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Partahi Lumbantoruan
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Partahi Lumbantoruan Obituary
Please sign the Guest Book for this victim of the shootings on Monday, April 16, 2007, at Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University in Blacksburg, Virginia.
Copyright © 2007 The Associated Press
196 Entries
Vasili Glimidakis
August 27, 2007
Dear Lumbantoruan Family,
I am sorry for your loss. God bless him and his family.
Dorothy Lenz
June 12, 2007
I saw some pictures of the family grieving, and they struck me- I could see this person was so dear to them. I sympathize with your loss, and I'm sure that Patahi is still with you. I wish you lots of love and compassion and success in the future.
The Burns Family
May 25, 2007
You will never be forgotten!
alma renner
May 22, 2007
God bless You
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G & J Goss
May 16, 2007
To the family and friends of Partahi...what an inspiration and honor to read of his accomplishments and goodness. The world has lost a shining star. Please accept our sincere condolences.
Randy
May 9, 2007
R.I.P Mr Mora...
May you'll peace in His side...
i'll pray for ur family as well....
GBU
Linda Favuzza - [email protected]
May 6, 2007
To Partahi's family and friends,
Our heavenly father, Jehovah (Ps. 83:18) promises at Isaiah 41:10 - "Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not gaze about, for I am your God. I will fortify you. I will really help you. I will really keep fast hold of you with my right hand of righteousness". May you grasp hold of his hand and allow him to guide you through the coming days, weeks, months and years.
Additional comfort may be gained from these scriptures:
Isaiah 25:8 - "He will actually swallow up death forever."
Revelation 21:4 - "and he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."
After the loss of my husband on 9/11, I have been greatly comforted by the word of God.
Bianca
May 1, 2007
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am the sparkle in the snow.
I am the shredded leaves that blow.
I am the sunlight on growing grain.
I am the gentle summer rain.
I am the quiet bird at night.
Circling about; Taking flight.
So do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
Elisabeth Widjaja
May 1, 2007
Mora,
What a great gentle man you were. I fall in love with you and wished we had met before. Rest in peace, my Angel...
Annie
April 30, 2007
RISE UP SLOWLY, ANGEL
Rise up, slowly, Angel.
I cannot let you go.
Just drift softly midst the faces,
In sorrow now bent low.
Ease the searing anger,
Born in harsh unyielding truth
That Death could steal my loved one
From the glowing blush of youth.
Rise up slowly, Angel.
Do not leave me here alone,
Where the warmth of mortal essence
Lies replaced by cold, hard stone.
Speak to me in breezes
Whispered through the drying leaves,
And caress my brow with raindrops
Filtered by the sheltering trees.
Rise up slowly, Angel,
For I cannot hear the song
Which calls you through the shadows
Into the light beyond.
Wrap me in your downy cape
Of sunshine, warm with love,
And kiss a tear-stained mother's face
With moonlight from above.
Then wait for me at sunset,
Beside the lily pond,
And guide me safely homeward
To your world,which lies beyond.
Just spread your wings and take me
In reunion’s sweet embrace,
And we shall soar, together,
To a different time and place.
Phyllis James
April 30, 2007
To The Lumbantoruan Family:
I am writing this brief note to your family because I so deeply feel that when we are faced with the sudden loss of someone so very dear to us that it is one of the hardest things in our lives we will have to face. Yet, I would like to share with you something that touched my heart, it is the knowledge that God will respond to our persistent prayers to help us through any tough time such as this. At Philippians 4:6 and 7 it says that "the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your heart and your mental powers." Please know that my prayers are with you at this time and I urge you to continue to pray for strength to get through the rough moments ahead.
Wanda Officer
April 30, 2007
To The Family of Partahi Lumbantoruan-Please accept my condolences to your family. Know the you can gain comfort & strength from God's Word. Almighty God Jehovah has the power to resurrect our loved ones, for John 5:28,29 tells us:"Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out." Please know that Jehovah does care about you & may you take comfort from His Word during this difficult time.
Marie Stanley
April 28, 2007
My sincere condolences to your family.
Beth Milling Graham
April 28, 2007
May God be with you each day.
Sue
April 27, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. May GOD comfort you and keep you in HIS care.
Michael Iezzi
April 27, 2007
Father we entrust our brother Partahi to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Partahi in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
Dian Malenke
April 27, 2007
My deepest sympathy are with you for the loss of beloved friend, Mr. Lumbantoruan.
May Lord give you comfort and strength.
The Echizenya
April 27, 2007
May you find strength in your faith, comfort in God's love, and peace in knowing people are praying for you.
With Deepest Sympathy
Gwen feng
April 26, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Debbie Young
April 26, 2007
God Bless all of you, may he rest in peace..
SUZETTE
April 26, 2007
MY DEAREST BROTHER,
REST IN PEACE SWEET PRECIOUS BEAUTIFUL ANGEL
Brian Andrew Wong
April 26, 2007
I am very sorry for your loss. I have experienced losses both anticipated and unexpected. When I was fifteen years old in my first year in high school, my mother died of melanoma at age 54 in December 2004; we were anticipating the loss. As with me, I am sure your loss is emotionally stressful for you and your family.
Your grief may ebb and flow. It has been said that each of us has this well deep inside of us that can be filled to the brim with grief. Every time we cry, we empty out some of the well. But the well fills again. The level of sorrow in your well may lessen as time passes, but it will never run dry. There will always be birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, and those days when the well seems to fill to its brim again. Allow yourself time to remember and mourn. It is part of your healing. Grief is a continuing journey.
JJ
April 26, 2007
Partiahi Lumbantoruan wanted to stand in front of a class to teach
To see the eager faces his words would reach
Rising their hands to answer what’s asked
In their wanting to learn he would bask
The love of his family got him this far
They sold properties and several cars
He was their son, brother and friend
He smiled and never ever gave in
Partiahi was from Indonesia proud and great
He’d have been a dedicated teacher – one to emulate
http://32originals.blogspot.com/2007/04/partiahi-lumbantoruan.html
Melanie Daniel
April 25, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
April 25, 2007
to the family, you are in my prayers
First Christian Church
April 25, 2007
On behalf of the Members of First Christian Church, in Burlington Iowa, we want to express our utmost condolences at this most difficult time in your lives. May it be a comfort to you and your family and friends to know that you are being remembered right now and in the months to come in the thoughts and prayers of so many. It is our prayer that you will feel God’s everlasting love and presence in this time of sorrow and that you turn to Him for His strength to guide your way through these troubled times. We sincerely hope and pray that your tremendous grief at this time will gradually diminish while the precious memories of your loved ones will last forever. May you find peace in God’s never failing love and care and may God's blessing be with you and your family at this time. It is our fervent prayer that you find strength in the Lord!
Jesus told his disciples, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4.
Raylene Kruger
April 25, 2007
I never had the pleasure of meeting you but I am thinking about you and your family - God be with all of you.
Joy Wharton
April 25, 2007
Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Tina W.
April 25, 2007
My heart and prayers are with you. Proverbs 3:5-6 says: Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
May God bless this family.
Jason W
April 25, 2007
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. Please know that people from all over the world are praying for your family. God Bless you.
Pat & Steve Goode
April 25, 2007
May the Memories that you hold closest to your Heart bring you Peace and Comfort.
Perhaps they are not Stars in the Sky, but rather Openings where Our Loved Ones Smile down upon Us.
April 25, 2007
We are heart struck over the senseless actions of one individual. Our thoughts are with you. After the tears stop flowing and the pain softens try to remember the time you shared with your loved one and the memories you made, Memories are eternal and forever and know one can take that away from you.
Sally Clune
April 24, 2007
I am sorry for your loss. Although I did not know Partahi Lumbantoruan, my heart grieves with his family. I spent four years of my life in Indonesia, and if he is anything like his wonderful countrymen, his death is truly the worlds loss. May God grant his family and friends strength and courage in the coming months, and the serenity to grant forgiveness.
The Beales
April 24, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family now as you grieve over your tragic loss. May you find comfort in a loving and compassionate God, one who never forsakes us. Your son will be remembered by so many that knew him - some that spent time with him - your son will also be remembered by people like us who only know him through the things we read. What an awesome young man he was. God bless you all.
K Sullivan
April 24, 2007
It is so shocking what happened on that sorrowful day
In my prayers you will forever stay
Although we never met and I did not know you
This is a poem for you to say my adieu
It is a shame you can not be with us today
Due to everything that happened I am still in dismay
Now you are up in a better place
We will never forget your honor and grace
Please look over us, protect us from dangers
You are missed by your family and countless strangers
I wanted to let you know you are in the thoughts of many
Condolences and commiserations are aplenty
I bless your family hope they stay strong
In my thoughts they will always belong
I say to you and the other decease
I wish that you all rest in peace
Lisa Burns
April 24, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Linda Wallace
April 24, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Lois Hein
April 23, 2007
The wonderful memories of Partahi will always live in your hearts. Partahi will be missed. May God give you comfort and healing during these tragic times.
April 23, 2007
God bless you
Susan
April 23, 2007
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your loved one. I did not know Mr. Lumbantoruan but my heart is shattered to imagine the pain of your tragedy and all who knew him. Know that you and the VT community are in my heart, thoughts and prayers. I am deeply sorry. God bless.
Lourdes G. Mon, Executive Producer
April 23, 2007
ASIAN CHRONICLE USA TV
extends deepest sympathy and condolences to you
- family, friends and the Indonesian community-
for the loss of your loved one
Partahi Mamora Lumbantoruan.
May you find in your hearts, comfort and healing
and to remember the wonderful times you had with Partahi.
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers
as you grieve during these hard times.
Dra. Trisila Davidge & Family
April 23, 2007
Our deepest sympathy
To the family & friends of
Partahi Mamora Lumbantoruan, 34 years old, Indonesia, Civil Engineering Doctoral Student and all the victims of Virginia Shooting
It’s never easy for those left behind
When you lose someone so senselessly and unexpectedly
We all feel the shock
May it help to know
How many people share your sorrow
And stand with you in your time of need
Tenderly…May time Heal your sorrow
Gently…May family, friends & loves one ease your pain
Softly…May peace replaces the heartache
And may warmest memory remain forever
R Toole
April 23, 2007
Words can't express the sorrow I've felt at the loss of your loved one. May God's Grace and Mercy give you comfort and peace.
Claire
April 23, 2007
I am truly so very sorry for your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Tehila Nesher
April 23, 2007
The senseless loss of this fine man is beyond understanding. I don't know what to say to comfort you, so I will say that he is in my heart and prayers.
Here in Israel, we say "may he rest in peace and may you never know sorrow", that is what I say to you.
Tia & Don Crack
April 23, 2007
To the family and friends of Partahi Mamora Lumbantoruan, Our heartbroken for the devastating loss you have suffered with the death of Partahi. May the God of all creation bring you peace through the power of His presence with you as you endure life's journey without this wonderful man. Bless you.
TUHAN SELALU BERSAMA KITA - IMMANUEL..!!
Kimberly
April 23, 2007
It's so terrible that something like this can still happen in the year 2007...
You will forever be in the world their prayers, their thoughts, their heart!
S M
April 23, 2007
I did not know you or your family. But I don’t believe there is a person in the world whose heart has not been touched by this tragedy. There is nothing in this life that brings us more sorrow than to lose loved ones in death. Even harder to bear is when the lives of loved ones are lost due to an unexpected tragedy. The shock can be overwhelming.
Be assured that God promises that he…”is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves.” (Psalms 34:18) Nothing can bring us more peace of mind than the inspired words of… the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulations. (2 Corinthians 1:3,4) Take comfort and solace in the Bible's message as we all await the time when GOD…” will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” (Revelation 21:3,4)
Nicole Oliphant
April 23, 2007
The University of Maryland University College held a memorial service today in honor and remembrance of each of the Virginia Tech victims. I was honored to be asked to place a rose in Partahi's name. My thoughts and prayers are and will continue to be with his family and friends.
Paula Bryant
April 23, 2007
I trust that God be your strength and comforter in your time of sorrow. Be encouraged and be blessed.
P. Ward
April 23, 2007
May the Grace of God comfort you in your loss.
Tony & Patricia Watts
April 23, 2007
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Denise Nickerson
April 23, 2007
Emmanuel Church in Geneva, Switzerland held a service in honor and remembrance of the V Tech victims yesterday. Our thoughts and prayers are with victims’ families and friends.
The Tillmans
April 23, 2007
We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Paul Deiss
April 23, 2007
Peace be with Partahi's family.
Kristin Smith
April 23, 2007
To the family and friends of Partahi,
I am heartbroken for the devastating loss you have suffered with the death of Partahi. May the God of all creation bring you peace through the power of His presence with you as you endure life's journey without this wonderful man. Bless you.
donna paulus
April 23, 2007
Bless you all. We will pray for you.
Lisa & Travis Miracle & Family
April 22, 2007
Although we don't know you we would like to extend our deepest Condolences to everyone in your family. We are so very sorry for your loss. Our heart breaks for you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God give you strength and comfort through this very hard time. God Bless You All!
April 22, 2007
Partahi's family and friends,
Our love and prayers are with you in this tragic time.
God Bless
The Burd Family
Sherry H
April 22, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. We send our deepest condolences and will remember you in our prayers.
M Alleyne
April 22, 2007
I am deeply saddened by the lost of your loved one. At times like these it is comforting to know that the Bible tells us at Acts 24 verse 15 that there is going to be a resurrection of both the righteous and the unrighteous. So with that knowledge, know that there is a hope that you will see your loved one again.
Sunny D
April 22, 2007
God bless, The world will always remember Partahi
Karen Miller
April 22, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with Partahi's family and friends. I am so sorry for your loss.
Alicia, Donald, Lennie & Kristina Hessenflow
April 22, 2007
God bless your family during this time of sorrow in the lost of your love one that was taken from your family. Our prays go out to your family, Virginia Tech staff, students, alumin & friends of your family member that was taken from you.
Tia & Don Crack
April 22, 2007
We are in deep sorrows for this tragedy, and our prayers are with the families of PARTAHI MAMORA LUMBANTORUAN. We wish you the very best and hopes that everyone can remember to keep the Lord in their hearts and stick together to help each other through this time in need.
We send our deepest sympathy and prayers.
Angie Walker
April 22, 2007
You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Bernell and Janice Williams
April 22, 2007
My family and I are mourning because your family mourns; we find comfort in knowing that you all have many wonderful memories of your loved one. God bless you.
Pennie D
April 22, 2007
There is no way to say I am sorry for your loss and it heal your family and friends heart's .
I can tell you from losing someone suddenly myself, you will feel many emotions as you grieve.
Each one is needed. Bless you as you walk this road.
Mary Higgins
April 21, 2007
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
jim and pat frier
April 21, 2007
We are so sorry on the sudden loss of your loved one. Remember the love of our Lord for your family and Partahi who is now in his care.
Bev
April 21, 2007
God bless the Lumbantoruan family at this difficult time.
Beverly Teibel
April 21, 2007
May God grant your family peace, and know that America grieves with them.
sherie
April 21, 2007
May GOD keep you and your family at this most difficult time.
B.A. Jackson
April 21, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Lumbantoruan family in the loss of Partahi. I did not know Partahi, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that there are people out here that does care. Hold tight to your treasured memories that his special smile may continue to shine on. I pray that peace will fine you all.
April 21, 2007
Remember with you one life that touched so many others. May the concerns of family and friends comfort you during this sad time of your life. God Bless!
Suzanne Van-Es
April 21, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN THIS TIME OF SORROW. REMEMBER PARTAHI IS NO FARTHER FROM YOU THAN YOUR HEART. YOU ALL HAVE A VERY SPECIAL ANGEL IN HEAVEN WATCHING OVER YOU.
Nicole Beresniewicz
April 21, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
John & Sharon Schwab
April 21, 2007
You are in our prayers, I Peters 5:7 says "Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you."
P.S. Even though you don't know us you all are still in our prayers Love In Christ,
F Harahap
April 21, 2007
Farewell Abang Mora. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Lorna Hamilton
April 21, 2007
The world mourns for Partahi. Bless him and his family.
MITHU BHATTACHARYA
April 21, 2007
ITS REALLY SAD THAT YOU CAME WITH HOPES TO STUDY HERE AND WERE SNATCHED AWAY BY THE CRUEL HANDS OF FATE. ITS A WASTE OF A BRILLIANT LIFE. MAY THE LORD GUIDE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY....MY HEARTFELT REGARDS AND PRAYERS TO UR FAMILY
Michelle Walsh
April 21, 2007
I am so sorry, for you for your family and your friends. You did not deserve to die this way, but I have to trust that there is a greater plan that mere humans cannot fathom, but through faith will understand.
Ellen Herr
April 21, 2007
Sorrowful tears
well up in my eyes
For those who have fallen
like rain from the skies
Each life was so precious
so many are gone
May they shine now from Heaven
like a new morning dawn
I cannot make sense
of this tragic event
I offer my heart
and my prayers have been sent
Each one had a dream
Each one had a goal
Each one had a family
Each one has a soul
Life must go on
for loved ones so shattered
Reach to their hearts
and show them it mattered
For families so lost
For friends left to cope
I greive for their hearts
I pray for their hope
In memory of those who have fallen and for those left to grieve.
For those left injured in harms way...
I pray for peace and healing of your hearts.
shay k
April 21, 2007
I will hold your family in my heart forever.
Nancy & Bob Courtney
April 20, 2007
Our deepest sympathies to the family & friends of Partahi.....
Our hearts go out to all of you....
Martha Harris
April 20, 2007
You are in my prayers.
Candace DiPietro
April 20, 2007
Many people are grieving with you-the family of Partahi-what a tragic loss-of a proming and productive life.
D. Simpson
April 20, 2007
My heart and prayers are with you... May the Lord surround you with His love and peace and hold you in the palm of His hand as you go thru this time of sorrow in the days ahead... God Bless You,
Stanley-Shelly Chang
April 20, 2007
Our deepest sympathy and pray for your family and friends. God bless.
Crystal Sluyter
April 20, 2007
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Deborah Dillman
April 20, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
PARIS AND BABY DELONDE
April 20, 2007
I am deeply saddened by this tragedy may you all rest in peace forever and eternity with the Lord........He loves us all.
April 20, 2007
God bless.
LORI LORE
April 20, 2007
LUMBANTORAUN FAMILY I HAVE READ ABOUT YOUR LOVED ONE . SO KIND HEARTED. I PRAY FOR YOUR LOSE
Morris Crowder, Jr.
April 20, 2007
My sincere condolences to the family of Mr. Partahi Lumbantoruan. Please know that many prayers are with you and your love ones. Just hold dear the beautiful memories of Partahi, and they will uplift your spirits in the days to follow. Again, my prayers are with you. Morris Crowder, Jr., Colonial Heights, Virginia 23834
CATINA MARTIN
April 20, 2007
IN TIMES LIKE THESE THERE ARE NO WORDS FROM FAMOUS POETS OR PLAYWRIGHTS THAT CAN DO JUSTICE EXCEPT THE WORD OF GOD. TRUST IN THE LORD WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND LEAN NOT TO YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING. TRY NOT TO MAKES SENSE OF THIS GOD HAS THIS IN HIS HANDS. PLEASE KNOW THAT OUR FAMILY IS STANDING IN THE GAP FOR YOU IN PRAYER. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU COMFORTED DURING THIS TIME
Jennifer
April 20, 2007
To Partahi's family and friends,
I did not know Partahi, but I have read much about him in these past few days. I was struck by how KIND he was. How humble. I found myself wishing that I had known him, as you all have.
May you cherish every memory you have of him, and may that bring you some comfort.
Though the attention turned to this tragedy may soon fade, many will always remember, and will keep you in prayers for many years to come. You may not know 'us,' but 'we' will pray for your family often, and hope you will feel that hope and joy in your hearts to overcome the sadness of these days.
Love,
Leona Barnes
April 20, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. May God wrap his arms around you and comfort you.
Cynthia Peterson-Lane
April 20, 2007
To the family of Partahi, I was very saddened to hear of the sad news. God bless all!
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