Nancy Marshall Bayer

Nancy Marshall Bayer obituary, Pittsford, NY

Nancy Marshall Bayer

Nancy Bayer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 25, 2023.
Nancy Ellen Marshall Bayer, 74, died peacefully at home with her family on November 23, 2023. Predeceased by her parents Lloyd Kent and Marie Marshall.

Three years ago, Nancy was diagnosed with Lewy Body dementia. She remained at home, lovingly cared for by her husband of 52 years, Rick Bayer.

Nancy leaves two daughters, Michelle (Lynn) Beach and Bethany (Rick) Vernon and granddaughters Madi, Hannah, Kaitie and Becca.

She was a graduate of the class of '67 at St. Agnes High School.

Nancy enjoyed golf, jazzercise, reading, gardening, and family gatherings. She was a loving wife, mother, sister, sister-in-law, aunt, cousin and a cherished friend.

Rick credits the support he received in caring for Nancy to his 8 siblings, and Nancy's 6 siblings, Joan SSJ, Dave(Rose), Carol(Ben), Michael(Sandy), Marie and Matt all who will miss her smile, her humor, and her caring nature.

A special thanks to Dr. Emily Clark, U of R Memory Care Center Staff and U of R Hospice Care.

A Mass will be held to celebrate Nancy's life at Blessed Sacrament Church on Monday, November 27th at 10:00 A.M.

Donations in Nancy's memory may be made to: U of R Memory Care Center and U of R Hospice.

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December 5, 2023

Kelly Sink posted to the memorial.

December 4, 2023

Pam Kemp posted to the memorial.

November 28, 2023

Mary Lawrence-Khalil posted to the memorial.

Kelly Sink

December 5, 2023

Nancy you were so special to Chris and I! I will always cherish the memories and blessed times we shared! You were one of the most caring people I will ever know! Love always! Kelly Sink and Chris Eklund xxoo

Pam Kemp

December 4, 2023

I am so sorry to hear about Nancy- she was a great sister-in-law to me and very special friend- RIP in Heaven <3 <3

Mary Lawrence-Khalil

November 28, 2023

Sending thousands of prayers for peace and strength to Nancy's family. I am a Jazzercise Instructor in ER, and often had Nancy in my classes. She was an important part of the ER Jazzercise morning family and a proud member of the front row! We have missed her beautiful smile on our dance floor the last several years and will continue to carry her memory with us. Sincere condolences Mary Lawrence-Khalil

Julie and Bill Petsos (Julie O'Hora)

November 28, 2023

Our heartfelt condolences to the Marshall and Bayer families on the passing of Nancy into heaven. Nancy and I spent formidable years as "besties" at Blessed Sacrament and beyond. The years apart do not diminish my sadness. Nancy was a wonderful gal and I shall never forget her smile and laughter. I never heard her say an unkind word about anyone. Nance, I am so grateful for the memories we shared in days gone by. Families, may you find peace and comfort in her memory.

Judith McMillan

November 27, 2023

I still picture Nancy sitting around our backyard campfire...asking about the kids...and enjoying the tranquility of the night. Wonderful lady - very caring! RIP friend...
Judy and Larry McMillan

Sheri Whyte

November 27, 2023

Nancy was such a bright light, a warm and caring person. I always enjoyed her company - her laid back demeanor and wonderful sense of humor. Rose Mary invited Nancy to sub on our golf foursome years ago, and a friendship was born. My condolences to Rick and the entire family. I´ll miss you Subby

Linda Hawkins Mcgrath

November 26, 2023

My deepest sympathies to Rick and family. Keep all your wonderful memories in your thoughts to help with your loss of Nancy. Linda Hawkins McGrath

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Debbie Cray

November 25, 2023

It was such a pleasure knowing Nancy and an honor to call her a dear friend. She had a wonderful sense of humor and it was such a delight to be in her company. I will miss you "subbie"

Suzanne Morley

November 25, 2023

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Stacy Jennings

November 25, 2023

I will miss Aunt Nancy´s fun spirit at family gatherings, but am grateful for all the years I was blessed by her presence

Vicky Ruppert

November 25, 2023

Nancy was beautiful. All you had to do was look at her face to tell what she was feeling. She wore her heart on her sleeve. As a new neighbor, Nancy was shy...or she just liked her family circle, and was reticent to join us...the ladies of the neighborhood who got together about once a month or so, but little by little she would join our group. She always remembered me by giving me chocolate covered peanuts every Christmas....such sweet and genuine memories!

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