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Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 12, 2008.

NUTTER,
BERNARD RAY SR. - Of Jackson, Michigan, passed away at his home on Sunday, February 10, 2008, under the loving care of his family and Great Lakes Hospice after a long battle with cancer. He was born January 7, 1937 in Macfarlan, West Virginia, the son of Donald and Grace (Morgan) Nutter. He is survived by his wife of 28 years, Sharon Nutter; four children, Bernard, Jr. "Butch" (Donna) Nutter, David (Marleen) Nutter, all of Jackson, MI, Wendy (Newt) Ludwig and Patricia Zaharie, all of Florida; eight grandchildren; 15 great-grandchildren; several nieces and nephews; three stepchildren, Thomas (Brenda) Blair of Horton, MI, Linda (Greg) LeFebvre of Jackson, MI, Patricia (Mouse) Blair of Jonesville, MI; six stepgrandchildren and four stepgreat-grandchildren. Mr. Nutter retired from Local 313 Plumbers and Pipefitters and later retired from the Department of Corrections (Regional) in Jackson. He was also self-employed for many years serving as a Master Plumber. At his request, cremation has taken place and there will be no services at this time. Friends who wish may make memorial contributions to Great Lakes Hospice. www.MLive.com/obits Hampton-Kurtz Funeral Home 221 W. Main St. Hanover, MI 49241 517-563-2255

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February 22, 2008

Ron & Nancy Bader posted to the memorial.

February 22, 2008

DIANNE Carpenter posted to the memorial.

February 21, 2008

Sheryl Robb posted to the memorial.

18 Entries

Ron & Nancy Bader

February 22, 2008

Sharon & family, we are sorry to hear of Bernies passing, our love and prayers are with you all.

DIANNE Carpenter

February 22, 2008

Sharon, I am so very sorry for your loss and the agony you had to go through during Bernie's illness. I have always liked Bernie and have many good memories of him, most of which were at the WHEEL BAR IN HORTON, our many good times and games of Euchre. I remember many Januaries, when Larry and Bernie celebrated their birthdays together. And of course, the two of you standing at the end of the bar. You two were a special couple and I can't imagine one without the other. But he will always be with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you.

Sheryl Robb

February 21, 2008

Dear Aunt Sharon,
I was very sorry to hear of the loss of your husband.
I didn't know Bernie very well but I do remember when I was younger,he was always laughing and seemed very happy. You will always be in my prayers.
Love you,
Sheryl

Linda Lefebvre

February 19, 2008

Hi Mom, Bernie, friends and family,

I have many personal memories of Bernie. He was so into nature, the beauty of the land, the trees, the colors, etc... All of God's creation. Bernie took me to Lake Michigan my first time and I was hooked. I had both of my children--both very young at the time, and we had the time of our lives. To this day all of us still love the water and I personnally travel to Lake Michigan three, four or even more times every year, God willing.

Bernie showed me not to be afraid of things. The thing I remember particulary was to not be afraid of firearms. He taught me to shoot a gun. I did it, felt really good about it and am glad I did it. Guns are still not " my thing" but it was a lesson wll learned. I could use one if I had to.

Oh, did I mention the love for food?! Bernie showed me that steak does not have to be "well done". He cooked the thickest steaks on the grill I hve ever seen, turned me onto seafood, fish, and my favorite delicacy for years was scallops thanks to him. I learned to like vegatables other than green beens and carrots thanks to him. (of course mom had a had in it too as she cooked alot of it). Love ya mom

And then there was Euchre which I played since I was a kid. He taught me not to take it so seriously. I am not sure if that was good or not because now I see others as being TOO serious and I cannot hardly stand to play. He sure made me laugh, though.

I have rambled long enough, but Bernie I would like you to know that I have three trips planned for Lake Michigan this summer and may plan another in the fall. I hold YOU responsible I cannot wait to jump in the waves in your memory!!

My personal memories aside, though, I am most thankful to Bernie for taking such good care of my mother for twenty-eight years. He was there for her in good times and in bad. (Plus he put up with her three kids)!! For that I am most grateful. I will continue prayers for you, you family and friends and hope that we all meet again.

God Bless and Love Ya,

Linda (step daughter)

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Wanda Nesler

February 15, 2008

Sharon,
The first time I was around Bernie I knew he was my kind of person; he liked to laugh and tell funny stories about himself and his long time friend Bob Barton. Besides that we were both from West Virginia. Whether we be Hillbilly or Mountaineer, we both liked people.
Terry & I want to let you know we send our sincere sympathy to you and all of your family.

Our love, Wanda & Terry

Bob & Joyce Strauss

February 15, 2008

It is always hard on the loved ones left behind.But there is some comfort in knowing that Bernie is not suffering anymore and is in a better place and he will always be as close as "our memories".He will be dearly missed by us.We love you and will always be here for you.Try and take some comfort in knowing that you are surrounded by many loving friends and family members.XOXOXO

Virginia Calvert

February 15, 2008

Sharron,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember all the fun times we had playing euchre. Your team was always the one that I looked most forward to playing because you all are such wonderful people.
Virginia Calvert (Marcia's sister)

marcia maier(kirby)

February 14, 2008

sharon i love you,,,and i will miss bernie very much,,,hugssssssss you no where i am if you need me i love you marcia,,

marcia maier(kirby)

February 14, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Colleen Smigielski

February 14, 2008

To Sharon, Wendy, Butch, David, and Trish and extended families. I am so sorry about the great loss of Bernie. I too, remember him as a good brother-in-law, and alot of fun to be around.My deepest sympathy to you all. Colleen Krutsch Smigielski

Tamara Asher

February 14, 2008

Bernard Nutter was married to my Aunt Sharon. I have been living in North Carolina since 1987 and have missed the time to get to know Bernie as well as I would have liked to but what I did know about him was that he was fun to be around and was a very funny guy who was well liked. I will miss him. I am very sorry for the family's loss. My prayers are with them.

mae smith

February 13, 2008

Sharron, sorry to hear about the loss of a good friend and a very good and careing person, i will really remember all the good times we had playing cards and will miss all the fun we had.our thoughts are with you and the family love mae and john.

Debbie Henry - Frank Newhook

February 13, 2008

Sharon,

When you're in pain,
and it seems like
no one understands;
when it has gotten exhausting
to even talk about the way
you're suffering,
remember God.
Others may turn their
back on you,
but He never will.
You need explain
nothing to Him.
He knows how you suffer,
and He can see what's
in your heart.
Lean on Him.
Put your faith in Him.
He promised that He would
never forsake you,
and you can depend on Him.

We will miss Bernie so much, he was a kind, gentle, funny and loving man. I remember the good times we shared when he was my brother-in-law and even the times afterwards. We had so much fun with our snowmobiles, taking them up north. Sharon you are in our thoughts and prayers and we love you so much.

Carol Jennings

February 12, 2008

Bernie did a few jobs for me and was the nicest Gentleman. I spoke to his wife a few times and she was very cordial and helpful.
I am so sorry for the family's loss and may great memories take the place of the sadness you feel at this most sorrowful time.
Carol Jennings

Lori Grantham

February 12, 2008

Rest our friend with the Lord above. You were a very funny, loving and hard working man that we will never forget. We know you are now amoung the angels watching over your loving wife, children, grandchildren and friends. Until we meet again....forever in our thoughts you will be. Our love is also with your family in this time of sorrow.
Love, Ann & Mitch Burdick,
Jeff & Lori Grantham & boys,
Jeff & Kathy Burdick
Gabrielle Burdick, Christie & Nic Wick

John and Nancy Vatter

February 12, 2008

Hi Sharon
So sorry to hear about Bernie. We are in Texas at this time and I just wanted to let you know we heard about his passing and wanted to tell you that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
We will be home sometime in April.

Patty Blair and Mouse Mattice

February 12, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

jessica brown

February 12, 2008

rip grandpa i love u much u will always be in my heart and watching over me for that i love rest in peace grandpa

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