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After graduating from St. Paul's School in 1986, Nancy earned her bachelor's degree in English Literature from Middlebury College in 1990. Her love of language and literature shaped her early years and informed her thoughtful approach to both work and life. She built a successful career in the financial services industry, spending nearly 15 years at AIG before recently beginning a new chapter at U.S. Bank.
Throughout her life, Nancy was known for her upbeat spirit, radiant smile, and the grace with which she faced every challenge. Her generosity extended beyond her family and friends into the broader community. As a devoted Christian, she found joy in combining her faith with one of her greatest passions-cooking-by preparing and serving meals weekly at church events.
Nancy's home was often filled with the comforting aromas of her culinary creations and the laughter of loved ones gathered around her table. She also found great joy in traveling and reading-pursuits that reflected her curiosity about the world and deep appreciation for its many cultures and stories.
She is survived by her beloved husband Grant Ruple; their daughter Catherine Ruple; her brother Richard Rueda; sister Monica Williams; brothers-in-law Rufus Williams and Terry Mertink; sister-in-law Rona Mertink; nieces Gracyn, Olivia, Cecilia, and Isabelle Williams, Lydia Hyatt, and Emily Spell; nephew Caleb Mertink; and father-in-law Ronald Ruple.
Nancy was preceded in death by her parents Amparo and Alfonso Rueda and mother-in-law Connie Ruple.
Nancy will be remembered for the light she brought into every room and the kindness she extended-whether as a friend, family member, or a good cook-to all who crossed her path.
A Memorial Service will be held at Holy Trinity Episcopal Church in West Palm Beach, FL, in the coming days.
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Olivia Williams
July 24, 2025
My Aunt Nancy was more than just an aunt - she was like a second mom to me. Her love, guidance, and warmth shaped my life in more ways than I can count. She was the kind of person who made everyone feel special, who always knew just what to say, and who had a heart big enough to hold the whole world.
I will miss her deeply - her laugh, her hugs, her wisdom, and the way she always made me feel seen and loved. The memories we shared together will forever live in my heart, and I´ll carry them with me every day. From our quiet talks to the moments of joy and laughter, she gave me a lifetime of love in the time we had.
I´ll never forget all the times she brought me with her to the city for work, the unforgettable broadway shows we experienced together, and the countless meals she lovingly cooked for me. She gave so much of herself without ever asking for anything in return-truly one of the most selfless people I´ve known.
Aunt Nancy, you were the best aunt a girl could ever ask for. Thank you for being my family, my role model, and my safe place. I love you always.
My heart is with Catherine and Grant during this difficult time-you're both in my thoughts every single day.
Your niece,
Olivia
Gracyn Williams
July 24, 2025
Nancy was the brightest of spirits and a true inspiration to all. She made my childhood beautifully memorable as a devout aunt. Between watching me run around at various playgrounds to staying up all night in bed with us while my youngest sister was born, Nancy was the most wonderful, loving soul. She will be greatly missed each and every day. Her aura will always be felt by those who knew her and reminds everyone touched by her to always approach every obstacle with a smile. My aunt will forever remain one of my biggest role models. Rest in peace we all love you so much!
Johanna Daugherty
July 23, 2025
Catherine, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Your mom was a kind and loving soul. She could always make us laugh and we had the best of times together for six years. She will always be remembered
Sandra Gonzalez-Daugherty
July 23, 2025
I feel very fortunate that I was able to enjoy Nancy´s friendship for the last 6 years. I met her through our mutual friend Nancy Heilner. We became great friends immediately and our daughters became good friends as well. She was such a kind and compassionate human being. I really enjoyed every meeting we had. I loved her stories about her international trips with her brother while Catherine was still a little child.
She was a devoted wife and mother. I feel very sad and I will miss her always.
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Emma Sodemann
July 23, 2025
I´m so sorry Catherine your mom was an amazing person she was so kind every time we saw her. Praying for you.
Lizz S.
July 23, 2025
A beautiful kind woman gone too soon. This saddens me so very much and I pray daily for her family especially her daughter Catherine.
Tania johmann
July 23, 2025
Catherine, I am so deeply sorry to hear of your mom´s passing. I remember like it was just yesterday and she was bringing you to my classroom at ECC. She was an extraordinary person and I loved seeing all the beautiful pictures she posted and the joy you brought her. My heart breaks for you all. Sending all my love and strength to you always. - with love, Mrs. Johmann (Valdivia)
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