Paul DURAND

Paul DURAND obituary, ROCKCLIFFE, ON

Paul DURAND

Paul DURAND Obituary

Published by Ottawa Citizen from Dec. 30, 2017 to Jan. 6, 2018.
DURAND, Paul Paul died peacefully on December 18, 2017, at a time of his choosing, in the company of loved ones. His struggle with ALS was marked by dignity, clear-eyed courage, and courtesy towards others. He deeply appreciated the friends and family who made his life a happy one and who helped him through this last difficult time. He particularly wanted to recognize his wife and partner of over 30 years, Patricia Fortier. Also appreciated were his children by his first marriage (Rosamaria Durand), Julian, Stephen and Michelle, his siblings Barbara Kilby and Bob Durand (Wanda), his brother-in-law Ray Curran, his sisters-in-law, Verla and Gail Fortier, and his nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his dear sister, Stephanie Curran, and his parents, George and Marion. He was 76. Paul placed deep value in his close friendships, including his many colleagues turned friends, the international companions of tennis and of course the Ottawa coffee cohort. His loyalty was steadfast and his subversive wit always at the ready. This served him well both on and off the court, in a successful career that included international banking and diplomacy. Born in London, Ontario, the St. Clair River and the village of Corunna/Sarnia where he grew up held a special place in his life. As a young man, however, he "got the hell out of there" and after touring north America he began his career in the Bank of London and South America in Nassau, Bahamas in 1961. This was followed by bank assignments in El Salvador, Colombia (Bogotá, Cali) and then Chicago and Toronto as Vice-President of the Continental Illinois Bank of Chicago. He finished his BA (Political Economy) after studies at Northwestern University and U of Toronto. In 1975 he switched careers to join the then Canadian International Development Agency (CIDA). He was posted in Barbados, then was assigned to the Privy Council Office in the final years of Pierre Trudeau as Prime Minister. India in 1987 was his first posting with Patricia. He moved to then-Department of External Affairs where he specialized in the Latin American region, helping to usher Canada into the Organization of American States in 1989 and in 2001 helped to achieve the adoption of the OAS Democracy Charter. He served as Director, then Director General of that region with postings as Ambassador to Costa Rica accredited to Honduras, Nicaragua and Panama (1992-5), Ambassador to Chile (2000-1) and Ambassador to the Organization of American States in Washington, D.C., (2001-6). After retiring from the Foreign Service, he became Resident Representative of the OAS in the Dominican Republic when Patricia was Ambassador there. Returning to Ottawa, he served on boards of private companies and think-tanks active in the Americas region, as well as the Rockcliffe Lawn and Tennis Club. A memorial service for this wonderful man will be held Saturday, January 13 at 3 p.m. at St Columba Anglican Church, 24 Sandridge Road in Ottawa. Donations can be made in his name to the ALS Society of Canada.

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February 1, 2018

Dear Patricia,

Judy and I were saddened to learn of Paul's passing. He was such an active and life-affirming person. We wish you every strength and the ability to cherish the memories of the good times you shared.

Fondly,

Judy and Paul Meyer

Bryan Dare

January 30, 2018

Dear Patricia, I was shocked and saddened to hear of Paul's passing and wanted to extend my condolences to you and Paul's whole family. I knew, liked and respected Paul from the time we first met in CIDA's Latin America Division in 1975. We were both assigned to Barbados, though at different times, and we most recently talked when our former boss, Stan Westall, became seriously ill. Stan thought the world of Paul and was very pleased to reconnect with him during his final illness. Paul was indeed a sophisticated and sensitive presence to all of us who knew and worked with him.

Carol Lutes Racine

January 26, 2018

Dear Patricia, so very sorry for your loss

Jim Bartleman

January 13, 2018

Dear Pat,
I was saddened by the news of Paul's passing and extend to you my condolences. I will never forget our trip to Cuba together in the mid-1990's at the prime minister's direction to meet Fidel Castro. I think we both had a lot of fun. Jim Bartleman

Jennifer Ditchburn

January 11, 2018

Dear Patricia, I was very sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I crossed paths with him as a journalist when he was at the OAS, and he was always so kind. Thinking of you and your family.
Jennifer Ditchburn

Graham and Ella May Harper

January 9, 2018

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Patricia, during this difficult time. Paul will greatly missed by all who knew him....Graham and Ella-May Harper

Ben Rowswell

January 4, 2018

Those who followed Paul in subsequent generations of Canada's foreign service owe him a debt for his leadership and his mentorship. He helped bring about an important legacy for Canada in the Americas and it was an honour to continue the work that he started. We will remember him

St. Patrick's graduating class 1959

December 30, 2017

Paul Mestancik & Paul Durand, 2005

December 30, 2017

Dr. Paul Mestancik

December 30, 2017

It is with great sadness that I learned of Paul's passing. Paul and I were friends for many years; we graduated the same year from St. Patrick's High School. I last saw him in Washington, D.C. in 2005. He was one of the most sophisticated and sensitive people that I have encountered in my life. I will miss him until my dying day. Godspeed, my friend.

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