Nelda Parman
1947 - 2024
Nelda Parman
1947 - 2024
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BORN
1947
DIED
2024
Nelda Parman Obituary
Nelda will be lovingly remembered by her daughter, Patricia Hayes, and her son, Jody Hayes; her cherished grandchildren, Rebecca Cunningham, Matthew Walthrop, Jonathan Hayes, Melissa Hayes, Sydney McHolland, Spencer Hayes, and Aidan Hayes; and her great-grandchildren, Zachary Service, Kelsey Wright, and Amy Lynn Cunningham. She is also survived by her siblings, Glenda Carella, Douglas (Marilyn) Parman, and Russell (Jennifer) Parman, along with many beloved nieces, nephews, extended family members, and friends.
Nelda was preceded in death by her daughter, Beth Hayes; her parents, Glen and Janis Parman; her brothers, Jerry Blair, Larry Parman, and Richard Parman; and her sister, Nita Hopkins.
Nelda dedicated her life to helping others. She pursued careers in office administration and early childhood education before discovering her true calling in social services. A tireless advocate for children and families in need, she was an active member of the West Modesto community and Central Baptist Church. Through her work with non-profit organizations and various neighborhood committees, Nelda used her personal experiences to navigate and improve social and behavioral health systems. Her unwavering compassion, dedication, and selflessness left an indelible mark on the lives of those she served.
In retirement, Nelda found joy in spending time with her family, attending church events, and reading. She cherished every moment spent at family gatherings and treasured the love and connection of her community.
The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the care teams at Central Valley PACE, Sunnyside Senior Living and Seva Hospice for their exceptional support during Nelda's final years.
A memorial service to honor Nelda's life will be held on Saturday, January 11, 2024, at 12:00 p.m. at Salas Brothers Funeral Chapel, 419 Scenic Drive, Modesto, CA.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Nelda's memory to Sierra Vista Child and Family Services at https://svcfs.org/donate/.
May Nelda's legacy of kindness, service, and love continue to inspire all who knew her.
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Carol Stewart
January 7, 2025
This is kind of silly. Nelda was my friend for many years, and late in her life she was also my housemate for 5 years. After she had moved out, she came to a gathering of friends from Central in my back yard. We were all sitting around talking, when Nelda said with a sly little smile, "I have to use the bathroom. Is it still in the same place?" She still had it.
Alberto Ruiz
January 7, 2025
I have many, many memories of Nelda. A very warm person, sweet even in difficult times or under the pressure of work, she always showed the presence of Christ in her life. But I want to share two funny experiences that happened to me with her. I had been working Sierra Vista a very short time, and we had an event for all employees. I didn't know the place and she told me, follow me, I know it very well, I have been there several times. To make a long story short, she got lost and I got lost along with her.
On another occasion. at a team building event, we went to a place in Manteca and we went down the slides together. As we were going up to jump, we asked each other if we should do it or not, because for people our age, we weren't sure how to do it. Finally, we did it and we got to the end laughing and enjoying the nice time together.
See you soon dear Nelda. I'll see you in heaven soon.
"Well, done, good and faithful servant, thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy Lord."
Pamela (Pammy) Resendez
January 6, 2025
The purest heart of anyone- always filled with understanding and compassion- Aunt Nelda taught me how to look upon others with such a heart and compassion in which I will forever be grateful.
Karen Cronian Hurley
January 6, 2025
Oh Nelda!
What a beautiful soul and a loving heart you are in this world.
I knew you when we both worked in the 1990´s in Turlock. Thank you for your life of service to others Nelda. You made a difference.
Condolences to the family.
Karen Cronian Hurley
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Billie Boyd
January 6, 2025
Nelda was such a special lady. I have known the Parman family since high school but I really didn't get to know Nelda until we were much older. She had the best heart and so much compassion for all those who needed help but especially for the children. She went over and beyond what was expected to help them. Loved her. My condolences to the family.
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