Patricia B Murphy

Patricia B Murphy

Patricia Murphy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 10, 2025.
Pat Murphy (Murph) left us just shy of her 86th birthday. She worked for the West Babylon School District for 30 years and was loved and respected by countless people. In the 80's, She and Tom Murphy would spend most weekends on the Great South Bay and would have a lifetime of stories to tell.

Pat is survived by her 2 sons, Mike and Skip Kipybida along with her Daughter in-law Christine. Her 3 Grandsons, Michael, Joseph and his wife Jessica and Sean with his wife Shannon, she was predeceased by her granddaughter Jennifer. Pat is also survived by her 2 great grandsons Killian and Rowan Kipybida. Pat was also survived by Brothers Gene, Tom and sister Janine Berbenick. Her ashes will be spread in the bay with Murph and her dog Dudley.

I celebration of live will be on Sept 20 from 1-4 pm at The Village Lantern in Lindenhurst for any that wish to attend and remember Pat.
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