Patricia Bailey Chenault

1935 - 2019

Patricia Bailey Chenault obituary, 1935-2019, Norfolk, VA

Patricia Bailey Chenault

1935 - 2019

Patricia Chenault Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 16, 2019.
Pat Chenault passed away on May 9, 2019, in Norfolk, surrounded by her loving family. She was preceded in death by her brother, Conrad Z. Bailey Jr., and her parents, Amy and Conrad Bailey.

Mary Pat Bailey was born and raised in Elizabeth City, North Carolina. She graduated from Elizabeth City High School and furthered her education at the University of North Carolina at Greensboro and the Norfolk Division of the College of William and Mary. Following college, she was employed at Rices Nachmans department store, where she became fashion coordinator for both the downtown Norfolk and Wards Corner locations. She later worked in radio and television in Norfolk and Richmond. Subsequent employment included work with anti-poverty agencies and with mentally challenged children at Petersburg State Training School. She reached out readily to those in need. An enthusiastic volunteer, she gave her time to such organizations as the PTA, NEST (the Norfolk Emergency Shelter Team), and public radio. And in the '60s, she was active in the civil rights movement.

Pat was a joy-filled person who easily made friends with people from all walks of life. Her jubilance was infectious. She was a marvelously vibrant person who was always ready for a good time. Pat was a serious lover of good music, whether classical, jazz, or bluegrass. She was a founding member of the Norfolk Jazz Society and a member of the board of the Norfolk Chamber Consort.

From 1937 to 1996, Pat spent her summers on the Outer Banks of North Carolina in her family home. It was there that she was always most truly at home.

She is survived by her loving husband, Doug Chenault, as well as by her daughter, Suzanne Veyrat; her son, Marc Chenault; and her grandchildren, Elisabeth and Dylan Veyrat and Shaun and Alex Cankat.

Memorial contributions may be made to Coastal Virginia Unitarian Universalists, with whom Pat was affiliated, and to WHRO.

A memorial service will be held on May 25th at 11:00 a.m. at Coastal Virginia Unitarian Universalists, 809 S. Military Hwy., Virginia Beach, Va. A reception will follow.

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June 19, 2019

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May 24, 2019

Richard Horwege posted to the memorial.

May 23, 2019

Linda Irving posted to the memorial.

June 19, 2019

Doug: I was sorry to hear the news about Pat. I I was out of town for a few weeks, so I'm sorry I did not get up with you at the time or be able to attend memorial service. I enjoyed the few times I was in her presence. I remember & was at your wedding & remember how pretty she looked. I hope you are holding up well & my best wishes to your children. Let me know if there is anything I can do to help or be of assistance. Love & special prayers to you. Stuart Lee

Richard Horwege

May 24, 2019

Pat was a good friend to me all of years at the Unitarian Church. She was always good for a hug, a kind and friendly word, a bit of humor and a chuckle, and information about some arts event she thought I would enjoy. I often saw her and Doug at cultural events.
Several years ago when I had heart surgery she looked in on me often and checked on me when I was recovering at home. She made me feel like family. Sorry Pat we never got to have our lunch out we were planning. I thank you for your friendship. I send you and Doug and your family thoughts of love and light.

Linda Irving

May 23, 2019

I loved Pat. We worked together at UCN several times. The church held an incredible Celebration of Black Universalist history in the Hampton Roads area in 1994. It was a huge success largely because of Pat's efforts.

George Schmitz

May 22, 2019

Our condolences to you Doug, and your family.

Christina Birdsong

May 22, 2019

Pat was a bright spark to humanity. She was unfailingly accepting and eager to learn about the other person. She never promoted herself or her accomplishment, which were plentiful. She was appreciative of even the smallest gesture of kindness. I will miss her. Doug and Pat made magic.

Brian, Rose, Tessa and Owen Chenault

May 21, 2019

Dear Uncle Doug, Suzanne, Marc, and the grandkids,

What a grand, wonderful lady the world has lost. Whether at Nags Head, or in Lynchburg, Petersburg or Norfolk, she was always warm and welcoming to me... and I will always cherish the fond place she will occupy in all the happy memories I have of growing up. I hope that soon all of you, too, will be able to think less of this sad time and more of your wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate her life one she always lived with flair and gusto.

James and Evan Chenault

May 19, 2019

Dear Uncle Douglas and family,

So sorry to hear about Aunt Pat. I will miss her lively personality and flamboyant nature. I will miss her friendliness to me, especially during our visits to Nags Head. We hope you are comforted by all the wonderful memories you have of her and by her achievements in life.

May 16, 2019

Dear Doug and family,So sorry to hear about my dear friend Pat.I often think fondly of our good old days.How we cherish all wonderful memories.I think now of Don and Pat up in Heaven listening to our Stan Kenton and other artists we have loved.Please take care and you have my love always.Sincerely,Pat Beagle Stott

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