Dr. Murray O'Neil

Dr. Murray O'Neil

Murray O'Neil Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jul. 3 to Jul. 5, 2007.
O'NEIL, Dr. Murray Roy On Saturday afternoon, June 30th, 2007, Essex County lost one of its great sons. Dr. Murray Roy O'Neil passed away suddenly and tragically doing what he loved most, piloting his beloved Piper J-3 Cub near Colchester, Ontario. Born on May 12, 1927, and raised in Paquette Corners on the family farm, Murray's love of the land never left him. In the fall of 1945, he left home for London, ON where he studied pre-medicine and then medicine at the University of Western Ontario, graduating in 1951. He returned home to practice family medicine in the town of Essex. While he went on to specialize in Allergy and Immunology and later build the largest private Allergy and Respirology partnership of its kind in Ontario, the principles of practicing good old-fashioned medicine - of listening, caring, being there for his patients at anytime of the day and seeing them through no matter what - always set his standard of care. Dr. O'Neil was honoured by the medical community as President of the Michigan Allergy Society (1981-1982), President of the Essex County Medical Society (1985-1986) and in 1999 was honoured with a Life Membership by the Ontario Medical Association. He was a brilliant diagnostician and pioneered the areas of respirology and sleep medicine in Windsor, however he will surely be most fondly remembered as a simple and principled man with a genuine love for his patients, who would arrive, doctor's bag in hand, whenever needed. In 1961 Dr. O'Neil embarked on his second career, founding Highline Produce. After 45 years of strength and growth, Highline today is one of the largest mushroom growing facilities in Canada, employing close to 800 people at its Leamington, ON, Wellington, ON and Montreal, PQ locations. Murray's countless feats of engineering and his personally devised innovations made Highline one of the most advanced and modern facilities in North America. He was known internationally as a father of the industry, and as in his first career, held many positions of leadership, including Co-Chairing the first North American Mushroom Conference (1979) with his dear friend, Charles Ciarrocchi, serving as President of the Canadian Mushroom Growers' Association (1976-1978), as a member of the US Mushroom Council (2003-2005) and being honoured as a Life Member of the Canadian Mushroom Growers' Association in 2002 for his then 41 years of service. His final passion, the marvel of flight, is one which in his own words was "something that's been a part of me for as long as I can remember," beginning when he was given the gift of a toy airplane at five years of age and stayed with him throughout his whole entire life. He first soloed a Tiger Moth in the summer of 1950 while stationed at Summerwide, PEI. His quest for knowledge, his great curiosity, and his love for the skies culminated in a commercial license by 1966. He owned 18 different private aircraft during an aviation career that spanned over five decades and accumulated over 8,500 hours. Great moments of glory included competing in the Great London, England to Victoria, BC Air Race in 1971 as a part of a two-man crew in his Piper Twin Comanche (for which he received a Windsor Flying Club Special Award) and flying his "hottest" plan, a Mitsubishi MU-2 twin engine turbo prop on Highline business throughout the 1990s. He lovingly built a single-seater, open-cockpit Volksplane, the "Cutie", which will forever hang suspended at the Windsor Airport as a part of a Heritage Collection. He also restored a beautiful 1946 Piper J-3 Cub, which he taught his children to fly and which lived at his home until this Saturday's fateful accident. For all of his many accomplishments, Murray O'Neil will be remembered as a simple man from Essex County who loved his family and cherished close friends, who served his fellow man and touched so many lives, and who lived life to the fullest with an abundance of optimism and a deep gratitude for all his life's blessings. He is pre-deceased by his wife Judith (Fitch) O'Neil, his son, Andrew O'Neil, and his sister, Marjorie (O'Neil) Wright. He is survived by his brother, Ejay O'Neil and family, heartbroken children Debra and John Gallaugher, David O'Neil, and Elizabeth O'Neil, grandchildren Brandon Gallaugher and Regan, Lisa, Samantha and Mallory O'Neil, mother-in-law Dorothy Fitch, and numerous nieces and nephews. A visitation will be held on Thursday, July 5th, 2007 at the Walter Kelly Funeral Home (1969 Wyandotte St. E., Windsor) from 2-4pm and from 7-9pm. A third visitation will be held the following morning, Friday, July 6th, at Lakeshore St. Andrew's Church (231 Amy Croft Drive, Tecumseh) from 11-12pm, with a funeral service at Lakeshore St. Andrew's following at 12:30pm. The family has requested a private interment at St. Stephen's Anglican Church, Oldcastle. Friends and family are invited to celebrate Murray's life at a memorial celebration at Hangar 401, Windsor Airport, from 4-6pm on Friday July 6th. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that you make a donation to your charity of choice, or to Ability Online, an online support network for children and young adults with disabilities and illnesses ( www.abilityonline.org ) which Murray believed in and supported.

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August 1, 2007

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July 8, 2007

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Andy Voros

August 1, 2007

David, Liz, & Debbie...I worked by your Dad's side for the better part of 3 years at the farm. He inspired me to be the best that I can and he taught me life skills, people skills, and management skills that have enriched my life and enabled me to be all that I can. He will truely be missed and often remembered!!!

Trisha Hedge (Patterson)

July 10, 2007

Dear Liz: You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Seeing all of these entries in your Dad's guest book, I can tell how many lives he has touched and how much he will be missed. He has definitley led a good life and accomplished many things for which you must be proud. Keep these thoughts and memories close to your heart. God Bless.

Lyle Wright

July 8, 2007

I was shocked to hear of Murray's tragic
passing . He was a great boss and a dear friend and will remain in my thoughts now and forever.

Susann Bruner-King

July 7, 2007

Sorry to hear of the passing of Dr. Murray.
Fellow aviator- Dr. George Bruner would often see Murray fly into the airstrip in Leamington, and each time he'd say" That's one smart fellow". Murray had a life well-lived.

Paul Geraedts

July 7, 2007

Dear Liz and family and all the "Highline" family.

I was very shocked when I got the message about the accident.
At the same time I remembered our last phone call, warm and interesting as always.
Because I was not able to visit his birthday party, he invited me having a "nice drink" together.
At my next visit, in some weeks, we would have spent some time together, to talk about business and as usual about life.
He was a wonderfull person, always interested in other people's lifes.
I learned a lot from him and I have lost a real friend!

I will always remember him.

Dr. Paul Yocom

July 7, 2007

Dear Liz. I am so glad that I called your Dad a couple of weeks ago. I was devistated when I read the Windsor Star online this morning. Our friendship and our love of aviation goes back well over 40 years with so many pleasant flying memories. When I decided to become a doctor 30 years ago, your Dad was an absolutely wonderful source of encouragement, mentor, and fountain of knowledge. He was often my personal professor of medicine on the phone when I was a student, and first in practice. I am priveleged to have shared the cockpit with your Dad so many times, and to have shared friendship with him. On June 30th, in the presence of God, Dr. Murray O'Neil filed a flight plan and flew home. He is missed by us, but there is some comfort in knowing that he has now been welcomed by those who have made their transition ahead of us. Your Dad was a good man, and he lives on.

Lorna Moffat Baker

July 6, 2007

Liz,
So very sorry on the loss of your dad. I spoke to him a few times in the last year or so - at my work - he was so full of life. He will always be with you.
Sincerest Condolences,

Philip Kah

July 6, 2007

My condolences to Dr. O'Neil's family, and everyone at Highline Mushroom Farm.

I had the opportunity and privilege to get to know Dr. O'Neil on a personal basis through our work at Highline Mushroom. His outlook on work and passion for life are an inspiration. He will surely be missed by all those who knew him.

MAUREEN TOOLE

July 6, 2007

IF ANYONE COULD EVER HAVE FELT SO PRIVILEDGED TO BE SUCH A HUGE PART OF YOUR FAMILY THAT PERSON WOULD BE ME.I WAS A MERE 13 YEARS OLD AS YOUR PARENTS WAITED FOR ME TO TURN THE LEGAL AGE OF 13 TO BABYSIT. ANDREW WAS 4 AND YOU LIZ WERE 6. YOU BOTH TUGGED AT MY HEARTSTRINGS FROM THE VERY FIRST TIME I MET YOU BOTH.WHAT MEMORIES I HOLD AT WHAT SEEMS LIKE AN ETERNITY. YOU LIZ ARE DEFINITELY THE PRODIGY OF YOUR FATHER, BEAUTIFUL, INTELLIGENT, AND TRULY AN OPTIMIST JUST LIKE YOUR DADDY.YOUR FAMILY WILL ALWAYS REMAIN CLOSE TO MY HEART WITH COUNTLESS, BEAUTIFUL MEMMORIES. TOO MAY TO MENTION.HOLD ONTO THESE MEMORIES AS SOMETHING MOST PRECIOUS. TO YOU MURRAY,REST IN PEACE AND GO WITH GOD SPEED.I WILL STILL CONTINUE TO BABYSIT YOUR GIRL. WITH MUCH SADNESS AND LOVE 'THE ONEIL BABYSITTER' MOE

Kerry Tarrant

July 5, 2007

To the family of Dr Murray O'Neil I wish to send my deepest sympathy. I am thinking of you all at this very tough time and to my dear and beloved friend Liz, your English sister loves you very much and whilst the shoulder may be many miles away, it is always available. Stay strong! Love Kerry x

Stacey Omstead-DiNiro

July 5, 2007

Liz,
My thoughts are of you and your family. I was shocked to see the Windsor Star this week. I still remember flying home from B.S.S. with you both in grade nine.
Look for him in the clouds...I am sure you will find him there.
I am truly sorry for your loss.
Stacey Omstead-DiNiro
(Wheatley, ON)

Blodwen Reitz

July 5, 2007

Thirty Five years ago I took my ashmatic toddler, Simon, to Dr. O'Neil. He always enjoyed Simon because Simon never allowed a little thing like having difficulty breathing to stop him from his extremely active life. Simon in turn loved Dr. O'Neil and would say very firmly "I'm not Chick's boy. I'm Doc Neil's boy." WE saw Dr. O'Neil for many years and I will always appreciate his calm quiet support.

Scott Clare

July 5, 2007

Dear Debbie, David and Elizabeth, News of Uncle Murray's death came from Mom, via Aunt Donna. I was so shocked to learn of this tragic event. There are many fond memories of Uncle Murray flooding through my mind this week. Like my first small plane ride (probably the J-3!) where, as an excited, but thoroughly scared 10 year old, I sat in the cockpit and stomped on the brakes for all I was worth, as Uncle Murray swung the prop to get it going. Thus my fascination with those "flying machines"!
Please accept our family's sincerest condolances. Regretfully, due to my recent major surgery, I can not attend the funeral and share my regards in person. Uncle Murray will always be treasured as the first of many Doctors to work with my Dad in the old basement offices of 115 Talbot St., Essex, and later on, in the Essex Medical Building, (the first "Clinic" of the day for Essex Co.)across from Holy Name School. He will also be sadly missed by my mother, Jean Clare and sister Margaret Clare, both of Kingston, with whom he kept in close contact over all these years.
His spirit will live on!
Scott and Dianna Clare and family.

Zane Pritts Aviation Inc

July 5, 2007

To the O'Neil family,
From all of us here at Zane Pritts Aviation we send our condolenses to the family, friends and co workers of Mr O'Neil. We had the great pleasure of meeting this amazing man that we have read about in the last couple of days. Our prayers and thoughts are with each and everyone that had a part in his life. He will be missed.

Margaret Arnold

July 5, 2007

Dear Liz: Words can't possibly say how terribly sorry I am to hear of the tragic loss of your dad. My thoughts are with you. With love. Marg Arnold

July 5, 2007

Dear Liz,

We wish we could be there in person to mourn with you the loss of your Dad and to celebrate his amazing life. Our loving thoughts and very best wishes are with you and your family in the days ahead, and always.

--Brad, Jennifer, Benjamin and Megan, Waterloo

Howard & Susan Fitch

July 5, 2007

Elizabeth, Aunt Dorthy & family
Please know that our prayers and thoughts are with you during this time of great sorrow and loss.
We love you and will be praying for you in the days ahead that God will give you strength and peace and that His love will surround you.
Love Howard, Susan & family

Kim and Darren Winger

July 4, 2007

Elizabeth
Our thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

Sally Rohrer ( McGuire)

July 4, 2007

Understanding your painful loss and sharing in your appreciation of all the priceless memories you've enjoyed with your DAD!
Dave and Sally (McGuire )Rohrer.
---"Hi Deb!'

The Drake Stoker Family

July 4, 2007

Dearest Liz,
We are holding you in our thoughts here in Dorset. I hope you get some peace in treasuring the memories you hold of your father. Those special times you shared will always live on in your mind.
We join with Ryan to send you our sincere sympathy at this sad time.
With much love from,
Noreen, Richard, Erica and Christopher.

Heather Armstrong

July 4, 2007

My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you, your father was my allergist for over 25 years,until his retirement. There was no kinder or sweeter man than him. You truly knew he cared about his patients, as a little girl, I never even flinched when he'd give me my shot, because I knew he would never hurt me. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Bettylou Frith Jenny Frith Brown

July 4, 2007

Dear Elizabeth:
We send our sincerest sympathy to you on the sudden and tragic death of your Dad. You have experienced too much sadness for one so young. We remember you from Cottam Church. We are keeping you in our prayers.

July 4, 2007

Debbie, David and Elizabeth

This came so suddenly that everyone cannot help but be shocked. Nevertheless, Murray’s 80th was so well done and so fitting that it somehow feels that he was given a great send off. I think he would agree. He made a mark in life that very few can lay claim to and that speaks for itself.

Garnet and Cathy Webster

Brian & Gay Webster

July 4, 2007

Debbie, David and Elizabeth, please accept our deepest condolences in the loss of your father.
Brian and Gay Webster

Kate Smith

July 4, 2007

Elizabeth

I wish to convey my deepest condolences on the passing of your dad. Such a tragic end to such a fulfilling life. Experience has taught me that the smallest and simplest of memories that you have of your family will grow in importance and meaning. Look to those memories and know that you were as blessed to have your dad in your life as he surely was to have you in his! Continue to make him proud and draw strength from your memories, your family and your friends.

jane pritchard

July 4, 2007

Debbie, David and Elizabeth...I am so sorry about the loss of your father.I remember Uncle Murray pitching in last minute to give me away at my wedding when Dr. Sanderson was ill.Wanted you to know that my thoughts are
with you at this time.
Best.

brenda pritchard

July 4, 2007

Debbie, David and Elizabeth

Our sincere condolences to you all. Uncle Murray was larger than life and a big part of our family growing up. I have wonderful memories of he and my Dad playing back to back piano and organ and singing their hearts out.

Brenda Pritchard & Robert McKeen and family

Victor Dominato

July 3, 2007

To the family of Dr. Murray O'Neil,

I wish to express my condolences and prayers to you in this difficult time. As a fellow aviator I understood Murray's passion for flight. He was friend who touched many lives and made a difference.

Fly on in peace Murray.

Susan Baxter

July 3, 2007

I had the privilege of working as a Registered Nurse for Dr. Murray O'Neil early in my career and am forever grateful for the organizational and business skills which I learned from him and carried with me for the rest of my career. He was an exceptional multi-tasker and from him I learned the importance of business plans and cost - benefit analysis. He was a superior "boss" . He always said what he meant and developed and ran his practice with professional and personal integrity. I am forever grateful for the gifts he shared as a caring professional physician and business man.

Jen Rocheleau (nee Totten)

July 3, 2007

Condolences to Dr. O'Neil's family. I especially give my most heartfelt sympathy to my dear gradeschool friend Liz. It's been a few years. There are many good memories to glean from. All my love to you Liz.

phil barnett

July 3, 2007

I have met him,at sometime around the airport,without realising.but I have heard so much,from my parents and anyone who knew him.
Dr O'Neal will defintiely be missed by everyone.

Steve Anhorn

July 3, 2007

For many years I have provided landscape services to the O'Neil family, and it was with great sadness that I read of the loss of such a wonderful person. I think we all could have taken lessons of life from Dr. O'Neil. My sincerest condolences to the O'Neil family.

Geoff Steel, P.Eng.

July 3, 2007

A fellow Pilot and Engineer, you often mentored me, I will always stand in your shadow.

Ivan Eikre

July 3, 2007

To the family of Dr O'Neil,we send our prayers and sympathy at this difficult time.Dr O.Neil was my repirologist for several years.

Tom & Phyllis Rycroft

July 3, 2007

Sincere Condolences
With Deepest Sympathy
May you take comfort in the sweetest memories of a beautiful life.

G. Mark Walsh

July 3, 2007

Dr. O'Neil was my Allergist from the time I was 13 years old (a long time ago). Well do I remember his affable but professional manner, care and concern. It was with great sadness that I read of his passing, and extend my deepest sympathy to his family and other former patients.

"Rest Eternal grant unto him, O Lord...and may Light Perpetual shine upon him."

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