Patrick Brian Kane

Patrick Brian Kane obituary, BANGOR and BOURNE, Mass.

Patrick Brian Kane

Patrick Kane Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 20, 2012.
BANGOR and BOURNE, Mass. - Patrick Brian Kane died unexpectedly Jan. 16, 2012. He was born Sept. 13, 1988, in Landstuhl, Germany, the son of Arthur G. and Kathleen (MacKay) Kane. He was a graduate of John Bapst Memorial High School and Bentley University. Surviving are his loving parents, Art and Katie Kane; beloved sisters, Maggie and Jenny Kane, all of Bangor; maternal grandparents, John and Ann MacKay of Bangor; paternal grandparents, Frank and Joan Kane of Washington, D.C.; many aunts, uncles, cousins and their families. Pat had great love for all of us. A beloved friend, he brightened the lives of all those around him. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated 11 a.m. Monday, Jan. 23, at St. Paul the Apostle, St. John's Catholic Church, York Street, Bangor. A reception will be afterward in the parish hall. Those wishing to make a donation in Patrick's memory may send to Nyumbani Village at www.Nyumbani.org or by mail to Children of God Relief Fund, Inc., care of Crowell and Moring LLP, 1001 Pennsylvania Ave., NW, Washington, DC 20004. Condolences to the family may be expressed at www.BrookingsSmith.com.

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January 14, 2025

Ann & Charles Dumas posted to the memorial.

January 14, 2024

Ann & Charles Dumas posted to the memorial.

January 14, 2024

Mary Vinograd posted to the memorial.

Ann & Charles Dumas

January 14, 2025

We hold you in our hearts with love forever Patrick

Ann & Charles Dumas

January 14, 2024

We hold you in our hearts with love forever Patrick

Mary Vinograd

January 14, 2024

I remember you, Patrick, on that big January night in DC. Standing with you under the winter stars near the Washington monument on the eve of the presidential inauguration. Bruce Springstein´s music filled the air. It was very cold, but all of our hearts felt warm, loving and joyful. You were sparkling as bright as the stars, making new friends as you did, so intentionally and easily, wherever you were. How blessed we are to be your friend, in your family forever. With loving memory.

Ann Dumas

January 14, 2023

We hold you in our hearts with love forever Patrick

Ann & Charles Dumas

January 14, 2022

We love you Patrick and hold you in our hearts forever

Linda Nolan

January 14, 2022

Dear Katie and Artie. Thinking of you with love and heartfelt sympathy on this sad anniversary day.

Cindy MIlles

February 9, 2012

My heart goes out to your entire family in this such tragic time. My prayers are with you always

Jeanne Kane Quagliano

January 31, 2012

Thinking of you everyday... Art,Kate,Maggie and Jenny... Love Jeanne

Kevin & Maureen MacKay

January 29, 2012

We are sorry that we were not able to be there with you in person. Please accept our sincere condolences and deepest sympathy for this terrible tragedy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love Kevin, Maureen, Shannon, Conor and Kaitlin

Rosemary Moran

January 29, 2012

My prayers are with your entire family in this difficult time. Peace be with you all. I will always remember his smiling face and his wonderful sense of humor.

John

January 27, 2012

I knew Pat more as an acquaintance at Bentley but we hung out on multiple occasions and every time I saw him he had the biggest smile on his face, from ear to ear. That is the lasting memory I will have of him.

Constantly Exploring

Christopher Demas

January 26, 2012

Kane family,
Patrick's friends loved him in every single way. He will always be the bright light that follows each of us as we try and live a selfless life as he did. He will forever be the most influential person in my life.

Peggy Walsh-McCloskey

January 25, 2012

Artie dear-I wish I could find the right words to lessen your pain & offer you comfort. May you, Katie & the girls, and the Kane/MacKay families feel our love. Blessings, on behalf of the Walsh family: Peggy & Tim McCloskey,
Molly Walsh, Paul Day & John Allen Wenzel
(Minot, ME & Bethesda, MD).

Sean MacKay

January 24, 2012

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal but Love leaves a memory no one can steal". In the short 23 years that Pat was with us he has left a lasting impression on our hearts. Pat will always be a bright light in our lives that will never go out.

Salve 2013

January 23, 2012

Thoughts from all at Salve are with Maggie and her family. RIP Patrick. We look you, Maggie.

Kathleen Perkins

January 23, 2012

John, Ann, Katie and the entire MacKay and Kane families,

On behalf of the O'Connell family I would like express our deepest sympathies to all of you on the loss of your beautiful Patrick. Please know that you are in our prayers and thoughts during this difficult time.
May God be with all of you and may Patrick rest in peace.

Love, Kathleen (O'Connell) Perkins

January 22, 2012

Arty, Katie, Maggie and Jenny - I was deeply saddened to hear that Patrick had died. My thoughts are with you.

Beth Ritterpusch

January 22, 2012

Dear Art, Katie, Maggie and Jenny,
Words cannot express the sorrow. Patrick was a beautiful human being who gave so much joy to this world. You and Patrick are in our prayers. We love you.
Tom, Lisa, Hannah and Ellie Kane

Ilka Lin

January 22, 2012

Maggie and Jenny, 

Your big brother will always love and protect you from above. Look for him in the little moments in life and you will find him right there with you. 

Thanks for all the smiles, Pat.

Alicemarie Delao

January 22, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the Kane family. Patrick was a dedicated good person who made a big difference in the people he touched. May all your memories of love and stories comfort all of you.

Michael and Dorothy Grady

January 21, 2012

Katie, Art, Maggie and Jenny

Dorothy and I want to express our deepest sorrow and sincere condolences. You are all in our thoughts.

Kerry Bernier

January 21, 2012

Katie, Art and girls:

I am truly sorry for your loss. I only hope that you all may find comfort in the many happy memories that you have shared as a family. My thoughts, prayers and hugs go out to all of you during this most difficult time in your lives.

May peace, hope and family comfort you during this terrible time in your lives.

Love, your cousin, Kerry (Barnes) Bernier

the Gekeler Family

January 21, 2012

Katie, Art, Maggie and Jenny,
We are so saddened by Patrick's passing.
He was such a great friend to John
and will be missed by all who knew him.
May he rest in peace.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Chris & Trish Kane

January 21, 2012

Dear Art, Kate, Maggie and Jenny,
We are so very sorry about the loss of Patrick, who we all loved so much. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
All our love,
Chris, Tricia, Ryan, Erin, Colleen and Kevin

Casey Gruppioni

January 20, 2012

Pat was a true friend and one the most genuine people I have ever known. He taught me how to enjoy life and follow my heart. I thought I would know him forever and it blows my mind that this time is all I got with him. Pat knew how to be happy. That is the only thing I can say for sure. My sincere condolences go out to his family and anyone who was lucky enough to have him in their lives. I miss him already.

María Bustos

January 20, 2012

Te recuerdo con la alegria, pues siempre fuiste una buena persona, llena de buenos sentimientos.

Darlene Dubuque

January 20, 2012

"Dear Katie, Arthur, Jenny and Maggie, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of Patrick. You are all in our thoughts and prayers." Love, Darlene and Jon

Albert Sockbeson

January 20, 2012

Katie, it breaks my heart to think of the pain you and your family is going through. You all are in our prayers and thoughts. God Bless. Al & Dottie

Mary Kane Vinograd

January 20, 2012

Art, Katie, Maggie and Jenny,
Patrick will always remain alive and vibrant in our memories. His charismatic charm drew others in to feel welcomed and valued. We will always remain inspired by Patrick's eagerness to explore the new, yet maintain reverence for cherished traditions.
The Kane and MacKay families are united in sorrow at the loss of our beautiful son and brother, but also share the comfort of God's loving peace.

With much love and deep sympathy,
Mary, Sophie, Max, Ben and Nellie Vinograd

Jeanne Kane Quagliano

January 20, 2012

Dear Art, Kate, Maggie and Jenny: The Quagliano children and I will forever hold all of you in our hearts. We are all so saddened by the world losing Pat, he had so much goodness to offer. Love Jeanne

Linda Nolan

January 20, 2012

Dear Katie and Arthur - Our sincerest sympathies on your terrible loss. It is a tragedy. Tom and Linda Nolan

January 20, 2012

Our deepest sorrow over the loss of our beloved Pat. Our prayers and thoughts are with his and our family. May dear Pat rest in peace.
Frank & Joan Kane

Charles & Annie Dumas

January 20, 2012

Beloved Patrick, we love you and miss you and know you are in the loving compassionate embrace of our Creator. Art, Kate, Maggie and Jenny we hold you all in our hearts with love and all the beautiful memories of our time together with Patrick.
Love and Blessings,
Annie and Charles

January 20, 2012

Katie,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. Sue Hughes Brooker, Stuart, FL.

Vickie Kane

January 20, 2012

Katie, Artie, Maggie, and Jenny, You are in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers where Patrick will always hold a special spot. We have such fond memories of times together when the kids were small (San Antonio and Jacksonville) that we will always treasure.

While no words can truly express the sorrow we share, we hope you can find some comfort in family being together and sharing happy memories and love.

If there is anything that we can do, please let us know.

We send you so much love,

Vickie, Joe, Joey, Charlie, and Sarah Kane

Michelle Quinn Smith

January 20, 2012

Kane & MacKay Families,

We were so sad to hear of the passing of Patrick. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We hope the many happy memories you have offer some measure of comfort in the days ahead.

With all our love,

The Smith's
Carl & Michelle (Quinn)
Cullen, Nolan & Kailey

January 20, 2012

My deepest sympathy to your family. May you find strength in each other and the love to sustain you.
Carol Solinger

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