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Emmiline Harrison
October 4, 2016
Its been about 12 years now. I think about you everyday still. Esp more around this time. Your still very missed after all this time.
John DuBois
February 10, 2011
dreamed about you...again. seemed like you were with me, in scene to scene, all night long. in one, your shoes were way too big. you showed me by putting both of your feet in one of them. yet, despite your small size, you were smoking. what a crazy scene. i'm sure it's symbolic. i still think of you everyday. i still shake my head in disbelief every day.
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Jaime DuBois
December 5, 2010
Still missing you the same as ever
Jaime DuBois
March 12, 2009
Neil, I miss you so much and just wish you could be snowboarding with me right now in Colorado. I want to show you so many things. I want to show you my new town, Fort Collins. My dorm that is small and old. The reservoir at Horsetooth where everyone hangs out when there's nice weather. I want to show you all the mountains I have been on and what I can do on my snowboard. I remember when you taught me first how to snowboard at hyland and I will never forget it. I love you so much and I just wish you come visit me at my new home. I know you would love it here.
Jana Larson
February 27, 2006
For some reason I was drawn to this site today. I guess I just needed for someone/anyone to know how much this kid is missed. I have watched his dad, John, grieve like no other. He has tried and tried to move on, but it has been slow and arduous and not always successful. I have seen his brother, Casey, suffer from having lost his best friend; and sister, Jaime having lost her leader and big brother. There is a huge hole where Neil was in many people's hearts. Just the other day I was next to a pick-up at a stoplight. I glanced over and could have sworn I was sitting next to Neil. He was just such an amazing presence, that his energy and memory are still present in some way. Those who weren't loved or who didn't matter are forgotten. Obviously Neil was loved and did matter and will never be forgotten. Love to the family. Jana
Lisa
January 9, 2006
Neil, I think of you often. I see your bright blue eyes and big smile in so many places.You are still here in every happy face I see. Every year at Thanksgiving I give thanks for having known you. I'll never forget you. You're in my heart forever.
Tori Johnson
November 8, 2004
Hey family, im so sorry you guys, you know i love you all like my own family, i loved Neil too, he was always so nice and always so good sprited, i dont remember him ever being mad, anyways i love you guys and ill see you soon. Love ya- Tor
Kelly Seeler
November 2, 2004
Jaime,
I am so sorry this has happened, from what you have told me, Neil was a great brother. He is in my family's prayers. I know you can get through this, just LIVESTRONG, i love you and your family so much.
-Kelly-
jim felkey
October 18, 2004
My sympathy goes out to Neil's family. Even though I never knew Neil, Janet would often write about him. It is not suppose to be this way, where the parents outlive the child. I am sure my father, who passed away 7 years ago, will get to meet Neil in Heaven.
Phyllis Parise
October 17, 2004
Janet, Casey & Jaime: my heartfelt sympathy to all of you. I remember the joy Neil had skateboarding and swimming at my home during your vacation in Phoenix. His vivaciousness was a treasure.
Tyler Rogers
October 11, 2004
I wish I could be back with everyone in eden prairie when something like this happened. I hope to see everybody soon. My prayers go out to Casey and his family. RIP neil
Britt Wood
October 7, 2004
Janet,
My heart goes out to you and your family in these difficult days.
Diane Carr
October 7, 2004
Oh Janet - I am so sorry - words fail to convey how much.
In some way that we may never know, Neil completed his mission here among us and has been called home. Perhaps it was to teach us about wonder and the power of love. It is so hard when we are left behind to carry on.
Believe that there is just a thin veil between this world and the next and that he is beyond harm and loving you right now.
Diane
Jim and Andrea Turnquist
October 7, 2004
Janet and Family-
We were not able to sign the book at the funeral today as the line was so long. What an incredible honor to Neil and your family. Our deepest sympathy to you in this tragic loss. We will hold you in our prayers in the days and months to come.
Sue and Dave Haberle
October 7, 2004
Oh Janet! We're so sorry to hear about Neil. He had survived so much!! Please know that our prayers are with you and your family. We pray for memories of the happy times -- for a quick end to the sorrow -- and for the peace that none of us can fathom. God bless you at this difficult time.
Melissa Kinnard
October 7, 2004
Dear DuBois Family,
Our neighbors in EP, We are so deeply affected by Neils death. He spent some of time over at our house when he and our son Andrew were teens together in EP. He was a darling, polite,handsome, and enthusiastic boy, that we loved to see at our house.Though we had lost track, it sounds like Neil was flourishing! God Bless you, our prayers are with you.
The Kinnards
Syndee McCann
October 6, 2004
Janet and Jaime,
We are so very sorry and wish so much we could do something to easy your pain.
"I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge, that myth is more potent that history. I believe that dreams are more powerful than facts, that hope always triumphs over experience, that laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death".
--From the movie The Crow
We love you both...
Syndee, Jennifer and Adam McCann
The Eidems
October 6, 2004
Dear Janet,
We are deply saddened to hear about Neil. Our hearts and minds are with you in this time of need. We will help in any way possible. We love you with all our hearts, as well as your children.
Susan & Anthony Lathrop
October 6, 2004
John, Anthony and I are deeply saddend to hear the news about Neil. We are thinking about you and your family at this time. Please remember that if you need anything we are here for you.
Take good care and give our best to the rest of your family.
PASTOR JOHN BRECOUNT
October 6, 2004
Dear Family, your friends at St. Andrew send their prayers to you and yours. The hope of the resurrection be with you all.
you're in my heart forever, Lisa
October 6, 2004
May the love of family and friends give us comfort
May the love of God give us peace
Brian Molina
October 6, 2004
Dear John and Family,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Mike Nilles
October 6, 2004
Janet,Casey and Jaime,
Our deepest sympathy and love go out to you in this time of your
tragic loss.
Mike, Laura and Dan
Sandie & Mike Davis
October 6, 2004
Janet & Family,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are all in our prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.
Jennifer Kessler
October 6, 2004
Dear DuBois Family,
I am very sorry to hear of this tragic news. Neil will always be in my heart. It was hard for me to hear about this, I have known him since I can remember, yes everyone from our St. Cloud neighborhood moved to different cities and different ways, but I always loved when we would get together and hang out. It will no longer be the same for no matter what path he was taking he had so much potential. I will keep him in my heart forever and I know he is in a better place for he is loved by so many and remembered by so many more.
God bless you all and I will see you soon.
Love always and forever Jennifer.
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