,
My angel you'll be
Love always,
Amy Burns(known to Misti as "JOY")
Kelly Phelps
July 24, 2006
Misti my little cousin, I remember when you were born and will never forget you as an adult. I always admired you throughout the years, you were such a strong individual. When things were tough you never let it get you down and you always new how to change a negative into a positive and to find the good in every bad. I never seen you without a smile and a hug for each and every one of us, and you always had such an upbeat outlook for life whenever we were in your presences .
I have learned so much from you throughout the years and I know that a part of your spirit is in each and everyone of us, who have had the privilege to know you.
Some people think that strength comes in the physical form, but that is where they are wrong. Misti you had more strength then anyone could measure up too and your strength was where it counts most in your (heart & soul).
For such a little package you were without a doubt the biggest gift that anyone could ever hope for.
Thank you Misti for coming into each and every one of our lives and showing us what living is all about.
Thank you Aunt Judy and Uncle Gary for bringing Misti into this world and into our family
Misti you may be gone but I can Promise you this that you will never every be forgotten. (We Will Miss You So So Much).
LOVE YOU FOR FOREVER Your Cousin Kelly & Shayla
Hilda
July 21, 2006
Judi, Gary and Brandi - we are saddened to hear of Misti's passing. Our condolances are offered to you and your family from Aunt Helen Molnar and family.
Mark Harrison
July 19, 2006
Judi Gary and Brandi
I am so sorry to hear about your loss .You are in my heart and in my thoughts.
Mark
Paula Canning
July 18, 2006
I am so saddened to hear the news...I knew Misti as a friend of the Burn's...I met her many times and she was such a sweet, always smiling girl...my heart goes out to your family....
Paula & Kristina Canning
janet fort
July 18, 2006
Misti
You are but a ray of sunshine, from the moment you entered this world you changed a lot of people. Sure there were hard times and bad ones too. You are a very big part of all of us. Your out look on life is something most of us here today will never know. Misti every time i saw you I was in awe of Your enthusiasm and zest for life this is something I will truly miss Even though you were short in statute you are huge in heart. We may not be able to party with you here but we know you will have them all dancing drinking shooters, and parting with the others before you.
Misti know all the possibilities of her impossible dream. You left space in all your relationships so you’d have lots of room to play. While you were yourself you were quick to forgive, forget and forge ahead. You found it easier to fly when you took yourself lightly. you’re an angle on call reaching out and touching everyone with you huge heart . love is only
a four letter word for whenever you hear a bell an angle has earned their wings, so Misti spread your wings and fly with all the stars. Misti I love you and I,ll never forget.
Tim & Janis Woodland
July 17, 2006
We'll miss you and never forget you.
Annjanette (Anjie) Watson ( Hartsell)
July 17, 2006
Tacholsky Family, I am very sorry for your loss, I met Misti about 14 years ago when I was first diagnosed with Kidney Failure at Children's Hospital. Misti was a wonderful friend and great listener. She was an amazing person and she touched everyone's heart. Her smile would light up a room. She will always hold a special place in my heart. Misti you are truly an amazing person and I will miss you.
Dixie & Larry Freeman
July 17, 2006
Our Condolences to all Mistys Family and Friends,
Misty, You will always have a special place in our hearts. The good times we shared will always be remembered and treasured.
Till we meet again,
Dixie, Larry, Patience,Tanisha, Kiara
xo
Tammi Harrison (Empey)
July 16, 2006
Misti was a wonderful person and an even better friend. She was always there for you to listen, cry or laugh with or just to lend a hand no matter how much time passed between visits or phone calls. I will forever miss her smile, laugh and encouragement. We had some wonderful times and I will forever carry those with me. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with the family and all of Misti's friends during this extremely difficult time.
Kirk Whiteway
July 16, 2006
Gary, Judi and Brandi: Our deepest condolences on your loss. Misti was an amazing young women; so full of life. Janet and I didn't know Misti very well, but she touched our hearts nevertheless. Her vitality was contagious! She will be greatly missed by everyone she ever met. Our thoughts are with you.
Heather Koller
July 15, 2006
Although we didn't know Misti very well, we both felt very honoured to have met her. My husband and myself entered a difficult "social" situation, being we didn't know anyone at a mutual friend's wedding (we were together in the wedding party), and Misti made both of us feel like she had known us forever. She seemed to take everyone "under her wing" and make sure everything was alright.
We have thought of her often,since knowing of her numerous medical conditions and we will continue to do so.
Every year when we make our donation to the SPCA we will think of Misti.
May she be forever in peace, comfort, and know no pain.
Sincerely,
Heather and Aaron Koller
dave&lisa beaulieu/sacher
July 15, 2006
wonderful,kind woman. will be forever remembered. love you misti.
Jennifer Cleaveley
July 15, 2006
My sincere condolences are with your family and friends as you come to terms with your loss. I met Misti in the early nineties when we attended the Canadian Cancer Society’s Ogopogo Ski Camp at Apex Alpine resort in Penticton. It was a time to let go of the maturity that often came with the illnesses we fought, or were fighting. This was a place where we could enjoy our youth together being absolutely ridiculous. While Misti continued to be daunted by the effects of her illness it is safe to say that she was never truly defeated as her enduring disposition was ever present. I had planned on coming down for the service, but I
regret I will not be able to. My thoughts will be with you tomorrow as you say good bye to Misti. Know that her spirit will always be admired as she was the brightest gem among us. Her positive out look, perseverance, and persistence is a sign of the amazing family she was loved and surrounded by.
Carter Turner
July 14, 2006
We are deeply sorry for your loss. Misti was a great friend and a lovely person, her spitfire sense of humour always kept me and the rest of the boys in line. A quick slap behind the head usually did the trick. She hit pretty hard for a tiny thing trust me on that. Tina and I are very greatful for the times we had with Misti, from grade eight drama to great times at her cabin. When our son Branigan was born Auntie Misti was one of the first there to hold him and spoil him with John Deere goodies, he will not grow up without knowing she loved him very much.
We love you Misti, "Your heart is free have the courage to follow it"
All our love Carter,Tina and young Branigan Turner
Claudette Beitel
July 14, 2006
Judi, Gary, Brandi,
Our thoughts & prayers are with you all at this sad time. Although I do not recall meeting Misti, I have heard lots about the many struggles she had and all the obstacles you all overcome, as a family. There is an angel in heaven, taking care of you all. God bless, you are in our prayers & thoughts.
Claudette (nee Voss) & David Beitel
Amie, Neil & Mark - Regina, SK
(Aunt Mary Buksa's granddaughter)
Darren
July 14, 2006
I've going to school with Misti since the beginning. We recently met up again since school finished and we've grown to know each other a lot better. Misti had always wanted to learn to ride a motorcycle and since I rode, she decided it was time to learn to ride too. She's not the kind of person to sit and think about things and never do it, she went out, took a course, bought a bike, learned to ride and enjoyed every second of it! One of her favorite things to do was to rip down Derby Reach on the back of my FZ1. She could barely hold on, but she had a grin ear to ear. I'm going to miss her smile and enthusiasm for life.
Hazel Voss
July 14, 2006
Dear Gary Judy Brandi & Family
It is with deep sorrow that we accept the passing of Aunty Helen's beautiful Misti. Today I'm sure she is deeply cuddeled in her arms getting all those wet kisses aunt Helen loved to give. Gary ,Judy Brandi and family we love you From your Sask. cousin Hazel John and Family
Helen, Matt & Cabo McConaghy-Anderson
July 14, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Misti was a great person!! Very adventurous and had a great big huge heart and a zest for life! She will always be in our hearts.
Lisa & Mike Szabo
July 14, 2006
Our harts go out to the family and all of her friends. We love you Misti!
Until we meet again...
Lisa, Mike, Bear, Snoop, Garf and Meeko
K C
July 14, 2006
A little ray of sunshine
left our lives today
although we barely knew her
she touched us in her way
Her life was not so easy
her health was not so good
never did she whine or moan
but smiled all that she could
We will indeed miss her
and all the love she shared
her selfless considerations
showed how much she cared
We are very grateful
and privileged to have known
Misty Tacholsky,
before she was called home
We say so long, but not goodbye
for we shall meet once more
a fitting, glorious reunion
Upon Heaven's grassy shore.
Missed, but never forgotten,
With Love,
Bruce & Karen Critchley,
Your friend's at Koda's Legacy House Doggie Day Care
Brian Allen
July 14, 2006
Misti, ill miss you. I met misti through my sister we all went to school together. one of the best times i remember was when my mom took us a bunch of us to her cabin, what a great weekend. love you misti, ill miss you!
Shawna Piva (Allen)
July 14, 2006
Misti was a friend that you could always count on. She had a smile and a laugh that would always cheer you up! She will be sadly missed by all those who she touched. Our thoughts and prayers go out to her family at this difficult time.
Samantha Vaughan
July 13, 2006
Dear Gary, Judi, Brandi and family. I am so saddened to hear of Misti's sudden passing. Yet it has been many years since we have last seen each other, I often think of her and her gift to make you smile and our many days at Children's hospital renal unit togther. Thinking of you all during this most difficult time.
Love Samantha (Ripley) Vaughan
Jean Adams
July 13, 2006
Words cannot say what I feel at this moment. Misti was such an amazing strong person and I will miss her so much.
Jean
Gary & Loretta Steffen
July 13, 2006
The cabin on the Shuswap will never be the same without Misti. We express our sincere sympathy to the family.
We sincerely miss this beautiful young lady.
Diane Tait-Katerberg
July 13, 2006
I met Misti through my daughter & son-in-law, Nicole & Chris Colibaba. She always impressed me with her zest for life and her acceptance of what obstacles were thrown in her way, without letting them be more than they absolutely had to be. She was a wonderful model of how to live life fully that is an inspiration to all who knew her. The world is a better place because Misti lived in it. She will be missed.
aunty pepper O'Donnell
July 13, 2006
When ever we seen Misti she alway's had a warm smile and be as happy as she could be.She will alway's be our little Misti to us.
ken martin
July 13, 2006
as for some one who has worked with misti for the past 12 years we are going to miss her larger than life smile she always had and bubbley personality around the plant and also the hard work she did with her mom to make the family company picnics an enjoyable day for all the employees kids.
we are going to miss you misti
ken
peace
Debra Akhurst (Flewwelling)
July 13, 2006
I can still see that little blonde haired girl following her big sister and I all around 112 A St. Playing in the camper, selling lemonade...
I hope she feels as free now as she did then. I am sending the warmest hug to Judy,Gary,Brandi and family. I am so sorry for your loss.
aunt pep o'Donnell
July 13, 2006
Misti has alway's had a soft spot in my heart,I have alway's admired her independence and love of life and she alway's had a warm smile for you when ever you seen her.She will alway's be our little Misti..
Doreen & Al Selly
July 13, 2006
Having known Misty through our son Mitchell, we knew of her zest for life and how she lived her life to the fullest that she could. She will be greatly missed by all her friends and there were many. We offer you our deepest sympathy and know that she will always have a special place in everyone's hearts.
Peter HORSLEY
July 13, 2006
I met her as a little girl twenty years ago. Misti has been profoundly inspirational in my family's lives. She always displayed a bright and positive attitude many times in the face of personal challenges. I have held her up as an example of someone who has something to complain about who didn't. I think she helped many people put their lives in perspective. Her bright, positive, bubbly attitude was infectious. My heart goes out to her family and friends. I feel part of the great loss they must be feeling now but my faith allows me to know that she, who lived a short but good life, is in a place I hope to go some day.
Sincerely with my deep condolances,
Peter
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