Nelson Whitney Tobey

Nelson Whitney Tobey

Nelson Tobey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 22, 2009.
Having lived a full life of 92 years, Nelson Whitney Tobey passed away the evening of Feb. 17, 2009. He was born on Oct. 7, 1916 in Melrose, Mass., and was raised in Hampton, NH, the youngest of five children of Sarah Burgoyne Tobey and Herbert Lester Tobey. After graduating from Virginia Military Institute, he married his childhood sweetheart, Beryl Crockford in 1939.
Called to duty in World War II, he joined the U.S. Army and served as a lieutenant and captain in the 7th Field Artillery Battalion of the 1st Infantry Division. He participated in the combat operations of eight campaigns, including amphibious invasions of North Africa, Sicily and Normandy as well as the Battle of the Bulge and on into Germany.
Following the War, he taught at Virginia Military Institute for a year before rejoining the Army. He earned his master's degree in engineering, studying rocket science at the University of Southern California. His military career included commands of the 867th Battalion of 75 mm air defense weapons in Alaska, the 9th Missile Group, and Deputy Commander III Corps Artillery, with one overseas tour in Saudi Arabia. He served two assignments in the office, Chief of research and development on the army staff at the Pentagon, and he had other assignments in the testing of rockets and missiles including serving as the chief project officer for the Pershing missile tests. His last assignment was as the director, Army Missile Tests and Evaluations at White Sands Missile Range, N.M. He retired from the Army in 1971 with the rank of colonel after serving his country for over 32 years.
His military awards include the Silver Star for gallantry in action, the Bronze Star for heroic action in combat, the Purple Heart for wounds received in action, three Legion of Merit awards for exceptional meritorious conduct in performance of outstanding service, two Army Commendation medals, and letters of commendation from the chief of research and development for his military presentations to congressional committees. His unit received the Presidential Unit Citation for action on D-Day June 6, 1944 and the National Defense Service Medal for distinguished service in North Africa.
Col. Tobey and his wife, Beryl, built their retirement home and settled in Las Cruces, N.M., where they enjoyed the beauty of the dessert and the ever-changing views of the Organ Mountains. They traveled extensively, including a trip around the world, and enjoyed studying their families' genealogies. An avid outdoorsman, Col. Tobey's interests included photography, sailing, camping and horseback riding.
Col. Tobey was wagon master of the Southern Wagon Train, one of five national wagon trains that crossed the country and converged on Valley Forge, Pa., in celebration of our nation's bicentennial in 1976. His resounding command, given to the horse-drawn wagon drivers and riders each morning signaling the start of the day's journey, "Wagooons Ho-OOOO!" delighted spectators and became the trademark of the Southern Wagon Train.
He is the author of the book "Never Broken by Hardship or Battle, the Memoirs of World War II Colonel Nelson W. Tobey" and numerous writings including "Growing Up in Blakeville," and "The History of the 7th Field Artillery Battalion, World War II."
He supported his children's every interest and actively participated in their education. He will be remembered for his sense of honor, gustiness, unflagging optimism, sharp wit and temper.
He is survived by his sister, Margaret Barry of Hampton, NH, his three children, Nelson Whitney Tobey Jr. of San Ysidro, N.M., Dr. Marilyn Tobey of Lecanto, Fla., and Patricia Tobey Chelberg of Aiken, S.C., as well as two grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his wife of 61 years and will join her when he, too, is buried in Arlington National Cemetery.

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March 3, 2009

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February 24, 2009

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Frank Parker

March 3, 2009

On behalf of the VMI Class of 1939 I wish to express our deepest sympathies to the family and friends of Col. Tobey. I feel so gratified to have been able to visit with him at his home in early February. He was an amazing man.

Ed and Patsy Grannan

February 24, 2009

Our deepest sympathies to the family.

Don and Patsy Veazey

February 24, 2009

Soldier, knightly gentleman and wonderful neighbor. We will miss him and his cheerful manner. To Patricia, Marilyn and Knick we want to express our deepest sympathy.

"Sweet Ole Laurie" Atkinson

February 23, 2009

INDEED; an "Old Soldier!" This passing brings GREAT sadness to my heart. When COL Tobey was in Huntsville (AL), on PERSHING matters, he ALWAYS visited w/my family. He and my wife (Billie) had a CLOSE relationship. She lovingly called him "Curly" because of his flat-top. I remember taking him to get a haircut once (Billie thought a waste of money); my barber-buddy looked at me like, "What's to cut?" But - he took a lil' off the top! It would be WELL worth the effort to get to Arlington just to visit his grave. Blessings..........

Rodger Dana

February 23, 2009

Nels Tobey led the initial field testing of the Pershing Missile System. The Martin Marietta (Pershing Prime Contractor) support team members will always treasure his outstanding leadership and confidence as the US Army Test Director.
Please accept our condolences to his family.
Sadly,
Rodger Dana,
Martin Pershing Tech Rep during the Testing in 1963

Mike Casey

February 23, 2009

Col. Tobey,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your years of dedicated service and sacrifce for our Country when you served in the U.S. Army-especially during WW II when you were with the "Big Red One." And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Frank Geisel

February 23, 2009

The Mesilla Valley Chapter of Military Officers Association of America (MOAA) offers its sympathy to COL Tobey's family. He was a true "Old Soldier." God Bless.

Bob and Nina Wills

February 22, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

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