NICHOLAS BRASTINS BARNES

1993 - 2014

NICHOLAS BRASTINS BARNES obituary, 1993-2014, Pittsburgh, PA

NICHOLAS BRASTINS BARNES

1993 - 2014

NICHOLAS BARNES Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 21 to Mar. 23, 2014.
BARNES
NICHOLAS BRASTINS
Age 20, of Aspinwall and Mount Washington, died recently at the University of Chicago, where he was a third-year student. He will be remembered as a warm and loving friend, a lively debater, a dedicated scholar and an adventurous traveler. Nick was born on May 25, 1993. He reveled in the freedom of being homeschooled through eighth grade, and especially loved outings to the Carnegie Library and Museums of Art and Natural History. He was a Class of 2011 graduate of Shady Side Academy in Fox Chapel, a place he adored and where he lettered in cross country, started a cricket club, and rather disliked playing on the hockey team as he was a self-described pacifist. Nick was an enthusiastic Library Associate and English Associate, a thoughtful editor and creative graphic designer of the Egerian and Angles literary publications, and president of the German club. He enjoyed Speech and Debate team, performed in The Importance of Being Earnest, delighted in seeing his cartoons in the school newspaper and excelled at his studies. At the University of Chicago, Nick was pursuing a double major in Germanic studies and History. The regard of his professors and friends may be seen in this link to his University of Chicago obituary: http://news.uchicago. edu/article/2014/02/24/nicholas-barnes-third-year-college-student-1993-2014. Nick was preparing to return to Germany during summer term, to pursue his studies and conduct research toward his graduation requirements in the following year. He felt deeply honored to attend the University of Chicago and greatly enjoyed his time there. He was a distinctive figure on campus and loved the blustery winter weather, striding in his long woolen coat, signature red Converse high-tops and large blue and white muffler, which, as he liked to note, had been knit by authentic Latvian grandmothers. Among his wide circle of friends, Nick was known for his intellectual drive, his exceptional wit, his love of knowledge, his droll sense of humor, and his ease in his own skin. The temporal brevity of Nick's life is in direct contrast to the enormous breadth of adventures, travels and interests he pursued. This Laurence Sterne quote describes him well: "What a large volume of adventures may be grasped within this little span of life, by him who interests his heart in everything, and who, having eyes to see what time and chance are perpetually holding out to him as he journeyeth on his way, misses nothing he can fairly lay his hands on." -A Sentimental Journey through France and Italy. Nick will be forever loved and held within the hearts and minds of his sister, Clara Barnes; his grandmother, Emily Brastins; his father, Jay Barnes; his mother, Laura Maynes (formerly Linda Brastins Barnes); his stepfather, Greg Maynes; his stepbrother, Bill Maynes; and many more dear family members and friends. A memorial gathering is planned for the spring. Donations in his memory may be made to http://www.DonationTo.com/Nicholas-Brastins-Barnes. Our hope is to fund and endow a Nicholas Brastins Barnes Prize to be awarded annually at Shady Side Academy's Prize Day, so that Nick's bright spirit and curious mind might continue to positively influence other young scholars.
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April 21, 2014

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April 15, 2014

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March 23, 2014

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April 21, 2014

Linda... After all these years... I am so sorry to learn of your loss. My deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family. I have thought of you so often over the years and am deeply saddened to hear of your loss.
Casey Cadman Buell

Rick and Kara Weiss

April 15, 2014

Dear Jay and Linda. After so long a time, perhaps the best thing I can offer is a sweet memory of our visit, of Nicholas as a bright-eyed toddler in a cozy, fire-lit house trimmed with Christmas lights, filled with the smell of baking bread. You, Linda, were pregnant. Jay, the proud papa. We have two sons and can't adequately express our grief upon hearing of your loss.

March 23, 2014

Dear Linda - through Nicholas, I have reconnected with my good friend. Your son continues his good work. Much love, Penny

Leonora Berztiss Stein

March 23, 2014

My prayers go out to all of Nicholas' family on the premature loss of such a fine, young man. I never met Nicholas, but know his wonderful grandmother and how proud she was of him!

Mara Berztiss

March 23, 2014

I was privileged to meet Nicholas once when he was visiting the art museum with his sister and grandmother. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Dagmara Berztiss

March 23, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. I never met Nicholas, but heard much praise from his grandmother, who was very proud of him.

Cindy Minogue

March 22, 2014

Our deepest sympathies to the family and friends of Nicholas Barnes. May you find comfort in his memory and peace knowing many people hold you in their prayers.

March 21, 2014

BEAUTIFUL.

March 21, 2014

Mt God, what an exceptional young man he was... May his family find peace and comfort at this sad time...Nicholas, may you rest in the arms of your Savior...

March 21, 2014

I didn't know Nicholas but it seems he was one great young man. What a terrible loss.

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