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Patrick McCaslin Obituary
1951-2023
Elvis has left the building... this is the message we used to communicate to loved ones of Pat's passing. Like the king, he was one of a kind. From working at Celebrity, Disneyworld, Sodexo or even running his own business - He had a tremendous work ethic and drive. He worked hard and played hard. Pat brought immense joy to the lives of those around him.
With all the responsibilities of being a husband, a father, brother, Papa and provider he had time to always mentor young children with his many coaching duties. He was also a gifted athlete, as he did well in any sport he attempted.
He raised his two children with his late wife (JD). As a father to his daughter Kacey and son Kyle, he exemplified dedication and love with unwavering support. His presence was a constant source of strength and comfort. Pat was an incredible "Papa" whom adored his five granddaughters. They shared an unbreakable bond filled with love, laughter, and playfulness. His girls will miss him dearly - Maeve (5), Lennon (4) Zelie (3) Livia (2) and Thea (1). We find comfort in the years they got to fill with papa's love, and the memories we get to hold close with his group of baby girls.
He and his wife have set a high bar for expectations on a life well lived. His lasting legacy would be his many friends and how he enriched our lives with humor, his wit & kindness. We will miss the laughter that was created when he was around.
He is proceeded in death by his wife (JD), his parents ( Mary & Bill), his in laws (Dan & Carlin).
He leaves many lasting memories with his remaining family members (4 brothers) , Son and daughter in law, nieces, nephews, cousins, and many many friends.
Count your friends, not your years...-John Lennon.
Pat spent much of his time coaching and refereeing for the Catholic Schools Athletic League, for those wanting to make a donation, here is the link:
http://Archden.org/give/giving-opportunities/#education
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Robert McCaslin
July 18, 2025
We miss you
Ann Cole
July 19, 2024
My dearest cousin, I think of you, your engaging smile and bright personality and miss you I hope you know how thankful I am for the love and care you had shown to me. You are missed!
Timothy Donohoo
July 18, 2024
Class guy
Helped others
World needs more people like him
Pleasure to know him
Sam Gregory
August 5, 2023
I just learned of Pats and JD´s passing, knew them at St Louis parish and school. I´m so sorry, that family was fantastic to be around!
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Jack Brooks
August 5, 2023
I have the fondness of memories of Pat McCaslin. We were on the wrestling team together at Englewood High School in 1966. I can still remember his warm smile and strong work ethic. May God give his family and friends peace in this time of mourning.
Jack Brooks
KimDonaho
July 28, 2023
Pat was a wounderful guy. He would shovel the walks for us. Even when he was sick he came over and took a stump out for us. Loved watching him in the yard with the grand kids he was a great guy miss you. Love you from Barb ,Gary ,Kim Donaho.
Billy McCaslin
July 28, 2023
Someone said....Everyone has a friend during each stage of life. But only the lucky ones have the same friend in all stages of life. I was lucky to be his brother. He was my best friend. He influenced my life in many ways. I was lucky to have such a role model, mentor, teacher, story teller and all around good guy. His contributions to our family will not be forgotten. Among them his generosity, kindness, wit and humor. Our lives were truely blessed to have such a wonderful person in our lives.
Brianna Montoya
July 27, 2023
I only knew Pat for a short time from reffing with him in the Archdiocese widget basketball league. In that short time, I was impacted by his kindness to all, his thoughtfulness, and his passion for sharing the love of the game. Even at his older age he had a childlike joy and enthusiasm that was so fun to be around. Even as we chatted between games he would proudly talk about "his girls" which were his granddaughters. I know his absence will be felt by many, but I am comforted by his witness of being such a great man. My prayers are with him and his family.
T John Hughes
July 27, 2023
A number of you will remember this group from 1987. On the court, Pat was a tiger. Off the court, he was more like a Labrador retriever.
My best to all who knew and loved him.
Tim Donohoo
July 27, 2023
May you Rest In Peace
A great man who always had time for you
A gentleman who had time to teach kids as a coach
Will definitely be missed but not forgotten
I am sure you are in God´s hands at this very moment
Sincerely
Tim Donohoo
Brianna Donohoo
Donohoo Family
St Louis Parish
Englewood
Lisa Masterson
July 26, 2023
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
George Snyder
July 26, 2023
I didn't see Pat as often I liked, but when I did, I realized why I liked Pat so much. He was the best among us in every way. Enjoy the "great outdoors" upstairs my friend.
Allison Henry
July 25, 2023
Pat is my backyard neighbor. I adore him and have enjoyed chatting with him over the fence over the years. I shared with him the parallels of our lives (down to my father named Pat and my mom named Joanne) and adored hearing him play with his grandkids in the yard. I will miss him immensely.
John and Val
July 25, 2023
God Bless that Man, he gave me my first job at the consession stands at Sinclair pool, Bellview park and Centennial park. I had the pleasure to play with him in softball leagues. We will miss his home made chianti dressing every month. Pat was so thoughtful when Val got her vaccine injury in 2021 he called every week to see how she was doing and would bring lunch or dinner. We would talk sports and about our grand kids. He was my gutter Man in the fall and cleaned my gutters. Thanks Brother Pat, Your the Best. Lots of Love John and Val
Grace McCain
July 24, 2023
Always loved to watch Pat wrestle and fool around with the team, EHS 65-66. He was such a nice guy, always smiling, always kind. The world is less without him.
Tonja
July 24, 2023
Most recently in the last couple of years, Pat and I would have dinner once or twice during the year. I really enjoyed talking to him. I respected him so much. I worked for him at Cafe 410. He was and remains in the top 2 of the toughest bosses I have ever had. Working for him taught me pride in what I did, taught me being on time was late, taught me professionalism and customer service. I will miss him I will miss his laugh, I will miss our dinners. I'm glad I got to tell you I love you.
Love, Tonja
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