Pamela Ortlieb

So sorry for your loss.

Aryanne, I only met your mother briefly, she was sick then but never showed it . I can imagine how strong she was by the way you and your sister carried yourselves during your young lives. Aryanne, I hope you find peace and love that you deserve. You three women are the most beautiful red heads I've ever seen. I am sorry this is so late , and maybe too long for that matter, but I have tried everything I could think of to find you and make contact. I am truly sorry for you all . I hope to hear from you . Love joe. [email protected]

I just found out tonight about Pam and with great sadness called her mother to express my sorrow. Rene (I went to BRJH with you) and girls, I would love to write you a letter with pictures about our friendship and our lives at Central and Zoar. We were very close friends, and Pam was in our wedding. I loved her so much and got re-acquainted when your girls were in school. They were at a game at PBS (where I taught music, Derrell was Superintendent, and my boys played ball)and we had such a long talk. She overflowed with love for you and your girls. I have kept up with her illness because our mothers were friends. She was truly everything beautiful that everyone has said about her and she loved you all so much. I love you Pam and will never forget you. I can hear your sweet voice now and see your dimples as you laugh. I know your beauty still shines through your beautiful girls. May God bless your family. You are in heaven with my mom who loved you like a daughter.

Mr. Rene, The staff at bowie outfitters would like to express our deepest sympathy at this time. We wish you peace and comfort.

Tribute to Pamela
written by Rene' Ortlieb

I remember like it was yesterday. On her 25th birthday, I stopped by to see her at a law firm where she was working. The outside window acted as a prism on the sunlight and its glow fell upon her face and I remember thinking to myself this truly must be the most beautiful creature on the face of this earth. But it was far more than that with her. She was everything a woman should be. It was overpowering. I loved everything about her. The road wasn't easy for us. We loved, we laughed, we fought and we cried. But the force was too great. There could be no one else but her for me. Even now that she is gone, she inhabits my very soul.

How did it all start?

I first met her in 1974. It was a chance meeting that would change the course of my life. We dated for a few months. But I had other commitments and was honest with her. I then attempted to maintain a friendship with her. My other commitments were very tumultuous but in addition I had another problem. Every night in that quiet time between dreaming and wake, I found that I would think about Pam, How perfect she was in every way. This went on for years.

Then something life changing occurred. My father died. This was the end of my world. I missed the relationship that my father and I had.

Soon thereafter, I woke up in the middle of the night drenched in a cold sweat. What was the nightmare? I dreamt that I let things go too far and that I had lost Pam forever. I realized that the reason I was born was to be at her side. This was definitely the night that would change the course of my life. I reasoned that if my subconscious feelings about her was so strong that I felt compelled to do something about it. This was 1981 and I understood that to get her back now would require me to move heaven and earth. So I did not go back to sleep because I wanted to get an early start.

And the rest is the history of our lives together.

Lee Picard would later write on a recent Facebook post:

I was very sorry to hear about Pam, but her suffering is over and she is with our Lord.
A man that truly loves a woman....
Walks beside her & holds her hand when she is strong.
Stands behind her when she needs a push.
Wraps his arms around her when she wants to be protected,
And carries her when she has fallen....
For Pam you have been
"that Man"

And to Lee I would respond:

When a man truly loves a woman, he would not think of doing it any other way. I only wish I could relive my life with her, I think I could do it better this time.

My deepest sympathy and prayers to all of Pams family...I know she will be greatly missed. What a beautiful life she had.


Classmate of CHS1968

This quote by an unknown author gave me comfort when I was suffering from the loss of my mother, "To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die". I've lost many loved ones in my ly life, but they are all still with me in my heart. I'm praying for you and your family Renee.

Rene - I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for you. I wish you peace, love, and light. Joel d'Aquin Thibodeaux, classmate, BRHS 1969.

René and girls,extended family. I know there are no words to take away the empty your feeling right now. I will miss her laughter and how she always made you feel everything would be alright. She was a lady in every meaning of the word. René you were the love of her life. You two let me know TRUE LOVE does exist. Love and prayers

I remember Pam from high school. We weren't in the same grade, but I remember how beautiful and friendly she was. I am so sorry for your loss.

It was my honor to have known Pam from the beginning of our school days together at Central. For the past few months I have had her in my thoughts and wondered about her and where she was and what kind of like she had. The things we use to talk about as girls. I had come to Baton Rouge to visit with my Mother and was very surprised to see her picture in the obituary columns. My condolences go out to her family and friends as I know she will be greatly missed.

Renee....
What through the radiance which was once so bright be now forever taken from my sight! Though nothing can bring back the hour of spendeor in the grass, glory in the flower. We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind. Wm. Wordsworth

Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Others stay awhile and embrace our silent dreams leaving footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same.

Renee I never had the pleasure, but know she was your world.

I was a couple of yrs younger than Pam but I remember her in High School. My sincere condolences

Adelyn and Family,
Please accept my sincere condolences in the death of your Mom. You are in my prayers.
~Kristi Folse

I was privileged to have been with Pam for two occasions, both times with my sister Susan Dixon. Pam will never be forgotten, anyone who met her one time would and will remember her for the rest of their life, she was that amazing.

To Aryanne, Mr. Rene' and family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Mrs. Pam was such a beautiful person, both inside and out. She will be deeply missed by so many. Aryanne, I am ALWAYS here for you, no matter what. Just know that your Mom will be watching over you, guiding and protecting you. I offer my deepest sympathies and please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
" Perhaps they are not stars but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. "

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Pam well from Central. Prayers for all of her family!

To my best friend Aryanne, Mr. Rene, and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Mrs. Pam was such a beautiful person, inside and out. She will be deeply missed by so many. Aryanne, I am always here for you, no matter what. Just know that your Mom will be watching over you, guiding and protecting you. I offer my deepest sympathies and know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. "Perhaps they are not stars but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down on us to let us know they are happy."

Rene', Your wife was an incredibly talented interior designer...I remember the Quota Club tour of homes and always looked forward to seeing Pam's creations; beautiful, elegant and a statement of her perfectionism. Condolences to you and your family...in spite of the bad times, the good times were a fairy tale story that ended much too soon. Sad memories will eventually leave for good and the beautiful memories will be forever etched in your heart and soul...Blessings and prayers, my friend.

My prayers are with you and your family, Rene'. God Bless you.

To my treasured friend Aryanne, sweet father Rene, and family, I didn't know Pam personally except through your love for her and the precious memories you've shared. My heart is heavy for your loss and I'm praying for your comfort now and always. Aryanne, I see in you the beauty, class, and creativity of your mother and I believe she must be a proud mother angel looking down on you. You have my deepest sympathy.

I remember like it was yesterday. One day on her 25th birthday, I stopped by to see her at a law firm she was working at. The outside window acted as a prism on the sunlight and its glow fell upon her face and I remember thinking to myself this truly must be the most beautiful creature on the face of this earth. But it was far more than that with her. She was everything a woman should be. It was overpowering. I loved everything about her. The road wasn't easy for us. We loved, we laughed, we fought and we cried. But the force was too great. There could be no one else but her for me. Even now that she is gone, she inhabits my very soul.

Classmate, bus pal, member of Zoar Baptist Church in the same classes growing up and old friend may you rest in peace. I am so sorry for the loss of Pam. Prayers for her husband and children and Mr. And Mrs. Dixon and her brothers.

My heart is so saddened by Pam passing away. She was a truly beautiful classy lady. Such grace she always brought to her friends.

I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you. She was so beautiful. I know she is happy in heaven, but will be missed on this earth.

I feel so honoured and blessed to have been able to know and love this lovely woman. She was beautiful, sweet, and classy. Always a lady. Love and prayers to all of you.

Rene, our thoughts are with you.

My profound sorrow at your loss.

Pam was a wonderful inspiration to me. I was blessed to be her roommate on a mission trip to Russia and Syberia. Her heart ached that week for the people there and ther standard of living. She was one of the most giving women of God I have ever known with her prayers, possission's, and her love for others. She was truly touched by the feelings of others infirmaties..Jamie Wilson (Baton Rouge)

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls.

I'm sorry for your loss, I know its been a long road. She's at rest now.

She was so beautiful inside and out. So classy and lovely. Her kindness will never be forgotten. I know she is enjoying Heaven and all its beauty. I pray God's peace for her family at this time.

In memory of her beautiful light that shone with inspiration and love for all that knew her. Her memory will be forever carried in their hearts.

Aryanne, I have such wonderful memories of your mother! She was always so kind to me and made me feel like part of your family. I know she had a special place in my grandmothers heart and she does mine as well. And I won't ever forget her smile!

May peace be with your family at this time.

My thoughts are with you and the children, Rene'...

We are sadden to hear of the passing of Pam...Our prayers go up for God to wrap his arms around you during this time..Aryanne we are here for you if you need anything...You and Adelyn will have an angel looking over you and smiling down on Avalee & April as they grow...Love to you and God bless

It was my honor to have this beautiful and loving woman as my mother.