Owen Thame Obituary

Gordan was the big brother I never had. When I came to Canada in '76, he was the first to welcome me. He took me under his wings, introduced me to many of his friends - female. We used to go to the discos, and wow, was he a girl magnate.
I felt so welcomed by him and Ruby, it was as if I was already at home.
A true friend, a true brother. I miss you very much !!! God Bless you and love you as much as I do.
Hutch Karam

I wish I had been able to know more about you. From our interactions I always felt your warmth and generosity of spirit. You will live on in our hearts and through your Family Tree project.

Missing you madly Gord! I haven't adjusted to the fact that I can't pick up the phone to speak to you or link you on SKYPE.

I am so sorry I never got the chance to know you. I will get to know you in heaven one day.

I didn't have many occasions to meet Uncle Gordon, however my memories of him are found. If my memory serves me correctly I was the ring boy at his wedding. May you rest in peace.

My darling brother , its hard to believe its one year already. I miss you so much. Know that you will always be alive in my heart
Pauline

Dear Gord,
I can't believe it's been a year since I brought you your favorites: ginger beer, Maynard's candies and plantain chips. You looked rejuvenated (compared to the week before) yet at peace with what was to follow... and we said our good-byes. You were such a gentle man with a kind heart. You loved the Caribbean and so looked forward to your annual jaunts down south. I hope that you are truly happy floating on the great blue sea of tranquility. Always in my thoughts and prayers.

Gord was very kind, talented, and interesting—a very colourful character. I have only good memories of him. Once, after a barbecue, I was unable to drive and he drove me home in a nighttime rainstorm. Here's the thing: he drove me home nearly blind. I don't know how he did it. He had problems with both eyes at that time, and it was impossible to see anything even with two good eyes. Incredible! I remember he talked fondly about his dog Jojo and how he used his first aid skills to revive her after she had some sort of heart failure. Again, incredible! I remember what a gracious host he was and once spending an afternoon with him and his lovely daughter Tara who was visiting. Gord was so unassuming, and never tried to be interesting, he just was. I am sorry I lost touch with him the last few years of his life. He was one of the good guys, and his passing is a great loss.

Always enjoyed your sense of humor. You are missed.

Cannot believe that it is one year already! Time is going by so fast. Actually, I still cannot believe that Gordon is no longer with us. Continue to rest in peace Gord! Elaine & Carlton

Oh how time flies! One year already? Gordon, you're gone but will never be forgotten. We carry you in our hearts.

Miss you Gordon. Always in our memories.
Hard to believe that one year has gone.

Judith and Karl

I worked with Gord at Sears in the Layout Department. Gord told the best stories and I always enjoyed hearing the latest one.

My Mom and Gordon worked together in Kingston, Jamaica and became great friends in spite of the age difference.
Gordon left Jamaica to live in Canada and kept the friendship going. He corresponded regularly with Mom and never left her out of his life. On a visit Gordon made to Jamaica he went to see Mom. Before he left she gave him my phone number and told him to contact me, which he did. I remember I was having a party shortly after that and so I invited him. From then on we became good friends and remained so over all these years. Over the years, as our lives took different paths, we kept in touch and offered support to each other during various crises in our lives; like the passing of his Mom, illnesses, divorce, the passing of my Mom, etc. It was with great sadness that I learned of Gordon's failing health and, eventually, of his passing. I was saddened that that such a lovely person, such a talented person, such an artistic person, such a great Dad passed away at such a young age. Gordon had much, much more living to do. He will be greatly missed. Gord, rest in peace!

Many memories. Theatre excursions and listening to Evita at your apartment with Bob. Knowing how you loved to act but found no opportunities here. You sharing your drawings, and the parties where there were promises of Gordie's pumpkin soup - and you gave me the recipe. At Sears the kindness of telling me I had a gigantic blob of white cat fur on my black pants, as a friend would, you said. Bringing me mangoes from Jamaica. Calling me sweetheart. Dancing - you sure knew how to dance. Being one of the buds in our marvelous Sears 'gang' at a time when it was all still fun. And seeing and talking to you when you were not well - still cheerful, not that I think you had to be, and I'm sure it wasn't easy. It was hard having your memorial at your 50th party location - you should have been there. Penny, Toronto, Rosemont

GOrd was a wonderful man, sweet as can be. I will always remember him fondly.

You are forever in my thoughts my dear.I hope that whatever beach you landed on, that it is beautiful, tranquil and that you are happy now.
Much love, B x

You were a great friend Gord. Keep watch over those that are here still. Goodbye my friend, I will miss you.

What a way to find out that you have gone on to a better place with no pain. After meeting many years ago playing softball and having the honor to know you as my friend for many many years thereafter. I will sadly miss you, your confidence and your friendship. So long friend.

Rest In Peace.

Knowing you Gord was a very special time for me we always hugged and chatted like we only seen each other the day before ,I know you had a tough journey ahead of you , but accepted it because you knew you'd be welcomed with our Dear Lord with open arms we needed that extra Angel in Heaven to watch over us Sleep well my dear Friend you are missed so much...hugssss <3 <3

I met Gordon Thame several years ago and found that as an advertising designer and painter we had a lot in common. I remember him coming to my home and taking a few pictures of my garden. Years later in Canada I saw a few paintings that he had done from those photos. The paintings were the palm tree leaves from my yard and they were beautiful. He had an eye for color and his paintings were very vivid. His contribution to the arts is going to be missed dearly.

When I was about 13 years old, my sisters and I were asked to be bridesmaids at a friend's wedding. Knowing we didn't have money to hire a make-up artist, Gordon, who was about 17 at the time volunteered to do our faces. He did a superb job! We looked and felt like movie stars! Thanks, Gordon.
Love,
Judith

The first time I met Gord was at his 50th Birthday. My friend Constantine invited me to meet his workmate/friend he spoke so much about. Gord was a great guy, he welcomed me, made me feel so comfortable at the party and introduced me to all his friends and family. I met Tara and David for the first time. It was a great night. After the party, Gord remained to be a friend. A warm and caring kindred spirit always full of joy and excitement. Throughout the years, I recall fond memories of his cooked food and elaborate dinners at his apartment, drinking Appleton Estate Rum with coke and champagne (not Cristal) but 'all good' just the same. He would share his stories of his triumphs, struggles and successes. He spoke of the changing landscape of Toronto and all the developments and good times. Tara and David were always the backdrop to all his stories. He gave me a great deal of insight on life and how to keep moving forward without looking back. He represented strength and perseverance. It's amazing how much tenacity Gord had by continuously keeping a smile on his face. During the last days, he told me a joke. I must admit, I have no idea what the joke was or if there was actually a punchline. (Tara, help me out here; you were there too. :) I know it had to do something with a nun and some lotion....or was it vaseline? ) Regardless, it made me laugh and gave me a burst of energy. I am so honoured to have known Gord as a role model and a testament of keeping your head held up high and to keep looking at the stars.

When I look up at the sky tonight, I will see the stars and amongst them… I will see GORD. Thanks for shining down on us. I remember, Je me souviens. Bwoy!!

Angella,
I just wanted to say that when I think your brother, I think of his unsolicited kindness.
I remember a time when he was coming to Jamaica and he called my brother to let him know.
Neither of them could hear the conversation at all.
He arrived with a gift of a new portable telephone.
HOW THOUGHTFUL!
Love never dies with a brother and remember that memories live on and tears are great in times of healing from grief.

I worked with Gord at Sears Canada for many years. I admired him for his professionalism, hardwork and dedication. He was an expert at his job and gained a lot of respect from his co-workers. I always enjoyed talking to Gord he was very honest and full of information and there were lots of laughs.. May his soul rest in peacel. Judith Dacres.

Will miss you bro. Cant forget the fun times in Toronto.

Love, Blessings and sincere Condolences to Gord's Family.
Working with Gord was a real pleasure.
RIP my friend!
ONE LOVE for sure
Anne Coleman

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. I am glad I got the chance to say good bye. May you rest in peace.

“Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.” by Kim

You will 4ever be my daddio...here's to appleton rum, coke & kfc..xoxo

Gord we will miss you! our time together at Sears Canada will always be special and remembered. all the best to your family and deepest condolences

Dad, it was great to spend the time with you and say good bye. May you live on in our hearts and minds. May you rest in piece now.

Dearest Gordon,

You were a good brother and friend to so many of us. Although I didn't spend much of our adult lives close to you I still remember very fondly the childhood years and the fun we all shared. I remember your kind, gentle way, your sense of humor, and how talented you were.

You were loved very much, and will be truly missed. Rest in peace now.

I`m glad I got to say goodbye. Will continue to reflect on how great it was working with you. Love Alma W.

Rest n Peace Gordon. You have left me with wonderful memories to cherish forever. So long Shining Star ;-) <3 <3

RIP Dear Gordon. You will always live in our hearts as we remember your laughter, your humor, your kindness. We will miss you.

Gordon you will be missed. After hearing the sad news I went on a trip down memory lane; the parties we all attended and you being the life of the party. While we lost track a number of years ago, we always enquired from Babara how you were doing. You have left your mark on this world. So long old friend until we cross paths again. Madge & Chris Gardner

Even though we were miles apart the family always remembered and spoke about you with laughter and love. We will always remember you and hope you R.I.P.

May you rest easy now. You will be greatly missed your family & grandsons love you very much. RIP

Rest In Peace Brother. The courgage and bravery you exhibited in life will never be forgotten, and it will serve as an example to us all. We will miss you.
ONE LOVE

Neville ,

RIP , Gordon you touched many lives in fun loving, caring and creative ways. Your presence will be missed. While not seeing you for some time, I am delighted to say thanks for being a friend.

RIP my uncle. There are so many memories that we shared. Thanks so much for everything. I love you and you will never be forgotten.

I will cherish the moments we have had together, remembering your good humour. So sorry you didnt wait a few more hours for me to see you.I will miss you dearly and love you always
Yvonne

" My brother and friend. After being separated for so many years,i will always cherish our last visit to Jamaica. On that day our sourjourn began with a visit to the Kingston Parish church, paying homage to our forbears,Vera,Sandy and Grandma Myra.Our visit to Heathfield avenue as well as Kencott; homes which broughtfourth so many generations.I remember our visit to National Heroes Park, shortly after the death of The Honorable Michael Manley...yes Gordon we stood among prince's of our nation. Culminating that day, our drive to St. Thomas-enjoying the warm waters of the carribean and cool bath at "white horses",ate fish bammy and festival.On that day i truly got to know my brother and the things which so made us happy.I will miss you until we meet again"

I will miss you my brother. You meant alot to me from when we were at school and thoughout your life. Love you

Brother,you were my younger brother,but i thought of you as older so wise,
thoughtful and loving we had some wonderfull times together, will miss you dearly

My darling brother and friend as I write this ido so with a broken heart. I will always cherish the wonderful memories of our time together and all the things we shared.You will remain alive in my heart forever. I will never forget you.

I will forever cherish our memories my brother. I have forgiven you for breaking the news to me that there is no Santa Claus.(smile)
You were a good person so I know you will rest in peace and remain forever in my heart. Your sis Angie

Father's and Daughter's Have a Romance

Fathers and daughters have a romance
That goes on for the rest of their lives,
Destined to ripen and age as they dance
Through the days of their husbands and wives.
Up near the surface their love is distinct,
Like a garden surveyed in the sun,
In which seedtime and full bloom are credibly linked
By a consciousness shared and hard won.

Deep down below, where the world is a dream,
And the dream is a world of its own,
All manner of memories the moments redeem
In a place where one's never alone.

Nicholas Gordon

Someday soon we will dance together again.

Love you to the warm waters and back.

Tara