Murray Sutherland

SUTHERLAND _ Murray Allen "If" If you can't be a star Then don't be a cloud If you can't raise a laugh Then don't moan aloud If you can't be a rose Then don't be a thorn If you can't reach the peak The valley don't scorn If you can't run a race Just walk a mile If you have nothing to give Then distribute a smile Unknown Murray Allan Sutherland passed away at his river property near Grande Prairie on Sunday, August 26, 2007. Murray was born in Grande Prairie to Max and Evelyn, March 8, 1950. After spending his first year in Beaton River, BC the family relocated to Macklinville (GP) and settled on the family farm east of Grande Prairie, where Murray's love of the land and animals grew. As the eldest of eight, Murray often assumed responsibility for his mother and siblings while Max was away in the oil patch. He relished life and found fun in everything he did. At the age of fifteen, Murray's sense of adventure expanded his horizons as he set off on an epic canoe trip from GP to New Orleans with a close friend. His love for performing and athletics led him to experience many things in high school, from winning a drama award, to playing hockey and football. Murray graduated in 1968 and left home for his first rig job at eighteen years of age. He later returned home to help build Gangster Transfer, the family business, with his father and brothers. Murray's marriage to Gloria Morrell, brought a new chapter in his life with the birth of his first child Tel (1971), followed by Tyrel (1978), Trent (1980) and Tia (1982). They raised their family on a farm east of Grande Prairie. Murray and Gloria's place was a hub of social events. His children continue to carry on his adventurous spirit in their own lives. Polo was Murray's passion. In 1976, Murray was a founding member of the GP Polo Club. With humble beginnings in western saddles, his team continues to be a world-class competitor, playing amongst royalty and in many places around the world. Murray's charisma was instrumental in the success of the Sutherland Inn. His love of people and entertainment, whether serving the famous "bucket o' beer" or dancing with K.D. Lang, made everyone feel welcome. His success flowed over into many other business ventures. Murray traveled extensively with family and friends. His thirst for knowledge and excitement meant breaking conventional barriers. On his many journeys he was known to connect with people whether staying in a third-world village or traveling 5-star resorts. Character is what mattered and he sought to connect with the real person inside. In the mid-1990's Anne Graham came into his life. In recent years they bought a ranch where they enjoyed entertaining family and friends. On the banks of the Wapiti River is where Murray found much peace and happiness. Murray was predeceased by his parents Max and Evelyn and infant sister Theresa. Murray is mourned by his family: Gloria, Tel (Laura, children Madison and Shelby), Tyrel (Corrie, grandchildren Taya and Koy), Trent (Chas), Tia (Jamie, children Kaylee and Tyra) and his companion Annie. Murray is survived by Kelly (Debbie), Sharon (Don Nelson), Debbie (Marty Wilson), Kirk (Kathy), Darlene and Bunny Sutherland as well as many nieces and nephews. Viewing will take place on Friday, August 31, 2007 from 7:00 to 10:00 p.m. at Oliver's Grande Prairie Funeral Chapel (10005 - 107 Avenue). A Celebration of Murray's life will be held at 1:00 p.m. on Saturday, September 1, 2007 at the Crystal Center in Grande Prairie. Lunch to follow. In honor of his life-long commitment to his mother, donations may be made to support local Multiple Sclerosis patients through The Evelyn Sutherland Foundation, Box 39, Clairmont, Alberta T0H 0W0. Condolences may be sent by visiting www.oliversgrandeprairie.com . OLIVER'S GRANDE PRAIRIE FUNERAL CHAPEL & CREMATORIUM, 10005 - 107 Avenue, Grande Prairie, Alberta T8V 1L8. Telephone: 1-780-532-2929. "Dedicated Service Since 1915"