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Patricia Ann "Patti" Phillips Wheelington
1954 - 2013
Patricia Ann "Patti" Phillips Wheelington
1954 - 2013
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Patricia Ann Wheelington Obituary
Patti was born to David John Phillips and Charlotte Christine Knaeble on November 2, 1954 at Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
She was a graduate of the University of Delaware and the University Texas A and M Texarkana.
Patti came to Texarkana for training at Red River Depot. While here she met and married Raymond Wheelington. They were married December 29, 1989. Ray was a square dance caller and encouraged Patti to become a round dance cuer. She was club cuer for Guys N' Dolls of Texarkana. She cued for several clubs in Texas. She cued for clubs and festivals throughout Arkansas, Texas, Louisiana, Missouri, Mississippi, and Alabama. She was a member of Roundalab and the East Texas Callers Association.
Patti was Community Based Alternative Supervisor for the Department of Ageing and Disabilities Services. She retired after 22 years. Patti enjoyed dancing, traveling and her dogs.
She is preceded in death by her husband, parents, and her brother Fitzgerald Phillips. She is survived by her niece, Laura Phillips of Germany, an uncle, John "Jack" Phillips of Las Vegas, Nevada, and step mother, Joan Rule Phillips of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Also, the square dance community and many, many friends.
Patti was generous of spirit and heart. She was known for her bubbly personality and beautiful smile.
A memorial service will be Monday, December 16, 2013, 10 A.M., at East Funeral Home on Moores Lane, Texarkana, Texas, with Rev. Vida Williams officiating.
In lieu of flowers make a donation to a favorite charity.
Online tributes may be made at www.eastfuneralhomes.com.
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Tom Dujmovich
June 21, 2014
Having just learned of your tragic passing, it is with great sadness that I write this. Though it has been 40 years since we parted, I'll always hold the pleasant memories of my first love in a very special place in my heart. I look back to your prom....your high school graduation....our time at Delaware as irreplaceable memories.
Anita Bickham
December 24, 2013
I have been away from the Texarkana area for over a year and just learned of this tragedy this morning and I'm just shocked beyond words. I met Patti 2-3 years ago when I was invited to watch the Guys n Dolls rehearse. She made my husband and I feel very welcome with her sweet smile and personality. To her family and friends, please accept my condolensces on the untimely and tragic death of this sweet lady.
Dick Rood
December 19, 2013
A beautiful lady and excellent Square and Round dancer. So willing to help, and teach new round dancers. A privilege to watch her on stage dancing while she was cueing.I considered Ray & Pattie personal friends. She will be greatly missed.
Dick Rood, retired dancer from Hideaway Squares (Waco, TX)
Debbie Thompson Greg Immel
December 17, 2013
You will be greatly missed, Patti! I'm looking forward to dancing to you and Ray in heaven!
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Krystal Riley
December 17, 2013
I am writing this on behalf of Patti's step-mother, Joan, we are truly shocked and saddened by the news. Patti was such a beautiful soul. She would brighten everyones day when she would come to visit Ms. Joan. Always very helpful and compassionate when it came to Joan's welfare. We all here at the golden rule will miss her to great lengths.
Tina Babb
December 16, 2013
Patti was very helpful to me as a young adult in business. Then, I came to know her, Mr. Wheelington & her dad. She was always so sweet and such a lady. My deepest sympathy to family and friends.
Tammy VanSlyke
December 16, 2013
Patti has impacted many lives and will be greatly missed.
Freda Woodrum
December 16, 2013
A beautiful lady. A true friend. You will be missed, Patti.
Michele and Dave Vieira
December 16, 2013
In loving memory of a very special lady. Patti, you will be remembered for your kind heart, wonderful smile, and ever smooth cueing. We will miss you!
Sylvia & Jerold Jordan
December 16, 2013
Patti, we miss you so much. You were a very special friend to us. I am so thankful I told you face to face how much you and Ray meant to me. We will always remember both of you as our special friends. You had a beautiful smile on a pretty face and a beautiful personality. You were a sweet lady. We will all miss you, and always remember you.
Melissa Park- Hanneman
December 16, 2013
God love her, she was always willing to listen and offer advice to us at the office and encouraged us to do and be better. We had many a conversations where I came to love and respect her. I'm sorry I can't be there for the service but please know she will always be highly regarded in my heart and house.
M
LaKesha Jones
December 16, 2013
That smile! I will miss it! My heart is still hurting from reading that I have lost not only a friend but a patient that I really enjoyed talking to in person and on the phone. She was not only beautiful on the outside but the inside as well. If I could say one more thing to her I would want to tell her I love her and hug her once more. A lady with 100% class is what I saw in her who cared for people, the art of dancing and she loved family. I love you Patti!!!!
Barbara Buchanan
December 16, 2013
Patti was a very unusual person to know. Much to remember, a radiant smile, vibrant personality and the future good times will be missed. Much prayers for all who miss her presense.
December 15, 2013
Such a shock for us all. You will be missed in so many ways. You were a great asset to our 63rd National Square Dance Convention(R). We will go on but wish you were there. Hope you rest in peace.
63rd National Square Dance Convention(R)
Wayne and Lura Wade
General Chairman
MIke and Pat Powell
December 15, 2013
We will always remember you dancing while cuing on stage. So graceful and sweet. You will be in our hearts forever
Maye Wegner
December 15, 2013
Patti cued many a HASSDA festival. She was a delight to work with. Her smile and charm made her an asset to any dance floor. Tears fill my heart as I will miss one of Square Dancing's greatest cuers. I look forward to you teaching me how to round dance in Heaven!
Archie n Penny Lewis
December 14, 2013
Gone but never forgotten, your beautiful smile and gracious personallity. You will remain in so many hearts within the square and round dance community.Rest in peace Patti. We will all dance together one day.
Laurel Lea Cummins
December 14, 2013
It t is with much sorrow that there will never be a Sq dance club like the years I went…we had such fun, & both Patty & Ray were great leaders. I'll never forget all the good times with them both. Lauerl Lea Cummins
Andi & Dennis Roberts
December 14, 2013
I still can't believe you're gone! Even though we moved away and lost touch, certain songs on the radio would instantly bring you to mind! I always thought we'd get to see you again when we came to town to visit our kids....but time always ran short.
Jon & Deborah Jones
December 14, 2013
Patti was a joy to dance to, to simply be with and to call friend. Her loss diminishes us all. We adored you and will hold you in our hearts forever.
Dean & Peggy Rogers
December 14, 2013
Your friendship and beautiful smile will be missed.
December 14, 2013
Rest in peace.
Sheila Milliron-Alexander
December 14, 2013
Home with her loving husband and family members, yet we all will miss her friendly smile! Although she was taken too soon, from her square dance family and friends, she will be there cueing and dancing waiting for all of us to come home and be welcomed into open arms; when it is our turn to go to our eternal home in heaven.
Mary Jane Roseberry
December 14, 2013
Patti came into the Square Dance Club the same year that I did -- as a first year student. I loved the times we had together at the club - she was always so friendly -- so cheerful --and even though from the North so completely like a Southern girl. I miss her.
December 14, 2013
Patti, we were blessed to just recently have met you. We remember your vivacious personality and what a smile! We will really miss you in our dancing circle. Still sending you hugs! Kristine & Bruce Nelson
Cindy Hadley
December 13, 2013
Patti our dear friend, You brought joy and love everywhere you went! Your sweet caring personality and vibrant energy will be missed. We know you have found a dance floor in heaven and are teaching the angels to dance! With Love, Cindy Hadley and Tim Eum
December 13, 2013
Patti, May your memory be eternal. We will miss your professionally and personally. We know we will see you and Ray again some day. Mike and D' Bramlett (Garland, TX)
Kandy Hirsch
December 13, 2013
You will be greatly missed. Rest in peace sweet lady.
Jimmy Green
December 13, 2013
Our Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family
James & Janice Manning
December 13, 2013
Square dancing and round dancing have lose a special person and part of our family. We will always remember Patti as a happy lady and a joy to be around. She had a way of making you feel special even though we weren't round dancers. We have lost a friend.
michael dahms
December 13, 2013
the round dance square dance community will certainly miss patti. mike dahms of the rambling roses, tyler,texas
December 13, 2013
Patti's beautiful smile as well as personality will certainly be missed by the square and round dance community. Peggy Pharr
Marilyn & Jerral Waguespack
December 13, 2013
It's time like this when we realize that life is so precious and can be taken away in an instant. We will remember our fellow cuer Patti and miss her so much. Rest in Peace.
Marilyn & Jerral Waguespack (Freeport, Tx)
December 13, 2013
Thoughts and prayers be with her family and friends, Patti will be missed in our neighborhood.
Roger & Trish Norsworthy, Texarkana, AR
Ray & Cindy Bishop
December 13, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and the entire dance community. You will be missed. Rest in Peace knowing you have provided much joy to the dance community.
Velma & Ronnie Himes
December 13, 2013
In loving memory of a beautiful, talented, and caring person who was taken much too early. Yet we have solace in knowing that we will all be reunited one day. Keep dancing till we meet again, we love you and will miss you deeply.
Royce. and Cathy Beesley
December 13, 2013
You will be greatly missed by all.
Mike & Michelle Seurer
December 13, 2013
Heaven has made room for another wonderful cuer. We did not know her personally, but when we lose a cuer we all feel the loss. Your family is in our prayers.
Nasser and Jeanna Shukayr
December 13, 2013
In loving memory of an amazing person. While we will miss you very much, we take comfort in knowing that you are reunited with your loved ones who passed on before you. Thank you for bringing so much joy, warmth and happiness to the people around you.
Pat and Jim McKee
December 12, 2013
Patti brought a ray of sunlight into all of our lives and she will be sorely missed.
Pat and Jim McKee.
December 12, 2013
Patti you will be missed in Paris, Tx we have danced to you & Ray a long time, North Star Eight will miss you, Jerrie & John Huffman
Deborah Susik
December 12, 2013
I only knew Patti for a short time and in that same amount I knew she was someone I would like to know better. She was a sweet lady and will be missed. Yellow Rock to you Patti!
Deborah Susik
Jeanne and Robert Wentzell
December 12, 2013
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
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