Pamela Jo Davis

Pamela Jo Davis obituary, Boonville, MO

Pamela Jo Davis

Pamela Davis Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 1, 2013.
Pamela Fuser Davis, Artist and Collector, Dies at 66 Pam Davis, known for her eclectic style, talent beyond measure, inner beauty and passion for historic preservation, passed away on Sunday morning, September 1, 2013 as a result of injuries sustained in an automobile accident. A seventh generation Missourian and lifelong resident of Boonville, Ms. Davis was a determined advocate for projects she believed would bring revitalization to the town she loved . She was one of the first and most vocal opponents of the Union Pacific Corporation's plan to demolish the iconic MKT railroad bridge, spanning the Missouri River. A battle won after several years. Ms. Davis renovated several downtown buildings in Boonville to their original state of grandeur and believed in the importance of this to rejuvenate the town center and pride in the town's history. "Beautiful downtown Boonville", a phrase recently spoken, is one which cannot be said without thinking of Pam. Pamela Jo Davis was born Thanksgiving Day, November 27, 1946 to Joseph Jefferson Davis and Helen Virginia (Fuser) Davis at St. Joseph Hospital in Boonville, MO. She graduated with a BFA from the University of Kansas at the top of her art class. This experience played a good hand in her lifelong love of the arts and she remained friends with many of her contemporaries who became well-known artists. A celebration of Pam's life will take place 7:00 pm Friday, September 6th, at Thespian Hall in Boonville. Pam is survived by her father, Joseph Jefferson Davis; stepmother and friend of Fayette, Marsha Davis; brother, Jeff Davis of Fayette; sister, Diana Dale Davis Shallenburger of Boonville; husband Stanley Thomas of Boonville; two daughters, Yardley Wing of Boonville and Amanda Thomas of Columbia; and one grandson, Jesse Davis Moore of Columbia. In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be given to Save the Katy Bridge in memory of Pam. ______________________________________________________________ Eulogy by Johanna MacPherson, a dear dear friend: When a dynamic person dies, a whole industry goes crashing to oblivion. Pamela Jo Davis was an industry. She was a legend. She was an artist. And in her time, she was the sexiest woman alive. A small person can have a soul and heart as great as a giant, and this small woman had a soul as haunted as a love song, and a heart so loving and great, that no one could see all the breaks and bruises it carried, because the laughter reached out and took our hearts forever. Pam Davis made Boonville, Missouri the most interesting town on the River. She knew all the byways, the stories, the rusty iron and the fine mahogany that traveled to and from this place. Her creativity was full of imaginative wonders and she had the stamina, strength and guts to put into reality her fantastic ideas. What other artist has a machine shop, and woodshop, a painting studio, and three stories worth of collected antiques and junk, useful in the work of all three? No one else could work like this woman could, up on scaffolds, sanding ceilings, swaying on ladders placing mosaics. Her refurbishing of every interesting and impossible space has spanned decades. Her homes were fascinating places full of gorgeous real things, but captivating in all the more amazing things that hung from the chandeliers she had made, and rested in the frames she collected. Everywhere were surprises and everywhere was artistry, and always there was comfort and welcome. As we all know great cooks, Pam was even better than that. In the middle of a full scale restoration, suddenly the kitchen was full of stuff she had made yesterday, delicious stuff that we raved over. Even tho she lived on snickers and mountain dew, she knew how to make homemade Baileys Cream, and I once watched her soak a bushel of lemons in vodka to make liqueur for Christmas. She could cook circles around everybody, and that was after she had poured the concrete to make her kitchen counters. Her Story was the pioneer story. Her ancestors came to Cooper County when land was sold in sections, not in acres. Her relatives were characters themselves out of the legend of early and mid-19th century Americans. Pam herself was making their legacy live anew, in the pioneering she did in old Boonville, making homes out of the wilderness of forgotten buildings, downtown brick and lathe, and funny little rock houses nobody else could appreciate. No magazines ever found or photographed these amazing interiors, but they should have. The richness of her interior design combined with the abundance of her extraordinary artifacts was like a museum experience, full of unexpected thrills, all in a magical presentation. Like a movie star, she was married 6 times, men loved her that much. Little boys in the town would ride their bikes over to see what Pam was up to. That hoarse laugh, that throaty chuckle, that rip of humor was a balm to everyone. Men fell under her spell, and women realized they were seeing something irresistible. She single-handedly birthed Historic Boonville. Wall by wall, building by building, she showed the community the resources and wealth it has in fine architecture, useful places, and with her own hands and eyes it was done! No one can fail to notice Boonville's 450 houses that merit placement on the National Register, but Pam bought them, coaxed them out of implosion, and made them alive. Her efforts on behalf of the Katy Trail RR bridge are a fine tribute, maybe a public enough one, for all to see this hint of her fantastic and tremendous accomplishments. She leaves daughters, husband, father and grandson behind, some in direct descent from her genius and some who watched it be born. Her friends, pickers, workers, tenants, suppliers, carpenters, and citizens will feel like the air has gone still, like the breezes have become weak in their message of hope and refreshment. There can be no comfort in the loss of one so important, so giving, and so necessary in showing us what life is supposed to be. Where is the person so wildly aware of all the possibilities? She is gone where we can't see, and oh, the difference to us.

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April 10, 2024

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June 28, 2023

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March 28, 2019

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Ellen Greer

April 10, 2024

I loved Pam from the moment I saw her on the American Pickers show. I told my husband, "I just love her".....We would have made the best of friends. I am so thankful they play this show over and over. This is the 2nd time I have seen it and it just touches my heart. She will be forever in our hearts.

Jim Marshall

June 28, 2023

This beautiful lady lives on through her family, friends and that episode of American pickers where her collection and smile made the entire episode. Pam, you have millions of fans. Bless you in Heaven.

Jacques Martin

March 28, 2019

Mille regrets.

Alan Heath

October 10, 2018

I have just seen the episode of American Pickers for the first time. It was a shock at the end to see Pamela had passed away. What a beautiful lady and amazing presence she had. RIP

John Watkins

August 22, 2018

Watching AP and saw this in the end credits. Amazing woman and very sad, but she has made a lasting impact on the world, so she will love on...

Chris Shade

July 23, 2018

Watched american pickers in the uk just watched episode with pamela and stan what a lovely lady she shon through very sad at end to see she had passed

Ian Moorr

June 13, 2018

I too watched American pickers
And such an amazing spirit shone out
So full of life and fun such an amazing fit with Stan all our love and best wishes from the U.K.

Michael Wilder

June 10, 2018

I was watch American Pickers and fell in love with Pam's and Stan's personalities. I wanted to see if there was contact information on the internet so that I could message them to let them know their lives touched me. I found the obituary...and tears started down my face. Crying for someone I never met. Wow.

April 17, 2018

Same sentiments as many others have posted here: watching AP and thought they should revisit with her- Id love to see more of her and then (Bc my TiVo cuts off the last minute) I saw in the beginning of next episode, the end credits from that one, with the memorium- so sad. Was so nice to know a tiny part of this wonderful person through this show- condolences to all of her friends and family....

William Rossi

April 16, 2018

I, like so many others, had the blessing of feeling like we were invited into Pamelas world thanks to Mike and Frank via their show American Pickers. I was also saddened the first time I saw in the credits that she had passed. I was watching the rerun today and saw again, as she was being coaxed like so many others who collect, to let go of some things and how hard it is to say goodbye to those things.
My little Sister Terri Lee Rossi passed on Christmas Day 2017, and so this time when I saw Pamela, I did shed some tears and decided to find out why she passed.
Coincidentally, I was in a car accident when I was 18 and had a near death experience so I had to see the tears in the eyes of my family and friends when they came to see me in the hospital. I know that she would not want us to be sad. Im sure if she had the choice like I did, she would have come back for some more quality time with her family and loved ones.
My heart goes out to all Pamelas family and friends, and I can tell you from my own personal experience of dying and coming back, that she went to that place where everything is good and the golden light of God is.

Mary Wyatt

April 11, 2018

I watch American Picker and loved watching Pamela draw me into her warehouse and/or studio. Her smile and throaty laugh maked me feel like I'd known her for years. I felt that she could have been my best friend...what memories we could have gotten ourselves into ! I was saddened when I saw in the show credits that she had passed away. I really shed a few tears for her family. My condolences to them.

Paul McElroy

February 14, 2018

Watched America pickers and was touched at how a loverly a person Pam came across .I've obviously never met her but felt she was a special person.
I was reduced to tears and the end of the show when it announced that Pam had passed away.
RIP x

January 11, 2018

She is in the house of our Lord.. Such a beautiful person....

January 11, 2018

Pamela was such a beautiful person, I watch American Pickers very often, but never saw this episode till today. I was deeply saddened to see the credits in show and learn of her passing, such a beautiful soul., That she had .....May she Rest in Peace.

curtis graham

September 4, 2017

i was gutted to see the end credits to american pickers to see that pam had died,what a perfect beautiful couple,theres no such thing as a perfect couple but to see how much they were devoted ,and loved each other and fun thats perfect god bless you pam and husband all our love curtis and family,nottingham england.xx

Regina Barrett

July 6, 2017

I watched American pickers today 7/6/2017 I fell in love w Pamela. I thought to myself while watching "if I lived there I'd be her best friend. " love her creative style!! I cried when I saw the end of the show. How could this happen to such a wonderful woman. I'm soo sry for your loss. I loved watching you two interact!! " I was thinking I wish my husband and I would get along like them". God bless

Pete (UK) Hilz

February 11, 2017

What a beautiful couple you guys made watching you on American Pickers. So heartbreaking to see the end credits that Pamela Jo had died RIP. I'm sure she left enough sweet dreams for an eternity. Thank you God for the beautiful people and the precious gifts they share with us. God bless you P and your family.

Micheel Muñoz

May 26, 2016

Lamento mucho esta pérdida, es muy triste Saber que nunca podré conocer a una mujer tan linda y gentil, desde México mando mis condolencias .

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