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1985 - 2012
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83 Entries
Dan Dillon
April 25, 2012
Dear Ben & Family,
We were shocked to hear such sad news. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you.
Dan & Linda Dillon
Rita Allen
April 23, 2012
Dear Downing Family,
I never had the pleasure of meeting Nate. From reading these warm and wonderful comments I know Nate was "a Downing" to be proud of! Love Rita Allen
Nicki May
April 20, 2012
Ben and Maggie,
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. Stay strong...
April 20, 2012
Dear Senator Downing and Family,
Our deepest condolences in the loss of your beloved Nate.
This is a terrible tragedy and we send our prayers to all of you.
Best,
Patricia & Kim Baker, Middlefield, MA
Ellen Loftus
April 20, 2012
To the Downing Family-
Your family has left an irrevocable mark on so many. Nate's legacy will never die. We, like many others, pray for peace and understanding during this time of grief. Nate is an icon for all that is good and just. Stand tall and strong...
Ann Tucker
April 20, 2012
Pam and family my deepest sympathy for the loss of Nate. It seems only yesterday they were all in play group with our biggest worry their scraped knees. He is in my prayers.
April 20, 2012
Senator Downing & family
We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Cummington Selectboard
Joanne Cimini
April 20, 2012
To the Downing Family...
Words cannot express my sadness with your loss. Nate was a wonderful young man. You must be so proud. My prayers to your family.
With love
Joanne Cimini
Terry Saia
April 19, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. We grieve Nate's loss with you; his unexpected death weighs heavy on our hearts and has shaken us to the core. We meet many people in each day in our work but there are some who touch us in unique and special ways. Nate was one of those special people- absolutely exceptional in every way. It was our great privilege and pleasure to be a small part of his life and we will never forget him or your family. We wish you comfort, strength, and the love of family and friends during this most difficult time. With deep affection and sympathy, Terry Saia, Peter Lang, Ellen Davis - Children's Hospital Boston
Mark Alexander
April 19, 2012
Passionate, understated and unfailingly kind and decent. He was a pleasure to know this past decade. My prayers are with his family.
Kristen Brouker
April 19, 2012
Senator Downing and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Patty & Gerry Cook
April 19, 2012
Peace and prayers to your family at this very difficult time. We are so very sorry to hear this news. Our son Kevin was a close friend of Nate's, whom he met at Providence College. There's no doubt where Nate is at this moment and we hope you can feel his presence and comfort in the days ahead.
Nate, Rob and Michael at Rob's wedding last year
Leslie Celentano
April 19, 2012
To the Downing family, I still cannot believe your collective strength over the past few days following the sudden, devastating, and unfathomable loss of your sweet, wonderful, brilliant and all around amazing son and brother. You were so much stronger than the hundreds of us joining you to mourn Nate's untimely and unimaginable passing. I am so grateful to have known him as my son's roommate and dear friend this past year, and he will be in Michael's heart and mine forever.
Claudia & Paul McNeil
April 18, 2012
Dear Ben, We were so sorry to hear of your loss.Our son Ben said that Nate followed you at PC, and he was a good guy. You are in our prayers.
John Nesbit
April 18, 2012
My heartfelt condolences to The Downing Family on the loss of Nathaniel. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
April 18, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss.Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with your whole family.
Patty Bruce and Suzanne Whitehouse
Selectmen & Staff
April 18, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
April 18, 2012
with heartfelt condolences on your loss.
Leslie Tarr Laurie
Sharon Hawkes
April 18, 2012
Dear Senator and family, Please accept condolences from all of us at The Lenox Library. Our thoughts are with you.
Ellen McCaffrey
April 18, 2012
Dear Peg,
My deepest condolences to you and your family for this devastating loss. May the joy he brought to your lives give you some solace as you face this deep deep pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ellen McCaffrey TC'68
Bill Malloy
April 18, 2012
Senator and family:
I am very sorry to hear of your tragic loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Frank and Shirley Polidoro
April 18, 2012
Downing Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With sincere condolences
Maria Parastatidis
April 18, 2012
Mrs. Downing, Ben, Maggie, and Nick
We are so sorry for the loss of your son and brother. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Please let us know if there is anything you need. - The Parastatidis Family
April 17, 2012
Nate, such a great person, you will truly be missed on this earth.
- sean
Caribeth Lawler
April 17, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Lori Cote
April 17, 2012
Pam and family,
I am so very sorry to hear about Nate. I wish I knew what to say at a time like this, everything seems so weak. He and his dad are having a glorious homecoming while we try to make sense of this.
Peggy Haughey Curley
April 17, 2012
Please accept my sympathies....all of the Downing's are in my thoughts and prayers.
Rosemary Sandlin
April 17, 2012
Senator Downing and Family,
My prayers are with you and his mother and sibling in this time of sorrow.
Pat Haughey-Digrigoli
April 17, 2012
My sympathy to the entire Downing family..words are inadequate
Jon Tobin
April 17, 2012
Downings,
Nate certainly was one of a kind. His sharp wit and expansive intellect left many a great impression on me. He surely will be missed. Please know that my thoughts are with you.
Pat Tucker
April 17, 2012
My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole Downing family. You are all outstanding people and I'm so sorry to hear this news.
Julie Brown
April 17, 2012
Ben & Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. I will remember the many times that Nate tried to teach me to play the guitar (I was a terrible student!) with patience and kindness. Nate & the Downing family is in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Joe Dorant (MOSES)
April 17, 2012
To the Downing Family,
We are all so sad to hear of your tremendous loss. Our heart-felt thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during these hard times.
Karen Markham
April 17, 2012
My sincerest condolences to the entire Downing family.
Michael & Dottie Cullen
April 17, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are for your family during this time of tragic loss. Our deepest sympathy for the wonderful Downing family.
Mike Murphy
April 17, 2012
Dear Downing Family,
Please accept my condolences on Nate's passing. I worked with him in the AG's Office and he was a real gentleman. He was really missed after he left our office to attend law school.
Sincerely,
Lori Hubbard
April 17, 2012
May The Good Lord above comfort you all and keep you in his tender loving care.Surround yourself with friends and family, for it is they who will see you through. God Bless each and everyone of you who are suffering right now from this sudden tragic loss
April 17, 2012
So sorry to hear of your very sad loss. Remembering you all in my very "Special" thoughts and prayers. - Carla Prendergast (Pittsfield, MA)
Joseph Kriesberg
April 17, 2012
To the Downing Family,
I want to extend my deepest sympathies on the loss of your son and brother, Nate. May the memories of happier times and the loving embrace of friends and family keep you strong in the days to come.
Louis Chojnowski
April 17, 2012
To the Downing family,I am sorry for your loss of a wonderful and creative young man.
David Harte Jr
April 17, 2012
Ben and family,
It is difficult to see such a classy and giving family have to endure such pain. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Dave Harte Jr and Colleen Harte
April 17, 2012
To the Downing Family,
I met and worked with Nate while he was at the AG's Office. My deepest sympathies. He will be missed.
James M. Panorese
Don Coudert
April 17, 2012
Very sad to hear the news about Nate. My thoughts are with you, Pam, and the rest of the Downing family.
Marianne Duane-Handerek
April 17, 2012
Dear Pam, Nick, Ben & Maggie We want to express our deepest sympathies to all of you! Nate was an exceptional well accomplished young man. We r saddened with this sudden tragic loss You will all be in our thoughts & prayers We are currently in South Carolina & truely sorry that we cannot be there @ this time God Bless all of u Marianne, Chipper Olivia Eva & Lily Handerek
Kari Sawyer Mathes
April 17, 2012
Maggie and the rest of the Downing family... So sorry to hear about Nate. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Debbi Beverly
April 17, 2012
Ben and the entire Downing family,
my thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
Debbi Lefebvre Beverly (Eric and Anthony's mom)
Nancy Taylor
April 17, 2012
Our heartfelt condolences to the Downing family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Mauer/Taylor family
Rob Curry
April 17, 2012
To the Downing Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of Nate tagging along with Ben and I at Pomeroy Ave when we were younger. There is no doubt that he is with his father now. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Neftali & Julie Soto
April 17, 2012
Our sincerest condolences to the entire Downing family. We never met Nate, but our son was a good friend of his at New England Law. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
April 17, 2012
To the Downing family,
Nate was a brilliant and wonderful young man whom I had the brief pleasure of working with while he was with the AG's office. My heartfelt sympathies and my prayers are with you as well.
Monique M. Packer Ipswich, MA
Michael Nichols
April 17, 2012
To The Downing Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy on the shocking death of your dear Nathaniel. Only God knows why these things happen, my prayer is that He helps us to understand and cope with this tragic loss. Certainly his dear father was the first to embrace Nate as he entered the gates of heaven.
Sincerely, Michael Nichols
Billie Bardin
April 17, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Peter & Anne Larkin
April 17, 2012
With the time Nate graced this earth he inspired us with his enthusiasm, humor, insight and kindness. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with the Downing family.
Sherry Harte
April 17, 2012
Pam, Ben, Maggie, Nick and family,
We are so very sorry to hear about Nate. Such nice memories of him at Sacred Heart-he was such a kind and thoughtful boy. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. God bless,
Sherry and Dave Harte
Michael Filpi
April 17, 2012
Ben,
Sorry for your loss on behalf of myself and the members of Laborers' Local 473.
Mike Filpi
Devanny Condron Funeral Home
April 17, 2012
We wanted you to know how much we care. Please know that we are here for you.
Mary Palmer
April 17, 2012
A rising star has moved on and we mourn the loss. Our hearts are with you.
fr. bruce Teague
April 16, 2012
Peace and prayers
Jenine Moro
April 16, 2012
Words cannot describe what I want to convey to you, Pam. I am so, so sorry for this incredible loss. Much love, Jenine
Loraine & Gary Evans
April 16, 2012
I met Nate through my Son-In-Law Robby, who attends New England Law. We are so sorry for your loss. Nate was a remarkable individual, who touched the lives of all he met. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories that you have of him. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
April 16, 2012
I extend my deepest sympathy to the Downing family and their many friends.
Charlotte Degen (MCLA)
Susan and Nick DeMatteo
April 16, 2012
Pam, Ben, Maggie and Nick,
I don't know where to begin. We were all devastated to hear about Nate and know that you all must be heartbroken by the loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Take comfort in the wonderful memories and know that Nate is at peace with Gerry. Love, Susan, Nick, Bobby and Lauren
April 16, 2012
Ben & family,
My heart goes out to all of you. Please accept my sincere sympathies. Alba Passerini (Lenox)
Liz Joppru
April 16, 2012
To the Downing family- I am so sorry for your loss. I lost a brother and still can't think of the "right" words to say in this situation. I hope you all are surrounded with love both now and throughout your lives.
Ed and Joanne Fitzpatrick
April 16, 2012
To Mrs. Downing and the entire Downing Family: Our hearts ache for you. Our daughter, Julianne, is a friend of Nate's and has served on Law Review with him. Nate's law school friends are numerous and true. Your son and brother was a remarkable man: super smart, funny, compassionate and too, too young to leave this planet. The world is a better place b/c of Nate. You are all in our prayers for strength and comfort.
Fr. Daniel B. Brunton
April 16, 2012
To All The Downing Family,
Please accept my deep sympathy at the sad news of Nathaniel's death. I'm sure he must have been greeted by his "sainted" dad & his grandparents whom I met in my first assignment as a Priest in St. Charles Parish in 1960. His obituary reads as though he was about to continue in the footsteps of the Downing Family. Only an AllKnowing God can help us sort out the questions and hurt that you must feel at this time. Please know that I will celebrate a Mass for your Son & Brother, and for all the intentions of the Family. Sincerely, Fr. Dan Brunton
Doug Newman
April 16, 2012
To Senator Ben, and the entire Downing family, We are very sorry for your loss. Wishing you all strength and peace through your grievous time. Warmest regards, Doug and Barbara Newman, New Marlborough, MA
April 16, 2012
Our deepest sympathy is extended to Senator Downing, the entire Downing family, and Nate's friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. The Egremont Police Department
Bobby Therrien
April 16, 2012
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Helen Gineris
April 16, 2012
Maggie, from the bottom of my heart I send my sincerest condolences to you and your family. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I'm waiting to give you a big hug. Sincerely,
Lisa
April 16, 2012
My daughter was on Law Review with Nate, and spoke very highly of him. My heart aches for your loss. No words can help, but know that we share in your loss.
April 16, 2012
Maggie, my heart breaks for you. My thoughts are with you, your mom and the rest of the family. Linda Harper(Washington, DC)
Jane (and Bob) Levey
April 16, 2012
Maggie, fellow wordsmith, you'll understand that words fail me. Please extend my deepest condolences to your family. We are keeping you in our thoughts.
April 16, 2012
Our sincere condolences for the loss of your son and brother, Nate. I remember his warm smile and genuine personality. We will be keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. Brian and Eileen Grunwald
Jane Kelly
April 16, 2012
I had the privilege of getting to know Nate through my son who was one of his dearest friends at New England Law. He was one special person and one of the finest young men I have ever met. My deepest condolences to your family.
Tim Craw
April 16, 2012
Please Know that my Families Thoughts and Prayers are with you and Your Family. Truly Devasting I will miss Nate.
April 16, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers to the entire Downing family, our son was a good friend of his in Law School. He will be deeply missed. Nancy and Butch Hawkins, Greenfield, Ma.
Ray Drewnowski
April 16, 2012
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Patty Sacchetti Molinari
April 16, 2012
Pam and family - I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love, Patty
Susan Olshuff
April 16, 2012
Such sad news of your loss. My heart breaks with yours. Sending wishes of strength and faith to you all.
Peter Skipper
April 16, 2012
My sincerest condolences to Sen. Downing and the entire Downing family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Trish Higgins
April 16, 2012
I am devastated to hear about this tremendous loss. I will miss Nate's smile that lit up any room he entered and his sense of humor which was like no other. I will keep the Downing family in my thoughts and prayers.
Jenny Miller
April 16, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear of this sad news. Thoughts and prayers are with the Downing Family.
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