Pasquale Iamele

Pasquale F. Iamele passed away peacefully on March 31, 2025, at the age of 86. Born in New Haven, Connecticut, he was the beloved son of Frank Iamele Sr. and Florence (Marino) Iamele.

Many knew "Pat" from his many years behind the counter at Frank's Paint and Hardware, the family shop his father opened on Congress Avenue in 1954. After his father passed in 1967, Pat, his brother Frank, and "Mom" Iamele kept it going-first on Washington Avenue, then Grand Avenue-until the store closed in 2006 after 52 years of service.

Frank's became more than a business-it was a beloved neighborhood hub. It quietly offered second chances to those down on their luck, shelter to neighbors in hard times, and support to local schools, Girl Scouts, and Little League teams. The coffee pot was always full, and the work table often cleared to make way for Italian treats dropped off by friends and family. It was truly a beloved community treasure.

Pat was a man of quiet strength, endless patience, and boundless creativity. He loved fishing, camping, swimming, and most of all-spending time with those he loved. He had an uncanny eye for color and a magical ability to match paint, no matter how faded or stained. When Pat stepped into the kitchen, his clams casino, zuppa di pesce, and spaghetti with clams were unforgettable. His easygoing nature and dry wit made people feel welcome-and sometimes caught them delightfully off guard.

Pat is survived by his children: Michael S. Iamele and wife Janine, Kristin L. Rockwell and husband Dan, and Matthew F. Iamele. He was a proud and loving grandfather to Lila Ann Rockwell, Melia Grace Iamele, and Ruby Elizabeth Rockwell, and a cherished uncle to many nieces and nephews. He is also survived by his brother, Frank Iamele and wife Barbara. Pat was predeceased by his sister, Grace Darling, and former wife, Barbara Ann Trunik.

In his final year, Pat was cared for with extraordinary devotion by his youngest son, Matthew, who made the courageous decision to dedicate himself fully to his father's care. Thanks to Matthew, Pat was able to spend his final year at home, as he wished-surrounded by love, dignity, and peace. The family will be forever grateful to Matthew.

In accordance with his wishes, Pasquale donated his body to Yale School of Medicine as an anatomical gift. As a result, there will be no formal funeral or wake.