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Nicole Lapham Obituary
Nicole loved her home. She loved cooking, decorating, shopping, SU basket ball, baseball, football and just being with her two boys. Doggos is what she called them. Nicole loved animals and always worried about the homeless ones. She would have opened her home to as many dogs as she could if she could stay home with them. They truly were her babies.
There will be a private celebration of her life at a later date.
In lieu of flowers...please donate to an animal shelter of your choice.
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Lorry Ketcham
January 9, 2025
The holidays are over and a new year has begun. You have been coming to me in my dreams. You are always, young, healthy, happy and of course, beautiful. I talk to you all the time. Good morning and always goodnight with an, "I love you." My heart will never mend from this. I know you are at peace and not struggling anymore. I am grateful for that. I'm not happy about you not being here though. We all miss you so much. There isn't a day that goes by that your name isn't mentioned. Ken doesn't watch an SU game without talking to you. You are loved so much. We will always cherish all the memories we had with you. No one can ever take those away. We love you to the moon and back. Mama
lorry K
September 5, 2024
I'm missing your voice, our long talks, all our text messages and recipes we would share. I miss seeing your beautiful eyes and hearing you giggle from something funny Nick said. My heart will never heal from this. You were my baby girl and my best friend. You touched so many in your short life. I didn't know a lot of these people you worked with, but when they describe you...I know they knew you. Big heart and always wanting to please. I will miss you until I see you again. Rest easy. I love you to the moon and back. Mama
Jessica Lardeo
August 26, 2024
So sorry for your loss. Nicole was such a sweet person.
Jen Woodruff
August 21, 2024
I have been searching for the right words for days. There aren't any. Nicole is one of the best people I've ever had the privilege of meeting. We need more people like Nicole in this world. My heart goes out to all of her friends and family.
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Aaron Ezzo
August 21, 2024
I am so sorry to hear this heartbreaking news. I worked with Nicole and was the better for it. She was always willing to help whenever someone needed it, I would often start by apologizing again and again because I needed her help alot sometimes but she would always say oh come on, its no problem at all watcha got. I am so very sorry again, my prayers are with you Nicole and your family during these difficult times. Thank you!
Jaime Lawless
August 21, 2024
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Jaime Lawless
August 21, 2024
Nicole was a part of my life for many years. Through some of the hardest times, and also for some of the most carefree. She was a friend, a support, a safe place and a lot of fun. We had some of the wildest times, made incredible memories, and I loved her a lot. I hadn´t spoken to her a long time, but that doesn´t change a thing. Thank you for being there for me though some of the most important years of my life Nicole. I love you!
Please know we are sending lots of love and hugs to all of those impacted by this tremendous loss.
Scott Stellfox
August 21, 2024
Nicole was such a sweet person I´m shocked to hear of her passing we use to deal with her in the central Station and she came to work with us for over a year. I´m sorry for passing. I´m shocked.
Dawn Szatanek
August 20, 2024
Nicole was such a sweet soul. I am so sad to hear of her passing. She will be greatly missed and I will remember her and our working together with happy memories.
Lynn jennings
August 20, 2024
Our condolences to your family. Nicole was an amazing person, so kind and sweet to everyone. It was so much fun working with you in dispatch.
Nick, we are here for you if you need anything.
Lynn and Donna Jennings
Kristina Morrison
Joyce Goodman
August 19, 2024
Nicole was the sweetest and kindest woman. She was incredibly smart and beautiful inside and out. I am profoundly sad to hear of her loss. Nicole and I used to talk about craft projects, and she loved one particular bouquet on my desk that I made out of swamp grass which is plentiful and quite beautiful in the Fall. I will certainly make one in her honor this year, and proudly display it on my desk. To Nick and all of her loved ones, may God wrap his loving arms around you and fill you with his grace at this most difficult. Sending love and comfort to you all.
Richard Mankin
August 19, 2024
Lovely lady who kept me sane on the phone. Used to jokingly call her "My other Mother" in dispatch. RIP.
Cathy Calogero
August 19, 2024
I am so sorry for your loss. Nicole was a sweetheart, I was blessed to know and work with her. She was one of the nicest people.
Danielle Stewart
August 19, 2024
Nicole came through my new hire at TWC a long time ago and we stayed in contact sporadically. I was always proud to see her navigate from call center to other roles as the company shifted. Nicole was an amazing, smart, beautiful, and full of life. I am in disbelief and so sorry for her loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. Pls let me know if there is anything I can do. I am heartbroken and devastated to hear this news. I will donate to shelter because I know that is what she would have wanted and look forward to a celebration of her life with legacy TWC friends.
Jackie Johnson
August 19, 2024
I am shocked to hear of Nicole´s passing. I will cherish the memories I have of our Order Management days. We had beer pong Fridays, complete with candy cigarettes. Nicole made the best snickerdoodle cookies! Nick, her entire family, including her doggos, are all in my thoughts.
Jacquelyn
August 19, 2024
I am shocked to hear of Nicole´s passing. I have the best memories of her when we worked in Order Management together. We had beer pong Fridays, complete with candy cigarettes! She made the best snickerdoodle cookies! Nick, her entire family, including her doggos are in my thoughts .
Pete DeSandre
August 18, 2024
Nicole is easily one of the best people i have met. Dont think she had a bad bone in her. Always nice and professional to everyone. I was privileged to call her both coworker and friend. Dispatch Saturdays wouldn't have been the same without her. I regret losing touch over the last few years......you will be missed, my friend. Thank you for your friendship and support throughout all these years.
My condolences to your friends, family and loved ones. I am truly sorry for your loss.
Angie O´Donnell
August 18, 2024
Nicole and I used to chat everyday at work. She was the sweetest! Im devastated to hear that she passed. She will be forever in my heart! Nick and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. She was so loved.
Lorraine Ketcham
August 18, 2024
My heart is breaking my baby girl. I have 42 years of memories to hold on to but I'll miss the ones we didn't get to make. I will always love you and miss you. We will be together again soon.
Lorraine Ketcham
August 18, 2024
I have no words my baby girl, other than you were the light of my life. I was always proud of you and you accomplished so much. I am proud to call myself mom. You were the best little girl a mom could ever want. Always laughing, smilng and being goofy. My heart is broken right now but I know I will see you soon. I'll never stop loving you or missing you. Mama
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