Oberline Abare

Oberline Abare obituary, Worcester, MA

Oberline Abare

Oberline Abare Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 19 to May 22, 2016.
Oberline Abare, 95

Worcester - Oberline (LaPorte) Abare, 95, passed away Thursday May 19, 2016 at the Knollwood Nursing Center. She was preceded in death by her husband and love of her life, Raymond Abare, who died in 1995.

She leaves her son, David Abare, of Worcester and his companion, Suzanne Tenthory of Holden; her daughter Denise and her husband, James Adams, of Princeton; her grandchildren Michael and Kristina Adams of Princeton, and several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by nine sisters and brothers.

Oberline was born in Troy, N.H. on April 5, 1921, daughter of Roc and Clarice LaPorte. She grew up in Troy, waking each morning to a wonderful view of Mt. Monadnock. "Obe" or "Obie", as she was affectionately known, graduated from Troy High School. She was married in September 1947 and moved to Worcester where she and Ray created a loving home and raised their children. She was first and foremost a homemaker, providing love and warm meals to her family each and every day. Her biggest joy was spending time at home with her family.

A devout Catholic, she was a founding member of St. George's Roman Catholic Church in Worcester where she sang in the choir, and was a member of the Legion of Mary and the Women's Guild.

Oberline had many fun times with the Worcester Dance Assembly and enjoyed taking trips with the Greendale Retired Men's Club. In her senior years, she spent many hours lovingly celebrating the life events of her grandchildren. She also enjoyed playing KENO and going out to eat at The Manor.

She spent her last year at Knollwood Nursing Center and her family would like to acknowledge the loving care provided her there.

The funeral will be held Monday, May 23, from the Athy Memorial Home, 111 Lancaster Street, Worcester, with a Mass at 10 a.m. in St. George's Church, 38 Brattle Street, Worcester. Burial will follow in Worcester County Memorial Park, Paxton. Calling hours are Sunday, May 22, from 6 to 8 p.m. in the funeral home.

Memorial contributions may be made to St. George's Church.

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May 25, 2016

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May 23, 2016

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Dennis Westerlind

May 25, 2016

Dave,
Sorry for your loss.

May 24, 2016

I'm very sorry for your lost. During this difficult time May prayer comfort and strengthen you and the family. 1 Thessalonians 5:17

May 23, 2016

Denise and David: So sorry to hear of your mothers passing. So many fond memories of her and your dad. May she rest in peace.
Allen and Chris Hubbard (Westfield, MA)

Jean Bulger

May 21, 2016

Dave, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother.

L J

May 21, 2016

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. John 14:1 our Heavenly Father cares for us.

Mike, Maureen, Meghan and Sean Halloran

May 20, 2016

Dave and Denise our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May 19 was the 24th anniversary of one of Obe's closest Friends. All our love

Marge McGrath

May 20, 2016

Dave, So sorry to hear about the loss of your mother...Marge McGrath, Jefferson, MA

Bob and Cathy Richardson

May 20, 2016

Dave, I am truly sorry for your loss of your mom.

Linda Carlson

May 20, 2016

David - I'm so sorry about your mom / I'm sure you have wonderful memories and lots of photos - the women of our church, the sunshine girls, recently sang at knoll wood and perhaps she was in the room when we were singing - my prayers go out to your entire family - Linda(bird) Carlson

Al Charbonneau

May 20, 2016

Sorry for your lost David.

Kathryn Valentzas Collins

May 20, 2016

Dave,
So sorry for your loss.

Paul Sullivan

May 20, 2016

To Dave and Family,
Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your mother. I will remember all of you in my prayers during your time of sorrow.
Respectfully,
Paul Sullivan

Regina Barnicle

May 19, 2016

Dave and Sue, Denise and Jimmy and family..Just learned about the passing of my dear friend "Obie". I truly loved caring for her a few days a week until she had to go into the nursing home. We shared so many stories, laughter and tears. I learned so much from my friend....about her years with her husband, watching Kelly and Regis and discussing the many changes in fashion. She also insisted I join her in a bowl of Oatmeal in the morning! I shall miss her. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and if there's anything I can do, please let me know. Regina

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